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Transforming 45

Lisa Boate

Transforming 45 is where midlife gets real. Host Lisa Boate, menopause coach and educator, dives into the truth about perimenopause, menopause, identity shifts, and midlife reinvention. Through candid stories and menopause conversations with men and women, Lisa helps listeners understand their bodies, relationships, and purpose in this powerful chapter. Honest, funny, and empowering—this is your go-to podcast for thriving through midlife transformation.

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S4 · E189
Thursday · 47 min
Can We Actually Slow Aging? What Women Over 40 Need to Know
What if aging isn't something that simply happens to us? This week's conversation completely shifted how I think about longevity. Not because it promised magic supplements or miracle cures. Because it reminded me that the goal isn't living longer. It's protecting the years we're living. If you've ever wondered… ✨ Should I take supplements? ✨ Does intermittent fasting really work? ✨ What happens to our bodies during menopause? ✨ How do I know what's real? ...this conversation is for you. Chapters: 00:00 Can We Actually Slow Aging? 02:39 Why Do We Age? 08:25 Why Aging Sneaks Up on Gen X 10:00 What Menopause Has to Do With Aging 12:06 When Should You Seek Menopause Treatment? 13:19 The 7 Biological Causes of Aging 18:58 Mitochondria, Energy & Aging 20:01 Why Sleep Changes As We Age 21:07 Estrogen's Effect Throughout the Body 23:40 Inflammation and the Aging Immune System 27:07 Glucose, Insulin Resistance & Aging 29:25 Lifespan vs Healthspan 33:50 Which Supplements Actually Have Evidence? 40:03 Where Do You Start? 42:15 Exercise, Bones & Women's Longevity 52:58 What Quality of Life Do You Want? Aging begins long before menopause. Healthspan matters more than lifespan. Hormones are only one piece of healthy aging. Strength training becomes increasingly important after 40. Good science embraces uncertainty. Longevity isn't about perfection—it's about reducing disease risk over time. Fact Check: Rosalind Franklin Connect with Dr. Kaufmann: Website: https://kaufmannprotocol.com Clinical website: https://kaufmannlongevity.com Instagram: @kaufmannlongevity Connect with Lisa: Website: https://www.liberatedmenopause.ca Podcast: https://www.liberatedmenopause.ca/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboate Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467 Email: lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S4 · E188
August 13 · 46 min
Uncage the Rage: Menopause, Music and Hormonal Justice
Menopause was kept quiet for decades. Alicia J. Rose is done whispering. In this fierce, funny and deeply cathartic conversation, Lisa sits down with the award-winning filmmaker, photographer and musician behind MENOPUNKS—a documentary, podcast and growing movement using punk-rock rebellion to challenge menopause misinformation and demand hormonal justice. Alicia shares her own path from medical dismissal to becoming “hormonally radicalized,” why music remains one of Gen X’s most powerful languages, and what happens when midlife rage is channeled into creativity, community and action. Lisa and Alicia also unpack the cultural fallout from decades of fear surrounding hormone therapy, the stories Alicia is hearing from iconic musicians, and the electric energy of Menopunkapalooza. This episode is for anyone who has wondered whether the problem was their body—or a system that never gave them the information, care and choices they deserved. Content note: This conversation contains strong language and discussion of medical dismissal, cancer, dementia, reproductive rights and political systems. It shares lived experience and advocacy perspectives and is not personal medical advice. Speak with a qualified healthcare professional about your individual circumstances. What we talk about: Alicia’s symptoms became impossible to dismiss in her early 50s, but getting informed, appropriate care was anything but straightforward. MENOPUNKS grew from a personal health reckoning into a documentary, podcast and movement focused on misinformation, access and hormonal justice. Gen X’s relationship with music matters: for the last analog generation, art did not just entertain us—it helped us define ourselves. Alicia is gathering menopause stories from musicians and artists, revealing common experiences of dismissal, confusion and feeling as though something was seriously wrong. Lisa and Alicia explore the lasting cultural fear created by the early reporting on the Women’s Health Initiative and why informed, individualized care matters. Menopunkapalooza put menopause advocacy onstage with music, comedy, clinicians, politicians, resources and joy. Rage can consume us, but it can also carry information. When combined with creativity and community, it can become fuel for change. Listeners can support MENOPUNKS by following and sharing the project, listening to the podcast, buying merch or donating toward documentary post-production. Chapters: 00:01 — Meet Alicia J. Rose and the MENOPUNKS movement 00:57 — When menopause became bigger than Alicia’s own body 03:45 — The echo chamber of hormone fear and misinformation 08:22 — Why Gen X may be uniquely equipped to change the story 10:47 — Music, identity and the last analog generation 17:18 — What musicians are revealing about menopause 20:21 — Feminism, cultural backlash and the future women expected 23:30 — The Women’s Health Initiative and the consequences of its reporting 30:43 — Menopunkapalooza: reclamation, healing and euphoria 37:12 — Why resistance also needs joy 38:46 — How Gen X wants to age differently 40:38 — Storytelling as an uncensored source of power 41:55 — How to support the MENOPUNKS film, podcast and movement 44:07 — Alanis Morissette, consider this your invitation 45:10 — Uncaging rage and turning it into action MENOPUNKS website: https://www.menopunks.com/ About Alicia and the MENOPUNKS team: https://www.menopunks.com/about-1 Alicia J. Rose: https://www.aliciajrose.com/bio Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/menopunks/ Email: menopunks@gmail.com Podcast, merch, documentary updates and donations are available through the MENOPUNKS website. The Estrogen Dilemma - Historical Article Connect with Lisa: Lisa Boate | Menopause Consultant, Coach and host of Transforming 45 Website: https://liberatedmenopause.ca/ Email: lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboate/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S4 · E187
August 6 · 39 min
Braless, Out of Gas, and Finally Free with Kara @mediocremom76
Join me at the National Menopause Show, October 17–18 at the International Centre in Mississauga! Get your tickets at nationalmenopauseshow.com and use code TRANSFORM45 at checkout. What happens when you stop trying to hold it all together… and start laughing instead? This week, Lisa sits down with Kara Murray—aka MediocreMom76—former teacher turned viral content creator and now stand-up comedian. Kara built a massive audience by telling the truth about motherhood, menopause, and the absolute chaos of midlife—and people felt it. In this episode, we explore what happens when you stop striving for perfection and start embracing “good enough.” What You’ll Hear: The accidental creation of the “Menopause Hotline” (and why it exploded) Why midlife unlocks confidence you didn’t have before Teacher ➡️ creator ➡️ comedian: how reinvention actually happens The mental load, brain fog, and identity shifts of menopause Body image, generational patterns, and what we pass to our kids Why comedy might be one of the most powerful forms of advocacy Letting go of perfection and embracing “mediocre” Key Takeaways: You don’t have to suffer in your body Reinvention isn’t reckless—it’s necessary “Good enough” is more powerful than perfect Midlife isn’t shrinking you—it’s expanding you Laughter is connection—and we need more of it About Kara Murray Kara Murray (MediocreMom76) is a former teacher turned social media personality and emerging stand-up comedian. She shares honest, hilarious takes on motherhood, menopause, and midlife identity, building a community through truth and humour. 🔗 Connect with Kara Instagram: @mediocremom76 Merch Shop: https://mediocremom76.com/ Connect with Lisa Website: https://www.liberatedmenopause.ca/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboate/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467 Email: lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S4 · E186
July 30 · 48 min
Why Aren’t We Talking About Post-Menopause? With Cindy Dupuie
Join me at this year's National Menopause Show, October 17th and 18th at the International Center in Mississauga. Go to https://nationalmenopauseshow.com/ and use code :TRANSFORM45 Menopause isn't the end of the story. In this episode of Transforming 45, Lisa sits down with functional medicine practitioner and nutritionist Cindy Dupuie to talk about what happens after menopause and why women need to pay attention to their health long after the hot flashes fade. Together they tackle hormone therapy myths, the lasting impact of the WHI study, bone health, vaginal estrogen, inflammation, muscle loss, heart disease risk, and the importance of becoming the CEO of your own health. If you've ever thought "I'm past menopause, so I'm done worrying about it," this episode may change the way you think about your future health. ✔ Why post-menopause deserves more attention ✔ The lasting impact of the WHI study ✔ What estrogen actually does throughout the body ✔ Why heart disease is the leading cause of death for post-menopausal women ✔ Bone density, osteoporosis and preventing fractures ✔ The role of vaginal estrogen in preventing UTIs ✔ Why muscle matters more than ever ✔ The importance of building your healthcare team ✔ How to advocate for yourself in medical appointments ✔ Why it's never too late to improve your health Menopause is one day. Post-menopause lasts the rest of your life. Hormones affect far more than reproduction. Bone loss begins long before most women receive screening. Vaginal estrogen may help prevent recurring UTIs and improve quality of life. Movement is medicine, especially strength training. Women deserve preventative care, not just reactive care. You are the CEO of your own health. Connect with Cindy: Website: alivingbalance.net https://alivingbalance.net Instagram: @cindy_dupuie https://www.instagram.com/cindy_dupuie/ YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@alivingbalance Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cdupuie/ Signature Course: Grace In Transition for Women Of A Certain Age https://alivingbalance.net/course/ Free Download Lab Checklist for The Pause Years https://mailchi.mp/ec838eef0e74/lab-checklist Connect with Lisa Website: https://liberatedmenopause.ca Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboate/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467 Email: lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca New episodes of Transforming 45 drop every Thursday. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S4 · E184
July 23 · 50 min
Midlife Is the Rewrite with Thayne Martin
You’re not stuck—you’re running patterns. And patterns can be rewritten. In this episode of Transforming 45, Lisa sits down with Thayne Martin, creator of ELAH™ and an experiential neuroscience entrepreneur helping people rewire emotional patterns in real time. After surviving severe childhood trauma, addiction, and a near-death experience, Thayne rebuilt his life by understanding one powerful truth: 👉 Most of what drives us isn’t conscious—it’s subconscious programming. What we cover: Why 95% of your thoughts are subconscious (and running the show) How childhood experiences shape adult identity The body’s role in storing and repeating emotional patterns What it actually takes to create lasting change (hint: not mindset alone) Heart vs. brain: why intuition matters more than you think The cost of living a “double life” and how to come back to yourself A simple but powerful self-love practice to begin rewiring today Chapters: 00:00 You’re not broken—you’re programmed 02:30 Childhood stories that shape your identity 05:00 Trauma, addiction, and hitting rock bottom 08:00 The “armor” we wear to survive 12:30 Near-death experience + wake-up call 18:00 Heart-brain coherence explained 23:00 Why your body knows before your brain 32:00 Life review + emotional impact on others 37:00 The 3 things every human must learn 46:00 The mirror exercise that changes everything Connect with Lisa: 🌐 Website: https://www.liberatedmenopause.ca/ 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboate/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/ 👥 Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467 📩 Email: lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca Connect with Thayne Martin: itspurelove.com linkedin.com/in/thaynemartin https://www.facebook.com/thaynemartin instagram/thaynemartin Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S4 · E182
July 16 · 45 min
Why Women Feel Disconnected from Their Bodies During Menopause with Harmony Slater
Midlife isn’t a breakdown—it’s a signal. In this episode, Lisa sits down with Harmony Slater to explore how menopause, burnout, and body image conditioning disconnect women from their bodies—and how somatic practices, breathwork, and nervous system regulation can help you reconnect. What this episode covers: Menopause and body changes in midlife Why women feel disconnected from their bodies The impact of burnout, stress, and overtraining How the body stores trauma, stress, and emotion What somatic healing and embodiment practices actually are Simple tools for nervous system regulation and self-connection Key Takeaways: You’ve been conditioned to fix your body instead of listen to it Menopause and perimenopause amplify body awareness and discomfort Chronic stress and burnout keep you stuck in your head, not your body Somatic work helps release stored tension and emotional patterns Rest, breath, and awareness are essential for hormonal and nervous system health. Standout Insights: “We are trained to notice what needs to be fixed.” “It doesn’t feel safe to be in a body that’s constantly criticized.” “Your body is always trying to heal—you just need to listen.” Chapters: 00:00 The biggest lie we’ve been taught 03:30 Living in your head vs your body 07:00 The war women have with their bodies 12:30 Overtraining, burnout, and guilt 18:00 The 8:30am exhaustion moment 23:00 What somatic work actually is 31:00 Why your body doesn’t feel safe 34:00 “When did you decide you had to earn rest?” 40:00 Simple practices to reconnect 44:00 Rewiring what you notice about yourself If you’re navigating menopause symptoms, stress, or burnout, start here: Lie on the floor, feet grounded Place your hands on your chest or belly Inhale through your nose, exhale through your mouth Notice where your breath moves in your body Follow the sensation—no judgment, no fixing This supports nervous system regulation, stress reduction, and body awareness. Harmony Slater is a somatic coach and certified Ashtanga yoga teacher who helps people reconnect with their bodies through breathwork, movement, and nervous system healing. Her work focuses on helping individuals move beyond stress, anxiety, and physical tension to create more aligned, energized lives. Instagram: @harmonyslaterofficial Website: harmonyslater.com YouTube: Harmony Slater Connect with Lisa: 🌐 Website: https://www.liberatedmenopause.ca/ 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboate/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/ 👥 Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467 📧 Email: lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca Tickets for the National Menopause Show: https://nationalmenopauseshow.com/ - use my exclusive code TRANSFORMING 45 and be my guest! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S4 · E182
July 9 · 39 min
Your Life Looks Right… So Why Does It Feel Wrong? With Kim Costa
What happens when the life you built no longer fits the woman you’re becoming? In this episode of Transforming 45, Lisa sits down with Kim Costa—author of Live in Your Wheelhouse and creator of The Wheelhouse Method—to explore the powerful connection between identity, environment, and midlife reinvention. Because here’s the truth no one talks about: Sometimes the most “perfect” life… is the most misaligned one. From a life-altering accident to walking away from a home that looked beautiful on paper but felt completely off, Kim shares how midlife has a way of shaking loose everything that no longer fits—and how your physical space might be the first place you feel it. Together, we explore: ✨ Why your home can start to feel like a job instead of a sanctuary ✨ The hidden emotional weight of “having it all” ✨ How misalignment shows up in subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways ✨ The connection between your internal world and your physical space ✨ Simple ways to start realigning your life—without blowing everything up 00:00 The Journey of Self-Discovery 01:13 Recognizing Misalignment in Life 04:06 The Impact of Physical Space on Well-Being 08:45 The Weight of Expectations 11:30 Midlife Transitions and New Beginnings 15:05 Finding Bravery in Change 20:29 Taking Action in Physical Spaces 21:10 Creating Intentional Spaces 23:59 The Wheelhouse Framework for Life Reflection 26:58 Shifting Energy Through Home Environment 30:00 The Impact of Clutter on Emotional Well-being 33:01 Navigating Change in Family Dynamics 36:03 Aligning Home with Personal Growth 40:03 Finding Your True Self in Midlife If you’ve been feeling restless, disconnected, or like something just isn’t right… this conversation will hit. Because sometimes it’s not you that needs fixing— it’s the life you’ve outgrown. Website: https://www.liberatedmenopause.ca/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboate Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467 Email: lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca Website: https://lifestylefoundations.com IG: https://www.instagram.com/kim.e.costa Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimecostarealtor LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimecosta Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S4 · E172
July 2 · 43 min
Why Everything Stopped Working (And What To Do Instead) with Laura McLennan
If you’ve been told your symptoms are “just aging,” this episode will challenge everything you’ve been taught. Lisa sits down with biologist and holistic nutritionist Laura McLennan to unpack what’s actually happening in the perimenopausal and menopausal body—and why working harder isn’t the answer. This is a conversation about metabolism, insulin resistance, and the truth about why what used to work…doesn’t anymore. What You’ll Learn Why “eat less, move more” stops working in midlife What insulin resistance actually means (in real life terms) The biggest mistake women make with food Why skipping meals is backfiring on your body How to start feeling better without overhauling your life Key Takeaways Your body isn’t broken—it needs different support now Metabolism shifts are real—but they are not permanent damage Undereating is one of the biggest drivers of fatigue and weight gain Protein + consistent meals = foundational change Small shifts create massive results Standout Quotes “It’s not about working harder—it’s about working smarter.” “Your body isn’t failing you—it’s asking you for something different.” “Would you drive to Montreal on an empty tank?” “We’ve been trained to look for what’s wrong instead of appreciating what’s working.” Topics Covered Perimenopause metabolism changes Insulin resistance explained simply Nutrition vs. hormone therapy Intermittent fasting in midlife Body image + identity shifts Connect with Laura: Biologist, Holistic Nutritionist, Founder of HealthScope Specializing in personalized, lab-based nutrition for midlife women. Website: www.health-scope.ca Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100077078720014 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lauramwellness_/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lauramclennan2865 Connect with Lisa: Website: https://www.liberatedmenopause.ca Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboate Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467 📩 lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
June 25 · 40 min
The Leadership Lie That’s Burning Women Out (And What Actually Works) with Theresa Bailey
What if burnout isn’t a personal failure—but a system design flaw? This week on Transforming 45, Lisa sits down with leadership disruptor Theresa Bailey, founder of Starfish Synergies and North America’s partner for Play-Doh Power Solutions (yes, really). What starts as a surprising conversation about Play-Doh quickly becomes a powerful exploration of leadership, burnout, workplace culture, and why we can’t think our way out of feeling problems. This episode connects the dots between how we lead, how we work, and why midlife women are quietly walking away from workplaces that were never designed for them. 🎧 New episodes drop every Thursday. Listen on all podcast platforms + YouTube. What You'll Learn: Why traditional leadership models are failing (especially for women in midlife) The real reason burnout is skyrocketing across sectors How disconnection from the body impacts communication and culture Why “fixing communication” doesn’t mean more meetings or emails The leadership move that can shift your team starting tomorrow How workplaces can retain experienced women instead of losing them Key Take Aways You can’t think your way out of feeling problems Burnout is often a system issue—not an individual weakness Psychological safety is the foundation of effective teams Small changes (when people feel heard) rebuild trust fast Leadership isn’t about control—it’s about connection Episode Chapters 00:00 Why Play-Doh is disrupting leadership 03:00 Burnout, the body, and why thinking harder isn’t working 07:00 Why workplaces wait for problems instead of preventing them 09:00 Leadership styles that are no longer effective 12:00 Women in leadership, armor, and internalized pressure 16:00 The power of leaders participating with their teams 20:00 Menopause, midlife, and the workforce exodus 24:00 Communication breakdowns (and what’s really happening) 28:00 Why one-off workshops don’t create change 32:00 The simplest leadership shift you can make tomorrow 37:00 Final reflection: building systems for humans About Theresa Bailey Theresa Bailey is the founder of Starfish Synergies and the exclusive North American partner for Play-Doh Power Solutions. She helps organizations rethink leadership, communication, and burnout by bringing people out of their heads and into real human connection. LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/theresabailey/ Website: www.starfishsynergies.com Book a call: https://calendly.com/theresa-bailey/time-with-theresa Let's Stay Connected Website: https://www.liberatedmenopause.ca Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboate Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467 📧 lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S4 · E179
June 18 · 43 min
The Virtuous Woman Trap (and Why You Feel So Damn Empty) with Dr. Julie Merriman
What if your burnout isn’t about doing too much…but about believing your value comes from being needed? This week on Transforming 45, Lisa sits down with Dr. Julie Merriman—PhD, Certified Sex Counselor, trauma specialist, and creator of Soul Joy™—for a conversation that goes way deeper than “self-care.” They unpack the virtuous woman trap: the lifelong conditioning that teaches women to over-function, over-give, and override their own needs… until they don’t even feel themselves anymore. This episode is about nervous system survival, emotional numbness, identity loss—and what it actually takes to come home to yourself again. 🎧 New episodes drop every Thursday Listen on all podcast platforms + YouTube In this episode we talk about: The “good girl” conditioning that wires women for burnout Why high-achieving women feel empty (even when they’re successful) What “functional freeze” actually looks like in real life The moment Lisa realized: “I don’t feel my feet” Why you can’t think your way out of a feeling problem How disconnection impacts intimacy, desire, and relationships The truth about masculinity, safety, and emotional regulation Empty nest grief and identity loss in midlife What it means to “have a homecoming” back to yourself Key Takeaways: You are not broken. Your nervous system adapted to keep you safe. But the life you want? It requires more than survival—it requires coming back into your body. Connet with Julie Merriman: Dr. Julie Merriman, Ph.D., LPC-S, CSC is a counselor educator, author, speaker, and clinician with over 25 years of experience helping high-achieving women break free from burnout and self-sacrifice. She is the creator of Soul Joy™, host of the Compassion Fatigue Cure podcast, and author of: In Pursuit of Soul Joy Are We Gonna Have Sex or What? (Spring 2026) Her work blends neuroscience, somatics, and real-life application to help women reconnect to desire, identity, and pleasure in midlife. 🔗 Learn more: https://juliemerrimanphd.com 📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.juliemerriman/ 🎧 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@drjuliemerriman 🔥 In This Episode, We Talk About:💥 Key Takeaway👤 About Julie Merriman🎙️ Let’s Stay Connected🌐 Website: https://www.liberatedmenopause.ca📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboate📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/👥 Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467📩 Email: lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S4 · E179
June 11 · 38 min
What Wine Can Teach Us About Parenting, Pressure & Letting Go with Danielle Frank
What do wine and parenting have in common? More than you think. In this insightful and surprisingly funny conversation, Lisa sits down with luxury wine expert and author Danielle Frank to explore how the language of wine can help us rethink how we raise humans. From control and expectations to identity, independence, and imperfection—this episode challenges modern parenting norms and reminds us that growth isn’t about perfection… it’s about becoming. What We Explore: Why kids (like wine) need space to breathe The hidden pressure of “perfect parenting” How expectations can quietly damage relationships Why community—not control—raises healthy humans The power of letting go and trusting the process What “faults” teach us about identity and resilience Standout Moments: “The majority of your relationship with your child will be with them as an adult.” “Sometimes the best thing you can do… is step back and let it breathe.” “We teach kids how to behave—but also what to expect from others.” “It’s not failure. It’s evolution.” “Imperfection doesn’t ruin the bottle—it makes it unique.” About Danielle: Danielle Frank is a luxury wine and spirits expert with over 20 years of experience, including leadership roles at Moët Hennessy and Bacardi. She is the author of A Wine Lover’s Guide to Parenting—a witty, insightful book that blends wine terminology with real-life parenting wisdom. 🔗 Connect with Danielle: instragram @createagreatstory website: www.daniellefrankauthor.net Available on all podcast platforms + YouTube Connect with Lisa: Website: https://liberatedmenopause.ca Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboate Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467 📩 Email: lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S4 · E177
June 4 · 48 min
Burnout, Body Wisdom & The Midlife Rebellion with Maria Angelova
What if exhaustion isn't the price of success? This week on Transforming 45, Lisa sits down with Maria Angelova, creator of the Angelova Method, fitness professional, former corporate leader, and passionate advocate for helping people reconnect with their bodies. After years of pushing through stress, sleeplessness, anxiety, and burnout, Maria experienced a series of wake-up calls that forced her to question everything she thought she knew about achievement, productivity, and wellness. Together, Lisa and Maria explore: ✔ Why so many high-achieving women mistake burnout for success ✔ The hidden ways stress shows up in the body ✔ How perimenopause invites us to rethink our priorities ✔ The connection between movement, emotions, and nervous system regulation ✔ Why self-awareness is the foundation of healing ✔ Small daily practices that create profound change ✔ The role of rebellion in becoming your authentic self ✔ How to stop living on autopilot and start living intentionally Memorable Takeaways: Your body is not working against you. The symptoms, tension, exhaustion, and emotional overwhelm many women experience are often signals pointing toward what needs attention, healing, and change. Midlife isn't the end of your story. It may be the first time you're finally writing it for yourself. Connect with Maria: Website: www.rebelliousstudio.com/ LI: www.linkedin.com/in/mariamangelova/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/mind.body.expert YT: https://www.youtube.com/@themindbodyexpert FB: https://www.facebook.com/maria.angelova.39750 Freebie: https://www.rebelliousstudio.com/opt-in Connect with Lisa: Website: https://www.liberatedmenopause.ca Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboate Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467 Email: lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca New episodes drop every Thursday on YouTube and all major podcast platforms. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S4 · E176
May 28 · 39 min
Braless, Out of Gas, and Finally Free with Kara @mediocremom76
What happens when you stop trying to hold it all together… and start laughing instead? This week, Lisa sits down with Kara Murray—aka MediocreMom76—former teacher turned viral content creator and now stand-up comedian. Kara built a massive audience by telling the truth about motherhood, menopause, and the absolute chaos of midlife—and people felt it. In this episode, we explore what happens when you stop striving for perfection and start embracing “good enough.” What You’ll Hear: The accidental creation of the “Menopause Hotline” (and why it exploded) Why midlife unlocks confidence you didn’t have before Teacher ➡️ creator ➡️ comedian: how reinvention actually happens The mental load, brain fog, and identity shifts of menopause Body image, generational patterns, and what we pass to our kids Why comedy might be one of the most powerful forms of advocacy Letting go of perfection and embracing “mediocre” Key Takeaways: You don’t have to suffer in your body Reinvention isn’t reckless—it’s necessary “Good enough” is more powerful than perfect Midlife isn’t shrinking you—it’s expanding you Laughter is connection—and we need more of it About Kara Murray: Kara Murray (MediocreMom76) is a former teacher turned social media personality and emerging stand-up comedian. She shares honest, hilarious takes on motherhood, menopause, and midlife identity, building a community through truth and humour. Connect with Kara: Instagram: @mediocremom76 Merch Shop: https://mediocremom76.com/ Let’s Stay Connected: Website: https://www.liberatedmenopause.ca/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboate/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467 Email: lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca #Menopause #MidlifeTransformation #Perimenopause #WomenOver40 #Transforming45 #MidlifeReinvention #MenopauseSupport #Podcast #WomenInMidlife #Confidence Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S4 · E177
May 21 · 46 min
The Menopause Industry Wants You to Buy More. Your Body Wants Less with Dr. Nayan Patel
This week on Transforming 45, Lisa sits down with pharmacist, wellness expert, and author Dr. Nayan Patel for a powerful conversation about the missing pieces in the menopause and longevity conversation. Please note - this episode was recorded before the term PCOS was evolved to PMOS. Together they unpack: Why hormones are only one piece of the puzzle The connection between stress, insulin, and hormone imbalance GLP-1 medications and the concerns women need to understand Oxidative stress and cellular health What glutathione actually does in the body Why prevention matters more than “fixing” The emotional overwhelm women are carrying in midlife This conversation moves beyond quick fixes and into a more nuanced understanding of energy, aging, and wraparound care. Chapters: 00:00 — Welcome + introducing Dr. Nayan Patel 01:40 — What’s missing from the hormone conversation 03:00 — Stress, insulin & the “real” drivers of symptoms 05:50 — Environmental toxins, xenoestrogens & PCOS *This was recorded prior to the change to PMOS. 09:30 — Why hormone therapy isn’t the full solution 12:00 — “The lion is chasing us 24/7” 15:00 — Coaching, behaviour change & emotional patterns 18:45 — The truth about GLP-1 medications 25:10 — Muscle loss, resistance training & midlife health 27:00 — What glutathione actually is 33:00 — Why oxidative stress matters 37:00 — The body needs less, not more 39:30 — Wraparound care & prevention 43:00 — Aging is not the enemy 45:00 — Closing thoughts Transforming 45 drops every Thursday. Connect with Lisa: Website: Liberated Menopause Instagram: @lboate Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467 YouTube: Transforming 45 lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca Connect with Dr. Patel: Website: http://aurowellness.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Aurowellness Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/aurowellness TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@auro.wellness?_t=8nrXA1jnFeM&_r=1 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@aurowellness Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S4 · E172
May 14 · 51 min
We Are Not Falling Apart: The Truth About Midlife Identity, Relationships & Letting Go with Angela Burk
What if nothing is going wrong… but everything is changing? In this deeply honest and unfiltered conversation, Lisa sits down with Angela Burk—author, marketing strategist, and self-proclaimed midlife hell-raiser—to talk about what it actually feels like to move through midlife. From confronting the mirror to redefining relationships, navigating shifting identities, and parenting adult children, this episode names the things so many women feel—but struggle to articulate. This is a conversation about grief, growth, desire, partnership, and the quiet (and not-so-quiet) realization that you are no longer who you used to be. And maybe… that’s the point. In this episode, we explore: Why midlife can feel so confronting—and why that matters The identity shift no one prepares you for How relationships evolve (and strain) in this phase What changes in partnership, intimacy, and communication Parenting adult children and the grief no one talks about The power of saying what you need—out loud Why you’re not falling apart… you’re becoming About Angela Burk: Angela Burk is a writer, marketing strategist, and author of Real Girl’s Guide to Midlife. She is a fierce advocate for women reclaiming their stories and building bold, unapologetic lives in midlife. A mom of seven in a beautifully blended family, Angela splits her time between California and Australia. Connect with Angela: 🔗 Learn more: www.realgirlsguide55.com Website: ttps://www.realgirlsguide.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/realgirlsguide/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realgirlsguide55/ 📩 Follow Angela on Substack Connect with Lisa 🌐 Website: https://www.liberatedmenopause.ca📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboate📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lboate👥 Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/liberatedmenopause📧 Email: lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca 🎙️ Transforming 45 releases new episodes every Thursday. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S4 · E171
May 12 · 48 min
What School Could Be — If We Had The Courage To Imagine Differently with jeewan chanicka and Alison Bradshaw
What School Could Be — If We Had The Courage To Imagine Differently Lisa is joined by jeewan chanicka and Alison Bradshaw for a powerful conversation about the future of public education in Ontario and beyond. The conversation explores: Ontario’s new attendance and standardized testing policies Why students are disengaging from school The impact of policy on neurodivergent learners The difference between education as a public good vs workforce pipeline Indigenous approaches to learning and community The role of governance, trustees, and privatization What education could become if rooted in humanity and belonging Key Takeaways: Behaviour is communication, not defiance Attendance problems are often symptoms of deeper systemic issues Standardized exams frequently measure stress and privilege more than intelligence Public education should develop humans, not just workers Indigenous knowledge systems challenge industrialized education models Hope requires imagination and action Connect wtih Lisa: Website: Liberated Menopause Consulting & Coaching Instagram: @lboate Email: lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca Connect with jeewan chanicka: Website: https://jeewanchanicka.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sacredreturnjourney/ Connect with Alison Bradshaw: https://www.instagram.com/alison8958/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S4 · E171
May 7 · 45 min
103 Perimenopause Symptoms Later… Here’s What Every Woman Needs to Know with Andrea Donsky
What if everything you’re feeling… actually makes sense? In this powerful episode of Transforming 45, Lisa sits down with Andrea Donsky—nutritionist, 7x published menopause researcher, and co-founder of Morphus—to break open the conversation women were never taught to have. From the shocking reality that menopause is completely absent from school curriculum to the 100+ symptoms most women don’t even know exist, this conversation is equal parts validating, eye-opening, and empowering. If you’ve ever thought “I don’t feel like myself anymore”—this episode is for you. What You'll Learn: Why menopause education is still missing globally The 103+ symptoms of perimenopause (beyond hot flashes) Why so many women feel dismissed by healthcare providers The emotional impact of body changes (and how to navigate it) How to communicate what’s happening—to doctors, partners, and yourself Why “you don’t have to suffer” can feel so uncomfortable (and why it matters) The #1 place to start if you want to feel better now Key Moments: The moment Lisa’s pants didn’t do up—and what it revealed Phantom smells, itchy ears, and symptoms no one talks about The cultural conditioning that equates success with suffering Why menopause is impacting your relationships more than you think The power of naming what’s happening in your body Key Takeaways: You are not broken. You are not alone. And you do not have to suffer. Connect with Lisa: Website: https://www.liberatedmenopause.caInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboateFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467 Email: lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca Free Guide: How To Reignite Your Purpose Without Feeling Overwhelmed or Guilty Connect with Andrea Instagram, TikTok and LinkedIn: @andreadonsky @wearemorphus 📖 Book: Nourishing Menopause: Powerful Nutrition and Lifestyle Strategies to Feel Your Best: nourishingmenopausebook.com 🌐 Website: www.wearemorphus.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S4 · E170
April 30 · 44 min
Midlife Isn’t a Crisis. It’s a Reckoning (in the best way) with Udo Erasmus
What if the thing you’ve been trying to avoid… is actually the way back to yourself? This week on Transforming 45, Lisa sits down with Udo Erasmus—a pioneer in the health and wellness space and co-founder of Udo’s Choice—to explore the connection between heartache, healing, and coming home to your body. From surviving war as a child to decades studying biology, psychology, and human nature, Udo shares a perspective that challenges everything we’ve been taught about where fulfillment comes from. In this episode: Why heartache isn’t something to fix—but something to feel The disconnect that happens after childhood—and how it shapes our lives Why midlife is the moment your body calls you back The difference between chasing fulfillment vs. embodying it A simple daily practice to reconnect to yourself Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Udo Erasmus and His Journey 04:44 The Impact of Curiosity and Persistence 09:59 Understanding Heartache and Disconnection 15:56 Reframing Heartache as a Gift 23:05 The Essence of Love and Connection 27:55 The Importance of Self-Connection 33:20 The Need for a New Understanding of Health This is a conversation about peace, presence, and the radical idea that nothing is missing—only forgotten. 🎙️ New episodes drop every Thursday on all podcast platforms + YouTube. What if what you’re feeling right now… isn’t something to fix—but something to listen to? In this episode of Transforming 45, I’m joined by Udo Erasmus to unpack a powerful truth: 👉 Heartache isn’t the problem 👉 Disconnection is 👉 And midlife is your way back If you’ve done everything “right” but still feel off, this conversation will land. ✨ We talk about: Why heartache might be your turning point How we lose connection to ourselves Why midlife is a wake-up call—not a breakdown A simple way to start coming back to your body 🎙️ New episodes every Thursday on all platforms. Website: https://www.liberatedmenopause.ca/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboate Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467 Email: lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca ✨ Free Guide: How To Reignite Your Purpose Without Feeling Overwhelmed or Guilty Connect with Udo: Website: https://udoerasmus.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theudoerasmus/ 🎥 YouTube DescriptionMidlife Isn’t a Crisis. It’s When You Burn the Script.🔗 Let’s Stay ConnectedInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/udoerasmus/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S4 · E169
April 23 · 39 min
What If You Stopped Performing Your Life with Brandi Croghan
What if midlife isn’t something to survive… but something to reimagine? In this episode of Transforming 45, Lisa sits down with Brandi Croghan, founder of The What If Collective, to explore how one simple question—what if—can unlock curiosity, courage, and meaningful change. This conversation moves beyond symptoms and into identity, belonging, and the emotional shifts that come with midlife. Together, they unpack how we’ve been conditioned to play it safe—and what becomes possible when we don’t. What You'll Learn: Why “what if” is more than a question—it’s a mindset How to reconnect with curiosity and childlike wonder The role of belonging and psychological safety in transformation Why midlife can feel like entering a “new culture” How to move from fear → curiosity → action Letting go of perfectionism and the “strive” narrative Why slowing down is actually growth How midlife can become your most aligned chapter Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to the What If Collective 02:22 The Power of the 'What If' Question 05:11 Reconnecting with Childlike Curiosity 07:18 Navigating Conversations on Belonging 11:52 Cultural Shifts in Midlife 15:57 Menopause in the Workplace 19:05 Creating Safe Spaces for Conversations 22:32 The Importance of Being Seen and Heard 27:17 Embracing Change and Identity 31:19 Finding Joy in the 'What If' Mindset About Brandi: Brandi Croghan is the founder of The What If Collective, where she helps individuals and organizations unlock bold thinking, deeper connection, and meaningful transformation through curiosity-driven conversations. With a background in leadership, culture change, and facilitation, Brandi blends strategy, science, and soul to help people reimagine what’s possible. Connect with Brandi: Website: https://www.thewhatifcollective.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealwhatifcollective/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BrandiCroghanWhatIfMindset/ LinkedIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brandi-croghan-founder-whatifcollective/ Available on all podcast platforms + YouTube ✨ New episodes drop every Thursday Let’s Stay Connected: Website: liberatedmenopause.ca Instagram: @lboate Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467 Email: lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
S4 · E168
April 16 · 45 min
Longevity, Biohacking & Menopause: What Actually Holds Up? With Chris Burres
If something claims to extend life by 90%… we need to slow down and ask better questions. In this episode, Lisa sits down with Chris Burres, founder and chief scientist of MyVitalC, to explore the science behind ESS-60—a molecule linked to one of the longest longevity experiments in mammals. Together, they unpack: What the research actually says (and doesn’t say) The role of mitochondria in aging The supplement industry’s biggest gaps What this means for women in perimenopause and menopause This is a conversation about curiosity, caution, and critical thinking. Key Takeaways: The ESS-60 molecule showed lifespan extension in rats—but human data is still emerging Aging is often linked to oxidative stress and inflammation Mitochondria play a central role in energy, hormones, and cellular health There is no single solution for menopause symptoms Lifestyle foundations still matter most: sleep, nutrition, movement, stress What We Discuss: The origin of ESS-60 and Nobel Prize research Longevity vs real-life quality of life Supplements: hype vs evidence Menopause, mitochondria, and hormone production Why “one solution fixes all” is a red flag Important Context: This conversation is exploratory and educational. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent disease. Always consult a healthcare provider before starting new supplements. Connect with Chris Burres and My Vital C: Website: https://myvitalc.com Special link: myvitalc.com/transforming45 Book: Live Longer and Better Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/myvitalc Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/myvitalc TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@myvitalc YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MyVitalC/videos LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chrisburres Let’s Stay Connected: Website: https://liberatedmenopause.caInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboateFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467Email: lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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