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Relationsh!t Podcast

Marko & Steve

The weekly podcast, hosted by Marko and Steve is a vibrant and insightful exploration of dating and relationships through the lens of Black queer experiences. In each episode, they dive deep into the nuances of love, attraction, and intimacy while tackling the challenges and joys unique to the queer community. Marko and Steve bring their personal stories and lived experiences to the conversation, creating a safe, open space where listeners can relate, learn, laugh, and feel seen.

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S13 · E25
Wednesday · 1 hr 16 min
ENCORE: M@sturbation
Got some sh!t to say? In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve dive into the often-taboo topic of masturbation within committed relationships. They explore how self-pleasure can be a healthy, personal form of sexual expression, even when one has an available and willing partner. The conversation navigates questions like: Should your partner fulfill all your sexual needs? Or is it reasonable—and even beneficial—for individuals to maintain a solo sexual practice? They address common misconceptions, emotional impacts, and how open communication plays a key role in balancing intimacy with personal autonomy. To wrap things up, they tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience. - Articles: Psych Central | Is It Typical to Masturbate When You’re Married? Guy Stuff | Why Does My Husband Prefer His Hand Over Me? Support the show Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT. That’s (903) 763-7448. You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at relationshitquestions@gmail.com. Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast. Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today! Your donations will give you early access to the podcast, behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise. Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review! Follow Us | Instagram and Facebook: @podrelationshit
S13 · E24
August 19 · 1 hr 34 min
ENCORE: Cheating
Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve dive into the complex world of cheating and explore how different people—and relationships—define it, in this ENCORE episode. Is following someone on social media a betrayal? What about innocent (or not-so-innocent) flirting at the bar? And where does kissing fall on the cheating spectrum? The guys unpack it all, sharing personal insights and challenging listeners to reflect on their own boundaries, expectations, and definitions of fidelity. There are no Listener Sh!tuations this week, but continue to send them for next season's episodes! - Articles: VeryWellMind | Why Do People in Relationships Cheat? Dive Thru | Coping with Infidelity: How to Heal After Being Cheated On Support the show Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT. That’s (903) 763-7448. You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at relationshitquestions@gmail.com. Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast. Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today! Your donations will give you early access to the podcast, behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise. Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review! Follow Us | Instagram and Facebook: @podrelationshit
S13 · E23
August 12 · 1 hr 25 min
ENCORE: Flirting
Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve dive into the flirty side of life in this ENCORE episode, exploring what flirting looks like for them and how their personal styles may come across to others. They ask the big questions: Is flirting something that comes naturally, or is it always a little awkward? And when you're in a relationship—or even married—is flirting harmless fun or crossing a line? Tune in as they break it all down with humor, honesty, and just the right amount of side-eye. To wrap things up, they tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience. - Articles: Advocate | 26 Ways to Flirt With a Gay Man Pride | Flirting tips for socially awkward gay, bi & queer guys Support the show Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT. That’s (903) 763-7448. You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at relationshitquestions@gmail.com. Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast. Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today! Your donations will give you early access to the podcast, behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise. Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review! Follow Us | Instagram and Facebook: @podrelationshit
S13 · E22
August 5 · 1 hr 14 min
ENCORE: Head First
Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve talk about diving headfirst into dating — and even marriage — without knowing what lies ahead. Is it bold and freeing, or just reckless? They explore the thrill (and risk) of saying "yes" to love without all the facts. Then, they’re joined by special guest Stefano Reginato Rivelli (chechoreginato.travel) of Josh and Stefano on Instagram and TikTok (@joshandstefano), who went viral for marrying a stranger on social media. He gives the guys behind-the-scenes insight into what it was really like to say "I do" before ever saying "hello." Would Marko and Steve ever do the same? You'll have to listen to find out. Support the show Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT. That’s (903) 763-7448. You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at relationshitquestions@gmail.com. Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast. Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today! Your donations will give you early access to the podcast, behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise. Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review! Follow Us | Instagram and Facebook: @podrelationshit
S13 · E21
July 29 · 1 hr 32 min
ENCORE: Thr33somes
Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve dive into the topic of threesomes and explore the gay community’s fascination with group sex in this ENCORE episode. They ask the question: when did one sexual partner stop being enough? The conversation covers the rise of throuples, casual threesomes, and the cultural and emotional implications of inviting a third into the bedroom. Is it simply about fun and exploration, or could it be a gateway to something more—like polyamory or emotional detachment? The guys keep it honest, messy, and real as always. To wrap things up, they tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience. - Articles: Queerty | Do threesomes help or hurt long-term relationships? Gays share their experiences Attitude | Gus Kenworthy opens up about sex life, says he’s had more threesomes than one on one sex Support the show Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT. That’s (903) 763-7448. You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at relationshitquestions@gmail.com. Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast. Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today! Your donations will give you early access to the podcast, behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise. Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review! Follow Us | Instagram and Facebook: @podrelationshit
S13 · E20
July 22 · 1 hr 41 min
ENCORE: Doing the Work
Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve kick off this ENCORE episode still buzzing from their Cowboy Carter Tour experience, sharing stories and reactions from seeing Beyoncé live. The excitement and emotion of the concert set the tone before they welcome back returning guest, Ted Smith (@tedsmith.life). Since his last appearance and book launch, Ted has taken meaningful time to focus on personal healing. Together, the trio dives into what it really means to "do the work" after a challenging relationship. They share honest insights, hard-learned lessons, and practical advice on moving forward, healing, and growing after emotional setbacks. To wrap things up, they tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience. - Articles: Ted’s Book: Healthy Me, Happy We (Purchase Here) Ted’s Website: https://linktr.ee/tedsmith.life Support the show Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT. That’s (903) 763-7448. You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at relationshitquestions@gmail.com. Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast. Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today! Your donations will give you early access to the podcast, behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise. Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review! Follow Us | Instagram and Facebook: @podrelationshit
S13 · E19
July 15 · 1 hr 39 min
ENCORE: Traveling While Gay
Got some sh!t to say? In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve reflect on their recent trip to Spain, sharing highlights from their time in Madrid and Barcelona. They humorously question why they even came back to the U.S., clearly missing the energy and vibe of their travels. The conversation then shifts to a deeper topic: traveling while gay. They discuss the unique considerations LGBTQ+ individuals must make when journeying around the world—especially when it comes to safety. From navigating unfamiliar cultures to choosing destinations mindfully, they emphasize the importance of being aware, prepared, and true to yourself while exploring the globe. - Articles: Travel + Leisure | These Are the Safest Destinations for LGBTQIA+ Travelers in 2024, According to a Travel Index Nomadic Boys | 10 tips for gay couples traveling together Support the show Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT. That’s (903) 763-7448. You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at relationshitquestions@gmail.com. Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast. Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today! Your donations will give you early access to the podcast, behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise. Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review! Follow Us | Instagram and Facebook: @podrelationshit
S13 · E18
July 8 · 1 hr 18 min
ENCORE: Same Argument Over & Over Again
Got some sh!t to say? In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve dive into the all-too-common experience of having the same argument repeatedly with your partner. They explore how these recurring conflicts can lead to frustration and emotional fatigue, especially when the core issue remains unresolved. The conversation highlights the importance of genuine listening and emotional presence in relationships, emphasizing that without true understanding and communication, couples can find themselves stuck in a cycle of repetition. Marko and Steve also offer insights into why these patterns form and suggest strategies for breaking the loop and fostering healthier dialogue. To wrap things up, they tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience. - Articles: Psychology Today | 4 Reasons Couples Keep Repeating the Same Arguments Well + Good | How To Get Off the Hamster Wheel of Having the Same Argument on Repeat Support the show Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT. That’s (903) 763-7448. You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at relationshitquestions@gmail.com. Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast. Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today! Your donations will give you early access to the podcast, behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise. Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review! Follow Us | Instagram and Facebook: @podrelationshit
S13 · E17
July 1 · 1 hr 26 min
Dating is a Drag
Got some sh!t to say? To close out Pride Month and the 13th season of Relationsh!t, this week Marko and Steve are joined by the chaos demon herself, drag performer Skye Walker (@itsskyewalker), for an honest, hilarious, and heartfelt conversation about dating, drag, and self-worth. What happens when your art, your identity, and your love life all collide? Skye opens up about the unique challenges of dating as a drag queen—from navigating people's assumptions and insecurities to figuring out who is interested in the performer versus the person behind the makeup. Together, Marko, Steve, and Skye unpack the realities of seeking connection while living authentically and visibly. To wrap things up,Skye joins the guys to tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience. - Follow Skye Walker: Instagram | @itsskyewalker Support the show Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT. That’s (903) 763-7448. You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at relationshitquestions@gmail.com. Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast. Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today! Your donations will give you early access to the podcast, behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise. Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review! Follow Us | Instagram and Facebook: @podrelationshit
S13 · E16
June 24 · 1 hr 50 min
Stay Ready
Got some sh!t to say? Pride Month is here, and for many gay men that means parades, parties, travel, hookups, and plenty of opportunities for some unforgettable memories. But while everyone is focused on what they're wearing (or not wearing), Marko and Steve are asking a different question: Are you physically ready for all the sex shenanigans that Pride Week can bring? This week, the guys sit down with anal health expert Dr. Evan Goldstein (@drevangoldstein)of Bespoke Surgical (@bespokesurgical)to discuss what it really means to stay ready. From preparing for receptive anal sex and avoiding common mistakes, to recovery, lubrication, pelvic floor health, and maintaining your body for long-term pleasure, they're covering everything bottoms (and the people who love them) should know before heading into a weekend of fun. - Support Dr. Evan Goldstein: Instagram | @drevangoldstein Bespoke Surgical | @bespokesurgical Buy Butt Seriously | Amazon.com Support the show Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT. That’s (903) 763-7448. You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at relationshitquestions@gmail.com. Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast. Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today! Your donations will give you early access to the podcast, behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise. Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review! Follow Us | Instagram and Facebook: @podrelationshit
S13 · E15
June 17 · 1 hr 32 min
Gay While Black
Got some sh!t to say? This week, Marko and Steve are joined by Jerrell Owens-Robinson to tackle a topic that doesn't get enough honest conversation in queer spaces: what it's like being Black in predominantly white gay spaces, and how race can shape dating, relationships, friendships, and a sense of belonging. Drawing from their own experiences and observations, the guys discuss everything from desirability politics and racial "preferences" to fetishization, microaggressions, and the challenges of navigating both the white gay community and the Black community as queer men. To wrap things up, Tony joins the guys to tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience. - Follow Jerrell Owens-Robinson: Instagram | @jalex313 Support Ruben Tomas: Instagram | @ruben_tomas Vote for Him | Johnny Depp presents The People’s Artist Support the show Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT. That’s (903) 763-7448. You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at relationshitquestions@gmail.com. Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast. Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today! Your donations will give you early access to the podcast, behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise. Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review! Follow Us | Instagram and Facebook: @podrelationshit
S13 · E14
June 10 · 1 hr 54 min
Love Me, Love My Interests
Got some sh!t to say? Do couples need to share the same interests to have a successful relationship? In this episode of the Relationsh!t Podcast, Marko and Steve, joined by retired podcast host Tony Critelli (@thecritellis), tackle the reality that even the strongest couples won't agree on everything. From hobbies and entertainment to travel preferences and social activities, they discuss how partners can navigate their differences without losing connection. The guys explore the importance of supporting your partner's passions, the difference between participation and appreciation, and why maintaining individual interests can actually make relationships healthier and more fulfilling. They also share their own experiences with liking—and sometimes not liking—the things their partner enjoys, while examining how couples can find balance between togetherness and independence. To wrap things up, Tony joins the guys to tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience. - Steve on the Minoritea Report Podcast: Minoritea Report Podcast | Listen Here Support Ruben Tomas: Follow Him | @ruben_tomas Vote for Him | Johnny Depp presents The People’s Artist Support the show Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT. That’s (903) 763-7448. You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at relationshitquestions@gmail.com. Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast. Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today! Your donations will give you early access to the podcast, behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise. Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review! Follow Us | Instagram and Facebook: @podrelationshit
S13 · E13
June 3 · 1 hr 45 min
No Fats, No Fems
Got some sh!t to say? This week on Relationsh!t, Marko and Steve dive into one of the most uncomfortable—and important—conversations happening in LGBTQ+ spaces today: the prejudice, judgment, and exclusion that can exist within our own community. Inspired by the release of No Fats, No Fems by Max Hovey (@max_hovey), the guys sit with Max to unpack the meaning behind one of the most infamous phrases in gay dating culture and explore the larger questions it raises about attraction, body image, masculinity, race, validation, and belonging. Whether you've experienced judgment, felt excluded, questioned your own assumptions, or simply want to better understand the complexities of queer community and dating culture, this episode offers a thoughtful and honest discussion about empathy, acceptance, and the ways we show up for one another. To wrap things up, Max joins the guys to tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience. - Follow Max: Buy the Book | No Fats, No Fems: A Guide to Queer Empathy and Unpacking Prejudice On Instagram | @max_hovey Support the show Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT. That’s (903) 763-7448. You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at relationshitquestions@gmail.com. Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast. Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today! Your donations will give you early access to the podcast, behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise. Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review! Follow Us | Instagram and Facebook: @podrelationshit
S13 · E12
May 27 · 1 hr 27 min
Cuddle Bug
Got some sh!t to say? This week, Marko and Steve are getting cuddly as they dive into the surprisingly important role cuddling plays in our dating lives and relationships. From casual hookups to long-term partnerships, physical affection can communicate comfort, safety, attraction, and connection in ways words often can't. The guys discuss why cuddling matters so much to our emotional and physical well-being, what science says happens in our brains when we cuddle, and why some people crave constant physical touch while others need their personal space after five minutes. They also break down popular cuddling positions, what they might reveal about personality and relationship dynamics, and whether being the big spoon or little spoon says anything about who you are. To wrap things up, the guys tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience. - Articles: Psychology Today | 4 Reasons Couples Should Cuddle More Support the show Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT. That’s (903) 763-7448. You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at relationshitquestions@gmail.com. Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast. Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today! Your donations will give you early access to the podcast, behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise. Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review! Follow Us | Instagram and Facebook: @podrelationshit
S13 · E11
May 20 · 1 hr 27 min
Just Checking In pt. 2
Got some sh!t to say? This week on Relationsh!t, Marko and Steve are skipping the research, ditching the structured topic, and just sitting down for a real conversation. No deep dives. No hot takes. No agenda. Just two friends checking in with each other about life as it’s happening right now. From dating and relationships to stress, routines, burnout, the state of the world, and the weird emotional weight everyone seems to be carrying lately, Marko and Steve talk candidly about what’s been on their minds — and how important it is to sometimes pause and reconnect without needing a “theme” or a perfectly packaged conversation. To wrap things up, the guys tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience. - Marko on the Minoritea Report Podcast: Listen Here | Episode 380: Butter Pecan Brown Follow Minoritea on IG | @minoriteareport Support the show Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT. That’s (903) 763-7448. You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at relationshitquestions@gmail.com. Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast. Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today! Your donations will give you early access to the podcast, behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise. Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review! Follow Us | Instagram and Facebook: @podrelationshit
S13 · E10
May 13 · 1 hr 38 min
Lavender Marriages
Got some sh!t to say? This week, Marko and Steve dive into the fascinating and often misunderstood world of lavender marriages — relationships historically formed to conceal someone’s sexuality in order to protect careers, reputations, family expectations, or personal safety. From Old Hollywood to everyday life decades ago, lavender marriages were often less about romance and more about survival in a society that left little room for LGBTQ+ people to live openly. The guys unpack why these arrangements became so prevalent, the emotional complexity behind them, and whether they were always as transactional as people assume. Were some built on genuine friendship, companionship, or even love in a different form? And now that LGBTQ+ acceptance is far more visible in today’s culture, do lavender marriages still exist — just under different labels or pressures? To wrap things up, the guys tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience. - Articles: Psychology Today | The Return of Lavender Marriages Support Ruben Tomas: Follow Him | @ruben_tomas Vote for Him | Johnny Depp presents The People’s Artist Support the show Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT. That’s (903) 763-7448. You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at relationshitquestions@gmail.com. Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast. Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today! Your donations will give you early access to the podcast, behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise. Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review! Follow Us | Instagram and Facebook: @podrelationshit
S13 · E9
May 6 · 1 hr 31 min
Please and Thank You's
Got some sh!t to say? Somewhere between the first date and settling into a routine, “please” and “thank you” tend to fall off. This week, Marko and Steve dig into the quiet shift from intentional politeness to comfortable carelessness—and whether that shift is harmless… or actually harmful. They unpack why basic manners aren’t just surface-level niceties, but signals of respect, appreciation, and effort. From early dating, where kindness can sometimes feel performative, to long-term relationships where familiarity can breed complacency, the guys explore how politeness evolves—and what it says about your connection. To wrap things up, the guys tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience. - Articles: National Library of Medicine | Putting the "You" in "Thank You": Examining Other-Praising Behavior as the Active Relational Ingredient in Expressed Gratitude Support the show Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT. That’s (903) 763-7448. You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at relationshitquestions@gmail.com. Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast. Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today! Your donations will give you early access to the podcast, behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise. Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review! Follow Us | Instagram and Facebook: @podrelationshit
S13 · E8
April 29 · 1 hr 52 min
Switching Up Positions
Got some sh!t to say? This week, Marko and Steve are getting real about the quiet pressure many people feel in the bedroom—specifically, the idea that “good sex” means constantly switching things up. Blame it on porn, hookup culture, or just plain insecurity, but somewhere along the line, a lot of us started believing we’re supposed to cycle through multiple positions during any session. But is that actually true? The guys unpack where these expectations come from, especially in the dating and hookup phase, where sex can sometimes feel more like an audition than a connection. They also explore how those habits can carry into long-term relationships—where comfort and routine aren’t necessarily a bad thing, but can sometimes be mistaken for boredom. To wrap things up, the guys tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience. - Articles: Bespoke Surgical | THE 10 BEST GAY SEX POSITIONS: A GUIDE Support the show Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT. That’s (903) 763-7448. You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at relationshitquestions@gmail.com. Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast. Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today! Your donations will give you early access to the podcast, behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise. Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review! Follow Us | Instagram and Facebook: @podrelationshit
S13 · E7
April 22 · 1 hr 26 min
Value-based Dating
Got some sh!t to say? This week, Marko and Steve are diving into the real foundation of modern relationships: values. Because let’s be honest—chemistry might get you through the first few dates, but alignment is what determines whether something actually lasts. The guys unpack what value-based dating really means and why it’s becoming non-negotiable for so many people. From political beliefs to social awareness, they explore how shared values shape not just attraction—but long-term compatibility, communication, and emotional safety. Marko and Steve also get into the nuance: Can relationships survive fundamental differences in beliefs, or does that create cracks that eventually turn into dealbreakers? To wrap things up, the guys tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience. - Articles: The Guardian | Swiping Right review – punchy questions about dating across the political divide Support the show Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT. That’s (903) 763-7448. You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at relationshitquestions@gmail.com. Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast. Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today! Your donations will give you early access to the podcast, behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise. Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review! Follow Us | Instagram and Facebook: @podrelationshit
S13 · E6
April 15 · 1 hr 34 min
EMDR Therapy
Got some sh!t to say? This week, Marko and Steve sit down with Dr. Thomas Whitfield (@drthomaswhitfield) to unpack one of the most talked-about trauma therapies right now: EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing). Dr. Whitfield breaks down what EMDR actually is, how it works in real time, and why it’s especially impactful for LGBTQ+ patients navigating everything from identity-based trauma to rejection, internalized shame, and the long tail of growing up feeling unsafe to be fully themselves. The conversation demystifies the process—what a session feels like, whether you have to relive painful memories, and why healing doesn’t mean forgetting, but finally being able to move forward without the emotional weight. To wrap things up, Dr. Thomas Whitfield joins the guys to tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience. - Follow Dr. Thomas Whitfield: CBT/EMDR Therapy Associates of Manhattan | Manhattan Therapists for EMDR and CBT Dr. Thomas Whitfield’s Newsletter | Sign Up Here Support the show Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT. That’s (903) 763-7448. You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at relationshitquestions@gmail.com. Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast. Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today! Your donations will give you early access to the podcast, behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise. Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review! Follow Us | Instagram and Facebook: @podrelationshit

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