Help! We Started A Podcast!

Ryan and CC

Life doesn’t come with instructions, but it definitely comes with regrets, awkward moments, and a whole lot of “Did that really just happen?” So, we started a podcast — not because we have it all figured out, but because we don’t.

Here, we talk about the stuff that keeps you up at night and the thoughts you laugh at by morning. Dreams, failures, what-ifs, and the occasional overshare — nothing’s off-limits. Think of it as a heart-to-heart with friends who won’t judge (but might laugh a little).

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Jul 3, 2025 · 1 hr 10 min
Ego Driven Men | Emotionally Misled Women
Welcome back to Help! We Started a Podcast! Tonight, your favorite buddies Judge and Coach CC with guest Alex, are fully staffed and emotionally unstable enough to tackle the jungle that is modern dating. First up on the chopping block? The delusional ‘alpha male’ or as we like to call him, the Alphalamunin. He’s got the roar of a lion, but he’s bringing sea monkey energy to the table. We’re talking about men who perform masculinity with all the confidence of a TED Talk, but none of the substance… or financial contribution. But wait — it gets messier. We’re also looking at the mysterious case of misdirected rage. Why is it that some women will track down the girl he DM’d like she stole rent money, but let the man who pressed send walk away with a pat on the back and a sandwich? So grab a drink, a mirror, and maybe your therapist’s number — 'cause we’re here to roast responsibly, drag with love, and drop receipts like confetti. It’s time for emotional clarity, not chaos. This is The Roman Empire of Coach and Alex — and tonight, we're conquering delusions.
Jun 23, 2025 · 39 min
Straight Talk on the Rainbow Road
Judge’s birthday falls in June—so imagine his mild confusion when the rainbow flags, glitter, and parade floats started stealing the spotlight. In this solo-ish hilarious but honest episode, he sits down with TikTok and IG content creator Jera, a proudly queer Filipino, to talk about what Pride Month really means—beyond the logos and merch. They unpack rainbow capitalism, the pressure to be “loud and proud,” and how Pride is also about peace, healing, and not explaining your entire identity over coffee. Expect: ✨ Real talk on queer life in the Philippines 🎭 A game called Tanggap o Tiwalag? 🧠 A crash course on LGBTQIA+ (yes, all the letters) 💅 And Judge's trying really hard not to get canceled Pride isn’t just a party—it’s protest, it’s power, it’s personal. 📣 Press play. You might laugh, learn, or just finally figure out how not to sound like a walking HR memo.
Jun 6, 2025 · 46 min
Dating Then & Now: Chivalry, Love Letters, & the Digital Age
Love letters? Serenades? Pulling out chairs? Cute — but can they really compete with a perfectly timed meme reply and a Spotify playlist link at 2AM? Or is romance just rebranded now… as “seen 8:42PM” In this episode, CC and Judge Ryan (known as “Uncle” in the office — but not Alex’s uncle, please calm down) tackle the evolution of dating: from handwritten love letters to dating app Hinge prompts. We’re talking chivalry, situationships, and why sending flowers now feels riskier than hitting ‘Send Money.’ Joining us all the way from Norway (literally — she phoned in!), our guest Alex shares how dating styles differ across time and borders. Spoiler: grand gestures still exist… they just look different when WiFi is involved. Swipe in, laugh a little, and maybe ask yourself: are we really too busy for grand gestures — or just scared they won’t be returned?
May 31, 2025 · 1 hr 8 min
Finding Balance: Career, Job Interviews & Staying Inspired
In this milestone 11th episode, CC & Ryan dive into one of the biggest challenges we all face—finding balance in the chaos of career growth, job hunting, and personal life. What You’ll Hear in This Episode: ✅ Job Hunting & Interviews – From awkward interview moments to essential tips on confidence and preparation. ✅ Workplace Motivation – How to stay inspired in your career even when things feel overwhelming. ✅ Balancing Life & Work – Is there a secret formula? Time management hacks, personal stories, and setting boundaries. Expect real talk, laughs, and practical advice as we tackle the ups and downs of career journeys. Plus, we want to hear from you! Drop your biggest career or work-life balance struggles, and let’s keep the conversation going. Hit ▶️ and let’s dive in! PS: You'll hear 🎷 jazz music and it may sound like they were in some hotel's restaurant. Because they were!
May 21, 2025 · 40 min
Situationship: Stuck In The Middle With You
Are you in that… thing? Not quite dating, definitely not just friends, floating somewhere in the nebulous zone of a situationship? You're not alone! This week, Coach and Judge dive headfirst into the messy middle with their hilariously honest guest, Nastassja. They dissect the anatomy of the undefined, asking the big questions: What is this anyway? Why are we all doing it? And is there an exit strategy that doesn't involve emotional wreckage? Pardon the sound of Nastassja's mic, she was a bit malikot! Prepare for tough love from Coach, painfully relatable stories from Nastassja, and Judge… well, he might just be having an existential crisis about his own situationship in real-time. Get ready for a raw, funny, and maybe a little too accurate look at modern dating's grey area. This episode might just be the "talk" you didn't even know you needed.
May 14, 2025 · 45 min
Mother's Day Special: Of Unspoken Love and Sliced Sibuyas
This episode is a love letter to every kind of mom — the ones who gave birth and the ones who simply showed up. From biological moms to adoptive ones, stepmoms, lolas, titas-turned-mamas, single dads playing double duty, to the unexpected heroes who filled mother-shaped spaces in our lives! We see you, we honor you. Coach CC and Judge Ryan team up to share heartfelt stories of Filipino-style motherhood — where affection is often packed in lunchboxes, whispered through curfews, or stitched into last-minute school projects. Whether you’ve carried a child, carried someone through heartbreak, or carried groceries while muttering “nakuuu,” this episode is for you. Expect laughter, a few tears, and lots of love. Now… let’s talk about the onion. While most Filipino moms reach for Vicks like it’s a prescription from heaven — rubbing it on your chest, back, feet, and soul. Coach CC’s mom? She had a different gospel. You'll wanna hear the full story!
May 8, 2025 · 44 min
Sustain Your Spark: Self-Care Beyond the Bubble Bath
Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s self-respect. And in this episode, Ryan and CC explore what that really looks like in the middle of deadlines, drama, and daily stress. Forget the clichés. They’re breaking down the myths: that self-care is only for people with time, money, or face masks. From morning walks to journaling, tech detoxes to boundaries—this episode is packed with simple, practical ways to care for yourself without the guilt. Expect their signature blend of honesty, humor, and that lowkey push-pull dynamic that keeps things interesting. Ryan tries to stay serious, CC keeps it real but playful, and somewhere in between, they remind each other—and you—that taking care of yourself is the first step to showing up better for everyone else. Because here’s the truth: you can’t keep giving if you’re always running on empty. Oh, and what's with the mung beans? It's just CC looking out for Judge Ryan's health—since he says slow down with the oats (hello, purine)—and CC’s worried about the balance. (Because sometimes, a little health advice comes with the territory.) Take the break. Press play. You deserve it.
May 3, 2025 · 43 min
Kung Ayaw Mo, Huwag Mo — The Audacity of Half-Hearted Love
Welcome back to the chaos and clarity that is Heart on Trial! In this episode, Judge Ryan drops the gavel on one-sided efforts and blurred lines, while Coach CC delivers her signature blend of dark humor and gut-punch wisdom. The banter? Beautifully brutal. Sharp one-liners, playful digs, and the kind of chemistry you can’t fake. Whether it’s decoding mixed signals or defending the dignity of letting go, these two hit where it hurts—but with love. This week’s case dives into the all-too-familiar heartbreak of half-hearted affection. That person who shows up when it’s easy, disappears when it matters. Judge Ryan lays down the truth. Coach CC says what most won’t. And in between the laughter and low blows, you just might find the clarity you’ve been avoiding. “Sometimes, it’s not that they didn’t love you. They just didn’t love you enough to stay.” Listen now. Let the gavel fall. Let your heart heal.
Apr 24, 2025 · 42 min
Accidentally Deep (Oops, All Vulnerability)
This wasn’t the plan… but let’s be real — some episodes just take on a life of their own. 🎙️ We were all set to talk Red Flags and Green Flags — but then a beautifully written piece landed in our inbox, and we knew we had to make space for it. What followed? A deep-dive into the big stuff: life, love, career, heartbreak, growth… and maybe a little oversharing. Somehow, this turned into a lowkey “getting to know each other” episode — the kind where you’re not sure if it’s a podcast or a heart-to-heart at 2AM. 💡 Spoiler: Nobody was drinking... we just sound like we were crying at 3AM in the notes app. 😅
Apr 17, 2025 · 50 min
Love Languages 101: Part 2 - Connecting, Communicating, and Cracking the Code
Welcome back to Help! We Started A Podcast!—Ryan and CC, alive, lutang, but still fighting the good fight! (Laughs guaranteed, lutang energy optional.) This week, we’re diving into Part 2 of our love languages deep dive—Heart School 101 style. 💬 Real listener questions? Check. 💥 Wisdom bombs on communication and why simple touch matters? Double check. Plus, a special insight from Betina that’ll make you rethink how you love. Ready to stop guessing and start connecting? Plug in those earphones! 🚀 🎵 [Vibe while listening? “Anxiety” by Doechii—love is anxiety-inducing, but worth it.]
Apr 17, 2025 · 30 min
Love Languages 101: Buffet of Feelings (Now with Better Mics!)
Finally... you can hear us properly! 🥳 We upgraded our mics, and just in time, because today's topic deserves crystal-clear audio: Love Languages! In this episode, Ryan and CC dive into how we give and receive love — from acts of service to gifts to a little bit of everything (buffet-style, of course ). We’re breaking it down, sharing stories, answering your questions, and laughing along the way. This is only Part 1, so buckle up — we’re just getting started.
Apr 8, 2025 · 51 min
AITA & ABYG: Real Talk, No Filter
Welcome back to Help! We Started A Podcast! In Episode 3, we're diving deep into the most outrageous ABYG and AITA confessions—because who doesn't love a little drama? Get ready for our unsolicited advice and unfiltered hot takes as we unpack the messiest of situations. From relationship fails to family feuds, we’re here to share our thoughts with no filter. Buckle up because Episode 3 is packed with all the wild confessions, laughs, and, of course, our effed up mic. LOL, let’s get into it!
Mar 28, 2025 · 58 min
Decluttering: When Even Your Bestie Hits Unfriend
We’re back for episode 2! This time, we’re talking about decluttering — not just your messy room, but your mind, your habits, and even those unnecessary thoughts taking up rent-free space. From clearing out physical clutter to letting go of emotional baggage, we’ll share unsolicited advice and a few stories that might just make you rethink what’s worth keeping. And hey, before you judge the mic quality — yeah, Ryan still sounds like he’s recording in an empty warehouse. Blame the echo, not the effort. You’ll understand.
Mar 22, 2025 · 30 min
Wait, Why Are We Doing This?
So… we started a podcast. Was it a well-thought-out decision? Not really. But here we are, introducing ourselves, talking about our hobbies (or obsessions), and unpacking what possessed us to grab a mic and hit record. No experts, no scripts — just two people pretending we know what we’re doing. Welcome to Help! We Started A Podcast! Full disclosure — the audio's a little rough, but let’s call it ‘authentic ambiance.’ You know, like those indie tracks that sound ‘raw’ on purpose? Same vibe. Think of it as us being relatable. But don’t worry, we’re on a steep learning curve — next episode, we might even sound like we recorded in a real studio. Stick around, it only gets better!