
Turning Our Children Over To The Lord
*Listen to the Show notes and podcast transcript with this multi-language player. Summary One of the most difficult lessons for a parent can be learning to truly place their children into the hands of the Lord. We naturally want to protect them, guide them, and help shape the direction of their lives. But there comes a time when we have to recognize that God is ultimately the One who is working within them. Parents will make mistakes. We may say things we wish we had not said or look back and wonder whether we handled certain situations correctly. Yet God is not limited by our mistakes. He sees the heart, and He is able to work in our children in ways that we never could. The conversation emphasizes that our responsibility is not to control the outcome of our children’s lives, but to love them, pray for them, and trust the Lord with them. There is a freedom that comes when a parent can say, “Lord, they are Yours.” Rather than holding tightly to our children out of fear or worry, we can release them to the Lord and trust that He knows exactly how to lead them. We may sow the seed and others may water it, but God is the One who gives the increase. Show Notes Trusting God With Our Children As parents, it is easy to feel responsible for how everything turns out in our children’s lives. But the discussion reminds us that God is the One doing the deepest work. Our part is to pray, believe, love, and trust Him. Parents Make Mistakes No parent has done everything perfectly. We have all said things we regret or made decisions we later questioned. Yet the Lord understands our hearts and is able to work beyond our failures and imperfections. The Danger of Trying to Control the Outcome When parents begin believing that they must make everything work according to their own understanding, they can easily move outside of the freedom God desires for both the parent and the child. Giving Our Children Freedom A powerful part of loving our children is recognizing when it is time to release them. We are given the privilege of helping direct them toward the Lord, but we were never intended to possess or control their lives. Love Them and Pray for Them Sometimes there is nothing more that we can do physically to change a situation. In those moments, our greatest ministry may simply be to love our children with all our hearts and continue praying for them. Looking for the Spiritual Answer We often look for a physical solution to situations involving those we love. But there are times when the answer is spiritual, and God may be asking us to step back and allow Him to work. God Gives the Increase We may sow seeds into the lives of our children, and others may help water those seeds, but only God can bring forth the increase. That realization takes the pressure off us and places our confidence back where it belongs—in Him. Quotes “God’s the one doing the work. All you can do is pray and believe.” “Don’t worry about your children. God’s got that in control.” “God looks on the heart and so do your children.” “What’s my greatest gift to my kids? Freedom. I turn you over to the Lord.” “Love them and pray for them.” “Turn them over to the Lord. They’re His.” “One sows the seed, another waters, but God is the one that gives the increase.” Scriptural References Malachi 4(6)— God turning the hearts of the fathers to the children and the hearts of the children to their fathers. Proverbs 22(6)— Training up a child in the way he should go. 1Corinthians 3(6-7)— One plants, another waters, but God gives the increase. Hebrews 12(9-10)— Earthly fathers discipline their children for a time, while our heavenly Father works for our ultimate good. The conversation refers to this principle while discussing the temporary role parents have in directing their children. Takeaway Our children belong to the Lord. We have the privilege of loving them, teaching them, praying for them, and pointing them toward Him, but we were never meant to carry the responsibility of controlling the outcome of their lives. There comes a time when faith means opening our hands and saying, “Lord, I give them back to You.” That does not mean we stop caring. It means we stop allowing fear and worry to control us. We continue loving them. We continue praying for them. And we trust that the Lord is able to reach their hearts and accomplish what we never could. We sow. We water. But God gives the increase.
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