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Nisht For Me

Arron Ferster, Abigail Radnor

Nisht For Me is a brand new podcast about the highs, lows and infinite funnies of being Jewish in Britain today.

  • 20 episodes
  • Updated July 27

Episodes20

  • July 27 · 59 min

    Nisht For Me Episode 33 - How not to be an antisemite with Charlotte Fischer

    Today’s episode is one of our most mind-expanding yet. It’s a chat with the brilliant Charlotte Fischer who, ‘by day’ runs Love & Power, a feminist community organising network. ‘By night’ aka in her spare time, Charlotte runs L’Taken, an antisemitism training programme specifically targeted at ‘good people’, those who care about making the world a better place but have a blind-spot when it comes to antisemitism. We hear her story, why and how she does what she does. And learn some big words along the way.

  • July 13 · 51 min

    Nisht For Me Episode 31 - Estelle Shiers Noch!

    Abigail and Arron chat about all the Jewish joy they've experienced in the break between series 3 and 4 before reaching peak podcasting by interviewing the one and only, kosher cake making legend, Estelle Shiers!

  • May 18 · 1 hr 1 min

    Nisht For Me Episode 30 - Dream Friday Night Dinner Party

    In this episode, we imagine our dream Friday night dinner, complete with fantasy guest list and the menu to end all Shabbos dinner menus.Here are a few links to some of the topics/people we discuss: We mention two articles by Taffy Brodesser-Akner articles. One about Operation Mincemeat:https://www.nytimes.com/2026/01/11/magazine/operation-mincemeat-obsession-broadway.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share and the very powerful, This is the Holocaust Story I said I Wouldn’t Write:https://www.nytimes.com/2025/04/06/magazine/holocaust-story-education.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share The chicken recipe Arron says is unbeatable by girlcooksboybakes:https://www.instagram.com/p/BdP6iQ3nW8j/?igsh=MXJ4aDRiaHFxeGJ3 Amy Poehler’s interview with Judy Judy is here:https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/good-hang-with-amy-poehler/id1795483480?i=1000724534033

  • May 11 · 1 hr 4 min

    Nisht For Me Episode 29: A Yachne with Yehudis Fletcher

    Abigail and Arron sit down with Chutzpahdik Charedi activist and author Yehudis Fletcher to chat about her Jewish identity as an out and proud lesbian who chose to stay in the Manchester Charedi Community.

  • May 1 · 1 hr

    Nisht For Me Episode 28 - How 2 British Jews are feeling right now - with psychotherapist Naomi Magnus

    An interruption to regular programming for @nishtforme this week. We had planned to record an upbeat, fun episode today to go out on Monday but, if we are honest, we just didn’t feel up to it. It’s been a long week. It’s been a long month. It’s been a long 2.5 years. And today we both felt thoroughly exhausted. So we decided to do something different with our episode. We have always found it helpful to discuss our feelings with one other, like we did after the Heaton Park attack in October, but this time we felt it would be more useful to both us and our audience to have a bit of professional help. So we are delighted that psychotherapist Naomi Magnus could join us this morning, listening to how we feel, sharing her own feelings and helping us understand why a lot of us feel the way we do in this moment. We certainly feel better having spoken to her. And we hope you will too after listening. So we have decided to put the episode out today. Thanks for joining us. Shabbat shalom - and look after yourselves.

  • March 30 · 56 min

    Nisht For Me Episode 23 - A Yachne with Josh Rose

    Abigail and Arron are joined by writer and fellow Mancunian Jew, Josh Rose to talk about his Jewish identity and what it was like to move to Israel 5 days before a war broke out…

  • March 23 · 1 hr 5 min

    Nisht For Me Episode 22 - A Yachne with Max Olesker

    Abigail and Arron are joined by comedian and writer Max Olesker to talk about his brilliant new book 'Making the Cut', all about undertaking the Orthodox Jewish conversion process.

  • February 1 · 1 hr 2 min

    Nisht For Me Episode 19 - A Yachne with Emma Barnett

    Abigail and Arron are joined by their old friend, broadcaster and journalist Emma Barnett to chat about Jewish identity and the time they were all in a kids' production of Fiddler on the Roof.

  • January 5 · 52 min

    Nisht For Me Episode 16 - A Rabbi, noch!

    In somewhat of a Heimishe Flex, Abigail and Arron chat to Rabbi Amir Elituv, the newly installed Chief Rabbi of the UK Sephardi community about his Jewish identity and who comes up trumps between Sephardim and Ashkenazim!

  • Dec 22, 2025 · 58 min

    Nisht For Me Episode 14 - Chanukah Special: 8 Nisht For Me's of the Year

    The chanukah cardigans are out which only means one thing…it’s NFM’s Chanukah special!!! Some disclaimers about this episode: Yes we know it’s out on technically the last day of Chanukah but, you know, indulge us. It is possibly our most x-rated recording to date, with both language and content that makes @abigailradnor wonder what Grandma Clair would make of it but then she is the grandma who discovered porn on Arron’s computer when he was teenager and made zero fuss so Abigail’s probably not giving her enough credit. This was recorded the Friday before Chanukah started and while the episode alludes to the fact that it has a been a hell of year up to that point, there’s still an air of levity and well, innocent silliness, that hits different listening to it back. This is because we recorded it before the horrific antisemitic attack at a Channukah party on Bondi beach which occurred 48 hours later. There have been so many emotions since then - appalled shock, profound sadness, fear, rising anger - which we are sure many of you share. But because of the chronology of events, you’ll find none of that in this episode. And maybe, that’s a good thing. We gift to you this Channukah an hour (mostly) free of all those difficult feelings and one that spans everything from dire wolves to Arron’s daughter resembling Samuel Pepys to the contents of that Duane Reed bag on Lily Allen album’s. It’s NFM’s (admittedly unique) way of spreading a bit of light and we hope you enjoy it. Happy Chanukah.