
Don't Learn This the Hard Way: Jillian Turecki's It Begins with You
When I picked up Jillian Turecki's "It Begins with You," I kept thinking: where was this book 12 years ago? I had to learn these dating lessons the hard way - depression, CPTSD, the whole mess. Zero out of 10, do not recommend learning it that way. The book breaks down 9 hard truths about dating and relationships: The mind is a battlefield - limiting beliefs like "my type's not my type" block you from finding someone and showing up fully Knowing theory versus embodying knowledge - revisiting concepts when you're healed (not in crisis) is when they actually sink in Learn from other people's mistakes through client stories and journaling prompts instead of living through the pain yourself I've been single for a thousand years at this point. I get hit on once every three business years. People have called me intimidating my whole life (I just have resting bitch face). And I feel behind sometimes because I rarely get to practice these relationship skills. But that's exactly why books like this matter - you can learn before you need it. Subscribe. Share. Remember that other people's hard-earned lessons can save you years of heartbreak. Small steps, big healing. Keep growing! ✨ Join the conversation! Have you read "It Begins with You"? DM me on Instagram @YourCoachMari! 📚 It Begins with You by Jillian Turecki 💬 LET'S CONNECT: Instagram | TikTok | Growing with Sol Podcast Buy Me a Cafecito We might just have the same taste in books Check out my Book List (Bookshop affiliate) 🌱 LET’S GROW TOGETHER: Schedule your discovery call