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Normalize It Forward

Marc Lehman

The transition to college and the college years are a challenging phase for a young adult. Besides jumping into a higher level of education and the bigger responsibilities that come with it, they also live away from home, face numerous adjustments, and connect with brand-new faces. It often leads to various mental health issues, and sadly, this age bracket usually lacks access to proper care and support in this area. The stigma around it is ripe and almost unbreakable. This podcast aims to remove this major roadblock on the path toward the growth for these promising young people.

Welcome to Normalize It Forward, the show that brings crucial conversations about the mental health and wellness of young adults into the spotlight. This is for those preparing to enter college, currently in the middle of their college journey, parents who want to support them better, and therapists who desire to improve their methods.

Each episode delves into a wide range of approaches to elevate mental health and gain a more meaningful life. For young adults, this is your go-to resource for self-love and mindfulness. Learn effective ways to clear your mind of negativity and build a more positive outlook. Find out how breathwork exercises, meditation, and yoga sessions can help you, especially if you have not tried them. Discover the benefits of improving time management skills, reducing social media exposure, and avoiding getting burned out from your overwhelming to-do lists.

Hear first-hand experiences from students, parents, therapists and more about the mental health issues faced by most young adults today. Listen to stories of triumphs and losses to find out how to emulate their biggest wins and avoid following their biggest mistakes. Each individual’s mind works in its own unique ways, but there are always valuable lessons to learn from their in-depth insights and realizations.

Hosting the podcast is Marc Lehman, a marriage and family therapist with over two decades of professional experience. Aside from seeing couples for marital therapy, he also specializes in working with young adults transitioning from high school to college to address their mental health and environmental difficulties. 

Marc owns U ARE HEARD LLC, an online coaching business for students across the United States who need assistance while they are away at school. As an interactive and solution-focused therapist, he efficiently combines complementary methodologies with compassion and understanding to offer highly personalized services to each client.

Marc brings to the podcast his vast knowledge from his many years of interaction with people from all walks of life who face different mental health issues. He has guided countless students through the hardest moments of their college years. He has evaluated families of all different sizes and backgrounds. He has treated inpatient and outpatient individuals. He has met persons who have fallen into addiction, struggled with illnesses, or even contemplated taking their own lives. This puts Marc in a position to fully understand what is helping or not when it comes to one’s mental health. His eye-opening insights make every episode more informative, engaging, and enlightening.

Today’s young people will run the world one day. The future is in their hands. If they are not their best selves while getting their education, it will be all for naught. They will not be able to efficiently apply their learnings to the real world or create the changes they want to happen. If you are one of these young adults who wants to make your college years fruitful and meaningful, Marc is here to teach you how to face your inner battles. By taking care of your mental health and putting yourself on the path to wellness and mindfulness, you will experience profound growth and unparalleled success. Now is the time to normalize this conversation, break the stigma, and unleash your fullest potential.

Tune in to Normalize It Forward at www.uareheard.com.



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  • 20 episodes
  • fortnightly
  • Avg 33 min
  • English
  • S3 · E16
    Tuesday · 35 min

    College Mental Health: Expert Strategies For The Campus Transition With Laura Doyle

    As students prepare to head off to school, the conversation around college mental health becomes more critical than ever. In this episode, Marc Lehman is joined by Laura Doyle, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with decades of experience counseling students, to discuss the realities of this major life transition. From managing academic expectations and social anxiety to the importance of self-care basics like sleep and hydration, Laura provides practical strategies to help students stay balanced. They also dive into the impact of social media and the vital role of building real-world connections on campus. If you are a parent or student looking for ways to foster resilience and wellness during the college years, this discussion offers essential guidance for navigating the challenges ahead. Reading about mental health is hard. Let’s schedule a free consultation.

  • S3 · E15
    August 11 · 39 min

    Building Athlete Resilience Through Daily Routine And Discipline With Russell DeRosa

    Establishing a solid College Student Routine is essential for navigating the overwhelming pressures of higher education and performance. Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Marc Lehman welcomes Boston College Strength and Conditioning Coach Russell DeRosa to discuss how structure builds long-term mental and physical resilience. Russell DeRosa shares his twenty-four years of experience training elite athletes, revealing why daily habits reduce anxiety during high-stakes transitions. The conversation explores how both athletes and non-athletes can manage uncharted academic waters by taking personal ownership of their time. By replacing chaos with intentional habits, young adults learn to face adversity on campus without becoming overwhelmed. Parents and students alike will gain practical insight on shifting from passive survival to proactive growth. Reading about mental health is hard. Let’s schedule a free consultation.

  • S3 · E14
    July 28 · 32 min

    From Academic Pressure To Personal Growth: A Deep Dive Into Student Mental Health With Brian Keiser

    Navigating the complexities of student mental health is a challenge that many young adults and parents face today. In this episode, Marc Lehman is joined by clinician Brian Keiser from U Are Heard to discuss effective strategies for managing stress, overcoming academic anxiety, and fostering true wellness. Brian brings his unique perspective as a Guided Pathways Advisor II to shed light on how modern pressures, including social media and the desire for constant connectivity, contribute to the rising rates of anxiety in students. Together, they explore the importance of small, consistent habits—like prioritizing sleep, nutrition, and genuine human connection—as the foundation for long-term success. Discover actionable advice on how to support independence in students while maintaining the essential support systems they need to thrive in college and beyond. Reading about mental health is hard. Let’s schedule a free consultation.

  • S3 · E13
    July 14 · 41 min

    Mastering Holistic Mental Wellness From The Frontlines With Matt Domyancic

    Holistic mental wellness is more than just physical health; it requires balancing your physiology, psychology, and spirit to truly thrive. In this episode, we are joined by Matt Domyancic, a former police officer, strength coach, and wellness coordinator, to discuss his journey of resilience and his mission to support first responders and veterans. Host Marc explores with Matt why slowing down and prioritizing your inner self is essential in our fast-paced culture. We discuss the importance of self-love, the power of safe relationships in healing from trauma, and how we can all foster meaning and purpose even during our most uncomfortable times. Reading about mental health is hard. Let’s schedule a free consultation.

  • S3 · E12
    June 30 · 26 min

    Finding Your Beat: Resilience In Music With Jay Nazz

    Touring life is often viewed through a lens of glamour, but the reality involves a grueling mental and physical balancing act. Developing true resilience in music requires grit, a disciplined routine, and the courage to chase the unknown even when the path is unclear. In this episode, we sit down with Jay Nazz, the longtime drummer for the acclaimed country Americana band Reckless Kelly. We explore his journey from his roots in Connecticut to the bustling stages of Austin, diving into how he maintains mental clarity on the road and why he believes vulnerability is a professional superpower. If you’ve ever wondered what it really takes to sustain a career in the arts, Jay’s candid story on finding purpose amidst the chaos offers a powerful roadmap for your own journey. Reading about mental health is hard. Let’s schedule a free consultation.

  • S3 · E11
    June 16 · 39 min

    Leveling Up Your Performance With Kyle Stark

    Human performance is often associated with pressure. People are pushed to their limits just to achieve the best results. Although such a challenge stretches you to do whatever it takes to succeed, you may also be putting your own well-being at risk. Marc Lehman sits down with Kyle Stark, former Assistant General Manager and Director of Player Development for the Pittsburgh Pirates, who shares his insights on working with professional athletes who are constantly pressured to give their peak performance every single game. He explains what it really takes to develop people, not just performers, into high achievers who have a real sense of identity, leadership, and resilience. Discover why you do not have to sacrifice your mental health just to deliver better outputs and unlock bigger goals, but by simply being yourself and enjoying the ride. Reading about mental health is hard. Let’s schedule a free consultation.

  • S3 · E10
    June 2 · 34 min

    High-Functioning Addiction: The Silent Shame Of Male Bulimia And Recovery With Kyle Ridley

    The silent battle of shame and secrecy behind high-functioning addiction is exposed as Emmy-award-winning journalist and podcast host of The Tangle, Kyle Ridley, sits down to share his truth. Joining host Marc Lehman, Kyle reveals how his bulimia—a struggle often compounded by the stigma against men being vulnerable—consumed his twenties and made him a prisoner in his own home. He walks listeners through the critical steps of his lifelong journey of recovery, from the terrifying moment of intervention to embracing therapy and finding the courage to talk about his anxiety and fear of rejection. This conversation offers powerful lessons on how building a solid foundation of self-acceptance and community can finally break the cycle, leading to the confidence and grounded happiness that only comes from deep, ongoing healing. Reading about mental health is hard. Let’s schedule a free consultation.

  • S3 · E9
    May 19 · 31 min

    Turning Shortcomings Into Strengths, Mental Wellness, And The Power Of 'WOMSF' With Retired Fire Captain Dave Shenbaum

    Retired Fire Captain Dave Shenbaum is a community connector known for his deep roots and commitment to others, forged through 30 years of public service in high-pressure, high-stakes environments, including the Manhattan Beach Fire Department. In this powerful conversation, Dave brings a grounded, real-world perspective to mental health, purpose, and perseverance. From navigating the challenge of dyslexia and the intensity of paramedic school, to offering honest advice for today’s youth on overcoming “overwhelming doom,” Dave provides essential wisdom. He explains why we all need to “Work on my shit first” (WOMSF), why appreciation is the key to escaping bitterness, and how turning your shortcomings into strengths is non-negotiable. Reading about mental health is hard. Let’s schedule a free consultation.

  • S3 · E8
    May 5 · 21 min

    The Power Of Empowered Pop With Jordyn Sugar

    Mental health and music go hand in hand since most artists pour the contents of their hearts and minds into their songs. This is exactly what Canadian singer-songwriter and pop artist Jordyn Sugar is doing through her empowered pop music. Joining Marc Lehman, she discusses her creativity, confidence, and what it means to normalize inner work, especially among young people. Jordyn also shares how Justin Bieber inspired her to continue writing music and how she uses her art to encourage self-belief and emotional openness that help unlock your most authentic self. Reading about mental health is hard. Let’s schedule a free consultation.

  • S3 · E7
    April 21 · 29 min

    Communication And Connection: What High-Performing Teams Get Right With Steve Shenbaum

    Communication and connection are often the first things to erode when life gets busy, yet they are the very foundation of strong teams, healthy families, and personal well-being. Steve Shenbaum brings decades of experience working with athletes, leaders, and organizations to explore how trust is built through small, consistent actions rather than big moments. As the conversation unfolds, he reflects on the role of discipline, the impact of constant information, and the quiet power of presence, offering a perspective that feels both practical and deeply human. What emerges is a reminder that meaningful connection is not complicated, but it does require intention, awareness, and a willingness to show up differently. Reading about mental health is hard. Let’s schedule a free consultation.

  • S3 · E6
    April 7 · 34 min

    The Unconventional Path To Supporting Young Men's Mental Health: Why ‘Meeting Them Where They Are’ Works With Vince Benevento

    Vince Benevento of Causeway Collaborative believes the conventional approach to supporting young men’s mental health is fundamentally flawed. Statistics show that 80% to 90% of boys who need help aren’t getting it. Whether they’re dealing with substance use issues, college academic probation, or just feeling “stuck,” many young men resist being dragged along to therapy. In this powerful conversation, Vince—a licensed professional counselor and a former “wayward young man” himself—shares his revolutionary methodology. He details how Causeway Collaborative empowers young men (ages 16–30) to take ownership of their own care by focusing on action, physical movement, and building structure and routine, rather than relying on quick fixes and labels. This is essential reading for any parent seeking to support their son without pushing too hard or pulling away completely. Reading about mental health is hard. Let’s schedule a free consultation.

  • S3 · E5
    March 24 · 32 min

    Here For You Clothing: Turning Struggle Into Support With Elizabeth Haney

    Welcome to a powerful conversation on mental health and wellness with Elizabeth "Ellie" Haney, the visionary founder of Here For You. Born from her own journey through emotional struggles and a feeling of profound isolation, Here For You is more than just a clothing brand—it's a mission to normalize candid conversations about mental health through fashion, community, and support. In this deeply honest interview, Ellie shares the excruciating reality of her college years, battling crippling anxiety and depression in silence, and the ultimate turning point—the three simple, yet life-changing words she finally spoke. Whether you're a student feeling overwhelmed, a parent seeking connection, or simply someone who believes in the power of vulnerability, Ellie’s story is a testament to the fact that hope and change are real, and that the only way out of the darkness is through it. Get ready to be inspired and reminded: you are not alone, and help is waiting for you. Reading about mental health is hard. Let’s schedule a free consultation.

  • S3 · E4
    March 10 · 32 min

    Trauma Is Inescapable: A Common-Sense Approach To Post-Traumatic Stress With Bob Delaney

    The path to healing from post-traumatic stress requires bravery, honesty, and a willingness to share your story. Bob Delaney‘s life truly reads like a movie script: he’s a former New Jersey State Trooper who spent three years undercover infiltrating the mob, and later became one of the NBA’s most respected referees, officiating over 1,500 games. His extraordinary journey has made him a leading voice on resilience and leadership, using his experience to help first responders, veterans, and athletes understand the human side of high-pressure lives. Bob discusses how the game of basketball became his therapy and how a common-sense approach is better than over-medicalizing the conversation. He reminds us that trauma is inescapable, and through his powerful Kintsugi analogy for healing, he proves that what is personal is universal. Reading about mental health is hard. Let’s schedule a free consultation.

  • S3 · E3
    February 17 · 33 min

    Healing Doesn't Mean Hiding: Fitness, Shame, And Men's Mental Health With Jake And Joe Sharp

    Men’s mental health takes center stage as we hear a story of turning pain into purpose. Marc Lehman welcomes identical twins, fitness coaches, and mental health advocates Jake and Joe Sharp, who turned the tragedy of losing their younger brother Sam to suicide into a powerful mission to help others heal. They speak with incredible honesty about the impact of grief, the darkness of depression, and overcoming the isolating grip of shame and perfectionism. Their raw, real, and deeply human conversation explores the life-changing role that community, physical wellness, and finding hope played in their journey, showing listeners that true healing means connecting and growing strong together. Reading about mental health is hard. Let’s schedule a free consultation.

  • S3 · E2
    January 20 · 46 min

    Taking Off The Mask: Breaking The Silence On Men’s Mental Health With Dean Daniel

    The true strength in men’s mental health isn’t toughing it out, but taking off the mask and choosing to fight another day. Marc Lehman sits down with former athlete turned passionate mental health advocate and founder of Unbeaten, Dean Daniel, who shares his raw and incredibly powerful journey through chronic pain, eight spinal surgeries, and multiple suicide attempts. As a proud ambassador for Tough To Talk, Dean opens up about the stigma surrounding men’s emotions, the devastating effects of silence on families, and the life-changing choice he made to live and help others realize they are never truly alone. Reading about mental health is hard. Let’s schedule a free consultation.

  • S3 · E1
    January 6 · 26 min

    Unpacking The Complicated Layers Of Adolescent Mental Health With Jill Weinstein

    Navigating the complicated landscape of adolescent mental health requires empathy, support, and an open conversation. Marc Lehman welcomes Jill Weinstein, an LPC, mental health professional, and Clinical Director of Ignite, an adolescent mental health program at the Berman Center in Atlanta, who shares her insights from over 20 years of experience. The conversation explores the “big shift” of young adults leaving for college, the importance of proactive support—including managing legal shifts like FERPA—and the complicated, multilayered issues facing teens today. Jill and Marc also discuss reframing self-care as daily moments of awe and joy, the need for healthy relationships with social media, and the powerful role of community and connection in healing. Reading about mental health is hard. Let’s schedule a free consultation.

  • S2 · E26
    Dec 9, 2025 · 33 min

    Practical Mental Health Tips For Teens And Parents With Dr. Mariela Podolski

    Rising rates of anxiety and depression among teens and young adults aren’t just statistics—they’re real stories playing out in families every day. Dr. Mariela Podolski, a Connecticut-based child, adolescent, and adult psychiatrist, joins host Marc Lehman to explore the forces behind this trend and what parents, students, and communities can do about it. With more than 20 years of clinical experience, Dr. Podolski breaks down how instant gratification, phones, and “toxic positivity” affect mental health; why delayed gratification and frustration tolerance matter; and how parents can model wellness through sleep, nutrition, movement, and purpose. Packed with practical tips on managing devices, scaffolding self-care, and normalizing help-seeking, this conversation empowers families and young people to build the resilience they need for school, college, and beyond. Reading about mental health is hard. Let’s schedule a free consultation.

  • S2 · E25
    Nov 25, 2025 · 32 min

    How Body Image And Eating Disorders Affect Families And Youth With Dr. Emily Gordon

    Body image and eating disorders aren’t just clinical issues; they’re lived realities shaped by culture, technology, and family life. Drawing on nearly 25 years in private practice, licensed clinical psychologist Dr. Emily Gordon explores how perfectionism, social media, and comparison culture amplify these struggles — and how parents can support teens and young adults without adding to the noise. She mixes practical strategies with warmth, showing how boundaries, honest dialogue, and tuning in to one’s inner experience can become powerful tools for resilience and healing. Reading about mental health is hard. Let’s schedule a free consultation.

  • S2 · E24
    Nov 11, 2025 · 29 min

    Inside Suicide Loss Support: Healing Conversations With Greg Kligman

    Suicide loss support takes on a deeply human dimension in this conversation with Greg Kligman. He opens up about a decade on crisis lines and in survivor groups, explaining how empathy and presence help families carry the weight of traumatic loss. Listeners hear about the Survivor Support Program, why stigma and shame surround suicide, and how simple outreach can ease crushing isolation. Greg also shares the practices that protect his own wellbeing and offers practical ways anyone can contribute to a culture of compassion without burning out. Reading about mental health is hard. Let’s schedule a free consultation.

  • S2 · E23
    Oct 28, 2025 · 35 min

    Breathe, Move, Lead: Daily Practice Strategies With Scott Simons

    Daily practice is the foundation Scott Simons uses to transform health, mindset and leadership, and he believes it’s the most overlooked key to resilience. In this candid conversation, the professional speaker, wellness strategist and purpose-driven entrepreneur shares how a mentor helped him turn addiction into a life of service and how starting health instead of only stopping bad habits creates real freedom. He explains how simple, repeatable habits like breathwork, hydration and movement can reset stress, rebuild the nervous system and spark clarity. Scott also opens up about his “Be Human” initiative, which helps people reclaim higher ground and connect through shared humanity, and he offers practical tools for young adults, parents and leaders to stay grounded and thrive in everyday life. Reading about mental health is hard. Let’s schedule a free consultation.

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