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Minds Between
豆豆姐MM和豆豆哥MM
🎧 A podcast exploring emotional intelligence, communication, and self-growth — through insights, and everyday conversations. The show also covers news and pop culture to make learning English more fun and meaningful. Helping you connect deeper, speak kinder, and live wiser.
一档结合心理学与日常对话的播客，探索沟通、情绪与成长的艺术。节目也会涉及新闻、名人、文化话题，让英语学习变得更有趣、更贴近生活。
陪你一起听懂世界，也听懂自己。
- 20 episodes
- Avg 18 min
- Chinese
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June 9 · 25 min37.英文播客:那些走路很快的人有什么不同?The Hidden Logic of Your Walking Speed
有没有发现，有一种人总是走路很快，实际上People who habitually walk fast tend to be highly goal-oriented, conscientious, and extraverted. Driven by an internal sense of time urgency and a desire for efficiency, their fast pace reflects strong executive function, ambition, and a proactive approach to navigating life. 【入群邀请】 如果你想获得本期内容的全部文本和单词本，欢迎加入群聊。本邀请码到6月16日有效，如过期请添加豆哥“MindsBetweenD”邀请入群。 感谢收听，记得留言点赞转发支持呀！ 在小宇宙查看该单集文稿
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June 1 · 19 min36.英文播客:When You Stop Explaining Yourself 无需解释自己之后
懒得向对方解释，我们这么做对吗?实际上当when we realize that justifying our choices drains our energy, erodes our self-trust, and rarely changes the minds of people who are determined to misunderstand us, we should stop explaining ourselves. 【入群邀请】 如果你想获得本期内容的全部文本和单词本，欢迎加入群聊。本邀请码到6月8日有效，如过期请添加豆哥“MindsBetweenD”邀请入群。 再次感谢您的收听，也祝你六一快乐呀（不管是不是个小朋友）：） 在小宇宙查看该单集文稿
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May 23 · 5 min35. 英文播客:不要让焦虑变成了焦虑失调！
今天我们来聊一聊好多人都会遇到的焦虑问题！Anxiety disorders are the most common mental health conditions globally, characterized by intense, difficult-to-control worry and excessive fear, which essentially stem from an oversensitive brain defense system. However, these conditions can be effectively managed and treated through scientific approaches. 【入群邀请】 如果你想获得本期内容的全部文本和单词本，欢迎加入群聊。本邀请码到5月30日有效，如过期请添加豆哥“MindsBetweenD”邀请入群。 感谢收听，希望开心的你永远没有焦虑！ 在小宇宙查看该单集文稿
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May 16 · 23 min34.英文播客:为什么总是你是那个沉默的人？话少害羞怎么事半功倍？
今天咱们来聊一聊The Power of Rich Relationships for Quiet Achievers，即使话少也能很棒！ 【入群邀请】 如果你想获得本期内容的全部文本和单词本，欢迎加入群聊。本邀请码到5月23日有效，如过期请添加豆哥“MindsBetweenD”邀请入群。 再次感谢您的收听，咱们一起成长！豆哥豆姐从新西兰美丽的基督城给大家问好！ 在小宇宙查看该单集文稿
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May 2 · 18 min33.英文播客：我明明不差，但为什么不自信？
Why Confidence Feels So Hard Even When You’re Good Enough？ 今天咱们就来聊聊自信这个事： 【入群邀请】 欢迎加入群聊，直接获取本期播客文本和单词本！本邀请码到5月9日前有效，如过期请添加豆哥“MindsBetweenD”邀请入群。 再次感谢您的收听！新西兰已经是秋天了，好冷哇最近。 在小宇宙查看该单集文稿
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April 25 · 20 min32.英文播客: 那些从来不主动联系的人到底在想什么？
【内容简介】 平时的ta那么安静，从来不主动给你发个信息，但是你一发信息后ta又没有任何不正常。为什么对方从来不主动联系呢？Why Some People Never Reach Out First？ 【入群邀请】 欢迎加入群聊，直接获取本期播客文本和单词本！本邀请码到5月2日前有效，如过期请添加豆哥“MindsBetweenD”邀请入群。 感谢您的收听，记得要成为更好的自己啊！ 在小宇宙查看该单集文稿
- MBApril 17 · 21 min
31.英文播客: 为什么有的人宁可自己难受也不要麻烦别人？你自己真的可以吗？
【内容简介】 为什么有的人宁可自己难受也不要麻烦别人！你是独立还是只是不敢依赖别人呢？上次别人完全支持你的时候是什么时候？今天我们就来聊一聊这个话题： People avoid asking for help primarily due to deep-seated fears of being perceived as incompetent, weak, or a burden to others. Rooted in past negative experiences, childhood programming, or trauma, many develop a "hyperindependent" coping mechanism, associating needing help with rejection or disappointment. Others overestimate the likelihood of refusal, failing to realize people are often willing to help. 【入群邀请】 欢迎加入群聊，直接获取本期播客文本和单词本！本邀请码到4月25日有效，如过期请添加豆哥“MindsBetweenD”邀请入群。 感谢您的收听，希望我们的播客带来你明媚的一天！ 在小宇宙查看该单集文稿
- MBApril 12 · 20 min
30.英文播客:为什么有人从不发朋友圈Why Some People Never Post Anything
【内容简介】 为什么有的人从不发朋友圈？他们在想什么？心理学上又是如何解释的？Why Some People Never Post on Social Media? People who never post on social media often prioritize privacy, self-protection, and authentic, in-the-moment experiences over digital validation. They often possess high self-concept clarity, meaning they know their worth without needing external approval (likes/comments). Other factors include a desire for boundary clarity, avoidance of performance anxiety, and the protection of their personal space from judgment. 【入群邀请】 欢迎加入群聊，直接获取本期播客文本和单词本！本邀请码到4月20日有效，如过期请添加豆哥“MindsBetweenD”邀请入群。 感谢您的收听，咱们下期新西兰继续再见！ 在小宇宙查看该单集文稿
- MBApril 6 · 21 min
29.英文播客: 来回拉扯的爱情让你累了吗？混乱型依恋Disorganized Attachment
内容简介 有一种人，对爱既期待又不信任，会突然变冷疏远，然后又突然的爱得浓烈，甚至又会“破坏”关系，他们怎么了？今天我们来聊一聊第四种情感依恋：混乱型依恋Disorganized or Fearful-Avoidant Attachment。 Disorganized attachment is a complex emotional pattern often rooted in childhood trauma, where a caregiver—who should be a source of safety—becomes a primary source of fear. In adult relationships, this often creates a "push-pull" dynamic where individuals simultaneously crave deep intimacy and feel viscerally terrified of it, leading to unpredictable behaviors and profound difficulty trusting others. Despite the challenges of this attachment style, it is possible to heal and build secure bonds through professional therapy, self-compassion, and learning effective self-soothing strategies. 【入群邀请】 本群到26年4月13日有效，如过期，请直接添加豆哥【MindsBetweenD】入群。群内分享本期播客的全部文本以及单词本：） 感谢您的收听，咱们下期新西兰继续再见：） 在小宇宙查看该单集文稿
- MBMarch 29 · 21 min
28.英文播客:爱得最用力的人，为什么最不被珍惜？Anxious Attachment
【内容简介】 渴望亲密关系，却又怕被伤害，对伴侣高度敏感但依赖，需要不断确认ta爱我？今天我们来聊一聊焦虑型依恋（Anxious Attachment）。 Anxious attachment is an insecure relationship style, typically formed within the first 18 months of life, that stems from inconsistent or unpredictable caregiving where a child's emotional needs were not dependably met. In adulthood, this style is characterized by a strong fear of rejection or abandonment, low self-esteem, and a heightened need for constant reassurance and emotional closeness from partners. Although these patterns can cause significant relationship stress, individuals can shift toward a secure attachment style by developing self-awareness, learning to self-soothe, and engaging in therapy to resolve early childhood blueprints. 注意：焦虑型依恋不是生病，而是一种情感处理模式。如果内心痛苦不堪，寻求专业心理咨询是有效的方法！ 【入群邀请】 Minds Between 已经设立听友群，如需入群，请直接添加豆哥微信“MindsBetweenD”，群里会直接更新全部文本和词汇本和如何参与新西兰分享会！如果您已经在小🍠群，也可以移步豆哥微信进群。 再次感谢收听本期 Minds Between！来自新西兰的秋天🍂送给你！ 在小宇宙查看该单集文稿
- MBMarch 21 · 23 min
27.英文播客：亲密关系中的“隐形天花板” 是什么？Nurturing Secure Attachment
【内容简介】 被稳定地爱着，是会上瘾的，而健康关系的底层逻辑又是什么？不粘人、不冷漠的人，到底是怎么谈恋爱的？孩童时期的所见所闻是如何塑造我们对爱的观念？今天我们来聊亲密关系中的“隐形天花板”：安全性依恋！ Secure attachment is the fundamental foundation for healthy relationships, rooted in a deep sense of trust, emotional connection, and safety established through responsive caregiving. Individuals with this style exhibit strong emotional regulation, the ability to communicate needs effectively, and a comfortable balance between intimacy and independence. While influenced by early life, these patterns are not fixed and can be actively developed in adulthood through self-reflection, therapy, and engaging in secure, supportive relationships. 【入群邀请】 Minds Between 已经设立听友群，如需入群，请直接添加豆哥微信“MindsBetweenD”，群里会直接更新全部文本和词汇本和如何参与新西兰分享会！如果您已经在小🍠群，也可以移步豆哥微信进群。 再次感谢收听本期 Minds Between！来自新西兰的秋天🍂送给你！ 在小宇宙查看该单集文稿
- MBMarch 14 · 17 min
26.英文播客:回避性依恋人格到底在回避什么？What's Avoidant Attachment?
【内容简介】 你有没有遇到过这样的人：一旦关系变得更亲密，他就开始后退、变冷，甚至突然消失。这期我们聊聊一种在亲密关系里最让人困惑的模式：回避型依恋. Avoidant attachment is an insecure attachment style characterized by a strong discomfort with emotional intimacy and a high need for independence. In adulthood, this style often manifests as extreme self-reliance and high achievement, yet individuals frequently struggle to form deep connections and may withdraw or distance themselves as soon as a relationship becomes emotionally intense. While these patterns can be deeply ingrained, it is possible to heal and develop a more secure attachment style through self-awareness, consistent effort, and professional support. 他们不是不需要爱，而是太害怕靠近。 【入群邀请】 Minds Between 刚刚设立听友群，如需入群，请直接添加豆哥微信“MindsBetweenD”，群里会直接更新内容提醒，福利派发，以及如何参与新西兰分享会！如果您已经在小🍠群，也可以移步豆哥微信进群。 再次感谢收听本期 Minds Between！来自新西兰的蓝天送给你！ 在小宇宙查看该单集文稿
- MBMarch 6 · 17 min
25.英文播客: 鲶鱼效应是什么？Best Practices for Leveraging it？
【内容简介】 是不是听说过“鲶鱼效应”？到底什么是“鲶鱼效应”？对于大学生或者刚入职场的小白来说如何理解“鲶鱼效应”？The Catfish Effect refers to a phenomenon where the introduction of a strong competitor or challenging stimulus into a stable environment motivates others to improve their performance and remain active. This effect works by disrupting the status quo and creating a sense of urgency, which encourages individuals and organizations to innovate and adapt rather than becoming complacent or sedentary. While widely used in organizational management to boost productivity, it requires careful implementation to ensure that the resulting competition remains healthy and does not lead to excessive stress or negative conflict. 【入群邀请】 Minds Between 从本期开始设立听友群，如需入群，请直接添加豆哥微信“MindsBetweenD”，群里会直接更新内容提醒，福利派发，以及如何参与新西兰分享会！ 如果您已经在小🍠群，也可以移步豆哥微信进群。 再次感谢收听本期 Minds Between！来自新西兰的海风送给你！ 在小宇宙查看该单集文稿
- MBFebruary 21 · 18 min
24.英文播客：当我不再执着于成为他人，慢下来，成为自己...
当我学会慢下来，when You Stop Rushing to Become Someone Else： Habitually rushing and pushing through daily tasks creates a constant state of stress and exhaustion that can eventually lead to burnout or other health challenges. To break this cycle, individuals should develop awareness of their rushing habits, consciously dial back their pace, and prioritize being present over ineffective multitasking. By intentionally slowing down, people can become more effective in their work and ensure they do not miss the most meaningful moments of their lives. 感谢收听本期《Minds Between》，如需找到我们，请🍠搜索《南半球唠嗑局》豆姐豆哥很开心的可以分享本期文本和词汇学习手册！ 在小宇宙查看该单集文稿
- MBFebruary 15 · 16 min
23.英播: 不想回家过节，我有问题吗?
有同学私信我们说自己因为过年没法回家产生了焦虑，想知道Is It Okay to Not Go Home for the Holidays? Some holiday seasons often bring intense emotional tension and the pressure to conform to dysfunctional family roles, leading many to feel drained or forced to suppress their authentic selves. Offering a "reprieve" from these stressors and an opportunity to reclaim personal time by building bonds with a "chosen family". Ultimately, choosing not to go home is presented as a sign of emotional maturity and a healthy boundary that allows individuals to prioritize their personal wellbeing and create peaceful new traditions. 感谢收听！祝福大家春节快乐！无论你在哪里都要幸福！ 在小宇宙查看该单集文稿
- MBJanuary 29 · 17 min
22.英播：你也想要真正的感同身受吧 - 如何共情emotional attunement
源哥说：世界上没有真正的感同深受，但是我真心的推荐他可以了解下emotional attunement - 如何做到共情，共情的好处有哪些呢？ Emotional attunement is the essential practice of noticing, empathizing with, and validating the feelings and emotional needs of others, which allows you to approach challenges as a unified team rather than falling into cycles of blame. To effectively practice this, you can first develop critical self-awareness to identify their own internal states. Beyond merely addressing logistics or providing immediate solutions, attunement utilizes tools like open-ended questions to create a healing "glue" that strengthens intimate bonds and can even repair the long-term effects of childhood emotional neglect. 感谢收听本期《Minds Between》，可以在🍠上关注《南半球唠嗑局》进群获得本期的全部文本以及词汇学习资料！咱们下期聊聊跟春节相关的一些有用心理学小知识！ 在小宇宙查看该单集文稿
- MBJanuary 22 · 15 min
21.英文播客：小小的改变，如何慢慢改变一生？
How Small Changes Quietly Change Your Life？What is Compound Effect? The compound effect is the fundamental principle that small, consistent daily habits and micro-decisions, though seemingly insignificant in the moment, multiply like compound interest to create extraordinary success over time. Achieving these results requires a shift toward 100% personal responsibility and a focus on consistency over intensity, prioritizing long-term value creation over the lure of instant gratification. By leveraging the science of habit loops and building sustainable momentum through tiny 1% daily improvements, individuals can rewire their brains to make high-impact behaviors automatic and life-changing. 感谢收听本期《Minds Between》，记得在🍠上找到《南半球唠嗑局》就可以获得本期的词汇宝典哟！ 在小宇宙查看该单集文稿
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January 15 · 14 min20.英文播客: 什么样的关系会让人变的更好？Secure Attachment
What Is Secure Attachment and How Does It Impact Your Life？ Secure attachment is a relationship foundation built on trust, emotional safety, and a healthy balance between intimacy and independence. Developing this style enhances personal well-being by improving emotional regulation, self-esteem, and resilience while fostering stable, satisfying connections in both personal and professional life. Although rooted in early childhood experiences, adults can nurture secure attachment through self-awareness, effective communication, mindfulness, and professional support like therapy. 感谢收听本期《Minds Between》，如需要本期词汇宝典请在🍠加群《南半球唠嗑局》！咱们下期再见！ 在小宇宙查看该单集文稿
- MBJanuary 8 · 14 min
19.英文播客: 真正让人幸福的，到底是什么？What Actually Makes Us Happy?
幸福感真的来自拥有更多吗？ 金钱、比较、焦虑，当代年轻人几乎天天面临的问题，我们如何看待这些问题，如何处理金钱和幸福的关系？ We spend so much time chasing happiness — more success, more money, more approval. But what if happiness isn’t something we add to our lives, but something we stop chasing the wrong way? In this episode, we explore what actually makes us happy — and what quietly takes that away. 感谢收听本期《Minds Between》，祝各位新年快乐，每天都快乐！如需要词汇学习资料，请在🍠联系《南半球唠嗑局》进群，希望2026的你越来越棒！ 在小宇宙查看该单集文稿