We Don't Have Time For This

Gemma Peanut & Kate Reeves

Two full-time working mums with lots of opinions and no time. Featuring childhood besties Gemma Peanut and Kate Reeves.

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Mar 6, 2025 · 13 min
☎️ Bestie Hotline : My Husband Is In Love With His Mistress
This week's caller has to decide what she will put up with. - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple Spotify - Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin - Join our Facebook Group - Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Mar 3, 2025 · 59 min
Do We Get A Sticker For Good Behaviour?
Well, Revz’s puppy is puppying. Don’t say we didn’t say we didn’t warn ya! And what does your dog say about you at the dog park? Revz has theories and Gem…is trying. Busta really is causing a devastating, we-can’t-have-nice-things mood that we’re not into, but we persist. Gem is going full tilt into her latest life hack / experiment / gamified mum-mode and it’s… working? Kinda? At least half way, which is fine, except it doesn’t help our resident perfectionist. Then, Revz quietly went through some stuff over the break and is coming out the other side; time for debrief with the DLs of course, and some signature insights from Bestie to boot. Until it all changes next week, anyway! Thanks for coming on the journey DLs, we know you get it. #NotSpon: Gem: Brightstar Kids Rewards Charts Revz: Weiss Bars (wot?) Episode Mention: I Don't Wanna See A Ghost, It's The Sight That I Fear Most - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis Watch Us on Youtube Sign up to Bestie Bulletin Join the Facebook Group See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Feb 27, 2025 · 11 min
☎️ Bestie Hotline : My Religious Family Fit-Shame Me
Today’s caller is feeling shame over her outfit choices around her extended family. - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Feb 24, 2025 · 54 min
A Single Grey Pube
What a week DLs, school’s back and the cruel passage of time ticks along at its ever galloping pace. Firstly, Gem’s Raffa is back to school and, well, it’s not going well so it’s broken hearts all around. Please gather round and welcome Gem to the kindy to year one transition, folks. It’s a shit club but we’re here as card carrying members to hold space. Then Revz has made a truly devastating personal discovery that has altered the very fabric of her being. So, you know, it’s been a really chill time. #Notspon: Gem: L'Oreal Magic Retouch (Affiliate Link) Revz: All & Sundry 3 Steps Skincare - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Feb 20, 2025 · 16 min
☎️ Bestie Hotline : Will Parenting Get Easier?
Today's caller is deep in the trenches. Nuff said. - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Feb 18, 2025 · 13 min
Making New Friends When You’re a Mum
We were lucky enough to have lunch with six DLs from around the country on the weekend and it reminded us the power of connecting with women and mothers at this stage of life. Today we unpack how to make new friends when you’re deep in the trenches and why it might be so important. - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Feb 17, 2025 · 1 hr 2 min
Mum Brain? Or Neuro Spicy?
Are we all across google image search? Cos, we need you to know about this major life upgrade DLs (for us and for you). Gem attempted to make waffles (WHO IS SHE?) and the pre-made mix and many calls to The Good Mum didn’t have the appropriate assumed knowledge. Now, get ready to count the nervous laughs, the shortness of breath and strap yourselves in DLs; it’s not a regular Tuesday. Today we are holding space for some news from our besties. You may relate, you may not, you may be surprised, you may nod along, you may have many questions and reactions but it’s time to sit down together and unpack some revelations. Links: Breville Barista Pro (Affiliate Link) Mia’s Episode D&M: Sister Lu (Apple) D&M: Sister Lu (Spotify) For more information on ADHD services and support within Australia visit: https://www.healthdirect.gov.au/partners/adhd-foundation-australia - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Feb 13, 2025 · 14 min
☎️ Bestie Hotline : Does Anyone Care About My Kids' Allergy?
This week’s DL needs help on her kid navigating school with a food allergy. - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Feb 10, 2025 · 54 min
The Thing About Kids Is They’re Unreasonable
First up, Gem is doling out the beauty advice and she’s not taking push back, even in the face of disagreement. Revz is coming to terms with the enormity of house maintenance and we’re not in an apartment any more, toto! Who knew leaf debris and council clean-ups would end up on our topic list; very annoying, very middle age. Then Gem doesn’t have time for her never-ending story, aka the saga of Iggy’s sleep. But turns out, she hasn’t told us the whole story. Strap in DLs, Gem has literally made her bed and now she needs to lie in it. Then Revz has a new therapist / personal assistant and it’s changing her life, but she may not be what she seems… Thanks for being here Besties, we love Tuesdays! #Notspon: Gem: Kids Countdown Timer (Affiliate Link) Revz: Vito - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Feb 6, 2025 · 13 min
☎️ Bestie Hotline : My Husband Is A Screen Addict
Today’s caller needs to convince her husband to put. the. phone. down. - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Feb 3, 2025 · 51 min
I Identify As A Dad
You know what Gem doesn’t have time for? Raffa’s flippin *attitude*. Surely we’re not at teenage o’clock yet people. How is this happening? Revz is starting to “get” why people would be thinking about swinging (welcome to the chat Revz, Gem has been here a WHILE). Which reminds us about our get-together with Tara, the sexologist and her spicy stories for this postpartum period. Huge news, Revz has a hobby. No that’s not a typo. Revz is transitioning to a Dad. Yep, hobbies, free time, a zest for life, sounds like a Dad! Gem is still calling that free time, but we persist, DLs, we persist. Not Spon: Gem - Adventure globe (Affiliate Link) Revz - SunBum spray sunscreen See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 30, 2025 · 15 min
☎️ Bestie Hotline : My Husband Won't Do Therapy
Today's caller wants to convince her husband to do couples therapy. - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 27, 2025 · 57 min
Get Your Etymology Right Dickheads
Alright - when does a sock NOT need a wash? What’s the threshold, people? Revz had a security breach but it totally 2024’d and it turned out to not be that bad, whattayaknow? Revz doesn’t have time for goddamn motherf*cking cold sores. A life sentence that sometimes feels just too much, like come on life?! Speaking of life, Gem is obsessed with the phrases we’ve filed wrong in our brains and we have some absolute corkers for you today. Hold onto your bladder leakage, mamas, we’ve got some tight lols for you all today. - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 23, 2025 · 13 min
☎️ Bestie Hotline : Don’t Call My 2 Year Old Pretty, Grandma!
Today’s caller is struggling with her parents enforcing gender stereotypes and beauty standards. - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 20, 2025 · 56 min
How To Get Your Libido Back with Sex Coach Tara O
Post-partum libido lag is a thing. But did you know getting your groove back ain’t just for Stella? Tara is a seasoned tantric sex coach who helps post-partum women (and men) get back to feeeeeling themselves. Tara ran a tantric workshop for us and some girlfriends and she’s come in today to talk to us all about it and how everyone at home can get back *in touch* with themselves. Follow: @tarao_sexxcoach - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 16, 2025 · 13 min
☎️ Bestie Hotline : Are Siblings Invited?
This week's caller wants to know is it rude to bring extra kids to someone's child's birthday party? - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 13, 2025 · 57 min
Do Friendship Breakups Hurt The Most?
Gem is home from her holiday and looking golden but don’t worry, SPF was liberally applied! Tag you’re it, Revz is outta here soon but before she goes we wanna know…when exactly does the year start? Jan 1? When you go back to work? When school starts? When? Then Gem doesn’t have time to know when to go to hospital but she had an amazing GP appointment that gave her one of her favourite things — rules to live by! Then Revz is navigating the grief of friendship breakup and needs help with what is her responsibility and what to “let go let god” (enter Gem with a “let go let what?”) hope you’re having a lovely holiday break DLs, we’re happy to be here keeping you company into the new year. #Notspon: Gem: Joseph Joseph Laundry Hamper Revz: Soffle Lights - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 9, 2025 · 13 min
☎️ Bestie Hotline : How Do I Talk to My Kids About Religion?
This week’s caller needs some tips on how to tackle her kids’ tricky questions. - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 6, 2025 · 40 min
How To Be Mum-Goals with Yai
One of the biggest requests Gem gets asked in her DMs is “can Yai please tell us how to foster such a good relationship with our kids” so we thought instead of guessing (new for us! Look at the growth!) we’d get the woman herself in to talk family, daughters, grandparents politics, female friendship and second chance relationships. Listen to: D&M: The Mums. Part 2, Yai (Apple) D&M: The Mums. Part 2, Yai (Spotify) - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 2, 2025 · 13 min
☎️ Bestie Hotline : Schoolyard Dickheads
Today’s caller needs some advice on how to support her kid being bullied at school. - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.