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Date with Cents

TorahCents

Welcome to Date with Cents™! The only podcast for high-achieving women of faith who want to date for marriage and/or legacy building. I am your host, TorahCents, and I’m here to help you transform your love life from the inside out. Tune in for practical tips, tools, and advice on how to become a magnet for high-quality men and custom design a love life that serves you at the highest level.

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#189
June 18 · 35 min
Where Do I Go? The Secret To Finally Meeting The Quality Men In Your City
Send episode requests here You say you want a successful, ambitious provider. But have you ever really thought about how that man actually lives his life? Most women can't describe one real thing about their ideal man's day—and that's the exact reason they never know where to find him. In this episode, I'm teaching you how to stop guessing where the man you want hangs out and start knowing it. u'll find out why "where do I go?" is the wrong first question, what you have to figure out about a man before any place will make sense, and how to spot where he already spends his free time. Walk away able to pick a real spot this week where your kind of man actually is—instead of getting dressed up and hoping you run into him. If you're ready to stop guessing and learn exactly how to meet your ideal man, join the Relationship Roster Challenge HERE. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#188
June 11 · 1 hr 6 min
Five Lies Costing You Your Summer Boyfriend
Send episode requests here You know you want a man this summer. You say it, you feel it, your coochie is jumping for it—but somehow you keep talking yourself right out of going after it. And the stories you're telling yourself sound so smart and so responsible that you actually believe them. In this episode, I'm breaking down the five lies costing you your summer boyfriend. You'll find out why feeling "stuck" is rarely what's really going on, the truth about confidence that flips everything you've been told, and why the one lie most women won't say out loud is the reason all the others get to exist. Walk away ready to stop blocking your own blessing and disqualifying yourself before a man even gets the chance to choose you. If one of these lies has been costing you more than another dry summer, join the Relationship Roster Challenge HERE. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#187
June 5 · 1 hr 3 min
The Summer Plan For Women Who Want A Boyfriend By August
Send episode requests here In this episode, I'm giving you a simple summer plan to have a commitment-ready boyfriend by August—exclusive or not. You'll discover why "putting yourself out there" and "loving yourself" was never enough without a real system, the number that tells you whether your love life is actually moving or stuck, and why the men you want never seem to cross your path even when you're going outside and meeting people. Walk away knowing exactly what to do daily and weekly so you stop disappearing for months every time dating gets hard—and start building toward the kind of fall where you're the one choosing who to cuff. Join the FREE Lovergirl Summer Activation Call HERE to learn about the Roster Relationship Challenge coming up! Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#186
May 29 · 31 min
How To Stop Wasting Your Summer and Finally Meet Your Husband
Send episode requests here A lot of you are going to hit cuffing season with a dry and dusty dating life once again. Because you keep doing nothing in the summer and expecting a man by the fall…it's like wanting a summer body without ever hitting the gym. In this episode, I break down the three things keeping you stuck and headed for another manless winter. You'll find out why the men you actually want aren't showing up in your life, what you're doing that makes quality men lose interest even when the attraction is there, and why you keep quitting dating every time you get disappointed. Walk away ready to turn this summer into the season you finally build a roster of quality men—so you're choosing who to cuff instead of wishing someone would choose you. Join the FREE Lovergirl Summer Activation Call HERE to learn about the Roster Relationship Challenge coming up! Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#185
May 21 · 40 min
I Walked Away From A Good Man This Year - Here's Why
Send episode requests here A few weeks ago, I walked away from a good man after dating him for over a year and a half. In this episode, I'm breaking down what made me walk away from a man most women would have stayed with and why I don't regret it for a second. You'll discover why looks and investment alone don't move me anymore, what happens when you try to adjust a man into generosity instead of requiring it from the start, and why you don't need a "good enough reason" to leave when something stops being in alignment with you. Ready to stop staying with men just because they look good on paper and start trusting your decisions even when the room disagrees? Listen now. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#184
May 14 · 53 min
I Don't Trust Men And It's The Best Dating Decision I Ever Made (My Meg & Klay Take)
Send episode requests here I used to be the woman who let a man decide whether my week was good or bad. My marriage taught me that. When it ended, I couldn't get out of bed for weeks because I had outsourced my entire sense of safety to him. That's when I had to ask a different question: “Why am I making my peace depend on whether a man can be trusted at all?” This episode walks you through the six steps that got me from that woman to the woman I am now—the one who dates without scanning men for proof they won't hurt me, who sleeps peaceful at night not stressed about what a man is doing, and who can walk away from anything that doesn't serve me. Because when you trust yourself more than you trust any man, disappointment can't destroy you. Work with me to stop being scared of a man hurting you and start building the kind of love life where it doesn't matter either way. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#183
May 7 · 39 min
DWC REWIND: When You Put In Too Much Effort
Send episode requests here If you’re a woman of faith who struggles with putting in too much effort while dating ….but not getting much in return from the men you date, this episode is for you. You’re the woman who is always making time You’re the woman who is there to provide emotional support, You’re the woman who is always keeping conversations going. You’re the woman who is always there to make men feel good about themselves. Join me in this episode to hear the difference between “putting in too much effort” and putting in the right kind of effort for delicious dating results. Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world… …AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES: Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#182
April 30 · 30 min
DWC REWIND: Launching Your H.O.E. Phase
Send episode requests here Part of the reason why you waste time on the wrong men is because you’re EASY. All it takes is for a man to pay you some consistent attention and now you’re his girlfriend. And then you get big mad when you realized you invested months…sometimes years into a man who wasn’t worth all that effort There’s no wonder why you’re always so drained and disappointed with men Listen closely to this episode as I help you uncover your power to choose the right man for you, instead of settling for being chosen. Be prepared to reclaim your time! HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: My signature model for a premium dating experience for high-achieving women of faith. What it means to be a good H.O.E and how it puts you in a position of power. 7 Practical guidelines that will help you vet men before you go exclusive with them. A unique approach to rotational dating that will lead you to date better men and have better dating experiences. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#181
April 23 · 29 min
DWC REWIND: How To Show Up As A Quality Woman Who Attracts Quality Men
Send episode requests here “There’s not enough quality men out here for quality women.” That’s the lie we tell ourselves when we’re not ready to do the work. The truth is that there are more than enough quality men for quality women AND quality women aren’t finding it hard to meet these men. Why? Because they are doing the real work towards creating the love lives the desire And that work is deeper than being a nice girl who has her shit together. It’s deeper than being educated, financially stable and knowing how to cook and clean. Listen to this episode as I share with you the REAL work that quality women are doing daily that allows them to attract, meet and connect with an abundance of quality men. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: What it really means to “work on yourself” while dating. The difference between a decent woman and a quality woman A quality woman’s biggest super power that helps her navigate dating. The high-quality characteristics that attract high-quality men Why it’s important to embrace “messiness” on your dating journey Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#180
April 16 · 32 min
DWC REWIND: Why You Keep Choosing The Wrong Man (And Why It’s Exhausting You)
Send episode requests here You finally have multiple men pursuing you, but now you don't know what the hell to do with them ... .so you're either picking whoever texts back fastest or stressing yourself out trying to be "fair" to everyone. Most women think the goal is just getting men's attention, but the real challenge is knowing how to handle it when you actually have choices. You end up settling for the first guy who's consistent or getting overwhelmed and picking based on who gives you butterflies instead of who's actually right for you. I'm breaking down exactly what to do when you have real options so you stop making decisions from panic and start choosing the man who actually fits your life. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#179
April 9 · 55 min
DWC REWIND: How To Drop "Good Girl" Habits To Date Deliciously
Send episode requests here Last week, we talked about how Women of Faith tend to attract the wrong kind of men—the manipulative, irresponsible, and insecure ones… …and how those "good girl" habits can end up pushing away the intelligent, cultured, and emotionally available men who are actually ready for a real, committed relationship. This week, we're going step by step on how you can break those habits for good, so you can start dating quality men who truly appreciate you for who you are. If you’re a Woman of Faith struggling with “Good girl” syndrome, tune into this episode for a masterclass on how to shed those limiting behaviors and attract the kind of relationship you deserve. Interested in working with me 1:1? If you’re ready to drop the “good girl” act to attract quality men who appreciate the woman you really are, book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES: Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#178
April 2 · 32 min
DWC REWIND: What If You Try—And Love Still Doesn’t Happen?
Send episode requests here That fear of doing all the work, showing up differently in dating, and still not getting chosen is keeping many women stuck in dating limbo…afraid to fully commit to finding love. If you've been consuming dating advice without applying it, deleting apps after two days, or hiding behind stories of being "too busy" or "not ready yet," you're not protecting yourself…you're guaranteeing nothing changes. In this episode, I break down why this fear exists, what it's actually costing you, and how to start collecting evidence that love is possible for you exactly as you are right now. I'll share actionable steps to move past this fear and build momentum in your love life, whether or not you ever work with me. If you're ready to stop dating like you're trying not to get hurt and start showing up fully for love, book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES: Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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