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Heal, Survive & Thrive!

Stephanie Lyn

Welcome! Here we are talking about real confidence, high self-worth, and being fully in control of your life.

Funny how just when you think you’re doing okay, another hurdle shows up. This time you’ll need to go deeper to really overcome what you’re going through.

Whether it is being single for too long, perimenopause, another difficult breakup, losing yourself in yet another relationship, or simply not feeling as confident as you know you could, you are in the right place.

We dive into all the big topics: confidence, self-worth, boundaries, mental health, self-parenting, and goal setting. We cover the ups and downs of midlife, figuring out your next chapter, and finally moving out of that stuck phase that seems never-ending.

This is for the woman who thought she was doing all the right things, gave so much to everyone else, and now feels lost, drained, or disconnected from who she really is.

Here you will start getting your spark back.

www.StephanieLynLifeCoaching.com

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#379
Yesterday · 25 min
Why You Keep Falling Back Into Old Patterns
In this episode, we explore one of the hardest truths of personal growth: the most challenging boundaries to hold aren't with toxic or demanding people—they're with your own old habits. It is easy to prepare for a fight with an external boundary, but once the dust settles, we often find ourselves right back in the same exhausting cycles. Tune in as we break down why fighting your own autopilot is so tough, how people-pleasing and over-explaining disguise themselves as kindness, and how to start catching your reflexes in real time so you can quietly choose yourself. Thanks for listening! Find us on YouTube Channel: www.YouTube.com/StephanieLynCoaching 🔗 Connect & Learn More: Join Our Newsletter: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/newsletter Private Coaching: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/coachingservices Online Courses: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/coaching-courses 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanielyncoach 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephanielyncoaching 👉 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stephanielyncoaching www.StephanieLynLifeCoaching.com
#378
October 14 · 31 min
Recognizing the Perpetual Victim
In this episode, we tackle the crucial line between being a victim and adopting a permanent victim identity after surviving a toxic relationship. Validating what you went through the gaslighting, chronic stress, and boundary erosion is an essential part of telling the truth about your reality. But holding onto a narrative of helplessness can accidentally keep you trapped in the past. Tune in to explore how to acknowledge the trauma you survived without letting it dictate your future, stop waiting for validation from the person who hurt you, and reclaim total ownership of your healing. Thanks for listening! Find us on YouTube Channel: www.YouTube.com/StephanieLynCoaching 🔗 Connect & Learn More: Join Our Newsletter: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/newsletter Private Coaching: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/coachingservices Online Courses: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/coaching-courses 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanielyncoach 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephanielyncoaching 👉 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stephanielyncoaching www.StephanieLynLifeCoaching.com
#377
September 29 · 25 min
Outgrowing Friendships
Let’s break down the relationships in our lives. Who should stay, and who have we outgrown? We often feel guilty when we know it may be time to end a long-term relationship, whether it is with a sister, brother, or longtime friend. We stay connected to people for years because we think we should. But we often do not ask ourselves the important questions that can help us see whether someone is truly good for us and whether the relationship still aligns with who we are today. So today, I want to give you some questions you can ask yourself to help you decide whether it is time to stay, leave, or simply adjust the role this person has in your life. Thanks for listening! Find us on YouTube Channel: www.YouTube.com/StephanieLynCoaching 🔗 Connect & Learn More: Join Our Newsletter: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/newsletter Private Coaching: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/coachingservices Online Courses: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/coaching-courses 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanielyncoach 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephanielyncoaching 👉 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stephanielyncoaching www.StephanieLynLifeCoaching.com
#376
September 22 · 24 min
Emotional Manipulation
One of the hardest things to spot and get out of is the entanglement someone can put us in simply by manipulating us to control us. This goes beyond the typical guilt trips. This is controlling how you feel altogether to then control your actions. Let’s discuss not only manipulation and learning about this incredibly powerful manipulation tactic, but also just how powerful it is toward your own sense of self. How dangerous is it not to know whether a person is controlling you psychologically? Thanks for listening! Find us on YouTube Channel: www.YouTube.com/StephanieLynCoaching 🔗 Connect & Learn More: Join Our Newsletter: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/newsletter Private Coaching: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/coachingservices Online Courses: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/coaching-courses 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanielyncoach 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephanielyncoaching 👉 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stephanielyncoaching www.StephanieLynLifeCoaching.com
#375
September 15 · 44 min
Are you Healing or Avoiding Pain?
Today we are going to talk about what it actually takes to heal from something. While a lot of people want to do the heavy lifting, the uncomfortable work, majority would rather sit by and live in their pain. They often don’t mean to do it, but they can’t help themselves. So today we are going to discuss the difference and most importantly whether what you are doing is helping you to “move on” or keeping you stuck in your pain. Thanks for listening! Find us on YouTube Channel: www.YouTube.com/StephanieLynCoaching 🔗 Connect & Learn More: Join Our Newsletter: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/newsletter Private Coaching: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/coachingservices Online Courses: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/coaching-courses 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanielyncoach 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephanielyncoaching 👉 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stephanielyncoaching www.StephanieLynLifeCoaching.com
#374
September 3 · 31 min
The Subtle Sign You’re Experiencing Emotional Abuse
Knowing the textbook definitions of emotional abuse and narcissistic traits is one thing but what actually happens in your body and your day-to-day reality when you are sitting across from someone toxic? In today’s episode, we are stepping away from the clinical checklists and moving into the truth of your own lived experience. We are exploring a very subtle, often overlooked sign that you are experiencing emotional abuse, and why learning to tune into how you actually feel around a person is your ultimate compass for identifying a toxic dynamic. Thanks for listening! Find us on YouTube Channel: www.YouTube.com/StephanieLynCoaching 🔗 Connect & Learn More: Join Our Newsletter: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/newsletter Private Coaching: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/coachingservices Online Courses: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/coaching-courses 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanielyncoach 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephanielyncoaching 👉 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stephanielyncoaching www.StephanieLynLifeCoaching.com
#373
August 26 · 35 min
“Why Am I Doing Everything?” | The Question Women Start Asking in Their 40's
There is a shift that happens to a woman in her 40’s. Today we are going to talk about the years you’ve spent conditioned to be the nurturer, manage everything, give and give only to start to ask yourself the question “Why Am I Doing Everything?” We carry the invisible load, over-function in relationships, and bend ourselves into pretzels to avoid disappointing the people around us. Then perimenopause hits and not only are we exhausted but we’re burnt out and we realize we cannot go on like this. In this episode, we’re unpacking the profound turning point where women stop outsourcing their peace and health. We’re talking about why the urge to people-please finally cracks under its own weight, what happens when you drop the cape, and how reclaiming your own voice changes every relationship in your life, starting with the one you have with yourself Thanks for listening! Find us on YouTube Channel: www.YouTube.com/StephanieLynCoaching 🔗 Connect & Learn More: Join Our Newsletter: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/newsletter Private Coaching: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/coachingservices Online Courses: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/coaching-courses 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanielyncoach 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephanielyncoaching 👉 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stephanielyncoaching www.StephanieLynLifeCoaching.com
#372
August 20 · 45 min
How To Handle Resentment They Have Towards You
Few things feel as uncomfortable as realizing someone harbors resentment toward you. Whether it is a partner, a family member, or a close friend, walking on eggshells around someone else's bitterness is emotionally exhausting. Today we are diving into how to handle this dynamic without losing your cool or getting defensive. It’s important to understand why people hold onto resentment, how to listen without taking on blame that isn’t yours, where to draw the line on disrespect, and why you ultimately have to accept that you cannot force someone else to let go. Thanks for listening! Find us on YouTube Channel: www.YouTube.com/StephanieLynCoaching 🔗 Connect & Learn More: Join Our Newsletter: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/newsletter Private Coaching: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/coachingservices Online Courses: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/coaching-courses 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanielyncoach 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephanielyncoaching 👉 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stephanielyncoaching www.StephanieLynLifeCoaching.com
#371
August 6 · 42 min
How to Stop Scanning for Red Flags (When Everyone Looks Dangerous)
When you've been hurt or betrayed in the past, your brain stops looking for connection and starts acting like a giant security guard. Like no matter how kind or consistent someone is, your brain is secretly scanning every text message, tone of voice, and delayed reply for danger? But living in a constant state of hypervigilance doesn't actually protect you from pain it just makes you suffer through it over and over in your head before anything even happens. Thanks for listening! Find us on YouTube Channel: www.YouTube.com/StephanieLynCoaching 🔗 Connect & Learn More: Join Our Newsletter: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/newsletter Private Coaching: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/coachingservices Online Courses: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/coaching-courses 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanielyncoach 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephanielyncoaching 👉 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stephanielyncoaching www.StephanieLynLifeCoaching.com
#370
July 29 · 30 min
Grace vs. Red Flags: The Difference Between "No One's Perfect" and "They Have Issues"
We are going to break down the difference between someone making a normal, silly mistake and someone actually showing you all the red flags that you may not notice. So many people make excuses for people’s bad character, lifestyles that they don’t like, just to say they have someone they are dating or seeing. Today we are going to break down those walls between a serious red flag vs you might just need to give them grace. The key word in this podcast will be boundaries. Thanks for listening! Find us on YouTube Channel: www.YouTube.com/StephanieLynCoaching 🔗 Connect & Learn More: Join Our Newsletter: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/newsletter Private Coaching: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/coachingservices Online Courses: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/coaching-courses 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanielyncoach 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephanielyncoaching 👉 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stephanielyncoaching www.StephanieLynLifeCoaching.com
#369
July 22 · 37 min
Why Your Confidence Is Slipping After 40 and How to Fix It
We spend our 20s and 30s building our lives, and we hit 40 expecting to feel different, better, and more confident. And to some extent, we do. But there is also a list of things coming against us physical, professional, and personal that stop us from feeling our best. If you’re feeling that sudden dip in confidence, I want you to know two things: You are not alone. This isn't just you going through it; it’s almost every woman over 40. You aren't losing your edge. This isn't a decline; it’s just another phase of change. But that doesn’t mean you have to sit in the discomfort. In this week’s episode, we’re talking about what’s actually happening behind the scenes and how to navigate this shift so you can reclaim your power. I’m giving you the 10 power moves to start remembering who you are again! Thanks for listening! Find us on YouTube Channel: www.YouTube.com/StephanieLynCoaching 🔗 Connect & Learn More: Join Our Newsletter: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/newsletter Private Coaching: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/coachingservices Online Courses: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/coaching-courses 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanielyncoach 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephanielyncoaching 👉 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stephanielyncoaching www.StephanieLynLifeCoaching.com
#368
July 15 · 30 min
Why Everything Seems To Be Coming To The Surface
Have you ever felt like everything you’ve been avoiding, suppressing, or pushing down is suddenly coming up all at once? Maybe you’ve already done a lot of healing, but there’s still something that continues to affect your life, your mood, and the way you see yourself. In this episode, we’re talking about those seasons in life where emotions feel stronger, old wounds resurface, and things you thought you were “over” start showing up again. While it can feel overwhelming, these moments can also bring important awareness and create an opportunity for deeper healing. Thanks for listening! Find us on YouTube Channel: www.YouTube.com/StephanieLynCoaching 🔗 Connect & Learn More: Join Our Newsletter: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/newsletter Private Coaching: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/coachingservices Online Courses: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/coaching-courses 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanielyncoach 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephanielyncoaching 👉 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stephanielyncoaching www.StephanieLynLifeCoaching.com
#367
June 25 · 36 min
How to Stop Obsessive Thinking
We all do it, and we all want to stop but it’s hard. What starts as a habit quickly becomes an addiction. In reality, obsessive thinking is rarely about the subject of your focus; it’s about the illusion of control. Whether you’re ruminating on a relationship, a past mistake, or the unknown, you are simply using these thoughts as a defense mechanism to manage your anxiety. Thanks for listening! www.StephanieLynLifeCoaching.com Find us on YouTube Channel: www.YouTube.com/StephanieLynCoaching 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanielyncoach 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephanielyncoaching 👉 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stephanielyncoaching
#366
June 18 · 43 min
This Wasn't the Plan: Real Conversations About the Struggles Women Face After 40
There comes a point after 40 when life starts to change in ways we never expected. While our experiences may not all be the same, there are so many things many of us are trying to understand, accept, overcome, and navigate during this stage of life. No one really warned us that we might feel this way. So let's talk about what so many women are going through. Maybe you won't relate to every struggle, but chances are you'll recognize more than a few. And sometimes, knowing you're not alone is exactly where healing begins. Thanks for listening! www.StephanieLynLifeCoaching.com Find us on YouTube Channel: www.YouTube.com/StephanieLynCoaching 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanielyncoach 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephanielyncoaching 👉 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stephanielyncoaching
#365
June 12 · 25 min
There is Nothing Wrong with You
We all forget we’re human sometimes. While working on yourself and overcoming what you’ve been through is necessary, that process doesn’t define your life. Discovering who you are whether you’re a deep thinker, an old soul, or a highly sensitive person doesn’t mean you’re someone who needs "fixing." You are here to learn how to love and accept yourself exactly where you are and for who you are. Think about the people in your life you love most: you understand them, you accept them, and you would never want to change them. It’s time to start offering that same grace to yourself. Learning to love yourself after years of judgment and shame is step one. Today, you are finally getting what you need to leave behind the story that you are broken and need fixing. Thanks for listening! www.StephanieLynLifeCoaching.com Find us on YouTube Channel: www.YouTube.com/StephanieLynCoaching 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanielyncoach 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephanielyncoaching 👉 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stephanielyncoaching
#364
June 3 · 17 min
The Silent Treatment
The silent treatment isn't a timeout, it's a punishment. If you've ever been left wondering what you did wrong while someone completely freezes you out, this podcast is for you. We’re breaking down the psychology behind the shutdown, why they choose to withhold, and how to reclaim your power from the silence. I think we can say we've dealt with this and depending on the person and how far this goes will determine what you do next. Thanks for listening! www.StephanieLynLifeCoaching.com Find us on YouTube Channel: www.YouTube.com/StephanieLynCoaching 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanielyncoach 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephanielyncoaching 👉 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stephanielyncoaching
#363
May 27 · 37 min
Building Trust After Heartbreak - How I Let Jason into my Life
I swear, after what I went through, I was not about to let a permanent wall ruin anything good that was headed my way. After you've gone through a lot of disappointments, putting up walls is the hardest thing to overcome because your mind and heart are trying to avoid you feeling what you've felt for a long time: hurt. I am going to share with you what I did to let Jason into my life and heart, and believe me, it took years! Thank you for listening! www.StephanieLynLifeCoaching.com Find us on YouTube Channel: www.YouTube.com/StephanieLynCoaching 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanielyncoach 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephanielyncoaching 👉 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stephanielyncoaching
#362
May 20 · 29 min
It’s Not Your Job to Make Them Happy - The Exhaustion of Doing it All!
In this episode, I’m getting real about a pattern I’ve spent years trying to break: the "Savior Complex." We’re taught that helping, fixing, and over-functioning is the ultimate way to show love, but what if it’s actually the very thing keeping you stuck? I’m sharing my personal realization that it is not my job to make others happy, and why your need to "save" people is likely the biggest obstacle to your own peace of mind. If you are exhausted from holding everyone else together, it is time to put that weight down and finally focus on you. Thank you for listening! www.StephanieLynLifeCoaching.com Find us on YouTube Channel: www.YouTube.com/StephanieLynCoaching 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanielyncoach 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephanielyncoaching 👉 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stephanielyncoaching
#361
May 13 · 52 min
How to Not be Bitter After Heartbreak, Divorce and Ultimate Disappointment
Today I’m joined by Erica Navarro, a woman who navigated a long-term marriage, a painful betrayal, and a complex divorce, all while maintaining her composure and, most importantly, her inner peace. Erica’s story is a powerful look at what happens when the reality of a double life finally comes to light. After 27 years together, she discovered that her husband had been living a separate life for nearly a decade, fueled by manipulation and gaslighting. We sit down to talk about the hard stuff; the gaslighting, the betrayal and how to let go and forgive when it is the hardest thing in the world to do. How to move on and how to rebuild her new life. Thank you for listening! www.StephanieLynLifeCoaching.com Find us on YouTube Channel: www.YouTube.com/StephanieLynCoaching 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanielyncoach 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephanielyncoaching 👉 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stephanielyncoaching
#360
April 30 · 59 min
Identity Shift from Wife + SAHM to Single and In Mid Life
In this episode, I’m joined by Joanna O’Brien, a mother of five who spent over 30 years building a life based on faith and sacrifice, only to discover a reality she never could have imagined. After navigating a marriage marked by gaslighting and emotional abuse, Joanna was hit with the ultimate series of "red flags": massive tax debt, financial ruin, and a betrayal that hit close to home. Joanna opens up about the brutal transition from being a stay-at-home mom to finding herself in her 50s, starting over from scratch with limited resources and a stolen sense of security. Thank you for listening! www.StephanieLynLifeCoaching.com Find us on YouTube Channel: www.YouTube.com/StephanieLynCoaching 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanielyncoach 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephanielyncoaching 👉 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stephanielyncoaching

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