
Your Sex Life Is Trying to Tell You Something: The Truth About Desire, Testosterone, Orgasms, Sexual Health, & Longevity with Dr. Rena Malik
This episode is brought to you by Our Place, One Skin, and Cozy Earth. Today on The Dhru Purohit Show, I sit down with Dr. Rena Malik to discuss the powerful connection between sexual health, overall health, and longevity. Dr. Malik explores what changes in sexual function can reveal about our health, the biggest misconceptions about testosterone, and how nutrition, exercise, sleep, and stress influence desire and performance. We also discuss why better sexual health starts outside the bedroom and what it means to extend your “sexspan.” Whether you’re looking to improve your own health or better understand and support your partner, this conversation offers practical insights into a topic too often left unspoken. Dr. Rena Malik is a urologist and pelvic surgeon dedicated to breaking the silence around “taboo” health topics. Her expertise in sexual medicine, hormone management, and urologic health has made her a sought-after guest on platforms. Through her work, Dr. Malik empowers millions to take control of their health with clarity, science, and compassion. In this episode, Dhru and Dr. Malik dive into: (00:00) Introduction (3:11) The 4 Pillars of Better Sexual Health (4:59) “Sexspan”: Why It Matters More Than You Think (8:28) What’s Holding You Back from a Better Sex Life? (11:22) The Biggest Sexual Challenge (19:45) How to Start the Conversation (23:17) Bringing Creativity Back into Your Sex Life (26:22) Why Desire Doesn’t Always Come First (33:17) When You Want Sex and Your Partner Doesn’t (41:29) What Makes Sex More Pleasurable? (45:01) Why Asking What They Want Feels So Hard (48:16) Sexual Health Advice You Should Stop Believing (50:33) How Pornography Can Shape Your Sex Life (58:06) Better Sexual Stamina: What Actually Works? (1:03:03) Improving Women’s Orgasms (1:07:15) Testosterone: What You Need to Know (1:10:33) How to Talk to Your Teens About Sex (1:19:51) Final Thoughts Also mentioned in this episode: The Hard Truth: Everything Men Need to Know for Good Health, Great Sex, and Long Life For more on Dr. Malik, follow her on Facebook, Instagram, Threads, TikTok, Pinterest, YouTube, LinkedIn, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or visit her Website. For more on Dhru: Instagram, X/Twitter, YouTube, and KOMI. This episode is brought to you by Our Place, One Skin, and Cozy Earth. Reduce your toxic load by upgrading your cookware! Our Place is having its biggest sale of the year. Save up to 45% sitewide with bundle and sale savings, with no exclusions, November 5th through November 30. Just go to fromourplace.com/DHRU to save today. Right now, One Skin is offering my community 15% off; just go to oneskin.co and use the coupon code DHRU to save 15% and give your hair and skin the scientifically proven, gentle care it deserves. Right now, get 20% off your Cozy Earth sheets and sleepwear. Just head over to cozyearth.com/dhru and use the code DHRUP. Sign up for Dhru’s Try This Newsletter *Nothing discussed in this podcast should be construed as medical advice; always consult a qualified healthcare professional regarding your individual health needs. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices


















