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Self(ish) Confidence

Jess Clerke

What if your confidence didn't depend on fitting into a box you never wanted to be in?


Self(ish) Confidence is the podcast for women who are done living by someone else's timeline and ready to trust their own.


Because let's be honest—it's hard to feel confident when you're constantly comparing yourself to everyone else's highlight reel or wondering if you're doing life "right." Comparison creeps in. Self-doubt gets louder. And suddenly, showing up as your authentic self feels impossible.


But what if confidence wasn't about having it all figured out?

What if it was about trusting yourself enough to take the next step?


Each week, your host Jess Clerke, Confidence Coach, Human Design Guide, and creator of the Self(ish) Sisterhood, shares honest conversations, mindset shifts, personal stories, and practical tools to help you stop people-pleasing, embrace your uniqueness, and build confidence from the inside out.


Whether your life looks unconventional, unexpected, or completely different than you imagined, you're in the right place.


This is your permission slip to stop performing and start showing up as you. To trust your intuition. To shine your light. To create a life that feels deeply aligned—not one that simply looks good from the outside.


Because you are not too much.
You're not behind.
And you don't need anyone else's permission to become the woman you're meant to be.


Let's build that belief together.

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  • #300
    March 10 · 27 min

    [300] From 0 to 300: How One Scary Choice Changed Everything

    Ever feel the air shift and know something is about to change? That’s where we are as we hit our 300th episode—a milestone built on messy first takes, wobbly courage, and a relentless promise to show up even when it’s scary. I trace the arc from a whisper in 2021 to a life I couldn’t have sketched back then: leaving a first business, closing a dream editor role, stepping onto stages, hosting retreats, and choosing motherhood after once saying “never.” The common thread isn’t polish. It’s motion. We dive into the power of honouring past versions of ourselves—the ones who said the awkward thing, recorded in closets, and tried ideas that didn’t land. I talk about learning styles through the lens of Human Design, why my 3/5 “trial and error” path looks like throwing spaghetti and then teaching what stuck, and how your path might prefer research and plans. Either way, traction beats theory. Expect failures and let them sort you toward what actually fits. Four years from now, you’ll thank the you who took one brave step today. This conversation is also a love note to community. Not everyone has a ride-or-die cheerleader at home, so I built spaces where belief is contagious and momentum multiplies. From tiny actions like borrowing a library mic or texting a potential collaborator, to big leaps like launching a retreat, the magic shows up when you do. If fear is loud, bring it with you. If you’re cringing, you’re growing. Hit play for a candid, practical push to stop waiting for perfect timing and start shaping the life you want, one small, honest action at a time. Join the Self(ish) Sisterhood at the Founding Sisters Rate: $22/month or $222/year. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs a nudge, and tell me the first step you’re taking today—I want to cheer you on. Join the Self(ish) Sisterhood: $33/month or $333/year. Thank you for listening to Self(ish) Confidence! If you enjoyed this episode, please share it with a friend or on your social media and tag me @jess.clerke so I can personally thank you for helping spread some confidence + love! Check out my website at: www.jessclerke.com If you're on instagram, come say hi!! 👋👋 My Personal Account ---> @jess.clerke The Podcast Account ---> @selfishconfidence

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  • #299
    March 3 · 31 min

    [299] From Flu Prep To Life Prep: Building A Space, A System, And A Sisterhood

    When life gets loud, confidence needs a home. We start with a chair, a candle, and a cup of tea—and end with a blueprint for handling chaos with more ease. After a week that knocked our whole household down with the flu, I share how a simple room refresh turned into a creative reawakening and why building a space that feels like you can change how you show up, even on the hard days. If you’ve been craving calm, the nervous system toolkit here is for you. We talk grounding in nature, sensory anchors like a signature candle or essential oil, a “sleepy song” that cues relaxation, and tactile objects that steady your breath. These rituals are rehearsed on neutral days so they’re ready when things wobble. We also practice flexibility on purpose—swapping dinner plans, shifting workouts—to teach our bodies that change isn’t danger. Add in real-world readiness with an updated first-aid kit and go-bag, and you’ve got compassionate preparedness without fear. Community is the final pillar. I relaunched the Selfish Sisterhood with connection first, plus an optional Moms Club thread for parents who need a village in their pocket and local meetups for those near Halifax. Whether you’re a new mom, a creative craving momentum, or simply tired of the noise online, you’ll find tools and people here to help you steady your week and protect your spark. Join the Self(ish) Sisterhood at the Founding Sisters Rate: $22/month or $222/year. If this resonates, subscribe, share with a friend who needs steadier days, and leave a review so more women can find their people and their calm. Join the Self(ish) Sisterhood: $33/month or $333/year. Thank you for listening to Self(ish) Confidence! If you enjoyed this episode, please share it with a friend or on your social media and tag me @jess.clerke so I can personally thank you for helping spread some confidence + love! Check out my website at: www.jessclerke.com If you're on instagram, come say hi!! 👋👋 My Personal Account ---> @jess.clerke The Podcast Account ---> @selfishconfidence

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