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Avik Chakraborty

Let’s stop asking men to ”man up” and start asking how we can lift them up. After all, mental health is not just a women’s issue or a men’s issue—it’s a human issue.Take the first step today. Talk, listen, and advocate. Together, we can make a difference.

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  • Tuesday · 26 min

    Founder’s Health as a Business Asset: Grief, Vulnerability and Healing with Mike Murphy

    We call it grit, hustle, “handling it.” For many men who build things, it is also a way of never putting themselves on their own list. On Mind Over Masculinity, host Sana talks with founder and author Mike Murphy about what finally changed that for him. Mike shares how losing his wife Margot broke him open and taught him vulnerability, why he turned grief into giving, and why loving yourself is the start of changing your life. About the Guest: Mike Murphy spent decades building and running car dealerships before founding Mountains of Hope, a healing center near Medellín, Colombia. He is the author of Love Unfiltered and The Creation Frequency. Key Takeaways: Powering through can become a way of never caring for yourself. Grief can break down defenses and make room for real vulnerability. Turning pain into service can give loss a new meaning. You can’t help everyone, but you can make a difference for one. Look inward honestly, accept who you are, then love who you are. You are not a victim; change what you think, do and feel. Connect With Mike Murphy: Website: https://mikemurphyunfiltered.com Mountains of Hope: https://mountainsofhope.com Books: Love Unfiltered and The Creation Frequency Episode Chapters (approx.): [00:00] Welcome to Mind Over Masculinity: when “handling it” means never putting yourself first [02:00] Mike’s Story: a hard childhood, a turning point at 25 and decades in business [04:00] Love, Loss and Margot: the relationship that changed everything [09:00] From Grief to Giving: the Love for Margot Foundation and Mountains of Hope [13:00] Learning to Be Vulnerable: what Margot tried to teach him [18:00] The Starfish Story: making a difference one person at a time [22:00] A Message for the Man Who Says “I’m Fine”: go inward and love yourself 🎙️ Want to Be a Guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? Send me a direct message on PodMatch. 👉 DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik 🌱 About Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Global Mental Wellness Podcast Network - focused, credible, no more identity clutter. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Refer a Guest Know someone who would be a great fit for one of our podcast shows? Email us at services@podhealth.club with the subject line “Refer a Guest.” Requests without this subject line cannot be catered to. Support Our Podcast: Support this Podcast 📬 Contact & Links Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Contact Us Based in: India & USA 🎧 All Podcast Shows 🤝 Be a Guest 📩 Newsletter Substack 👉 Join the LinkedIn Community 📌 Disclaimer - This episode is produced for educational and informational purposes only. All views expressed by the guest are their personal opinions alone and do not represent the views of the host or Healthy Mind by Avik™. The Network does not verify, endorse, or assume responsibility for any guest statements. Nothing in this episode constitutes medical, legal, financial, or professional advice, please consult a qualified professional before making any decisions. Listeners are encouraged to engage critically and independently with all content do not consume blindly. Use this content as a starting point for your own reflection and research, not as a substitute for professional guidance. Third-party content is referenced under fair use for informational purposes only. Guest speakers are solely responsible for their own statements. If you have concerns about any content, please contact us here By listening, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer in full. Read detailed disclaimer here. #podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #mindovermasculinity #foundershealth #mensmentalhealth #griefandloss #vulnerabilityisstrength #selflove #entrepreneurwellness #burnout #givingback #healthymasculinity #leadwithheart #healingjourney

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  • Tuesday · 36 min

    Redefining Strength Beyond Stoicism: Resilience at 80 with Rand Timmerman

    Many men are raised to keep it together, say little and carry everything alone. On Mind Over Masculinity, host Swati talks with 80-year-old author, veteran and retired attorney Rand Timmerman about what strength has meant across his life. Rand reflects on being told to bury his war experiences, learning from his daughter to listen instead of fix, his long-term recovery, and why he believes resilience means never giving up, just changing how you keep going. About the Guest: Rand Timmerman is a Marine Corps Vietnam veteran, retired attorney and author based in Syracuse, New York. In his early seventies he hiked the Appalachian Trail with his brother, which inspired his memoir A Spiritual Passage. Key Takeaways: Strength and boldness are human traits, not just male ones. Being told to “never talk about it” teaches men to bury what hurts. Sometimes the people we love need us to listen, not fix. Share wisdom through stories so others can take it or leave it. Resilience means adapting how you do things, not giving up. Helping others is one of the surest paths to joy and purpose. Connect With Rand Timmerman: Website: https://www.randtimmerman.com Books: search “A Spiritual Passage” or “Syracuse Hitman v. The Shoe Repairman” by Rand Timmerman Episode Chapters (approx.): [00:00] Welcome to Mind Over Masculinity: when “keeping it together” stops working [01:30] Meet Rand Timmerman: 80 years, the Appalachian Trail and a farming village upbringing [05:00] “Don’t Ever Talk About It”: coming home from war and burying the hard stuff [10:00] Strong Women, Strong Men: what Rand saw in his family growing up [17:00] Protecting vs Controlling: “Dad, I just want to vent” [22:00] Teaching by Example: daily routines, losing his sight and learning to cope [27:00] Failing Forward and Finding Joy: why helping others keeps us going 🎙️ Want to Be a Guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? Send me a direct message on PodMatch. 👉 DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik 🌱 About Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Global Mental Wellness Podcast Network - focused, credible, no more identity clutter. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Refer a Guest Know someone who would be a great fit for one of our podcast shows? Email us at services@podhealth.club with the subject line “Refer a Guest.” Requests without this subject line cannot be catered to. Support Our Podcast: Support this Podcast 📬 Contact & Links Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Contact Us Based in: India & USA 🎧 All Podcast Shows 🤝 Be a Guest 📩 Newsletter Substack 👉 Join the LinkedIn Community 📌 Disclaimer - This episode is produced for educational and informational purposes only. All views expressed by the guest are their personal opinions alone and do not represent the views of the host or Healthy Mind by Avik™. The Network does not verify, endorse, or assume responsibility for any guest statements. Nothing in this episode constitutes medical, legal, financial, or professional advice, please consult a qualified professional before making any decisions. Listeners are encouraged to engage critically and independently with all content do not consume blindly. Use this content as a starting point for your own reflection and research, not as a substitute for professional guidance. Third-party content is referenced under fair use for informational purposes only. Guest speakers are solely responsible for their own statements. If you have concerns about any content, please contact us here By listening, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer in full. Read detailed disclaimer here. #podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #mindovermasculinity #redefiningstrength #mensmentalhealth #resilience #veteranstories #recoveryispossible #fatherhood #grandfatherwisdom #appalachiantrail #healthymasculinity #neverquit #healingjourney

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  • October 17 · 40 min

    Why Men Hide Their Emotions: Redefining Masculine Strength | Moshe Klein

    Why do so many men struggle to talk about their emotions, even with the people they love most? From childhood, many men receive messages telling them to be strong, hide their fears, and handle problems alone. Over time, those expectations can make vulnerability feel dangerous, leaving men disconnected from their feelings and reluctant to ask for help. In this episode of Mind Over Masculinity, host Swati welcomes Moshe Klein, an emotional coach who describes more than 16 years of experience supporting people with anxiety, emotional distress, and relationship challenges. Together, they explore the emotional pressures men experience, why masculinity is often confused with emotional suppression, and how shame can make it harder to express fear, sadness, loneliness, and insecurity. Moshe shares his approach to emotional awareness, explaining why he encourages people to recognize and experience their feelings without automatically acting on them or trying to push them away. The conversation explores the difference between having an emotion and allowing that emotion to define your identity. Moshe discusses how greater self-acceptance may help people respond to difficult feelings with less judgment. Swati and Moshe also examine why men sometimes feel emotionally isolated even when surrounded by family and friends. They discuss the importance of trust, respect, nonjudgmental listening, and creating relationships where men feel comfortable opening up. Drawing on his coaching experiences and personal spiritual beliefs, Moshe offers perspectives on masculine identity, emotional connection, and the role of self-awareness in building healthier relationships. The episode also offers practical guidance for partners, friends, and family members who want to support men without making them feel ashamed of their struggles. If you've ever felt pressure to appear strong while struggling internally, this conversation is a reminder that experiencing emotions and asking for support are compatible with strength. About the Guest: Moshe Klein: Moshe Klein is an emotional coach who describes working in emotional wellbeing for approximately 16–17 years. His work focuses on helping people develop a greater sense of emotional safety and self-acceptance. In the episode, he discusses his experience supporting individuals with anxiety, depression-related concerns, relationship difficulties, and emotional challenges. He also describes experience with energy healing, although he says coaching is now his primary focus. His approach emphasizes recognizing feelings, reducing self-judgment, and creating emotionally safe relationships. Guest website: Safe in Yourself Guest email: info@safeinyourself.com Key Takeaways: Emotional suppression is not the same as strength. Men may learn to hide their feelings because they fear appearing weak. Shame can make vulnerability harder. Expectations about how men should behave may create additional emotional pressure. Recognizing feelings is a useful starting point. Moshe encourages people to notice emotions rather than immediately fighting or avoiding them. Feelings don't have to dictate behavior. Experiencing anger, fear, or sadness does not mean someone must act on those feelings. Loneliness can exist within relationships. Men may feel isolated when they struggle to communicate their emotional experiences. Nonjudgmental listening can encourage openness. Respect, patience, and acceptance can help make difficult conversations feel safer. Self-acceptance supports healthier communication. Moshe connects greater awareness of one's own emotions with a greater capacity to understand others. Asking for help is a meaningful action. Men deserve emotional support rather than being expected to manage every difficulty alone. Guest Links and Resources The guest directs listeners to Safe in Yourself for information about his work and coaching services. Website: safeinyourself.com Email: info@safeinyourself.com Chapters: Why Men Feel Pressure to Hide Their Emotions Meet Emotional Coach Moshe Klein Masculinity, Shame and Emotional Expectations Understanding Anger, Fear and Sadness Learning to Experience Emotions Without Suppressing Them Why Men Can Feel Lonely in Relationships Emotional Safety and Self-Acceptance Fight, Flight, Freeze and Emotional Avoidance How Men Can Begin Asking for Help Creating Safe Spaces for Honest Conversations Why Listening Without Judgment Matters Where to Connect With Moshe Klein Final Thoughts on Real Masculine Strength 🎙️ Want to Be a Guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? Send me a direct message on PodMatch. 👉 DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik 🌱 About Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Global Mental Wellness Podcast Network - focused, credible, no more identity clutter. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Refer a Guest Know someone who would be a great fit for one of our podcast shows? Email us at services@podhealth.club with the subject line “Refer a Guest.” Requests without this subject line cannot be catered to. Support Our Podcast: Support this Podcast 📬 Contact & Links Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Contact Us Based in: India & USA 🎧 All Podcast Shows 🤝 Be a Guest 📩 Newsletter Substack 👉 Join the LinkedIn Community 📌 Disclaimer - This episode is produced for educational and informational purposes only. All views expressed by the guest are their personal opinions alone and do not represent the views of the host or Healthy Mind by Avik™. The Network does not verify, endorse, or assume responsibility for any guest statements. Nothing in this episode constitutes medical, legal, financial, or professional advice, please consult a qualified professional before making any decisions. Listeners are encouraged to engage critically and independently with all content do not consume blindly. Use this content as a starting point for your own reflection and research, not as a substitute for professional guidance. Third-party content is referenced under fair use for informational purposes only. Guest speakers are solely responsible for their own statements. If you have concerns about any content, please contact us here By listening, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer in full. Read detailed disclaimer here. #MensMentalHealth #Masculinity #HealthyMasculinity #MenAndEmotions #MaleVulnerability #EmotionalIntelligence #MensMentalHealthAwareness #EmotionalWellbeing #MentalHealthMatters #SelfAcceptance #EmotionalResilience #MensLoneliness #MosheKlein #MindOverMasculinity #HealthyMindByAvik #Podhub

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  • October 15 · 30 min

    Redefining Masculinity: Why Real Strength Means Embracing Emotions | Steve McGough

    What if the strength men have been taught to demonstrate is actually preventing them from experiencing genuine connection? From childhood, many men learn to stay strong, hide their emotions, remain in control, and handle life's challenges alone. But what happens when emotional suppression becomes a barrier to healthier relationships, self-awareness, and personal growth? In this episode of Mind Over Masculinity, host Swati welcomes Steve McGough, a researcher, entrepreneur, and educator whose unconventional journey has taken him from biochemistry and neuroscience to technology, human relationships, and sexology. Steve shares his deeply personal story of navigating family tragedy, supporting his wife through a prolonged medical crisis, and making difficult professional decisions that challenged conventional expectations of success and masculinity. Together, Swati and Steve explore why men often confuse emotional suppression with strength, how social expectations influence masculine identity, and why learning to regulate emotions can create more meaningful connections. The conversation also examines how chronic stress affects communication, why men sometimes struggle to receive care and affection, and how simple relaxation practices can help create space for emotional openness. Because real strength isn't about never struggling. It's about learning how to respond to struggle without losing connection with yourself or others. About the Guest: Steve McGough: Steve McGough has a multidisciplinary background spanning biochemistry, neuroscience research, technology entrepreneurship, and sexology. After founding and growing a technology business, Steve's life changed dramatically following the loss of his infant son and his wife's serious medical complications. Those experiences led him toward developing a therapeutic massage device and exploring human physiology, intimate wellbeing, and relationships. His work now includes consumer wellness technology, education, and helping couples explore communication, relaxation, and physical connection. In this episode, Steve draws on both professional experience and personal reflection to challenge traditional assumptions about masculinity and emotional resilience. Key Takeaways: Emotional suppression isn't the same as emotional strength. Men can experience difficult emotions while still choosing how to respond. Peer pressure shapes masculine identity. Social expectations often encourage men to prioritize how others perceive them over understanding themselves. Stress influences relationships. Remaining in a heightened state of tension can make ordinary conversations feel confrontational. Vulnerability supports connection. Allowing a partner to witness emotional experiences can create opportunities for deeper understanding. Receiving care matters. Men may become so accustomed to providing support that accepting affection or comfort feels unfamiliar. Physical relaxation can support emotional regulation. Steve discusses breathing and relaxation as starting points for reducing everyday tension. Strength can evolve. Redefining masculinity doesn't require abandoning courage or responsibility. It can mean expanding those qualities to include emotional awareness and openness. Connect With Steve McGough: Website: HiMassager.com Steve also mentions free Tuesday evening training sessions at 8:00 PM US Eastern Time, accessible through his website. Check the site for current scheduling and participation details. Chapters: Introduction: Redefining Strength Beyond Stereotypes Steve McGough's Personal and Professional Journey Grief, Family, and a Life-Changing Career Decision The Biggest Misconception About Masculinity Emotional Suppression Versus Emotional Regulation Why Men Feel Pressure to Appear Strong How Stress Affects Relationships and Communication Why Men Struggle to Receive Emotional Care Breathing, Relaxation, and Healthier Responses Final Reflections and Connecting With Steve 🎙️ Want to Be a Guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? Send me a direct message on PodMatch. 👉 DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik 🌱 About Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Global Mental Wellness Podcast Network - focused, credible, no more identity clutter. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Refer a Guest Know someone who would be a great fit for one of our podcast shows? Email us at services@podhealth.club with the subject line “Refer a Guest.” Requests without this subject line cannot be catered to. Support Our Podcast: Support this Podcast 📬 Contact & Links Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Contact Us Based in: India & USA 🎧 All Podcast Shows 🤝 Be a Guest 📩 Newsletter Substack 👉 Join the LinkedIn Community 📌 Disclaimer - This episode is produced for educational and informational purposes only. All views expressed by the guest are their personal opinions alone and do not represent the views of the host or Healthy Mind by Avik™. The Network does not verify, endorse, or assume responsibility for any guest statements. Nothing in this episode constitutes medical, legal, financial, or professional advice, please consult a qualified professional before making any decisions. Listeners are encouraged to engage critically and independently with all content do not consume blindly. Use this content as a starting point for your own reflection and research, not as a substitute for professional guidance. Third-party content is referenced under fair use for informational purposes only. Guest speakers are solely responsible for their own statements. If you have concerns about any content, please contact us here By listening, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer in full. Read detailed disclaimer here. #MindOverMasculinity #MensMentalHealth #RedefiningMasculinity #HealthyMasculinity #EmotionalStrength #MensWellbeing #EmotionalResilience #MaleVulnerability #MentalHealthAwareness #EmotionalIntelligence #HealthyRelationships #SteveMcGough #HealthyMindByAvik #Podhub

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  • October 15 · 27 min

    Men’s Mental Health Beyond “I’m Fine”: Expanding Emotional Range with Jaron Vesely

    “I’m fine.” Two words that end so many conversations between men. On Mind Over Masculinity, host Sana talks with therapist Jaron Vesely about what those words hide, and what it costs when strength is never allowed to ask for help. Jaron explains why crying is as natural as breathing, how men can tell which stories are theirs and which they’ve inherited, and why expanding emotional range gives men more choices and less reactive behavior. About the Guest: Jaron Vesely is a therapist and writer based in Oakland, California, who focuses on working with men. Before becoming a therapist, he spent years as an executive coach helping leaders with performance, relationships and change. Key Takeaways: Unprocessed emotion builds up like debt when it is never talked about. Crying is natural; seeing it as weakness is a learned response. Ask which beliefs about manhood are yours and which you inherited. Toxic behavior often grows from hurt that has never been healed. Feeling every emotion means playing life with a full deck of cards. Change is possible at any age, starting with a little curiosity. Connect With Jaron Vesely: Website: https://www.innerarchitecturetherapy.com Psychology Today blog, Inner Architecture: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/inner-architecture Episode Chapters (approx.): [00:00] Welcome to Mind Over Masculinity: the conversation-ending “I’m fine” [02:30] From Executive Coach to Therapist: when “not therapy” turns into trauma [07:00] Why Men Don’t Cry: the myth of ruggedness and the need for comfort [10:00] Where Gender Roles Came From: industrialization and inherited stories [14:00] Toxicity Has No Gender: finding the hurt beneath the harm [18:00] Playing With a Full Deck: expanding emotional range in therapy [22:00] Change at Any Age: older generations, identity and finding your people 🎙️ Want to Be a Guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? Send me a direct message on PodMatch. 👉 DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik 🌱 About Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Global Mental Wellness Podcast Network - focused, credible, no more identity clutter. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Refer a Guest Know someone who would be a great fit for one of our podcast shows? Email us at services@podhealth.club with the subject line “Refer a Guest.” Requests without this subject line cannot be catered to. Support Our Podcast: Support this Podcast 📬 Contact & Links Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Contact Us Based in: India & USA 🎧 All Podcast Shows 🤝 Be a Guest 📩 Newsletter Substack 👉 Join the LinkedIn Community 📌 Disclaimer - This episode is produced for educational and informational purposes only. All views expressed by the guest are their personal opinions alone and do not represent the views of the host or Healthy Mind by Avik™. The Network does not verify, endorse, or assume responsibility for any guest statements. Nothing in this episode constitutes medical, legal, financial, or professional advice, please consult a qualified professional before making any decisions. Listeners are encouraged to engage critically and independently with all content do not consume blindly. Use this content as a starting point for your own reflection and research, not as a substitute for professional guidance. Third-party content is referenced under fair use for informational purposes only. Guest speakers are solely responsible for their own statements. If you have concerns about any content, please contact us here By listening, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer in full. Read detailed disclaimer here. #podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #mindovermasculinity #mensmentalhealth #itsoktocry #healthymasculinity #emotionalintelligence #generationaltrauma #therapyformen #menwhotalk #emotionalhealing #breakthestigma #redefiningmasculinity #healingjourney

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  • October 15 · 21 min

    Emotional Strength for Men: Why Feelings Aren’t Weakness with Frank Healy

    Many men grow up believing strength means carrying everything alone and keeping feelings locked away. On Mind Over Masculinity, host Swati and counselor and author Frank Healy look at what that belief really costs. Frank shares how pushing down his own emotions at 19 left life feeling dull and robotic, and why asking for help, opening up in small steps and letting go of perfection make a man fuller, not weaker. About the Guest: Frank Healy is a counselor and author of more than 20 books, including Heal Your Memories, Change Your Life. He works with clients on changing the thoughts and beliefs that shape how they feel. Key Takeaways: Push down the painful feelings and you numb the good ones too. Anger often covers fear or vulnerability underneath. Showing emotion can be a sign of strength, not weakness. Start small: share one simple feeling with someone you trust. Share the good moments too, not only the hard ones. Mistakes belong in the classroom, not the courtroom. Connect With Frank Healy Website: https://www.healyshealing.com Books: https://books.bookfunnel.com/healyshealing Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Memoryhealing YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/MrMemorycoach Episode Chapters (approx.): [00:00] Welcome to Mind Over Masculinity: when carrying it all alone stops working [01:30] Asking for Help Is Strength: coaching, colleagues and support [03:00] When Feelings Go Numb: Frank’s robotic years at 19 [05:00] What Being a Man Really Means: protective, not controlling [08:00] Everyday Signs: acting tough without even knowing it [11:00] Flipping the Script: emotion as a sign of strength [14:00] Small Steps and Setbacks: safe people, balance and self-forgiveness 🎙️ Want to Be a Guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? Send me a direct message on PodMatch. 👉 DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik 🌱 About Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Global Mental Wellness Podcast Network - focused, credible, no more identity clutter. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Refer a Guest Know someone who would be a great fit for one of our podcast shows? Email us at services@podhealth.club with the subject line “Refer a Guest.” Requests without this subject line cannot be catered to. Support Our Podcast: Support this Podcast 📬 Contact & Links Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Contact Us Based in: India & USA 🎧 All Podcast Shows 🤝 Be a Guest 📩 Newsletter Substack 👉 Join the LinkedIn Community 📌 Disclaimer - This episode is produced for educational and informational purposes only. All views expressed by the guest are their personal opinions alone and do not represent the views of the host or Healthy Mind by Avik™. The Network does not verify, endorse, or assume responsibility for any guest statements. Nothing in this episode constitutes medical, legal, financial, or professional advice, please consult a qualified professional before making any decisions. Listeners are encouraged to engage critically and independently with all content do not consume blindly. Use this content as a starting point for your own reflection and research, not as a substitute for professional guidance. Third-party content is referenced under fair use for informational purposes only. Guest speakers are solely responsible for their own statements. If you have concerns about any content, please contact us here By listening, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer in full. Read detailed disclaimer here. #podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #mindovermasculinity #emotionalstrength #mensmentalhealth #healthymasculinity #redefiningstrength #emotionalintelligence #askforhelp #menwhotalk #selfcompassion #vulnerabilityisstrength #breakthestigma #healingjourney

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  • October 14 · 27 min

    Redefining Male Strength After 40: Putting Yourself First with Keith Ross

    Many men are taught that strength means putting themselves last and suffering in silence. On Mind Over Masculinity, host Swati talks with health coach Keith Ross about what that belief quietly costs, in the body and the mind. Keith shares his own story of struggling silently through his late forties, and how small weekly habit changes, better food choices and regular strength training helped him rebuild his energy, his health and his relationships. About the Guest: Keith Ross is a health coach from Ontario, Canada, who works with men over 40. After years of quietly struggling with his own health, he now helps men make small, steady habit changes that support long-term health. Key Takeaways: Putting yourself first lets you show up fully for others. Suffering in silence is a learned script, not strength. Constant stress plus poor habits wears down body and mind. Regular strength training can be a healthy release. Change one small habit each week. Make yourself your own project. Connect With Keith Ross: Website: https://positivechangehealth.net Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachkeithross Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Coach-Keith-Ross/61584511266320/ Episode Chapters (approx.): [00:00] Welcome to Mind Over Masculinity: questioning the strength we were taught [02:00] Men Always Put Themselves Last: the hidden cost of self-sacrifice [06:00] Suffering in Silence: Keith’s own story of struggling without telling anyone [11:00] Everyday Signs of Pressure: modern stress and the toll on the body [16:00] The Need to Move: why physical activity helps men release stress [19:00] Where to Begin: food, habits and small practical shifts [23:00] Becoming Your Own Project: staying the course when old patterns return 🎙️ Want to Be a Guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? Send me a direct message on PodMatch. 👉 DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik 🌱 About Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Global Mental Wellness Podcast Network - focused, credible, no more identity clutter. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Refer a Guest Know someone who would be a great fit for one of our podcast shows? Email us at services@podhealth.club with the subject line “Refer a Guest.” Requests without this subject line cannot be catered to. Support Our Podcast: Support this Podcast 📬 Contact & Links Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Contact Us Based in: India & USA 🎧 All Podcast Shows 🤝 Be a Guest 📩 Newsletter Substack 👉 Join the LinkedIn Community 📌 Disclaimer - This episode is produced for educational and informational purposes only. All views expressed by the guest are their personal opinions alone and do not represent the views of the host or Healthy Mind by Avik™. The Network does not verify, endorse, or assume responsibility for any guest statements. Nothing in this episode constitutes medical, legal, financial, or professional advice, please consult a qualified professional before making any decisions. Listeners are encouraged to engage critically and independently with all content do not consume blindly. Use this content as a starting point for your own reflection and research, not as a substitute for professional guidance. Third-party content is referenced under fair use for informational purposes only. Guest speakers are solely responsible for their own statements. If you have concerns about any content, please contact us here By listening, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer in full. Read detailed disclaimer here. #podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #mindovermasculinity #menshealth #menover40 #mentalhealthformen #redefiningstrength #healthymasculinity #strengthtraining #healthyhabits #selfcare #menshealthmatters #midlifehealth #breakthestigma

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  • October 12 · 43 min

    Redefining Male Strength: Intimacy, Presence and Sexual Confidence with Eyal Matsliah

    What if the armour you wear to feel strong is the very thing keeping you from real connection? On Mind Over Masculinity, host Swati sits with Eyal Matsliah of Intimate Power for an honest conversation about masculinity, intimacy and the pressure to perform. Eyal shares why the problem is not masculinity itself, how men can express emotion without blame, and a practical five-step approach to lasting longer through presence rather than performance. About the Guest: Eyal Matsliah, known as Eyal from Intimate Power, is a sexuality coach who has studied tantra since 2005. He works with men and women and is the author of Orgasm Unleashed: Your Guide to Pleasure, Healing and Power. Key Takeaways: Masculinity is not the problem. Men need community, accountability and support. Find friends or a men’s group where you can be soft without being judged. Learn to express feelings and needs without blame. Nonviolent Communication can help. For ejaculation control, Eyal’s five steps are Why, Feel, Pause, Move and Transform. Slow down. Presence and sensation build deeper intimacy than performance ever will. Connect With the Guest: Website: https://intimatepower.com Ejaculation Control program (free): https://learn.intimatepower.com/ecp-free-optin Coaching: https://intimatepower.com/coaching/ Episode Chapters (approx.): [00:00] The Armour We Wear: opening reflection on strength and connection [02:00] Meet Eyal from Intimate Power: no expert has mastered everything [04:00] Masculinity Is Not the Problem: initiation, community and accountability [07:00] Beyond Blame: making peace with the masculine and feminine within [12:00] Performance Pressure: unrealistic media and the emotional side of intimacy [17:00] Why, Feel, Pause, Move, Transform: a five-step path to lasting longer [27:00] One Practice to Begin: slow, gentle presence in your own body 🎙️ Want to Be a Guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? Send me a direct message on PodMatch. 👉 DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik 🌱 About Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Global Mental Wellness Podcast Network - focused, credible, no more identity clutter. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Refer a Guest Know someone who would be a great fit for one of our podcast shows? Email us at services@podhealth.club with the subject line “Refer a Guest.” Requests without this subject line cannot be catered to. Support Our Podcast: Support this Podcast 📬 Contact & Links Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Contact Us Based in: India & USA 🎧 All Podcast Shows 🤝 Be a Guest 📩 Newsletter Substack 👉 Join the LinkedIn Community 📌 Disclaimer - This episode is produced for educational and informational purposes only. All views expressed by the guest are their personal opinions alone and do not represent the views of the host or Healthy Mind by Avik™. The Network does not verify, endorse, or assume responsibility for any guest statements. Nothing in this episode constitutes medical, legal, financial, or professional advice, please consult a qualified professional before making any decisions. Listeners are encouraged to engage critically and independently with all content do not consume blindly. Use this content as a starting point for your own reflection and research, not as a substitute for professional guidance. Third-party content is referenced under fair use for informational purposes only. Guest speakers are solely responsible for their own statements. If you have concerns about any content, please contact us here By listening, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer in full. Read detailed disclaimer here. #podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #mindovermasculinity #eyalmatsliah #intimatepower #redefiningmasculinity #healthymasculinity #mensmentalhealth #intimacy #tantra #performanceanxiety #emotionalintelligence #nonviolentcommunication #mensgroup #sexualwellness

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  • October 10 · 18 min

    Masculinity, Conditioning and Equality: Norbert Heuser on Free Choice

    Most men never chose the rules they live by. Do not cry. Do not apologise. Always be right. If you have ever wondered where those rules came from, this conversation is for you. On Mind Over Masculinity, host Sreemedha talks with Norbert Heuser about masculinity as something taught, not inherited, and why he believes men and women thrive in harmony, not hierarchy. You will leave with one simple question to test your everyday choices. About the Guest: Norbert Heuser is German and now lives in the United States. He has travelled to 39 countries and shares talks, interviews and health and wellness projects on his website, Improve Your Life. Key Takeaways The pressure to be a certain kind of man is taught, not inherited. Ask of any habit or belief: did I choose this, or was it handed to me? Before you insist on being right, ask whether it makes life better for your family. Running a household is a shared responsibility, not a rank. Norbert believes a healthy life needs men and women equally valued. Connect With the Guest: Website: https://improveyourlife.us Episode Chapters: [00:00] The Mask We Call Strength (approx.) - The rules men learn without choosing them [01:15] Meet Norbert Heuser (approx.) - A German voice with a different opinion [02:30] Harmony, Not Hierarchy (approx.) - Why he believes men and women must be equally valued [05:00] Taught, Not Inherited (approx.) - How upbringing shapes what a man thinks he must be [08:30] Is It Really Your Choice? (approx.) - Looking honestly at everyday decisions [10:30] The Everyday Test (approx.) - Does this make life better for the people I love? [13:30] A Message for Men and Women (approx.) - Questioning what you were taught, and where to find Norbert 🎙️ Want to Be a Guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? Send me a direct message on PodMatch. 👉 DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik 🌱 About Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Global Mental Wellness Podcast Network - focused, credible, no more identity clutter. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Refer a Guest Know someone who would be a great fit for one of our podcast shows? Email us at services@podhealth.club with the subject line “Refer a Guest.” Requests without this subject line cannot be catered to. Support Our Podcast: Support this Podcast 📬 Contact & Links Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Contact Us Based in: India & USA 🎧 All Podcast Shows 🤝 Be a Guest 📩 Newsletter Substack 👉 Join the LinkedIn Community 📌 Disclaimer - This episode is produced for educational and informational purposes only. All views expressed by the guest are their personal opinions alone and do not represent the views of the host or Healthy Mind by Avik™. The Network does not verify, endorse, or assume responsibility for any guest statements. Nothing in this episode constitutes medical, legal, financial, or professional advice, please consult a qualified professional before making any decisions. Listeners are encouraged to engage critically and independently with all content do not consume blindly. Use this content as a starting point for your own reflection and research, not as a substitute for professional guidance. Third-party content is referenced under fair use for informational purposes only. Guest speakers are solely responsible for their own statements. If you have concerns about any content, please contact us here By listening, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer in full. Read detailed disclaimer here. #podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #mindovermasculinity #healthymasculinity #masculinity #genderequality #mensmentalhealth #conditioning #genderroles #unlearning #relationships #selfawareness #improveyourlife #norbertheuser

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  • October 10 · 19 min

    Redefining Strength and Healthy Masculinity: Todd Krause on Flexibility

    We were all sold one version of strength: never flinch, never ask for help. If that armour has started to feel heavy, this conversation is for you. On Mind Over Masculinity, host Ria talks with Todd Krause about the lone hero myth, why rigid things break, and how masculine and feminine qualities are meant to work together. It is an honest exchange, including moments where host and guest see things differently. About the Guest: Todd Krause runs Silversun Consulting, where he teaches business owners to build companies that can function without them. He also owns a cleaning company and spent over 30 years in financial services. Key Takeaways: The lone hero who defeats twenty men is a film image, not real life. Men have feelings too. Feeling low sometimes is human. Rigid things break. Real strength can bend and hold some softness. Masculine and feminine qualities are meant to complement each other. History was built by whole communities, women included. Connect With the Guest: Website: https://www.silversunconsulting.com LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/toddakrause Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toddakrause/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SilversunConsulting X: https://x.com/ToddAKrause Episode Chapters: [00:00] The Strength We Were Sold (approx.) - When the armour starts to crack [01:15] Meet Todd Krause (approx.) - Business owner, consultant, and speaker [02:30] The Lone Hero Myth (approx.) - One man against many, on screen and in our heads [04:00] Bend, Do Not Break (approx.) - A healthier definition of masculinity [06:30] Where the Script Comes From (approx.) - The stories history left out [09:00] When Men Feel Shut Out (approx.) - Todd’s view on fairness today, and Ria’s counterpoint [14:30] Being Whole, Not Unbreakable (approx.) - Todd’s closing thought and Ria’s reflection 🎙️ Want to Be a Guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? Send me a direct message on PodMatch. 👉 DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik 🌱 About Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Global Mental Wellness Podcast Network - focused, credible, no more identity clutter. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Refer a Guest Know someone who would be a great fit for one of our podcast shows? Email us at services@podhealth.club with the subject line “Refer a Guest.” Requests without this subject line cannot be catered to. Support Our Podcast: Support this Podcast 📬 Contact & Links Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Contact Us Based in: India & USA 🎧 All Podcast Shows 🤝 Be a Guest 📩 Newsletter Substack 👉 Join the LinkedIn Community 📌 Disclaimer - This episode is produced for educational and informational purposes only. All views expressed by the guest are their personal opinions alone and do not represent the views of the host or Healthy Mind by Avik™. The Network does not verify, endorse, or assume responsibility for any guest statements. Nothing in this episode constitutes medical, legal, financial, or professional advice, please consult a qualified professional before making any decisions. Listeners are encouraged to engage critically and independently with all content do not consume blindly. Use this content as a starting point for your own reflection and research, not as a substitute for professional guidance. Third-party content is referenced under fair use for informational purposes only. Guest speakers are solely responsible for their own statements. If you have concerns about any content, please contact us here By listening, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer in full. Read detailed disclaimer here. #podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #mindovermasculinity #healthymasculinity #masculinity #redefiningstrength #mensmentalhealth #menshealth #emotionalhealth #vulnerability #genderroles #personalgrowth #silversunconsulting #toddkrause

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  • October 10 · 21 min

    Men’s Mental Health and Silent Strength: Josie Warren on Masculinity

    A note from Healthy Mind by Avik™: This conversation includes the guest’s personal views on health, therapy, and relationships between men and women. They are her opinions alone and are not shared as medical or professional guidance. If you are living with depression, anxiety, or a long-term health condition, please keep working with a qualified professional and do not stop any treatment or medication on the strength of a podcast. Mental health is a necessity, and support in every form, including therapy, has a place in healing.Many men grow up believing strength means never struggling out loud. If you have been carrying a lot quietly and wondering whether anyone notices, this conversation is for you. On Mind Over Masculinity, host Sayan talks with Josie Warren about men’s mental health, what she calls the silent strength of a good man, and the shift from feeling life happens to you toward choosing your response. About the Guest: Josie Warren has a background in psychology and now teaches 13-week online self-guided educational programs. She shares her work on her YouTube channel, The Autoimmune Expert. Key Takeaways: Josie sees true masculinity as quiet, heart-led strength: showing up, not showing off. Not saying much is not the same as not feeling much. You cannot control the world around you, but you can choose your response. Josie calls this an internal locus of control. Make time for yourself again, including movement. Return to a hobby you left behind to refill your emotional tank. Connect With the Guest: YouTube, The Autoimmune Expert: https://www.youtube.com/@theautoimmuneexpert Josie also recommends the Happy Wife School channel on YouTube. Episode Chapters [00:00] When the Armour Becomes the Cage (approx.) - The old stories about what strength looks like [01:30] Meet Josie Warren (approx.) - An advocate for men’s emotional health [03:00] Redefining Masculinity (approx.) - Silent strength that comes from the heart [06:00] Resilience and the Locus of Control (approx.) - From life happening to you to choosing your response [11:00] Where the Rigid Narratives Come From (approx.) - How men are portrayed and how it lands [15:30] Meeting Shame With Self-Care (approx.) - Movement, old hobbies, and time that is yours [20:00] Finding Josie’s Work (approx.) - Her channel, her programs, and Sayan’s closing reflection 🎙️ Want to Be a Guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? Send me a direct message on PodMatch. 👉 DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik 🌱 About Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Global Mental Wellness Podcast Network - focused, credible, no more identity clutter. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Refer a Guest Know someone who would be a great fit for one of our podcast shows? Email us at services@podhealth.club with the subject line “Refer a Guest.” Requests without this subject line cannot be catered to. Support Our Podcast: Support this Podcast 📬 Contact & Links Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Contact Us Based in: India & USA 🎧 All Podcast Shows 🤝 Be a Guest 📩 Newsletter Substack 👉 Join the LinkedIn Community 📌 Disclaimer - This episode is produced for educational and informational purposes only. All views expressed by the guest are their personal opinions alone and do not represent the views of the host or Healthy Mind by Avik™. The Network does not verify, endorse, or assume responsibility for any guest statements. Nothing in this episode constitutes medical, legal, financial, or professional advice, please consult a qualified professional before making any decisions. Listeners are encouraged to engage critically and independently with all content do not consume blindly. Use this content as a starting point for your own reflection and research, not as a substitute for professional guidance. Third-party content is referenced under fair use for informational purposes only. Guest speakers are solely responsible for their own statements. If you have concerns about any content, please contact us here By listening, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer in full. Read detailed disclaimer here. #podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #mindovermasculinity #mensmentalhealth #masculinity #healthymasculinity #menshealth #emotionalhealth #resilience #locusofcontrol #selfcare #silentstrength #theautoimmuneexpert #josiewarren

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  • October 9 · 22 min

    Men’s Identity Beyond the Job Title: Jon Ostenson on the Provider Role

    A lot of men can tell you what they do. Far fewer can say who they are once the title is gone. If your worth has ever felt tied to your work, this conversation is for you. On Mind Over Masculinity, host Sana sits down with Jon Ostenson to explore the provider role, the quiet pressure to keep climbing, and what it takes to leave a secure corporate seat for business ownership. Expect honest reflections on money, support, and staying grounded on hard days. About the Guest: Jon Ostenson is the founder and CEO of FranBridge Consulting, a former Inc. 500 franchise president, a multi-brand franchise owner, and the author of Non-Food Franchising. Key Takeaways: The provider drive often starts early. Jon traces his to a paycheck-to-paycheck childhood. In Jon’s view, a steady paycheck carries its own risk. You do not have to build alone. A proven system and community still count as ownership. On hard days, take one step and stay in rooms with like-minded people. Jon’s five F’s (faith, family, fitness, finances, franchising) guide his goals and his no. Connect With the Guest: Website and free copy of Non-Food Franchising: https://franbridgeconsulting.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jonostenson Episode Chapters: [00:00] Who Are You Without the Title? - The question underneath every job description [02:06] Meet Jon Ostenson - From Inc. 500 president to franchise owner [03:04] The Corporate Seat and the Itch to Build - Working hard for someone else [06:03] Where the Provider Script Begins - A paycheck-to-paycheck childhood and different money conversations [10:11] The Lone Wolf Myth - Why leaning on a proven system is not cheating [13:32] Staying Grounded on Hard Days - The five F’s and saying no to good things [19:38] A Message for Men Ready to Change - Jon’s first step, and Sana’s closing reflection 🎙️ Want to Be a Guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? Send me a direct message on PodMatch. 👉 DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik 🌱 About Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Global Mental Wellness Podcast Network - focused, credible, no more identity clutter. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Refer a Guest Know someone who would be a great fit for one of our podcast shows? Email us at services@podhealth.club with the subject line “Refer a Guest.” Requests without this subject line cannot be catered to. Support Our Podcast: Support this Podcast 📬 Contact & Links Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Contact Us Based in: India & USA 🎧 All Podcast Shows 🤝 Be a Guest 📩 Newsletter Substack 👉 Join the LinkedIn Community 📌 Disclaimer - This episode is produced for educational and informational purposes only. All views expressed by the guest are their personal opinions alone and do not represent the views of the host or Healthy Mind by Avik™. The Network does not verify, endorse, or assume responsibility for any guest statements. Nothing in this episode constitutes medical, legal, financial, or professional advice, please consult a qualified professional before making any decisions. Listeners are encouraged to engage critically and independently with all content do not consume blindly. Use this content as a starting point for your own reflection and research, not as a substitute for professional guidance. Third-party content is referenced under fair use for informational purposes only. Guest speakers are solely responsible for their own statements. If you have concerns about any content, please contact us here By listening, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer in full. Read detailed disclaimer here. #podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #mindovermasculinity #mensmentalhealth #masculinity #mensidentity #providermindset #selfworth #careerchange #businessownership #franchising #nonfoodfranchising #entrepreneurship #jonostenson

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  • October 6 · 26 min

    Maybe Men Aren’t Silent. Maybe We Don’t Give Them Time to Speak. | Robin Quinn Keehn

    We often assume that when a man goes quiet, he doesn't want to talk. But what if silence sometimes means he hasn't been given enough time, safety or space to find the words? In this episode of Mind Over Masculinity, Swati welcomes Robin Quinn Keehn for a thoughtful conversation about emotional armor, vulnerability and the outdated definitions of strength that can keep people disconnected from themselves and others. Robin shares an experience from facilitating a business mastermind that changed how she thought about listening. After asking one participant a question, she resisted filling the silence. Nearly five uncomfortable minutes passed before he responded emotionally and told her that no one had listened to him that way before. From there, Robin and Swati explore how early family expectations, cultural messages and learned behaviors can teach people to edit themselves long after childhood. Silence, independence and emotional control may eventually become automatic, even when those habits no longer serve us. The conversation also examines the cost of emotional armor. Protection can reduce the immediate risk of rejection, but it can also limit intimacy, friendship and the experience of being genuinely known. Robin's approach isn't to suddenly tell everyone everything. Instead, she recommends beginning with one trusted person, one small risk and one slightly more honest response. Sometimes strength isn't carrying more. Sometimes it's allowing someone else to see what you've been carrying. About Robin Quinn Keehn: Robin Quinn Keehn is a Human Dynamics Specialist, Certified Mediator, author and founder of People Skillz Education & Consulting. Her work focuses on communication, difficult conversations, boundaries, self-trust and what she calls “open loops”, the unfinished conversations, commitments, decisions and promises that can continue consuming mental and emotional energy. Amazon Music She is the author of Stop Stealing From Yourself: Close the Open Loops That Quietly Drain Your Time, Energy, and Peace and host of The Liberated Life podcast. Apple Podcasts Key Takeaways: Silence doesn't automatically mean someone has nothing to say. Robin encourages giving people enough uninterrupted time to formulate a genuine answer. Listening without immediately filling the silence can itself communicate respect. Ideas about emotional strength often begin through family, culture and what children observe around them. We can continue following childhood rules long after we've forgotten where those rules came from. Emotional armor may protect someone from rejection while simultaneously limiting intimacy. Vulnerability doesn't mean telling everyone everything. Trust can be built gradually through small acts of honesty with carefully chosen people. If vulnerability feels dangerous, Robin recommends asking: What am I actually afraid will happen, and what evidence do I have? Instead of deciding “I'm just this way,” notice the specific people and situations where you become guarded. Sustaining change requires intentional reminders because old protective habits can return under stress. A critical inner voice doesn't automatically represent truth. Robin's broader message is that strength can include asking for help, allowing yourself to be known and choosing connection over constant self-protection. Chapters: Redefining strength beyond emotional armor Meet Robin Quinn Keehn Why men may stay silent What happens when we stop interrupting the answer The five-minute silence that changed Robin's perspective Where emotional conditioning begins The childhood rules we carry into adulthood What emotional armor looks like at work and home The fear underneath vulnerability What emotional armor costs our relationships Starting with one person and one honest response What are you actually afraid will happen? Separating fear from evidence Why old habits return under stress Robin's 99% vs. 100% commitment principle Dealing with the critical inner voice Strength as asking for help and being seen Where to connect with Robin Quinn Keehn 🎙️ Want to Be a Guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? Send me a direct message on PodMatch. 👉 DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik 🌱 About Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Global Mental Wellness Podcast Network - focused, credible, no more identity clutter. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Refer a Guest Know someone who would be a great fit for one of our podcast shows? Email us at services@podhealth.club with the subject line “Refer a Guest.” Requests without this subject line cannot be catered to. Support Our Podcast: Support this Podcast 📬 Contact & Links Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Contact Us Based in: India & USA 🎧 All Podcast Shows 🤝 Be a Guest 📩 Newsletter Substack 👉 Join the LinkedIn Community 📌 Disclaimer - This episode is produced for educational and informational purposes only. All views expressed by the guest are their personal opinions alone and do not represent the views of the host or Healthy Mind by Avik™. The Network does not verify, endorse, or assume responsibility for any guest statements. Nothing in this episode constitutes medical, legal, financial, or professional advice, please consult a qualified professional before making any decisions. Listeners are encouraged to engage critically and independently with all content do not consume blindly. Use this content as a starting point for your own reflection and research, not as a substitute for professional guidance. Third-party content is referenced under fair use for informational purposes only. Guest speakers are solely responsible for their own statements. If you have concerns about any content, please contact us here By listening, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer in full. Read detailed disclaimer here. #MindOverMasculinity #RobinQuinnKeehn #MensMentalHealth #Masculinity #HealthyMasculinity #Vulnerability #EmotionalStrength #MensEmotions #Communication #ActiveListening #Relationships #SelfAwareness #MentalHealth #Podhub #HealthyMindByAvik

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  • October 6 · 21 min

    Redefining Masculinity: Emotional Strength Beyond Traditional Roles with Russell Cohn

    Be strong. Do not cry. Provide. Protect. What happens when those old rules stop helping and start weighing you down? This episode is for any man tired of performing a role. On Mind Over Masculinity, Russell Cohn shares an honest look at emotional strength, authenticity and being present. You will hear why feeling is not weakness, and how joy can come from within instead of from circumstances. About the Guest: Russell Cohn is the creator of Gateway Spiritualism and a free 30-day experiment in connecting with what he calls the subconscious spirit. After a 40-year marriage ended in divorce, he set out to reclaim his own mind and change how he experiences life. Key Takeaways: Emotion is not weakness. Strength is feeling fully and still acting with clarity. Presence reads as strength. People recognise someone who listens and shows up. Drop the mask. Editing yourself to please others costs you your authenticity. Separate past from present. Feel what is true now, not what an old wound says. Joy is an inside job. Bring it into relationships instead of waiting for it. Connect With the Guest: Website: https://gatewayspiritualism.com Gateway Spiritualism podcast: https://rss.com/podcasts/gateway-spiritualism/ Episode Chapters (approx.): [00:00] The Stories We Inherit: when being strong starts to feel heavy [01:30] Where the Myth Comes From: cultural programming and the roles men are handed [04:00] Is Showing Emotion Weak? Presence, leadership and what athletes teach us [07:30] The Cost of Holding On: what the mask takes away [10:00] Beneath the Surface: early ties, maturity and feeling instead of performing [14:00] Pressure to Conform: family, work and choosing connection over the script [19:00] Joy From Within: the subconscious spirit and the 30-day experiment 🎙️ Want to Be a Guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? Send me a direct message on PodMatch. 👉 DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik 🌱 About Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Global Mental Wellness Podcast Network - focused, credible, no more identity clutter. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Refer a Guest Know someone who would be a great fit for one of our podcast shows? Email us at services@podhealth.club with the subject line “Refer a Guest.” Requests without this subject line cannot be catered to. Support Our Podcast: Support this Podcast 📬 Contact & Links Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Contact Us Based in: India & USA 🎧 All Podcast Shows 🤝 Be a Guest 📩 Newsletter Substack 👉 Join the LinkedIn Community 📌 Disclaimer - This episode is produced for educational and informational purposes only. All views expressed by the guest are their personal opinions alone and do not represent the views of the host or Healthy Mind by Avik™. The Network does not verify, endorse, or assume responsibility for any guest statements. Nothing in this episode constitutes medical, legal, financial, or professional advice, please consult a qualified professional before making any decisions. Listeners are encouraged to engage critically and independently with all content do not consume blindly. Use this content as a starting point for your own reflection and research, not as a substitute for professional guidance. Third-party content is referenced under fair use for informational purposes only. Guest speakers are solely responsible for their own statements. If you have concerns about any content, please contact us here By listening, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer in full. Read detailed disclaimer here. #podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #mindovermasculinity #mensmentalhealth #redefiningmasculinity #emotionalstrength #healthymasculinity #vulnerability #authenticity #menshealing #modernmasculinity #selfawareness #innerwork #personalgrowth #mentalhealthmatters

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  • October 2 · 23 min

    Redefining Strength for Men: Positive Aging with Dr. James Beckwith

    Do you wait for a health problem to fix itself rather than ask for help? On Mind Over Masculinity, host Swati and optometrist Dr. James Beckwith explore redefining strength beyond old scripts, from men's health habits to positive aging. You will hear why acting on small sparks matters, how play keeps the mind young, and how to reframe setbacks as lessons. About the Guest: Dr. James Beckwith is an optometrist in Las Vegas, Nevada, with 38 years in practice. He wrote Positively Not Old, a book on how attitude shapes the way we age. Key Takeaways: Being "too tough" to seek care lets small problems grow. Acting early is strength. When a spark of motivation hits, act right away, before it fades. Shift your mindset with gratitude, forgiveness and letting go of what you cannot control. Bring back play. Games and sport keep the mind fresh and connected. Look for the lesson, not the loss. Compare yourself only to yesterday. Keep getting better and you cannot get worse. Connect With Dr. James Beckwith: Website: https://drjbeckwith.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/james.a.beckwith Episode Chapters (approx.): [00:00] Welcome to Mind Over Masculinity: the questions men were never taught to ask [01:30] Meet Dr. Beckwith: a childhood eye exam, 38 years in practice and a new book [06:00] Too Tough to Ask for Help: why men put off their health [08:30] Labels, Fear and the Spark: why acting right away matters [13:00] A Wake-Up Call in Guatemala: the cost of ignoring a problem [15:30] Gratitude, Play and Taking Inventory: small shifts that lift you [20:00] Lesson Over Loss: reframing setbacks and getting a little better each day 🎙️ Want to Be a Guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? Send me a direct message on PodMatch. 👉 DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik 🌱 About Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Global Mental Wellness Podcast Network - focused, credible, no more identity clutter. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Refer a Guest Know someone who would be a great fit for one of our podcast shows? Email us at services@podhealth.club with the subject line “Refer a Guest.” Requests without this subject line cannot be catered to. Support Our Podcast: Support this Podcast 📬 Contact & Links Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Contact Us Based in: India & USA 🎧 All Podcast Shows 🤝 Be a Guest 📩 Newsletter Substack 👉 Join the LinkedIn Community 📌 Disclaimer - This episode is produced for educational and informational purposes only. All views expressed by the guest are their personal opinions alone and do not represent the views of the host or Healthy Mind by Avik™. The Network does not verify, endorse, or assume responsibility for any guest statements. Nothing in this episode constitutes medical, legal, financial, or professional advice, please consult a qualified professional before making any decisions. Listeners are encouraged to engage critically and independently with all content do not consume blindly. Use this content as a starting point for your own reflection and research, not as a substitute for professional guidance. Third-party content is referenced under fair use for informational purposes only. Guest speakers are solely responsible for their own statements. If you have concerns about any content, please contact us here By listening, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer in full. Read detailed disclaimer here. #podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #mindovermasculinity #mensmentalhealth #menshealth #redefiningstrength #healthymasculinity #positiveaging #longevity #agingwell #growthmindset #gratitude #positivelynotold #selfimprovement #healthyaging

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  • October 1 · 18 min

    Redefining Male Strength Beyond Ego and Traditional Roles with Peter Gunn

    Is the strength you have been chasing really yours, or was it handed to you? On Mind Over Masculinity, Peter Gunn explores redefining male strength beyond traditional roles, ego and the need to always win. You will hear why failure teaches more than winning, how gratitude keeps competition healthy, and how small acts of selflessness build real strength. About the Guest: Peter Gunn is a US-based writer and musician whose near-death experience at age seven shaped his outlook. He teaches about the map of consciousness and has a philosophical book on suffering, growth and transcendence on the way. Key Takeaways: Failure grows you. Winning mostly feeds the ego. Competition turns toxic when you stop thanking those who helped you. No one succeeds alone. Remember who raised and supported you. Practice daily selflessness, like returning your shopping cart. Lose track of time doing something? That passion is worth following. Give 15 minutes a day to becoming a better version of yourself. Connect With Peter Gunn: Website: https://www.petergunn.net Episode Chapters (approx.): [00:00] Welcome to Mind Over Masculinity: when borrowed strength finally becomes real [01:30] The Need to Always Win: why failure teaches more than victory [04:00] When Competition Turns Toxic: no man is an island [06:30] The False Self of Ego: who is really taking the credit [08:30] Daily Acts of Selflessness: giving without expecting anything back [11:00] A Childhood Near-Death Experience: life review and inspired action [15:00] Small Steps Up the Map of Consciousness: shopping carts and 15 minutes a day 🎙️ Want to Be a Guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? Send me a direct message on PodMatch. 👉 DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik 🌱 About Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Global Mental Wellness Podcast Network - focused, credible, no more identity clutter. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Refer a Guest Know someone who would be a great fit for one of our podcast shows? Email us at services@podhealth.club with the subject line “Refer a Guest.” Requests without this subject line cannot be catered to. Support Our Podcast: Support this Podcast 📬 Contact & Links Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Contact Us Based in: India & USA 🎧 All Podcast Shows 🤝 Be a Guest 📩 Newsletter Substack 👉 Join the LinkedIn Community 📌 Disclaimer - This episode is produced for educational and informational purposes only. All views expressed by the guest are their personal opinions alone and do not represent the views of the host or Healthy Mind by Avik™. The Network does not verify, endorse, or assume responsibility for any guest statements. Nothing in this episode constitutes medical, legal, financial, or professional advice, please consult a qualified professional before making any decisions. Listeners are encouraged to engage critically and independently with all content do not consume blindly. Use this content as a starting point for your own reflection and research, not as a substitute for professional guidance. Third-party content is referenced under fair use for informational purposes only. Guest speakers are solely responsible for their own statements. If you have concerns about any content, please contact us here By listening, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer in full. Read detailed disclaimer here. #podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #mindovermasculinity #redefiningstrength #healthymasculinity #mensmentalhealth #ego #gratitude #selflessness #kindness #neardeathexperience #mapofconsciousness #personalgrowth #modernmasculinity #failforward

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  • September 30 · 17 min

    Redefining Men's Strength Beyond Stoicism with Richard Leirer

    Were you raised to believe a strong man handles everything alone? On Mind Over Masculinity, host Swati and Tai Chi teacher Richard Leirer question the stoic ideals many men absorb without ever choosing them. You will learn why real strength is soft and supple, how old beliefs live in the body, and how breath, meaning and self-worth help men respond differently. About the Guest: Richard Leirer is a Tai Chi and Qigong instructor and Chinese medicine provider in Taos, New Mexico. At 72, he still does daily push-ups as relaxed as he can, and his new book explores the science of soft strength. Key Takeaways: Strength is not rigidity. Muscles work best relaxed, so aim for soft yet strong. Old ideas of masculinity live in the body, so letting go takes physical practice. In hard moments, breathe deeply. Chinese medicine links the lungs with courage. You give meaning to every experience, so you can choose a new one. Practice relaxing in traffic first, then in tense conversations. If opening up goes badly, return to this: you are loved and lovable. Connect With Richard Leirer: Website: https://richardleirer.org YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@richardleirer Episode Chapters (approx.): [00:00] Welcome to Mind Over Masculinity: the expectations men never chose [01:30] Meet Richard: yin, yang and a life shaped by Chinese philosophy [04:00] Soft Yet Strong: why the way of life is soft and supple [07:30] Beliefs Held in the Body: cellular memory and the courage of the breath [12:00] The Protector Role: when protection turns into harshness [16:00] Everyday Strength: from traffic stress to difficult conversations [21:00] When Opening Up Goes Wrong: self-worth and three pieces of advice 🎙️ Want to Be a Guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? Send me a direct message on PodMatch. 👉 DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik 🌱 About Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Global Mental Wellness Podcast Network - focused, credible, no more identity clutter. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Refer a Guest Know someone who would be a great fit for one of our podcast shows? Email us at services@podhealth.club with the subject line “Refer a Guest.” Requests without this subject line cannot be catered to. Support Our Podcast: Support this Podcast 📬 Contact & Links Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Contact Us Based in: India & USA 🎧 All Podcast Shows 🤝 Be a Guest 📩 Newsletter Substack 👉 Join the LinkedIn Community 📌 Disclaimer - This episode is produced for educational and informational purposes only. All views expressed by the guest are their personal opinions alone and do not represent the views of the host or Healthy Mind by Avik™. The Network does not verify, endorse, or assume responsibility for any guest statements. Nothing in this episode constitutes medical, legal, financial, or professional advice, please consult a qualified professional before making any decisions. Listeners are encouraged to engage critically and independently with all content do not consume blindly. Use this content as a starting point for your own reflection and research, not as a substitute for professional guidance. Third-party content is referenced under fair use for informational purposes only. Guest speakers are solely responsible for their own statements. If you have concerns about any content, please contact us here By listening, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer in full. Read detailed disclaimer here. #podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #mindovermasculinity #mensmentalhealth #healthymasculinity #redefiningstrength #emotionalstrength #taichi #qigong #chinesemedicine #mindbodyconnection #menwhotalk #emotionalawareness #breathwork #selfworth

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  • September 28 · 31 min

    Redefining Strength: Why Weight Loss Isn't About Willpower with Dr. Delali Hevi

    What if the "no pain, no gain" mindset is quietly working against you? This episode of Mind Over Masculinity is for anyone who has tried to muscle through change and wondered why willpower alone never seems to be enough. Physician Dr. Delali Hevi explores how childhood conditioning shapes both our ideas of masculinity and our eating habits, and why lasting change comes from understanding the mind, not fighting it. About the Guest: Dr. Delali Hevi is a physician originally from Ghana, now based in Arizona, who specializes in weight loss and weight maintenance. After struggling with his own weight since childhood, he founded Zenith Coaching Academy. Key Takeaways: Lasting weight loss isn't a willpower issue. Even the most driven people struggle. Much of how we act, as men and around food, is learned in early childhood. Old rules like "clean your plate" or food as a reward can quietly shape adult habits. No single diet fits everyone. Explore what suits your body and background with a professional. When a craving hits, drink water and pause. Cravings often rise and fall like a wave. Connect With the Guest: Website: https://www.zenithcoachingacademy.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drhevi.md/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/delali-hevi-md-dabom-529b44a/ Episode Chapters (approx.): [00:00] When Armor Becomes a Cage - an opening on questioning the strength men were handed [02:00] No Pain, No Gain? - why weight loss isn't a willpower issue [04:30] Where the Script Comes From - hormones, culture, and expectations [07:00] Unnoticed in Relationships - respect, conflict, and unexamined patterns [09:30] Childhood Downloads - how early conditioning shapes men and eating habits [14:30] Set Point and Cravings - why the brain defends a familiar weight [18:00] Practical Starting Points - eating for your background and urge surfing 🎙️ Want to Be a Guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? Send me a direct message on PodMatch. 👉 DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik 🌱 About Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Global Mental Wellness Podcast Network - focused, credible, no more identity clutter. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Refer a Guest Know someone who would be a great fit for one of our podcast shows? Email us at services@podhealth.club with the subject line “Refer a Guest.” Requests without this subject line cannot be catered to. Support Our Podcast: Support this Podcast 📬 Contact & Links Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Contact Us Based in: India & USA 🎧 All Podcast Shows 🤝 Be a Guest 📩 Newsletter Substack 👉 Join the LinkedIn Community 📌 Disclaimer - This episode is produced for educational and informational purposes only. All views expressed by the guest are their personal opinions alone and do not represent the views of the host or Healthy Mind by Avik™. The Network does not verify, endorse, or assume responsibility for any guest statements. Nothing in this episode constitutes medical, legal, financial, or professional advice, please consult a qualified professional before making any decisions. Listeners are encouraged to engage critically and independently with all content do not consume blindly. Use this content as a starting point for your own reflection and research, not as a substitute for professional guidance. Third-party content is referenced under fair use for informational purposes only. Guest speakers are solely responsible for their own statements. If you have concerns about any content, please contact us here By listening, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer in full. Read detailed disclaimer here. #podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #mindovermasculinity #weightloss #mindsetshift #willpower #emotionaleating #healthymasculinity #mensmentalhealth #subconsciousmind #urgesurfing #mindbodyconnection #mentalhealthpodcast #personalgrowth

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  • September 28 · 17 min

    Why Stoicism Is Not Strength: Men, Trauma and Asking for Help with Willie Handler

    What if the armor you wear to protect yourself is the very thing holding you back? This episode of Mind Over Masculinity is for any man who has learned to push through alone and wonders whether it's actually working. Author Willie Handler shares how writing his family's history brought buried trauma to the surface, why he nearly quit therapy several times, and how opening up changed his marriage. About the Guest: Willie Handler is an author of fiction and non-fiction. Writing a memoir about his family's history surfaced long-buried trauma, and getting professional help changed both his life and the book. He also created a podcast series on men and trauma. Key Takeaways: Stoicism can lead to burnout and weaker emotional support at home. In healing, you often feel worse before you feel better. That's part of the process. There's no quick cure for trauma. Stepping away too early can send you back. When you change, the people closest to you notice and may need time to adjust. A support network that encourages the work makes it easier. Connect With the Guest: Website: https://williehandler.com Substack: https://williehandler.substack.com Books: https://williehandler.com/books-by-willie-handler/ Episode Chapters (approx.): [00:00] The Armor We Wear - an opening on what we were taught about strength [01:30] The Cost of Stoicism - burnout, distance, and a series on men and trauma [03:30] Writing Through the Past - a family memoir that opened old wounds [05:30] Worse Before Better - quitting therapy and coming back [07:30] When Crisis Hits - pushing it down or facing it head on [09:00] How Relationships Shift - what his wife saw after 40 years [11:30] Worth It - support networks and a doctor who asked the right question 🎙️ Want to Be a Guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? Send me a direct message on PodMatch. 👉 DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik 🌱 About Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Global Mental Wellness Podcast Network - focused, credible, no more identity clutter. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Refer a Guest Know someone who would be a great fit for one of our podcast shows? Email us at services@podhealth.club with the subject line “Refer a Guest.” Requests without this subject line cannot be catered to. Support Our Podcast: Support this Podcast 📬 Contact & Links Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Contact Us Based in: India & USA 🎧 All Podcast Shows 🤝 Be a Guest 📩 Newsletter Substack 👉 Join the LinkedIn Community 📌 Disclaimer - This episode is produced for educational and informational purposes only. All views expressed by the guest are their personal opinions alone and do not represent the views of the host or Healthy Mind by Avik™. The Network does not verify, endorse, or assume responsibility for any guest statements. Nothing in this episode constitutes medical, legal, financial, or professional advice, please consult a qualified professional before making any decisions. Listeners are encouraged to engage critically and independently with all content do not consume blindly. Use this content as a starting point for your own reflection and research, not as a substitute for professional guidance. Third-party content is referenced under fair use for informational purposes only. Guest speakers are solely responsible for their own statements. If you have concerns about any content, please contact us here By listening, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer in full. Read detailed disclaimer here. #podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #mindovermasculinity #mensmentalhealth #menandtrauma #healingtrauma #stoicism #vulnerability #askingforhelp #therapy #healthymasculinity #memoir #mentalhealthpodcast #personalgrowth

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  • September 28 · 17 min

    Why Stoicism Is Not Strength: Men, Trauma and Asking for Help with Willie Handler

    What if the armor you wear to protect yourself is the very thing holding you back? This episode of Mind Over Masculinity is for any man who has learned to push through alone and wonders whether it's actually working. Author Willie Handler shares how writing his family's history brought buried trauma to the surface, why he nearly quit therapy several times, and how opening up changed his marriage. About the Guest: Willie Handler is an author of fiction and non-fiction. Writing a memoir about his family's history surfaced long-buried trauma, and getting professional help changed both his life and the book. He also created a podcast series on men and trauma. Key Takeaways: Stoicism can lead to burnout and weaker emotional support at home. In healing, you often feel worse before you feel better. That's part of the process. There's no quick cure for trauma. Stepping away too early can send you back. When you change, the people closest to you notice and may need time to adjust. A support network that encourages the work makes it easier. Connect With the Guest: Website: https://williehandler.com Substack: https://williehandler.substack.com Books: https://williehandler.com/books-by-willie-handler/ Episode Chapters (approx.): [00:00] The Armor We Wear - an opening on what we were taught about strength [01:30] The Cost of Stoicism - burnout, distance, and a series on men and trauma [03:30] Writing Through the Past - a family memoir that opened old wounds [05:30] Worse Before Better - quitting therapy and coming back [07:30] When Crisis Hits - pushing it down or facing it head on [09:00] How Relationships Shift - what his wife saw after 40 years [11:30] Worth It - support networks and a doctor who asked the right question 🎙️ Want to Be a Guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? Send me a direct message on PodMatch. 👉 DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik 🌱 About Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Global Mental Wellness Podcast Network - focused, credible, no more identity clutter. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Refer a Guest Know someone who would be a great fit for one of our podcast shows? Email us at services@podhealth.club with the subject line “Refer a Guest.” Requests without this subject line cannot be catered to. Support Our Podcast: Support this Podcast 📬 Contact & Links Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™️ Contact Us Based in: India & USA 🎧 All Podcast Shows 🤝 Be a Guest 📩 Newsletter Substack 👉 Join the LinkedIn Community 📌 Disclaimer - This episode is produced for educational and informational purposes only. All views expressed by the guest are their personal opinions alone and do not represent the views of the host or Healthy Mind by Avik™. The Network does not verify, endorse, or assume responsibility for any guest statements. Nothing in this episode constitutes medical, legal, financial, or professional advice, please consult a qualified professional before making any decisions. Listeners are encouraged to engage critically and independently with all content do not consume blindly. Use this content as a starting point for your own reflection and research, not as a substitute for professional guidance. Third-party content is referenced under fair use for informational purposes only. Guest speakers are solely responsible for their own statements. If you have concerns about any content, please contact us here By listening, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer in full. Read detailed disclaimer here. #podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #mindovermasculinity #mensmentalhealth #menandtrauma #healingtrauma #stoicism #vulnerability #askingforhelp #therapy #healthymasculinity #memoir #mentalhealthpodcast #personalgrowth

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