Under The Bed

Dest Dol & Tolu

A podcast hosted by Dest Dol & Tolu where we uncover the hard, often avoided conversations in the Christian community. Through raw and honest discussions, we shed light on biblical truths, challenge stereotypes, and encourage spiritual growth.

Join us as we bring what’s “under the bed” into the light – @destdol @tolsfeso

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Monday · 1 hr 5 min
S4 EP 2: S*xual Assault, BBL At 19 & Body Image w/ Chantelle Sophia
his week, Chantelle Sophia joins us Under the Bed…and honestly, this episode is CRAZY 😭😂 We’re talking body image, BBLs and EVERYTHING in between. From the pressures women face to look a certain way, to confidence, insecurities and learning to love the body you’re in. It’s a super honest, unfiltered conversation with proper girl-chat vibes…absolutely nothing is off limits! Trust us, you don’t want to miss this one! 👀 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
August 17 · 50 min
S4 EP1: WE FELL OUT.. HERES WHAT HAPPENED
In this episode, we’re talking about friendship, conflict, communication and… the fact that WE ACTUALLY FELL OUT. 👀 We also get vulnerable about our struggles with prayer, what it looks like when your relationship with God doesn’t feel the way it used to, and how difficult it can be to keep showing up spiritually when you’re struggling internally. Friendship isn’t always cute.. Sometimes you misunderstand each other. Sometimes you get hurt. Sometimes you need space. And sometimes you have to have the uncomfortable conversations you’ve been avoiding. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
April 27 · 1 hr 9 min
S3 EP10: Marriage, Divorce & Domestic Violence w/ Ysabella Grace
Wow, UTBGANG..the last episode of season 3 is here! This week we sit down with Ysabella Grace for a real and necessary conversation on marriage, divorce and domestic violence. Nothing is sugar-coated... just honest reflections, hard truths and a conversation that needs to be had! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
April 20 · 47 min
S3 EP9: You Think It’s God… But It Might Be Self-Hate
Condemnation...don't you just hate that word? That might be the case but its also something ALL of us struggle with and on this weeks episode we get into the nitty gritty of it all. Whether you're struggling to return to the Lord, struggling in the pits of condemnation or unsure how to navigate this christian walk... we hope this episode blesses you! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
April 13 · 1 hr 6 min
S3 EP8: Why Do Our Parents Bring Out The Worst In Us?
On this Episode on Under The Bed, we get REAL about the struggles we have faced with our parents. From uncontrolled outbursts to dealing with 'honour' culture especially within the African/Caribbean culture. BUT through it all, we MUST rely on the Holy Spirits guidance - he will give us peace! Amen?! AMEN!! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
April 6 · 58 min
S3 EP7: Cheating, Gossip & Prayer - Dilemmas (Part 2)
This week on Under The Bed we’re back in our dilemmas bag 😭 and it gets messy real quick. We’re talking gossip (is it ever justified or are you just being nosy), cheating (forgiveness, boundaries, and be honest… could you actually stay?), and that feeling of “why does everyone else seem more spiritual than me??” Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
March 30 · 59 min
S3 EP6: “I Have A Crush On My Pastor” - Dilemma’s
This week on Under The Bed… we’re getting into YOUR dilemmas 👀 No sugarcoating, no pretending...we’re talking real situations, real questions, and the kind of advice you might not be ready for 😭 From relationships to friendships to the things you don’t even want to admit out loud… yeah, we went there. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
March 23 · 1 hr 4 min
S3 EP5: The Ugly Truth About Friendship w/ LifeWithYourMidwife
We’re joined by our close friend and returning guest Life With Your Midwife (aka Lydia), and we’re getting honest about the ugly side of Christian friendship. We talk about misunderstandings, tension, unspoken feelings, and the moments where friendship doesn’t feel easy ...but also what it looks like to choose grace, communication, and growth anyway. This isn’t a perfect conversation, but it’s a real one. And if you’ve ever struggled in friendship, you’ll probably see yourself in this. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
March 16 · 1 hr 6 min
S3 EP4: Can You REALLY Enjoy Being Single w/ Deborah B
In this weeks episode we have a REAL conversation about singleness, Christian dating apps, and what it’s like navigating faith when you’ve never had a boyfriend. We get honest about the pressures, expectations, and trusting God’s timing in relationships. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
March 9 · 50 min
S3 EP3: Unfiltered Christian Q&A (Lust, Comparison & Jealous)
This week on Under The Bed, we get honest about some of the trickiest heart issues we all face: lust, jealousy, envy and comparison, unpacking why these feelings show up, what the Bible actually says about them, and how to deal with them without pretending we’re perfect. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
March 2 · 48 min
S3 EP2: Let’s Be Real … Christians are JUDGY w/ Joe Garratt
This week we’re under the bed with Joe Garratt, yes, that Joe from Love Island, but there’s so much more to him than reality TV, as we talk about his journey beyond the villa, what faith looks like in the public eye, and the uncomfortable truth that sometimes the loudest judgment doesn’t come from the world, but from within the Church itself. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
February 23 · 46 min
S3 EP1: It’s 2026 And You’re Still DEPRESSED
In this episode, we’re talking about friendship, conflict, hurt, communication, forgiveness and… the fact that WE ACTUALLY FELL OUT. 👀 We also get vulnerable about our struggles with prayer, what it looks like when your relationship with God doesn’t feel the way it used to, and how difficult it can be to keep showing up spiritually when you’re struggling internally. Friendship isn’t always cute.. Sometimes you misunderstand each other. Sometimes you get hurt. Sometimes you need space. And sometimes you have to have the uncomfortable conversations you’ve been avoiding. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Nov 3, 2025 · 1 hr 8 min
S2 E10: The Spiritual Realm is VERY REAL w/ Apostle Randolph Adjei
On this episode of Under The Bed, we sat down with our incredible pastor, Apostle Randolph Adjei, and whew… this one was deep! From the spiritual realm to some of the most difficult questions - Apostle was flowing with pure wisdom. The perfect way to end the season! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 27, 2025 · 46 min
S2 E9: CHRISTIANITY IS NOT A TREND
In this episode of Under the Bed, we unpack the rise of 'Christianity as a trend' on social media. With so many influencers publicly embracing faith, we ask: is everyone truly walking with Christ, or are some using Christianity as an aesthetic? We dive deep into what it means to be a real Kingdom ambassador, the dangers of mixing worldly influence with faith, and how to stay discerning in an online culture that often confuses performance with purpose. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 20, 2025 · 59 min
S2 E8: “Promiscuity Ruined My Self Worth” w/ Aji
This week on Under the Bed, we are joined with Aji (the worlds most FAMOUS PT) for a powerful conversation titled “Promiscuity Ruined My Self Worth.” Aji opens up about his past struggles with promiscuity, the journey to getting baptised, finding love, and how counselling helped him heal. It’s a raw, redemptive chat about growth, faith, and learning to see yourself the way God does. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Sep 15, 2025 · 53 min
S2 E7: Depression, Anxiety & Panic Attacks (as a christian?!)
On this week’s episode of Under the Bed podcast, we open up about mental health, diving into our personal experiences with depression, sleep paralysis, and panic attacks. We share raw stories, honest reflections, and the lessons we’ve learned along the way. This conversation is about breaking the silence, reminding you that you’re not alone, and creating space for hope and healing. 🛏️💭 Through it all, we’re reminded that God is good and with Him, we can overcome. 🙏✨ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Sep 8, 2025 · 57 min
S2 E6: Healing from Trauma w/ Becca Folkes
This week on Under the Bed, we’re joined by the incredible Becca Folkes!! *eeeekkk* Becca is a gospel artist, speaker, and woman of faith who opens up with raw honesty about her journey. In this powerful episode, she shares her story of overcoming childhood abuse, navigating the call to modesty, wrestling with pride, and the ongoing battles of faith and identity. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Sep 1, 2025 · 49 min
S2 E5: How to Deal With Conflict
In this episode of Under the Bed, we’re getting real about conflict. From the messy ways we used to handle it before coming to Christ, to the lessons we’re learning now about choosing peace, we open up about our own journeys with confrontation. We share the moments we’ve fallen short, the times we’ve extended grace, and how our faith continues to shape the way we approach difficult conversations. Tap in and let us know how you’re navigating conflict too. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Aug 18, 2025 · 53 min
S2 E4: 'I Turned Down Love Island For Jesus"
In this episode of Under the Bed, we’re talking about the things that felt so weird before coming to Christ and the tough decisions we had to make early on in our journeys. Destini also shares why she turned down the chance to go on Love Island. It’s real, honest, and a little bit funny too. Tap in #UTBGANG — this one’s for you. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Aug 11, 2025 · 1 hr 4 min
S2 E3: Why Christians Are Being Exposed w/ Hayley Mulenda Record
Soo many of you guessed right 👀 ....this week on Under the Bed, Hayley Mulenda joins us for a powerful conversation on destroying compromise, interfaith relationships, healing from hurt in ministry, and so much more. Packed with wisdom and raw honesty, this episode will challenge and inspire you. #UTBGANG get your note pads ready!💜 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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