Feeding My Faith

When the Lie Knocks: Recognize, Renounce, Replace, Resist

In this episode, I explore how to respond when painful or deceptive thoughts show up. We may not be able to choose every thought that knocks on the door, but we can choose whether to agree with it. I walk through four practical steps: Recognize the lie by separating what happened from what you’ve concluded about yourself. Renounce your agreement with it rather than letting it define your identity or future. Replace it with a truthful, faithful response—not just a positive-sounding one. Resist when the thought returns by standing on what’s true and taking the next faithful step. I also discuss why having an unwanted thought doesn’t mean you’ve failed, and how prayer, honest conversations, and asking trusted people for support can help us respond with faith. The framework was inspired by an idea from Pastor Jimmy Pruitt of Bridge Church in Fredericksburg, Tennessee. Scriptures Mentioned Genesis 3:1–5 — The serpent questions God’s words and character. Romans 12:2 — Be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Romans 8:1 — There is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:8 — Think about what is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable, excellent, and praiseworthy. Luke 4:13 — The devil leaves Jesus until an opportune time. James 4:7 - Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Enjoy the show? Consider Supporting the Show Support this Podcast

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Faith, Freedom, and the Responsibility to Pay Attention

Everybody Look What's Going Down How well do you know the people asking for your vote—and the ideas shaping the next generation? In this departure from my usual Feeding My Faith episode, I challenge you to look beyond headlines, campaign promises, and social media talking points. Beginning with Romans 1:22, I share my concerns about political ideology, religious extremism, and America’s future—and explore what it means to exercise discernment when faith and politics collide. In This Episode I share my perspective on: The Democratic Socialists of America and why I believe voters should examine candidates’ policy proposals more closely. Social media, influencers, and the role belonging can play in shaping young people’s political beliefs. The distinction I draw between peaceful Muslim believers and radical Islamist movements. Immigration, assimilation, religious liberty, and the relationship between religious beliefs and constitutional government. Reports of child exploitation in the United Kingdom and my concerns about institutional accountability. How political figures use Scripture—and why we should examine the conclusions attached to biblical language. The importance of researching local, state, and national candidates rather than relying on party labels. Scripture Referenced Romans 1:22 “Claiming to be wise, they became fools.” This verse frames my challenge to question confident claims, examine what people actually advocate, and consider whether persuasive language reflects wisdom. My Challenge to You Know who represents you. Read candidates’ platforms, examine their public statements, and investigate the policies they support. I close this episode by encouraging you to take personal responsibility for understanding your government and making informed voting decisions. About This Episode This episode contains my political commentary and discussion of terrorism, war, and child sexual exploitation. I reference statistics, quotations, and accounts from several commentators and videos. These show notes summarize my views; they do not independently verify the claims discussed in the episode. Support this Podcast Links to Research Items The immigration Crisis Nick Freitas (31) Britain Is Gone, and America Is Next w/ Tommy Robinson - YouTube (31) GREATEST SPEECH EVER ON ISLAM By Tommy Robinson - Share This NOW - YouTube (31) New Rule: Commie By Your Name | Real Time with Bill Maher Riots in France

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Four Checks From God

It's one thing to follow Christ. It's another thing to surrender to Him. In this episode, Dave digs into Matthew 26 and the Last Supper, where every disciple (including Judas) asks Jesus, "Surely you don't mean me?" Dave unpacks how Judas could sit at the table, hear Jesus teach, and still walk away unsurrendered, then traces that same tension into modern stories of costly surrender: Mel Gibson betting $45 million on The Passion of the Christ with no distributor lined up, Jonathan Roumie's rock-bottom testimony before landing the role of Jesus in The Chosen, Alice Cooper risking his career to go public about his faith, and Sylvester Stallone turning down a fortune to protect his vision for Rocky. The question underneath it all: what are you still holding back from God? In This Episode Why proximity to Jesus isn't the same as discipleship - Judas sat at the table, heard the teaching, and still pursued his own agenda. How Judas's objection to Mary's expensive perfume (John 12) exposed what he was really protecting: money, not principle. The chilling detail behind the 30 pieces of silver - it was the Old Testament price for a slave gored by an ox (Exodus 21:32). What we refuse to surrender in private eventually shapes what we do in public. Common things people quietly withhold from God: relationships, private habits, financial control, bitterness, unforgiveness, ambition, reputation, schedule, and self-made plans. Four real-life stories of costly, public surrender — and what happened after. A challenge to stop asking "what's in it for me" and start asking God to show you His plan. Scripture Referenced Matthew 26:20–25 — Jesus predicts His betrayal at the Last Supper Matthew 26:14–16 — Judas negotiates with the chief priests for 30 pieces of silver John 12:4–6 — Judas objects to Mary anointing Jesus with expensive perfume Exodus 21:32 — the price set for a slave killed by an ox Stories of Surrender Mel Gibson — The Passion of the Christ (2004) Gibson self-funded the film through his own company, Icon Productions, spending roughly $30 million on production and another $15 million on marketing — about $45 million total — without a distribution deal secured. Early accusations of antisemitism made it hard to find a U.S. distributor. He found one anyway: the film grossed $612 million worldwide, became the fifth highest-grossing film of 2004 internationally, the highest-grossing Christian film of all time (inflation-adjusted), the highest-grossing independent film of all time, and the highest-grossing R-rated film in the U.S. at $370 million — a record that stood for 20 years. It earned three nominations at the 77th Academy Awards (Best Makeup, Best Cinematography, Best Original Score). Two sequels, The Resurrection of the Christ, Part One and Part Two, are slated for 2027 and 2028. Jonathan Roumie — the actor who plays Jesus in The Chosen Before landing the role, Roumie woke up one Saturday in 2018 roughly $100 overdrawn, deep in debt, and out of work. He got on his knees and surrendered — quoting Matthew 11:28 out loud: "Come to me, all who are weary and heavy laden, and I will give you rest." That afternoon, four checks arrived in the mail totaling $1,100. A week later, another check equal to all four combined arrived. Three months later, he got the call asking him to audition for The Chosen. Alice Cooper The rock musician known for his shock-rock stage persona began following Jesus and decided to go public about it, despite his manager warning it could end his career. Instead, he experienced a career resurgence, selling out concerts at a level he hadn't seen in years. Sylvester Stallone — Rocky (1976) While nearly broke, Stallone was offered $360,000 for the script to Rocky. He turned it down, believing so strongly in the project that he insisted on starring in it himself for a fraction of the money — around $35,000 — rather than let go of his vision. Reflection Question What's one thing you're still holding on to instead of handing it over to God — and what would it look like to surrender it today? Links & Resources Share this episode with someone who needs to hear it: feedingmyfaith.com Support the show: feedingmyfaith.com/support

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Feeling Jealous? So Were the Disciples

We All Trip Over Jealousy Jealousy can be a real buzzkill, right? I mean, who hasn't scrolled through social media and thought, 'Why can't I have that fancy car or that perfect vacation?' Well, in this episode, we dive into the topic of jealousy and how it can mess with our heads. Our buddy Dave shares some personal stories, from his childhood where he learned the value of hard work, to moments in the Bible where jealousy led to some pretty wild outcomes. All Sorts of Jealousy in the Bible We're talking Cain and Abel, Joseph and his brothers, and even the whole Saul vs. David drama. It's like a soap opera, but the lessons are real! The main takeaway? You're Looking at the Wrong Stuff Focusing on the wrong things, like who has more likes or who's sitting at the cool kids' table, can really steer us off course. Instead, let’s flip the script and look at what truly matters. That is the love and grace that’s already ours. So grab your headphones and let’s get into some fun, light-hearted banter about how to ditch the jealousy blues and keep our eyes on the prize! Support The Show If you got value from this episode, please consider giving some value back. Support this Podcast

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When It Feels Like There is No Hope

Can It Get Any Worse? Have you ever been in a situation where it just seems like things are getting worse and worse and worse, and there's just no hope that anything is going to get better? I found myself, thanks to our good friends at YouTube, being shown depressing video after depressing video that just led me to believe that the world was going to hell in a hand-basket. It got to the point where I just physically felt different. When Nothing is Going Right When things aren't going right, instead of letting it pull you down, look at it as a new adventure. Look at it as an opportunity to learn. When God wanted to make David a king, He didn't give him a crown; He gave him a Goliath. When God wanted to raise Joseph to the palace, He didn't give him a shortcut; He gave him prison. When God wanted to make Esther a queen, He didn't give her comfort; He gave her a crisis. When God wanted to make Moses a leader, He didn't give him a stage; He gave him wilderness. A lot of times, when you feel like God's breaking you; He's actually building you. And what you have to understand is that God doesn't give us what you expect in life. Mentioned in This Episode Geri Carlson's Hope Blvd Podcast. Philippians 4:8 (NIV) "Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things." Jeremiah 29:11 (NIV) "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Psalm 46:10 - Be still and know that I am God. John 16:33 “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” It Feels Good to Give Back If you feel you've received value from this episode, please consider giving some of that back. This can be a one time gift, or a monthly subscription to keep the show going. Go to feedingmyfaith.com/thanks

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You Reap What You Sow: Personal Responsibility

Mirror, Mirror on the Wall: Who's to Blame for Your Failures? Have you ever looked back at something that went wrong and realized, "Yeah... that one's on me"? That's what I'm talking about in this episode: personal responsibility. It's not always a fun topic because it's a whole lot easier to blame someone else. But the truth is, we really do reap what we sow. If we plant bad habits, poor decisions, or excuses, we shouldn't be shocked when those things grow into bigger problems later. I take a look at why so many of us are quick to dodge responsibility and point the finger somewhere else. We dig into parenting, schools, and the role society plays in raising the next generation. Along the way, I share a few laughs, but I also ask some questions that might make you stop and think. We Can Do Better This episode isn't about beating ourselves up. It's about recognizing the choices we make, taking ownership when we get it wrong, and doing a better job of planting the kinds of seeds that lead to a better future. Takeaways: Taking personal responsibility means looking in the mirror when things go wrong, folks! Kids without fathers are at a higher risk of dropping out and living in poverty, no joke! We need to train our children properly or they might end up as total mayhem machines! When parents and schools fail to teach discipline, we create a generation without consequences! The media often sugarcoats teen riots, but we need to call it what it really is: chaos! If we don't raise smart kids, we're basically doomed, and that's not a fun thought! Did You Like This Episode? If you enjoyed this episode please reach out, or tell a friend. If you feel so moved, chip in and help offset the cost of producing the podcast. Thanks so much for listening.

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Happy Fourth of July: Pray For Your Leaders

When I was eleven, America was celebrating its 200th birthday, and everywhere I looked, people were beaming with pride, donning flag T-shirts and embracing the spirit of unity. Fast forward fifty years, and it feels like a growing number of Americans are more eager to criticize the country than celebrate it. The conversation focused on why this shift has happened, how outside perceptions often clash with realities, and what it means to live in a nation with so much freedom—despite its flaws. In this episode, I’ll reflect on generational changes in national pride, the role politics and media play in shaping our views, and the surprising disconnect between America’s critics and the challenges found in other countries. We’ll explore stories that reveal both our progress and our shortcomings, and look to scripture for perspective on gratitude, prayer for leaders, and the responsibility that comes with freedom. As we mark another milestone in America’s history, let’s take an honest look at where we’ve been, where we are, and the faith that sustains us through it all. The Last 50 Years Higher incomes Larger homes Better technology More entertainment choices Lower infant mortality (more on that later) Women can obtain credit independently Women now serve on the Supreme Court 1976 0. 2026 4. More women serve in Congress 19 in 1976, 150 now, about 28% Cleaner air (fewer smog days) Removal of lead from gasoline Reduced asbestos exposure Greater awareness of drunk driving dangers Safer automobiles No more Pintos blowing up, but we are ignoring electric cars. We don’t smoke on planes We elected a black president twice We elected a ticket with a female vice president Things That Need To Improve 54th in the world in infant mortality, behind Cuba. 19th in literacy, behind Russia. 72nd in female representation in government, behind Iraq EPI reports CEO pay was up 1,322% since 1978, while typical worker compensation rose just 18% (source) Bill Maher talked a lot about this on his show

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All Access Grace: Living with Divine Confidence

Today we're diving headfirst into the wild world of self-esteem and identity, and let me tell you, you are NOT your mistakes! That’s the big takeaway, folks—our blunders and fumbles don’t define us, but instead, we’re all cherished children of God, brimming with purpose and potential. I mean, how cool is that? The Negative Thoughts Aren't Too Far Away We often let those pesky negative memories weigh us down, but we’ve got the power to flip the script! So, if you're feeling low or stuck in the past, this episode is for you. We’ll sprinkle in some laughs, share a few personal stories, and remind each other just how awesome we truly are! We’ve all been there—tripping over our past mistakes and feeling like they’re tattooed on our foreheads, right? Takeaways: We often let our mistakes define us, but we are more than our failures. Remember, you are not your mistakes; you are a child of God, loved and cherished. Confidence comes from knowing our identity in Christ, not from the world's opinions. When we embrace our identity as God's children, we can live boldly and purposefully. Links referenced in this episode: feedingmyfaith.com akronpodcast.com schoolofpodcasting.com Say "Thanks Dave"

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Getting Better at Sharing Your Faith

Sharing your Faith Today, we’re diving deep into the delightful chaos of sharing our faith—yes, that’s right, we’re putting on our brave faces and getting real! You see, many of us struggle to openly express our beliefs, often because we fear we’ll look silly. But let’s be honest: if we can do the chicken dance at weddings without batting an eyelash, why can’t we share what we believe with the same enthusiasm? Do You Remember Your First? We kick things off with some light-hearted banter about our own cringe-worthy moments, like that first awkward kiss or singing in front of a crowd. These experiences remind us that everyone has been there, feeling out of their depth—just like Moses did when he was called to lead! We explore the nuts and bolts of why it’s normal to feel hesitant. After all, even the most well-known figures in the Bible had their doubts! When The Need to Serve is Great Then the Fear of Failure But we also talk about how the need to serve others can outweigh our fear of looking foolish. It’s about building confidence in our faith and knowing that every small conversation can create a spark of change. We encourage listeners to take baby steps—like simply asking a friend about their thoughts on faith or sharing a quick personal story. And guess what? You don’t have to be a theologian to do this; it’s about being real and relatable. Throughout the episode, we emphasize the importance of being prepared to share our hope and joy with gentleness and respect. Sharing isn’t about proving a point; it’s about connecting and caring for others. So, let’s take inspiration from our favorite awkward moments and turn that into a reason to step out of our comfort zones. The world needs your story, and who knows? You might just change a life forever! So let’s celebrate the fun of sharing faith and embrace the journey together—awkward moments and all! Support the Show If you feel so moved, feel free to buy Dave a coffee and keep the lights on for this ministry Takeaways: Sharing your faith can feel intimidating, but everyone has been there at some point. It’s important to let your need to serve others outweigh your fear of looking silly. Confidence in sharing faith comes from trusting God, not just from being outgoing. Learning to share your faith starts with small conversations and honest questions. We often think we need to know everything about the Bible to share our faith, which isn’t true. Sharing faith can change lives, and the best thing that could happen is leading someone to Christ!

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I Don't Care - I Do What I Want!

A Common Phrase Among Kids Ever find yourself scrolling through social media and thinking, 'What in the world are these kids doing?' Well, buckle up, because we’re diving deep into the wild world of influencers and the phrase that seems to echo through the halls of TikTok and Instagram: 'I don’t care. I do what I want!' It’s not just a catchphrase; it’s practically a lifestyle for many youngsters today. We chat about how this rejection of accountability and truth is packaged as freedom but might actually lead to some pretty dark places. It's All About the Money Influencers boasting about money, fame, and casual relationships are in the spotlight, and we explore how this impacts the younger generation's view of self-worth and morality. Spoiler alert: it’s not all sunshine and rainbows! We discuss the alarming trend of valuing appearance over character and how chasing the next big thing can leave folks feeling emptier than a soda can after a party. Get ready for a rollercoaster ride through the good, the bad, and the downright bizarre of the influencer culture. And hey, maybe we’ll even throw in a few dad jokes for good measure! Takeaways: We live in a world where the phrase 'I don't care' is a badge of honor, but that can be dangerous. Chasing fame and money often leads to poor choices and a lack of accountability in our lives. The idea of freedom often gets twisted; true freedom is found in aligning our desires with goodness. Young influencers promote harmful mindsets that can lead to emptiness and a loss of moral values. Links referenced in this episode: feedingmyfaith.com

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Bible Stories Vs Bible Events

Let’s get real for a moment: the Bible is more than just bedtime stories. It’s a collection of events that have shaped the world, and we’re here to explain that! From the archaeological finds that confirm places and people mentioned in the scriptures to the way words have changed over time, it’s a fascinating discussion. We’re breaking down how skeptics view the Bible and flipping the script to show how believers can find confidence in their faith. With evidence from real-life digs that link back to biblical accounts, we’re painting a picture that not only supports the truth of the scriptures but also encourages us to stand firm in our beliefs. So, whether you're a skeptic or a believer, there's something in here for everyone, and it’s going to be a fun ride! Takeaways: When reading Bible stories to kids, remember they're not just tales, they're real events! The Bible is filled with historical events, not just stories, which makes it super important. Words in the Bible can change meaning over time, so keep an eye on that! Skeptics might see the Bible as a mix of myth and history, but there's more to it! Archaeological findings like Pontius Pilate's inscriptions prove the Bible's historical roots. Reading the Bible with kids is about sharing real events, not just fairy tales. Links referenced in this episode: feedingmyfaith.com schoolofpodcasting.com Support this Show

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The Divided States of America

Remember those Olympic days when everyone was glued to the screen, sharing the same excitement? It's a wild ride down memory lane as we dive into the nostalgia of Olympic moments that brought us all together. We chat about iconic figures like Nadia Comaneci, who wowed everyone with her perfect 10, and how the thrill of sports once united us all in front of the TV, not just staring at our phones. Fast forward to the 2026 Olympics, and boy, have things changed! I confess, I didn’t catch a single second of the latest games, but I heard the men’s and women’s hockey teams snagged gold medals! Can you believe a player lost four teeth during the final game? Talk about dedication! And in a twist of fate, that very player scored the winning goal in overtime. Isn’t that like a scene straight out of a sports movie? But it’s not all cheers and medals; we also tackle some serious stuff. During a meeting with the President, a joke about the women’s team sparked a firestorm of controversy. The way humor can sometimes cross lines in today’s climate is a hot topic. We explore how society's loss of humor also translates into a loss of dialogue, turning simple jokes into mountains of outrage. On a lighter note, we discuss how honoring both men’s and women’s teams is essential, but with a sprinkle of perspective on how we can keep the spirit of competition alive without stepping on toes. It’s a balancing act that’s as tricky as skating on thin ice! Takeaways: Growing up, the Olympics were a shared experience, like a big family party with everyone rooting for their favorites. In the latest Olympics, hockey teams brought home gold, and one player lost four teeth while scoring the winning goal. Ouch! Social media has changed how we celebrate events, and sometimes I miss the days when we all gathered around the TV together. What a vibe! The president made an awkward joke about the women's team, and it reminded us how humor can sometimes backfire. It's a slippery slope! Daryl Davis is a legend for changing minds by having conversations with KKK members, showing that dialogue can actually make a difference. We have lost the ability to have dialogues. We are becoming the Divided States of America We need to get our news from more than one source. When we stay inside and hide we miss the opportunity to lead others to christ. Links referenced in this episode: feedingmyfaith.com schoolofpodcasting.com Daryl Davis on Jordan Harbinger Show

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Remarkable Love in an Unremarkable World

In this episode, I explore one simple, staggering truth: Christ loved us while we were still sinners. I start with Romans 5:8 and the idea that this kind of love is not just good, it’s remarkable—completely unlike anything we see in the world around us. I'm back from the NRB, and they were talking faith and action. So why aren't we taking action? From there, I move into why, even with a gospel this remarkable, many of us struggle to share our faith. I walk through common reasons believers give: fear of rejection, feeling unprepared, not wanting to seem pushy, busyness, and even a loss of awe at what Jesus has done. I connect this to that powerful social pressure we all feel, illustrated by the classic conformity experiment where one person often goes along with the crowd even when the answer is obviously wrong. I also explore the idea of polar opposites—people who couldn’t be more different from each other: The extrovert and the introvert. The prodigal and the older brother. The persecutor Saul and the apostle Paul. The mocking thief on the cross and the repentant one beside him. I use these contrasts to highlight that Christ’s love reaches every type of person, on every end of every spectrum, and He loved all of us “while we were still sinners.” I then revisit Ephesians 2:8–9 and reflect on what it means that we are saved by grace alone, through faith, not by works. That truth grounds the whole conversation: we’re not loved because we are remarkable; we are made new because His grace is remarkable. By the end of the episode, I invite you to: Recover your sense of wonder at the gospel. Ask where you might be quietly “going along with the crowd” instead of standing with Christ. Take one simple, concrete step to share your faith—out of gratitude, not guilt. This episode is for anyone who feels ordinary, hesitant, or even ashamed, and needs to be reminded that the most remarkable thing about their story is not what they’ve done for God, but what God has done for them in Christ. If you feel you got value from this episode, consider giving some of that value back by buying me a coffee.

Why Do Bad Things Happen to Good People?

We’re diving into a big question today: why do bad things happen to really good people? It’s like a cosmic riddle wrapped in a mystery, and trust me, I’ve had my fair share of ups and downs lately. I mean, one minute I’m feeling like a million bucks—finally out of debt—and the next, I’m hit with a lawsuit that makes me go, “Seriously? Why me?” But hang tight, because we're unraveling this together! We’ll explore how sometimes life throws curveballs because, well, the world’s a little broken, and sometimes it’s just life being life. So grab your favorite snack, kick back, and let’s chew on this juicy topic! Value for Value If you found value in this episode, do consider giving some of that value back here. Takeaways: Sometimes life throws us a curveball, and we're left asking, why do bad things happen? God is patient and gives us time to repent, even when we mess things up. Suffering can actually help us grow stronger and be there for others in need. The worst thing ever happened to the best person, but it led to our salvation! Trusting God means believing He has a plan even when it feels like chaos. We may not be as good as we think, but God loves us anyway, and that’s pretty awesome! Bible Verses Luke 18:19 A certain ruler asked him, “Good teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life?” 19 “Why do you call me good?”Jesus answered. “No one is good—except God alone. Romans 3: 10-12 As it is written: “There is no one righteous, not even one; 11there is no one who understands; there is no one who seeks God. 12All have turned away, they have together become worthless; there is no one who does good, not even one.” 2 Peter 3:9 The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance. Romans 8:28 “In all things God works for the good of those who love him” Genesis 50:20 You meant evil against me, but God meant it for good” Mathew 24: (Jesus talking) .6You will hear of wars and rumors of wars, but see to it that you are not alarmed. Such things must happen, but the end is still to come.7Nation will rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom. There will be famines and earthquakes in various places.8All these are the beginning of birth pains. 12 Because of the increase of wickedness, the love of most will grow cold,13but the one who stands firm to the end will be saved. 21 For then there will be great distress, unequaled from the beginning of the world until now—and never to be equaled again. Luke 23:27-31 Jesus turned and said to them, “Daughters of Jerusalem, do not weep for me; weep for yourselves and for your children. 1 Peter 21: To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps. Psalm 34:18 The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; 6in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight. Revelation 21:3-4 And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Look! God’s dwelling place is now among the people, and he will dwell with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God. 4‘He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death’ or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.”

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No More Excuses: The Power of Personal Accountability

In this episode, I reflect on the importance of personal accountability and how easy it can be to point fingers at others rather than owning up to our actions. I start with the classic Einstein quote about insanity—doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results—and share stories from my own life where accountability (or lack thereof) played a big role, from customers blaming my company for their missed subscriptions to personal habits I’ve needed to change. It's Not Fair! I talk about childhood lessons my dad taught me about fairness, and how comparison can steal our joy. I discuss how excuses like “nobody ever told me” or “that’s just how I am” keep us stuck, and I get real about my messy house, bad eating habits, and struggles with weight. I share about moments when I ignored obvious red flags in relationships and recount how ignoring good counsel can lead to costly failures—like filing bankruptcy in my 20s and bombing a tough college class because I didn’t pay attention. I dive into Scripture, highlighting Galatians 6, Philippians 2, and Ezekiel 18, to remind myself (and listeners) that we reap what we sow, that change is possible, and that we are responsible for our own actions—not our parents, not anyone else. There’s a story about my ex-wife and how firm consequences helped her kids grow into successful adults—I even witnessed her smash a video game as promised! I’m reminded that real change takes effort, sometimes painful choices, and a willingness to listen, learn, and act. Finally, I encourage anyone feeling stuck in their current story—whether with their job, family, or faith—to “read the syllabus” (the Bible) and try something different. I share that this episode really speaks to my own need for self-discipline and accountability. Thank you for listening! If this episode brought you value or made you reflect, please consider sharing it or supporting the show at feedingmyfaith.com/support. Until next time, God bless!

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Noticing Blessings: Overcoming Negativity and Entitlement

As I record this, it's the week of Thanksgiving, so I wanted to take some time to talk about why giving thanks is so important—not just spiritually (it's biblical!), but also physically and mentally. If you're feeling like there’s nothing to be thankful for, maybe you’re just not looking in the right places. I dive into 1 Thessalonians 5:18 and talk about how giving thanks applies to all circumstances, not just when we feel like it. I discuss how our brains are naturally wired for negativity and how envy, comparison, pride, and resentment can get in the way of gratitude. It takes practice to be grateful! I reflect on everyday things we overlook, like having the internet at our fingertips, a warm furnace, a roof over our heads, food choices, and even our freedom to worship. I share a nostalgic story about the excitement of getting a new album growing up, and how music has changed with the advent of streaming—it’s so easy to take these things for granted. There's also a lesson from Luke 17 about the 10 men with leprosy and how only one returned to thank Jesus. It makes me wonder: Are we sometimes taking God for granted because He’s always there? I also talk about the physical and mental health benefits of gratitude—lower blood pressure, better sleep, fewer symptoms of depression and anxiety, and more satisfaction in life. To help you build a habit, I suggest trying a Five Minute Journal or jotting down three things you're grateful for each day. Tim Tebow John 3:16 Story I share a story involving Tim Tebow and some remarkable “coincidences” surrounding John 3:16, reminding us that God is always working, even if we don't see it. I also recount a personal experience of almost hitting a deer and realizing that sometimes, the small inconveniences (like filling up tires in the rain) might just be blessings in disguise. The Benefits of Gratitude Finally, I discuss how gratitude helped me cope with grief, and how it's hard to feel grateful and bitter at the same time. I encourage you to practice gratitude, especially if you're struggling during the holidays. Mentioned: The 5 Minute Journal From Intelligent Change (affiliate) If you find this episode helpful or know someone who could use a lift, point them to feedingmyfaith.com/95. I appreciate everyone who listens and sends feedback. If you're celebrating Thanksgiving, I hope you have a wonderful holiday. If not, enjoy your Thursday! Thank you for listening! Links to Research Items 5 Minute Journal - 5 Minutes a day can change your life

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One Choice at a Time: Escaping the Cycle of Quick Hits and Empty Wins

Hey, it's Dave Jackson, and in this episode, I'm diving deep into something that's affecting all of us—how our brains are wired for quick gratification, and how that plays out in everything from social media scrolling to food, gambling, and more. I start things off by talking about the science behind our brains—the dopamine “wanting chemical” that's responsible for why we keep endlessly scrolling on apps like Facebook or TikTok, and why we binge on things that give us instant gratification. I share my own struggles with Facebook shorts and set limits on myself to avoid that endless late-night rabbit hole. We also get into how our choices—especially when it comes to food—are being manipulated. Food companies have learned how to mess with our hunger and satisfaction hormones to keep us eating more, and this has contributed to skyrocketing childhood obesity rates. It’s no wonder it’s hard to stop at just one chip! Then I walk through how things like TikTok and other gamified experiences are rewiring our brains, leaving us less motivated and unsatisfied with real life because it doesn't offer that “instant fix.” I talk about the dangers facing our kids, especially with early online exposure to things like pornography and addictive social media platforms. Gambling is everywhere now—I share some jaw-dropping ways companies are targeting young people with new predictive markets and game mechanics that make it super easy to get hooked. I give examples, like apps where kids spend millions gambling with virtual coins, and how companies even lure people back in after they've quit. Throughout the episode, I tie these modern struggles back to biblical wisdom—like the parable of the talents in Matthew, and Solomon's advice from Proverbs—reminding all of us that there’s a difference between quick gratification and lasting satisfaction. I share how taking pride in small, real-life accomplishments builds character and genuine satisfaction, unlike these surface-level dopamine hits. I wrap up by encouraging you (and myself) to make better choices—one at a time—and focus on what truly brings satisfaction. Tune in for some real talk about the subtle traps in our culture and how we can use faith to navigate them. If you found anything in this episode helpful, share it with someone who could use the encouragement, or visit feedingmyfaith.com for more. Thanks for listeni

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Wobbly Knees, Knockout Lies: How to Stand Strong!

Wobbly knees, folks! We’ve all been there, right? In this chat, we dive deep into the ups and downs of life, and let me tell you, life can hit harder than a heavyweight champ! Think about it: just like Ali with his fancy footwork, we’re all dodging punches from life and sometimes we get hit! So, what's the deal when those knees start wobbling? We explore how vulnerability is not just a weakness but a chance to lean into faith when the going gets tough. It’s all about recognizing when the devil’s trying to knock us out and how to stay grounded even when we feel like we’re on shaky ground. Spoiler: prayer is your secret weapon! Takeaways: Sometimes life feels like dogs and cats living together, total chaos, right? Wobbly knees are totally normal when you're facing life’s punches, just hang in there! The devil's not gonna bother you when you're on top, he waits for your wobbliest days. Doubt isn't a sin, it's just your soul wrestling with faith, so don't sweat it! When you're feeling down, remember prayer is like a lifeline, grab it tight! Isolation is a sneaky trap, so share your struggles with your buddies and lift each other up!

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Accepting Others for Who They Are

The podcast episode provides a profound reflection on the challenges of interpersonal relationships, particularly the frustration experienced when others do not conform to our expectations. The speaker draws upon the poignant reality of witnessing the passing of cultural icons, which serves as a catalyst for deeper contemplation about life’s transience. Central to the discussion is the exploration of Mel Robbins' 'Let Them' and 'Let Me' theory, which presents a dualistic approach to navigating human interactions. The 'Let Them' concept urges individuals to accept others without the impetus to change them, while the 'Let Me' aspect emphasizes personal accountability in managing one's own reactions and expectations. The discourse is enriched with biblical references that underscore the significance of self-reflection and the dangers of judgment. The speaker articulates that in order to foster meaningful relationships, one must first address their own flaws before attempting to influence others. This leads to a compelling argument for the necessity of patience, compassion, and understanding in the face of human imperfections. Ultimately, the episode advocates for a transformative mindset that prioritizes love and acceptance over control, encouraging listeners to embrace the complexities of their relationships while fostering an environment where personal growth can flourish. Mentioned: The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can’t Stop Talking About Takeaways: The Let Them and Let Me theory emphasizes the importance of personal responsibility and acceptance of others. We often attempt to change those around us, which leads to stress and frustration. Biblical principles remind us to refrain from judging others, focusing instead on self-improvement. Recognizing our time on Earth is limited can motivate us to cherish relationships and time spent with others. Effective communication requires patience and understanding, akin to treating others as one would treat children. Ultimately, prayer and acceptance are key when dealing with the inability to change others. We can plant the seed. The rest is up to God.

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The Unseen Strengths in Our Differences: A Biblical Perspective

Today, we delve into the poignant theme of feeling like the odd person out, examining how our perceived differences can serve as strengths. The episode presents a compelling exploration of left-handedness as a metaphor for the unique attributes that can set individuals apart. Through biblical narratives and historical examples, we illustrate that characteristics often viewed as disadvantages—such as dyslexia, mental health struggles, and physical challenges—can ultimately foster extraordinary capabilities and achievements. We recount the story of Ehud, a left-handed judge, whose unconventional trait enabled him to deliver his people from oppression, demonstrating that what may initially seem like a liability can, in fact, be a vital asset. Join us as we reflect on the notion that our individuality may be the very element that propels us toward fulfilling our divine purpose. Takeaways: In moments of feeling like an outsider, we can find strength in our uniqueness. The stories of figures such as Richard Branson illustrate how perceived weaknesses can foster innovation. Historical figures like Harriet Tubman and Helen Keller overcame significant challenges to achieve greatness. Ehud's left-handedness enabled him to execute a clever strategy that liberated the Israelites from oppression. Judges 3 - The story of Ehud Enjoy the show? Considering buying Dave a coffee (or two) to help offset the cost of production.

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