Hotter Than Ever

Erin Keating

Why are we so scared of change? The second half of your life can be happier, sexier and more fulfilled, but you may need to blow some stuff up. To find out how, we're bringing you interviews and frank, irreverent, inexpert advice on everything from career and aging to sex and body image in what used to be called "middle age." Laugh, get honest, break the rules and stop caring what other people think. Join us, and we can be hot together!

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Mar 5, 2024 · 27 min
Advice: What To Do When Your Boyfriend Dumps You
“They don’t ever talk about what it feels like when the first relationship after your big relationship ends.” In this episode we’re giving advice to none other than Hotter Than Ever. Yes, you read that correctly. When Erin found herself blindsided by the sudden end of her relationship with her boyfriend, “The Marine”, she knew she had to open up about the experience, no matter how raw the pain. For anyone facing the aftermath of a significant breakup, this is your reminder that healing and moving forward are possible, even in the midst of heartache. Join us for a heartfelt and vulnerable episode, as Erin shares the story of how (and why) her relationship ended, and tangible advice for how to get over the first breakup after divorce. Here’s a sneak peak: Take Stock: Reflect on the positive aspects of the relationship and what worked well Tell the Truth: Be honest with yourself about what didn’t work, including unmet needs and underlying issues Set Intentions: Get clear about your desires and boundaries for future relationships Embrace Singlehood: Revel in the freedom to rediscover yourself, your passions, friendships, and creative pursuits Want advice about some aspect of your life over 40? DM us on IG @hotterthaneverpod or text/leave a voicemail on the Hotter Than Ever Hottie Hotline at (323) 844-2303 and your question could end up on the show! Want more Hotter Than Ever? Find us and episode transcripts online at www.hotterthaneverpod.com and sign up for our mailing list! Follow us on: Instagram: @hotterthaneverpod TikTok: @hotterthaneverpod Youtube: @hotterthaneverpod Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090728330453 Follow Hotter Than Ever wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode! We’d love to hear what you think about the show - tell us what stories are resonating with you by writing us a review on Apple Podcasts. Mentioned in this episode: Broad Collective Learn more about Broad Collective and our membership network for midlife women entrepreneurs at broadcollective.com. Apply to join Broad Collective at https://broad-collective-co.mn.co/landing
Feb 29, 2024 · 47 min
Cindy Gallop’s Vision for a Safe, Sexy Internet
“We end rape culture by showing you how wonderful great consensual, communicative sex is in the real world.” Cindy Gallop never intended MakeLoveNotPorn to be a groundbreaking social sex tech platform. But when her original website went viral after Cindy’s TED talk in 2009, she knew she was being called to create something far bigger and more meaningful. Today, MakeLoveNotPorn is the world's first and only user-generated and 100% human-curated social sex video sharing platform, whose mission is to promote good sexual behavior and good sexual values by showing real people having safe, healthy, consensual sex. The platform is blazing the trail for female-built and mission-driven businesses, and the need to create more safe and inclusive online and real-world experiences for us all. In this episode, Erin and Cindy engage in a thought-provoking conversation around the intersection of sex, business, and the important role of women in shaping the future of the Internet. Join us in charting a course towards a more inclusive and empathetic future, as we discuss: Unpacking the detrimental effects of mainstream pornography on sexual education and behavior Rethinking business as a way to do good and make money simultaneously The transformative power of real-world, consensual sex in fostering healthier sexual attitudes and behaviors. The critical need for female-led initiatives in tech and AI development to create a safer, better, happier internet for all of us (including men!) Read Cindy’s op-ed in Fast Company, “Three Reasons Why the Future of AI Relies on Women” HERE Harnessing the power of human curation to foster safe, inclusive (and profitable) online spaces The pivotal role of AI in redefining consent and combating toxic masculinity in the media and legal landscapes. Strategies for aligning personal values with professional pursuits to effect positive change and drive innovation OUR GUEST: Cindy Gallop, a graduate of Somerville College, Oxford, boasts a diverse background spanning over 30 years in brand-building, marketing, and advertising. Named Advertising Woman of the Year in 2003, she founded IfWeRanTheWorld, a co-action software promoting shared values and shared action for shared profit. Additionally, as the founder and CEO of MakeLoveNotPorn, she spearheads a social sextech platform advocating for healthy sexual behavior and values. Recognized as one of Business Insider's 15 Most Important Marketing Strategy Thinkers Today, Cindy is a sought-after speaker globally, renowned for her insightful talks on the future of advertising and marketing. She champions diversity and inclusion in various industries and serves as a Jury President at Cannes Lions and a leader in initiatives combating ageism and promoting gender equality. Want more Cindy? Find her online at https://cindygallop.com/ and learn more about MakeLoveNotPorn at https://makelovenotporn.tv/ Follow Cindy and MakeLoveNotPorn on social media @cindygallop and @makelovenotporn Watch her TED talk “Make Love Not Porn”: https://www.ted.com/talks/cindy_gallop_make_love_not_porn Want more Hotter Than Ever? Find us and episode transcripts online at www.hotterthaneverpod.com and sign up for our mailing list! Follow us on: Instagram: @hotterthaneverpod TikTok: @hotterthaneverpod Youtube: @hotterthaneverpod Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090728330453 Follow Hotter Than Ever wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode! We’d love to hear what you think about the show - tell us what stories are resonating with you by writing us a review on Apple Podcasts. Mentioned in this episode: Broad Collective Learn more about Broad Collective and our membership network for midlife women entrepreneurs at broadcollective.com. Apply to join Broad Collective at https://broad-collective-co.mn.co/landing
Feb 27, 2024 · 22 min
Listener Mail: How Do I Stay Safe While Dating (and More)?
Picture this: you’re 50, newly separated from your husband after 20 years of marriage, and diving into the world of casual dating and sex. How do you navigate sex safely as an older woman in the new world of dating app culture? You’ve come to the right place. In this week’s advice episode, we’re discussing our favorite topic: sex—how to talk about it with potential partners and how to navigate it safely when getting back out there. Join Erin as she offers her subjective POV on the ups and downs of post-divorce dating and shares practical tips and insights from her personal experiences. Here's what you can expect: You decide the timeline: you don’t need to rush into dating and sex after getting out of a long marriage, but it’s also ok if you want to! Try multiple different dating apps to get your feet wet, but be patient with the results Trust your intuition: vet your partners, talk to a lot of different people, and don’t be afraid to assert your boundaries Safety First: Meet in public spaces for the first time and don’t shy away from discussing safe sex once intimacy comes into the picture Want advice about some aspect of your life over 40? DM us on IG @hotterthaneverpod or text/leave a voicemail on the Hotter Than Ever Hottie Hotline at (323) 844-2303 and your question could end up on the show! Want more Hotter Than Ever? Find us and episode transcripts online at www.hotterthaneverpod.com and sign up for our mailing list! Follow us on: Instagram: @hotterthaneverpod TikTok: @hotterthaneverpod Youtube: @hotterthaneverpod Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090728330453 Follow Hotter Than Ever wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode! We’d love to hear what you think about the show - tell us what stories are resonating with you by writing us a review on Apple Podcasts. Mentioned in this episode: Broad Collective Learn more about Broad Collective and our membership network for midlife women entrepreneurs at broadcollective.com. Apply to join Broad Collective at https://broad-collective-co.mn.co/landing
Feb 22, 2024 · 55 min
When Your Whole Family Comes Out with Jessi Hempel
Jessi Hempel is many things: an award-winning journalist, podcaster, author, and senior editor-at-large at LinkedIn. But despite her myriad accomplishments, she shies away from labeling herself as ‘successful’. For Jessi, her illustrious career as a technology and business journalist was always a stepping stone on the path to her childhood dream of writing a book. However, after the publication of her memoir, "The Family Outing," Jessi found herself facing an existential quandary: what comes next after you achieve your ultimate goal? In this episode, Jessi takes the helm as we navigate through diverse topics, from the uncertainty of charting a new career trajectory post-success, to the poignant journey of motherhood and the heart-wrenching experience of loss. Together, we delve into the complexities of gender and sexuality, drawing from Jessi's personal narrative, including the remarkable tale of her transgender brother who embarked on a unique journey of pregnancy. Here's what's on the agenda: The challenges women face in defining success and navigating career milestones What to do when you fall out of love with your career Unpacking societal expectations and pressures surrounding motherhood The profound joys and challenges of parenting, including Jessi's unexpected journey into parenthood and coping with loss How experiences of loss can instill a "f*ck it" attitude, reshaping perspectives on life's brevity, and pursing meaning Jessi's journey to writing her memoir and the liberation found in giving yourself permission to explore personal narratives Why we need more nuance when it comes to speaking about and understanding gender and sexual identity The ongoing struggle of asserting boundaries and saying no, even as you age OUR GUEST: Jessi Hempel, a seasoned tech journalist and host of the acclaimed podcast Hello Monday, serves as senior editor-at-large at LinkedIn. With over two decades of experience, she has crafted compelling features and cover stories on prominent figures and companies in the tech sphere. Previously, Hempel held editorial leadership roles at Backchannel and Wired, and her insights have been featured on major news networks. She is also the esteemed author of The Family Outing, recognized by Time as one of the 100 Must-Read Books of 2022, now available in paperback. Hempel holds degrees from Brown University and U.C. Berkeley, residing in New York City. Want more Jessi? Find her online at https://www.jessijhempel.com/ and listen to her podcast, Hello Monday, at https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hello-monday-with-jessi-hempel/id1453893304 Follow Jessi on: LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessihempel/ Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jessiwrites/ Want more Hotter Than Ever? Find us and episode transcripts online at www.hotterthaneverpod.com and sign up for our mailing list! Follow us on: Instagram: @hotterthaneverpod TikTok: @hotterthaneverpod Youtube: @hotterthaneverpod Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090728330453 Follow Hotter Than Ever wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode! We’d love to hear what you think about the show - tell us what stories are resonating with you by writing us a review on Apple Podcasts. Want advice about some aspect of your life over 40? DM us on IG @hotterthaneverpod or text/leave a voicemail on the Hotter Than Ever Hottie Hotline at (323) 844-2303! Mentioned in this episode: Broad Collective Learn more about Broad Collective and our membership network for midlife women entrepreneurs at broadcollective.com. Apply to join Broad Collective at https://broad-collective-co.mn.co/landing
Feb 20, 2024 · 14 min
Listener Mail: Looking for a New Life in New England
“If you get to the root of what it is that you care about, you will probably also find a path to meaningful work.” Ever found yourself at a crossroads, wondering what’s next after already pursuing your professional dreams? In this week's advice-packed episode, we're delving into the daunting, yet exhilarating realm of career transitions. Whether you're eyeing a shift in industries or skill sets, especially later in life, the roadmap to your next chapter starts within. Let Erin be your compass as she unpacks practical strategies for deciphering your next career move, including: Get to the core of you: identify your passions, interests, and talents to guide your career decisions Identify what you want to get out of work: Is it intellectual stimulation, flexible schedules, or financial stability? Research fast-growing industries and seek advice from those who have successfully transitioned careers Want advice about some aspect of your life over 40? DM us on IG @hotterthaneverpod or text/leave a voicemail on the Hotter Than Ever Hottie Hotline at (323) 844-2303 and your question could end up on the show! Want more Hotter Than Ever? Find us and episode transcripts online at www.hotterthaneverpod.com and sign up for our mailing list! Follow us on: Instagram: @hotterthaneverpod TikTok: @hotterthaneverpod Youtube: @hotterthaneverpod Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090728330453 Follow Hotter Than Ever wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode! We’d love to hear what you think about the show - tell us what stories are resonating with you by writing us a review on Apple Podcasts. Mentioned in this episode: Broad Collective Learn more about Broad Collective and our membership network for midlife women entrepreneurs at broadcollective.com. Apply to join Broad Collective at https://broad-collective-co.mn.co/landing
Feb 15, 2024 · 52 min
How Gen X is Taking on Menopause with Stacy London
“The more you fear aging, the harder it's going to be. You’ve got to lean in.” Happy 50th episode to Hotter Than Ever! We're thrilled to celebrate this milestone with you by sharing an incredible conversation with TV icon, Stacy London. You probably remember Stacy from TLC’s “What Not to Wear” where she turned fashion faux pas into fabulous looks and boosted self-esteem week after week. Now, she's shining a spotlight on menopause and women's health in midlife–topics long overlooked in both media and medical circles. Stacy's mission is crystal clear: it's time to rewrite the story on women and aging. Join Stacy and Erin for an engaging and informative conversation on the intersection of perimenopause, menopause, aging, sexuality, and women’s health. Here’s what we explore: Why Gen X is spearheading the revolution in conversations around women and aging The importance of destigmatizing menopause and prioritizing women’s health in medical research and education Banishing the "anti" in front of aging and instead, embracing it as a natural, vibrant phase of life. How a study with flawed data halted scientific research on menopause for the last two decades How the choices we make in midlife directly impact our vitality and longevity as we age Dissecting the gaps in research on female physiology and women’s health, menopause and beyond The importance of having representation of midlife women in media The vital role that real-life connections and community building play in educating women on their health OUR GUEST: Stacy London is best known as the co-host of the iconic TLC show, What Not To Wear. She has been a regular correspondent on the Today Show, The Oprah Show, Access Hollywood, and Rachael Ray. She served as the spokesperson for Pantene, Dr. Scholls, Lee Jeans, and Woolite. Her book, The Truth About Style, was a NYT bestseller. She is also an advisor to Wile, a wellness brand for women, and Evernow, a telehealth and menopause treatment platform. After her own debilitating experience with menopause, she now focuses on education and healthcare advocacy for those in mid-life and menopause. Her next project, a media platform, dedicated to these same issues will debut early in 2024. Want more Stacy? Follow her on Instagram @stacylondonreal and Facebook @stacylondonofficial Want more Hotter Than Ever? Find us and episode transcripts online at www.hotterthaneverpod.com and sign up for our mailing list! Follow us on: Instagram: @hotterthaneverpod TikTok: @hotterthaneverpod Youtube: @hotterthaneverpod Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090728330453 Follow Hotter Than Ever wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode! We’d love to hear what you think about the show - tell us what stories are resonating with you by writing us a review on Apple Podcasts. Want advice about some aspect of your life over 40? DM us on IG @hotterthaneverpod or text/leave a voicemail on the Hotter Than Ever Hottie Hotline at (323) 844-2303! Mentioned in this episode: Broad Collective Learn more about Broad Collective and our membership network for midlife women entrepreneurs at broadcollective.com. Apply to join Broad Collective at https://broad-collective-co.mn.co/landing
Feb 13, 2024 · 15 min
Listener Mail: How Do I Get Over My Fear of Rejection and Be More Authentic?
“How long are you going to let fear of other people's points of view dictate how you live your one and only life?” We all want to be the most authentic versions of ourselves, but how do we overcome the fear of judgment, criticism, and rejection that’s holding us back? In today’s advice episode, we hear from a listener who is struggling to share her true self without reservation. Drawing from Erin’s personal experiences with corporate life, divorce, and unexpected layoffs, she shares poignant insights that helped her embrace a liberating self-expression. The takeaway: no matter how daunting it may seem, authenticity always triumphs. Tune in for practical tips on how to let go of your fear and why embracing our truth, not only empowers ourselves, but also fosters communities built on honesty and vulnerability. Want advice about some aspect of your life over 40? DM us on IG @hotterthaneverpod or text/leave a voicemail on the Hotter Than Ever Hottie Hotline at (323) 844-2303 and your question could end up on the show! Want more Hotter Than Ever? Find us and episode transcripts online at www.hotterthaneverpod.com and sign up for our mailing list! Follow us on: Instagram: @hotterthaneverpod TikTok: @hotterthaneverpod Youtube: @hotterthaneverpod Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090728330453 Follow Hotter Than Ever wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode! We’d love to hear what you think about the show - tell us what stories are resonating with you by writing us a review on Apple Podcasts. Mentioned in this episode: Broad Collective Learn more about Broad Collective and our membership network for midlife women entrepreneurs at broadcollective.com. Apply to join Broad Collective at https://broad-collective-co.mn.co/landing
Feb 8, 2024 · 20 min
Getting Comfortable with Uncomfortable Transitions
“Just because I'm uncomfortable with discomfort, it doesn't mean I'm not okay.” Ever been laid off? Experienced the gut-wrenching dissolution of a relationship? Or maybe you're just grappling with the uncertainty of what comes next in your career or love life. Whatever the case, Erin's here to remind you that amidst these difficult transitions lies a world of potential–we just need to trust the process. Join us as Erin shares her insights on navigating upheaval, embracing uncertainty, and finding beauty in the messy middle of change. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, discover how to thrive amidst life's twists and turns. We discuss: Embracing the discomfort of transitions, recognizing them as opportunities for growth and renewal. The importance of transition periods and taking the time to envision and build a new future, brick by brick Trusting in the journey, finding comfort in discomfort, and knowing that clarity will come in its own time Taking action in the face of uncertainty to navigate the in-between phases of life with resilience and grace. Want more Hotter Than Ever? Find us and episode transcripts online at www.hotterthaneverpod.com and sign up for our mailing list! Follow us on: Instagram: @hotterthaneverpod TikTok: @hotterthaneverpod Youtube: @hotterthaneverpod Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090728330453 Follow Hotter Than Ever wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode! We’d love to hear what you think about the show - tell us what stories are resonating with you by writing us a review on Apple Podcasts. Want advice about some aspect of your life over 40? DM us on IG @hotterthaneverpod or text/leave a voicemail on the Hotter Than Ever Hottie Hotline at (323) 844-2303! Mentioned in this episode: Broad Collective Learn more about Broad Collective and our membership network for midlife women entrepreneurs at broadcollective.com. Apply to join Broad Collective at https://broad-collective-co.mn.co/landing
Feb 6, 2024 · 18 min
Listener Mail: How Can I Control My Mood And Not Be Affected By The Actions of Others?
“I made it worse because I was not the master of my emotions.” Have you ever found yourself in a situation where someone hits that emotional button you never knew existed? Did you end up regretting something you said or did in the heat of the moment? We've all been there. In today’s advice episode, we’re delving into a listener's question on how to control one’s mood and avoid being swayed by others’ actions. Join us as Erin shares a recent personal story on the challenges of navigating relationships and emotions, along with tips for controlling how you can respond in the heat of the moment. These include: Cultivating mindfulness through journaling, meditation, and staying present Identifying your emotional buttons and their triggers, so that you’re prepared to address them Developing a sense of self-mastery in how you navigate your world and control what affects you Acknowledging and learning from your mistakes Want advice about some aspect of your life over 40? DM us on IG @hotterthaneverpod or text/leave a voicemail on the Hotter Than Ever Hottie Hotline at (323) 844-2303 and your question could end up on the show! Want more Hotter Than Ever? Find us and episode transcripts online at www.hotterthaneverpod.com and sign up for our mailing list! Follow us on: Instagram: @hotterthaneverpod TikTok: @hotterthaneverpod Youtube: @hotterthaneverpod Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090728330453 Follow Hotter Than Ever wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode! We’d love to hear what you think about the show - tell us what stories are resonating with you by writing us a review on Apple Podcasts. Mentioned in this episode: Broad Collective Learn more about Broad Collective and our membership network for midlife women entrepreneurs at broadcollective.com. Apply to join Broad Collective at https://broad-collective-co.mn.co/landing
Feb 1, 2024 · 50 min
Claiming Your Sexual Power in Midlife with Eva Clay
Eva Clay is on a mission to make sex a spiritual practice. With two decades of expertise, Eva has helped countless women defy the misconception that perimenopause and menopause mark the end of a woman's sexuality. In this riveting conversation, discover how midlife can unfold as a magnificent era of sexual exploration, fostering healthier, empowered, and fulfilled lives. Get ready for an insightful and passionate exchange between Eva and Erin as they not only express their profound appreciation for midlife sexuality, but also delve into the biological benefits of menopause and the intricate relationship between sex and spirituality. You don’t want to miss this one. Here's what’s on the table: Why midlife is far from a sexual retirement phase for women, but can be a vibrant era for sexual exploration and fulfillment How actively pursuing sex, pleasure, and orgasms contributes to women's empowerment, health, and overall success. Unpacking the biology behind perimenopause and menopause and how it strips away the inclination to accommodate others Defining sexual archetypes in midlife: the Queen and the Witch The importance of allowing oneself to be wild, rebellious, and impulsive in midlife Redefining what sexuality looks like in midlife and how to take control of common challenges How treating sex as a spiritual practice can lead to profound experiences and heightened creativity Embracing a shift towards responsive, rather than spontaneous, sexuality in midlife OUR GUEST: Eva Clay is an acclaimed sexologist, psychotherapist and professional troublemaker whose mission is to illuminate the ménage-a-trois of soul, sex and science. With a background as a former neuroscience professor, she intertwines intelligence with sensuality, unlocking innate pleasure potentials for thousands. As a seasoned practitioner of sexual tantra for over a decade, her work seamlessly blends the profound with the playful. Particularly passionate about guiding women through the midlife portal, Eva advocates for relishing the most vibrant phase of their sex and love life. Featured as an expert in VICE TV, Sexy-Fit, Truth-Telling, Super Power Experts, and The Sassy and Single Show, she also graces stages as a keynote speaker at Wanderlust yoga festivals. Want more Eva? Find her online at www.EvaClay.com and follow her on Instagram: @evaclay Want more Hotter Than Ever? Find us and episode transcripts online at www.hotterthaneverpod.com and sign up for our mailing list! Follow us on: Instagram: @hotterthaneverpod TikTok: @hotterthaneverpod Youtube: @hotterthaneverpod Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090728330453 Follow Hotter Than Ever wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode! We’d love to hear what you think about the show - tell us what stories are resonating with you by writing us a review on Apple Podcasts. Want advice about some aspect of your life over 40? DM us on IG @hotterthaneverpod or text/leave a voicemail on the Hotter Than Ever Hottie Hotline at (323) 844-2303! Mentioned in this episode: Broad Collective Learn more about Broad Collective and our membership network for midlife women entrepreneurs at broadcollective.com. Apply to join Broad Collective at https://broad-collective-co.mn.co/landing
Jan 30, 2024 · 18 min
Listener Mail: How Do I Start Dating Again After 60?
“Change is often uncomfortable and is almost always good.” Today, we’re delving into a topic near and dear to our hearts: reentering the dating scene. This week, our hot listener is looking for Erin’s top three tips for women over 60 venturing back into dating. While the prospect of dating again may be uncomfortable, Erin is your trusty guide to transform this experience into a golden opportunity for self-discovery and, of course, a bit of fun. Join us as Erin shares her essential tips for navigating the dating landscape during this exciting phase of life, including: Treating your dating app profile as a marketing project to attract the best matches Cultivating an open mind to potential matches you might not have considered Turning virtual connections to real-life dates (and keeping it casual) Want advice about some aspect of your life over 40? DM us on IG @hotterthaneverpod or text/leave a voicemail on the Hotter Than Ever Hottie Hotline at (323) 844-2303 and your question could end up on the show! Want more Hotter Than Ever? Find us and episode transcripts online at www.hotterthaneverpod.com and sign up for our mailing list! Follow us on: Instagram: @hotterthaneverpod TikTok: @hotterthaneverpod Youtube: @hotterthaneverpod Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090728330453 Follow Hotter Than Ever wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode! We’d love to hear what you think about the show - tell us what stories are resonating with you by writing us a review on Apple Podcasts. Mentioned in this episode: Broad Collective Learn more about Broad Collective and our membership network for midlife women entrepreneurs at broadcollective.com. Apply to join Broad Collective at https://broad-collective-co.mn.co/landing
Jan 25, 2024 · 22 min
Dildocon 2024 or I Went to a Pleasure Conference So You Don't Have To
“I am dedicated to having experiences that are aligned with my curiosity,” Have you ever wondered what it’s like to attend a sex conference? Erin did the daring deed so that you wouldn’t have to. In this episode, Erin takes us on the wild ride that was attending the Vibe Expo, a trade show dedicated to sensory exploration, pleasure, play things, sensual ecstasy, and intimacy insights. Although it sounds right up Erin’s alley (and it is), it was still a step outside of her comfort zone. From Tiki-themed sex toys to BDSM gear, she shares the craziest highlights and the unexpected rewards, including: The power of embracing your curiosity, even when it doesn’t fit in with societal norms The fun in exploring business opportunities that align with your passions The joy that comes with normalizing pleasure and celebrating sexuality Have you been enjoying our new advice episodes this year? If you’re looking for advice about some aspect of life over 40, Erin is here to offer her thoughts on whatever you’re going through. DM us on IG @hotterthaneverpod or text/leave a voicemail on the Hotter Than Ever Hottie Hotline at (323) 844-2303 and your question could end up on the show! Want more Hotter Than Ever? Find us and episode transcripts online at www.hotterthaneverpod.com and sign up for our mailing list! Follow us on: Instagram: @hotterthaneverpod TikTok: @hotterthaneverpod Youtube: @hotterthaneverpod Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090728330453 Follow Hotter Than Ever wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode! We’d love to hear what you think about the show - tell us what stories are resonating with you by writing us a review on Apple Podcasts. Mentioned in this episode: Broad Collective Learn more about Broad Collective and our membership network for midlife women entrepreneurs at broadcollective.com. Apply to join Broad Collective at https://broad-collective-co.mn.co/landing
Jan 23, 2024 · 13 min
Listener Mail: How Do I Age Gracefully?
“We need to revise our imagery of what elderhood looks like.” Welcome back to another episode in the Hotter Than Ever advice series! In today’s episode, we’re tackling two hot listener questions around how to balance aging gracefully, while also looking youthful and attractive. We dive into the age-old debate: should we use Botox, plastic surgery and hair dye to keep looking young? Or do we embrace the full force of natural aging, wrinkles, gray hair, and all? For Erin, it’s all about doing whatever makes you feel like the best version of yourself. Whether your version of sexy is getting a boob lift or letting your hair go full silver fox: you do you. Join us for Erin's candid insights on beauty, aging, and navigating the labyrinth of societal expectations surrounding women's appearance. It's time to own your hotness at any age. Want advice about some aspect of your life over 40? DM us on IG @hotterthaneverpod or text/leave a voicemail on the Hotter Than Ever Hottie Hotline at (323) 844-2303 and your question could end up on the show! Want more Hotter Than Ever? Find us and episode transcripts online at www.hotterthaneverpod.com and sign up for our mailing list! Follow us on: Instagram: @hotterthaneverpod TikTok: @hotterthaneverpod Youtube: @hotterthaneverpod Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090728330453 Follow Hotter Than Ever wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode! We’d love to hear what you think about the show - tell us what stories are resonating with you by writing us a review on Apple Podcasts. Mentioned in this episode: Broad Collective Learn more about Broad Collective and our membership network for midlife women entrepreneurs at broadcollective.com. Apply to join Broad Collective at https://broad-collective-co.mn.co/landing
Jan 18, 2024 · 50 min
Besties for Life: The Power of Female Friendship
“Female friends are treasures and they hold a mirror to one another in a way that no one else can.” Do you have that ride-or-die friend who's witnessed your every transformation throughout years? That friend who will stay by your side and be supportive, loving, and nonjudgmental no matter the new paths you’re exploring? For our host Erin, that friend has been Amber Rickert—a licensed clinical social worker, psychotherapist, and trauma specialist and also Erin’s best friend for the past 30 years. In this funny and touching episode, Erin and Amber take you on a journey through their friendship, from the freezing winter night they met in college to the present. This engaging conversation delves into the profound aspects of female friendships, and the supportive and nonjudgmental role they play in one another's lives. Together, they explore: Discovering the generosity and kindness of women through their friendship Sharing a love for adventure, risk-taking, and leading lives that defy convention. Embracing their different approaches to relationships Navigating conflicts through open communication and feedback Supporting each other through diverse life choices, with a commitment to judgment-free acceptance Candid discussions about their journeys with recovery programs What it would be like to cohabitate together as they age OUR GUEST: Amber Rickert, LCSW, MPH: Psychotherapist specializing in PTSD, developmental trauma, and couples therapy. With practices in Vermont and California, Amber is dedicated to transforming lives through the power of relationships. Focused on breaking through challenges, she helps clients navigate the unconscious mind. Passionate about the transformative energy of friendship and partnership, Amber believes in changing the world one relationship at a time. Want more Amber? Find her online at www.amberrickert.com Want more Hotter Than Ever? Find us and episode transcripts online at www.hotterthaneverpod.com and sign up for our mailing list! Follow us on: Instagram: @hotterthaneverpod TikTok: @hotterthaneverpod Youtube: @hotterthaneverpod Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090728330453 Follow Hotter Than Ever wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode! We’d love to hear what you think about the show - tell us what stories are resonating with you by writing us a review on Apple Podcasts. Mentioned in this episode: Broad Collective Learn more about Broad Collective and our membership network for midlife women entrepreneurs at broadcollective.com. Apply to join Broad Collective at https://broad-collective-co.mn.co/landing
Jan 16, 2024 · 10 min
Listener Mail: How Soon Is Too Soon To Date After Divorce?
“Is it possible to mostly grieve your marriage before it ends?” Welcome back to another episode in the Hotter Than Ever advice series! In these episodes, Erin gives her opinionated (but not professional) feedback on your questions and quandaries on everything from love, to sex, relationships, career, aging, ambition, divorce, and more! In today’s episode, we’re tackling a listener question that Erin knows all too well: how soon is too soon to start dating after divorce? While some people in our listener’s corner have been telling her to give it time because it’s only been six months, she knew long before then that the marriage was over. Plus, there was no sex for the last year and a half. Tune in for Erin’s advice based on navigating a very similar situation, and why post-divorce the perfect time to embrace your newfound freedom and play the field, but keep it light. Want advice about some aspect of your life over 40? DM us on IG @hotterthaneverpod or text/leave a voicemail on the Hotter Than Ever Hottie Hotline at (323) 844-2303 and your question could end up on the show! Want more Hotter Than Ever? Find us and episode transcripts online at www.hotterthaneverpod.com and sign up for our mailing list! Follow us on: Instagram: @hotterthaneverpod TikTok: @hotterthaneverpod Youtube: @hotterthaneverpod Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090728330453 Follow Hotter Than Ever wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode! We’d love to hear what you think about the show - tell us what stories are resonating with you by writing us a review on Apple Podcasts. Mentioned in this episode: Broad Collective Learn more about Broad Collective and our membership network for midlife women entrepreneurs at broadcollective.com. Apply to join Broad Collective at https://broad-collective-co.mn.co/landing
Jan 11, 2024 · 25 min
New Year Reset: Seeking Your Spark in 2024
“There's so much more in life on the other side of discomfort.” We’re kicking this week off by discussing New Year’s resolutions. Not the clichés that fall by the wayside as quickly as they’ve started, but commitments that can lead to genuine growth and fulfillment. While each of us is constantly evolving and changing every day of our lives, there’s something special about taking time to reflect on how we want to change going forward and getting clarity on our roadmap for the future. Join Erin as she shares her 2024 goals, including: Faith that everything good is on its way personally, professionally, and in relationships Creating more love, connection, friendship, and community Setting clearer boundaries—especially post-divorce Forging deeper intimacy, honesty, and self-expression in relationships Continuing the path of sexual exploration and listening to your body Pursuing the people and things that spark joy Have you been enjoying our new advice episodes this year? If you’re looking for advice about some aspect of life over 40, Erin is here to offer her thoughts on whatever you’re going through. DM us on IG @hotterthaneverpod or text/leave a voicemail on the Hotter Than Ever Hottie Hotline at (323) 844-2303 and your question could end up on the show! Want more Hotter Than Ever? Find us and episode transcripts online at www.hotterthaneverpod.com and sign up for our mailing list! Follow us on: Instagram: @hotterthaneverpod TikTok: @hotterthaneverpod Youtube: @hotterthaneverpod Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090728330453 Follow Hotter Than Ever wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode! We’d love to hear what you think about the show - tell us what stories are resonating with you by writing us a review on Apple Podcasts. Mentioned in this episode: Broad Collective Learn more about Broad Collective and our membership network for midlife women entrepreneurs at broadcollective.com. Apply to join Broad Collective at https://broad-collective-co.mn.co/landing
Jan 4, 2024 · 10 min
Listener Mail: Am I Being “Aged Out” Of My Job?
“The money is the indicator of how much they care about keeping you.” Welcome back to another episode in the Hotter Than Ever advice series! Informed by her very subjective POV and life experience, each week Erin takes a crack at answering your questions and quandaries on everything from love, to sex, relationships, career, aging, ambition, divorce, and more! Today, we’re unpacking one listener’s corporate dilemma. She’s a seasoned tech professional who’s always been a top-performer, but recently found herself with no bonus or salary increase this year. Is she being pushed toward the door? Is it age bias? If corporate life has expired for us, how do we find the courage to opt-out of the bullshit? Tune in as Erin shares her POV from many years in the corporate world, including the importance of following the money, asking the right questions, and letting your intuition guide you to your next steps. Want advice about some aspect of your life over 40? DM us on IG @hotterthaneverpod or text/leave a voicemail on the Hotter Than Ever Hottie Hotline at (323) 844-2303 and your question could end up on the show! Want more Hotter Than Ever? Find us and episode transcripts online at www.hotterthaneverpod.com and sign up for our mailing list! Follow us on: Instagram: @hotterthaneverpod TikTok: @hotterthaneverpod Youtube: @hotterthaneverpod Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090728330453 Follow Hotter Than Ever wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode! We’d love to hear what you think about the show - tell us what stories are resonating with you by writing us a review on Apple Podcasts. Mentioned in this episode: Broad Collective Learn more about Broad Collective and our membership network for midlife women entrepreneurs at broadcollective.com. Apply to join Broad Collective at https://broad-collective-co.mn.co/landing
Jan 2, 2024 · 9 min
Listener Mail: High School Flame Reignited
“How do I keep his interest without scaring him away?” Happy 2024 Hotties! We’re so excited to bring you our first (ever!) advice episode! Informed by her very subjective POV and life experience (as opposed to actual expertise) each week Erin addresses your questions and quandaries on everything from love, to sex, relationships, career, aging, ambition, divorce, and more! In this episode we’re diving into a hot listener question about maintaining interest in a rekindled high school romance, post-divorce. Tune in as Erin shares her advice for success, including honest self-expression, clear communication, and letting go of what you can’t control. Want advice about some aspect of your life over 40? DM us on IG @hotterthaneverpod or text/leave a voicemail on the Hotter Than Ever Hottie Hotline at (323) 844-2303 and your question could end up on the show! Want more Hotter Than Ever? Find us and episode transcripts online at www.hotterthaneverpod.com and sign up for our mailing list! Follow us on: Instagram: @hotterthaneverpod TikTok: @hotterthaneverpod Youtube: @hotterthaneverpod Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090728330453 Follow Hotter Than Ever wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode! We’d love to hear what you think about the show - tell us what stories are resonating with you by writing us a review on Apple Podcasts. Mentioned in this episode: Broad Collective Learn more about Broad Collective and our membership network for midlife women entrepreneurs at broadcollective.com. Apply to join Broad Collective at https://broad-collective-co.mn.co/landing
Dec 28, 2023 · 53 min
Adapting to Big Changes in Midlife with Humorist Annabelle Gurwich
“Could I have a bigger imagination about this point in my life than I thought I might need to have?” Annabelle Gurwitch is no stranger to reinvention–or as she prefers to call it, adaptation. As an actress and TV show host turned best-selling author, she understands the importance of embracing change in order to shift your life circumstances. In her latest memoir “You're Leaving When? Adventures in Downward Mobility,” Annabelle chronicles one of those changes: her decision to welcome an unhoused couple into her home after becoming an empty-nester. This decision not only shifts many of her own beliefs, but also beautifully underscores the importance of discarding preconceived notions at the doorstep of understanding. In this episode, Annabelle’s insights illuminate the intricacies of downward mobility, the pursuit of adaptation over reinvention, embracing creativity, and fostering community amidst personal and societal shifts. Annabelle’s ability to infuse humor into each of these subjects is just one of the many reasons you don’t want to miss this conversation. Here’s what’s on the table: Defining ‘downward mobility’ and its impact on the middle class and women. Navigating life and career changes with resilience and flexibility. Embracing the unconventional path of being a creative and a freelancer. Coping with missed opportunities and unexpected life turns. Redefining the terms of relationships in midlife and post-divorce. Understanding others' experiences and humanity without passing judgment. Why small actions matter, even when the world’s problems feel overwhelming. Creating enduring significance and meaning in life's choices through pursuing long-term goals. The strength of friendships and community during tough times. OUR GUEST: Annabelle Gurwitch, a New York Times Bestselling author, actress, and activist, skillfully blends humor and insight in her work. Her latest book, "You're Leaving When? Adventures in Downward Mobility," was a 2021 New York Times Favorite Book for Healthy Living and a Thurber Prize finalist in 2022. Her versatile career also spnas TV and film, from co-hosting TBS's "Dinner & a Movie" to roles in "Seinfeld" and "Dexter". Annabelle co-hosts the podcast "Tiny Victories" and lectures at institutions like The School of the New York Times. Her impact extends through patient advocate talks and recognition in the Museum of the Southern Jewish Experience. Want more Annabelle? Find her online at https://www.annabellegurwitch.com/ and follow her on: Instagram: @annabellegurwitch1 X/Twitter: @LAGurwitch Facebook: @annabellegurwitchauthor Want more Hotter Than Ever? Find us and episode transcripts online at www.hotterthaneverpod.com and sign up for our mailing list! Follow us on: Instagram: @hotterthaneverpod TikTok: @hotterthaneverpod Youtube: @hotterthaneverpod Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090728330453 Follow Hotter Than Ever wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode! We’d love to hear what you think about the show - tell us what stories are resonating with you by writing us a review on Apple Podcasts. Want advice about some aspect of your life over 40? DM us on IG @hotterthaneverpod or text/leave a voicemail on the Hotter Than Ever Hottie Hotline at (323) 844-2303! Mentioned in this episode: Broad Collective Learn more about Broad Collective and our membership network for midlife women entrepreneurs at broadcollective.com. Apply to join Broad Collective at https://broad-collective-co.mn.co/landing
Dec 21, 2023 · 27 min
2023 Hotter Than Ever Year in Review
“How much time do you think you have left?” Posed by friend and episode 6 guest, Sheri Salata, this question became part of Erin’s catalyst to launching Hotter Than Ever in April 2023. Since its inception, this podcast has been dedicated to empowering women to cultivate lives brimming with joy and authenticity. Thirty-six episodes and 25 interviews later, we couldn’t be more grateful for the community that has been built around this mission and the extraordinary conversations with countless incredible women that have followed. As 2023 comes to a close, join Erin as she reflects on the year and shares her top 10 insights from guest conversations. We explore everything from sexuality, self-talk, and trauma to pursuing long-term goals and finding last joy. Here’s a glimpse of the takeaways: Self-love: The antidote to countless life hurdles The profound link between sexual empowerment and overall agency Mastering your inner dialogue and silencing the self-critic Learning to appreciate your perfectionism and ambition Trauma is intergenerational and why it’s important to break the cycle Looking inward to find the answers you’re looking for The myth of quick fixes; the magic of meaning lies in long-term goals The power in not only accepting, but embracing change Discovering sources of enduring joy in your life Crafting depth and meaning for lasting happiness We’re also excited to announce an exciting update–Hotter Than Ever will be moving to two episodes a week starting in January 2024! If you have a question, an issue, or some aspect of your life you want advice on, reach out and we’ll chat through it on our new second weekly episode! Get in touch with us by leaving a voicemail or sending a text to the Hotter Than Ever Hotline at (323) 844-2303 or DMing us on Instagram @hotterthaneverpod. Want more Hotter Than Ever? Find us and episode transcripts online at www.hotterthaneverpod.com and sign up for our mailing list! Follow us on: Instagram: @hotterthaneverpod TikTok: @hotterthaneverpod Youtube: @hotterthaneverpod Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090728330453 Follow Hotter Than Ever wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode! We’d love to hear what you think about the show - tell us what stories are resonating with you by writing us a review on Apple Podcasts. DM us on Instagram @hotterthaneverpod or call in to the Hotter Than Ever Hotline at (323) 844-2303. Mentioned in this episode: Broad Collective Learn more about Broad Collective and our membership network for midlife women entrepreneurs at broadcollective.com. Apply to join Broad Collective at https://broad-collective-co.mn.co/landing