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Welcome to Date with Cents™! The only podcast for high-achieving women of faith who want to date for marriage and/or legacy building. I am your host, TorahCents, and I’m here to help you transform your love life from the inside out. Tune in for practical tips, tools, and advice on how to become a magnet for high-quality men and custom design a love life that serves you at the highest level.

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#199
Thursday · 40 min
DWC REWIND: Why Broke Men Keep Showing Up (And How to Change it Fast)
Send episode requests here Broke men don't just stumble into your life by accident - they show up because they can sense which women will tolerate their inability to provide. If you keep attracting men who either expect you to fund the relationship or can't afford to match your lifestyle, this episode breaks down why this pattern keeps happening and how to flip the script completely. I'm sharing the real reason your success mindset is working against you in dating and my five Provider Proof tests that separate men who want to provide from men who want you to be their personal ATM. You'll learn how to stop being the woman who fixes and start being the woman who receives. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#198
August 20 · 1 hr 23 min
From Afraid To Ask For A $70 Purse To Receiving Shopping Sprees With Cristina
Send episode requests here You can ask for what you want everywhere else in your life. You do it at work. You do it with your money. Then a man is sitting across from you and the words will not come out. In this episode, Christina shares how she went from having a love life she never once sat down and thought about to the most fun she has ever had dating. You'll hear what happened when she asked a man she'd been on six dates with for a $70 purse, why the change she made to her dating profile cut her likes down to a handful, and how she got to a place where a man covered $800 on her car and cleared his whole day for her before she has ever set foot in his house. Whether you're a woman who runs everything else in her life and goes quiet the second a man asks for something, or you're still waiting to be chosen, Christina's story shows what changes when you finally center yourself in your own dating life. JOIN C2C HERE Inside C2C, you have 12 months of access to curriculum, weekly coaching calls, weekly workshops, daily dating support, on-demand conversation and profile reviews, and more. The investment is $3,000 one time or 6 payments of $550. Join today to stop wasting time and energy on men who leave your texts on read, and start attracting the men who send you flowers with no rhyme or reason. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#197
August 13 · 1 hr 4 min
5 Thoughts Making It Harder To Meet, Date & Choose The Right Men
Send episode requests here In this episode, I'm breaking down the five thoughts making it harder for you to meet, date, and choose the right men. You'll find out why you feel so drained by dating when you've barely done any of it, what's really happening when you tell yourself you're not ready yet, and why the men who give other women flowers, trips, and princess treatment aren't doing it for the reason you think. Walk away seeing your own dating life clearly enough to know exactly what's been holding you back—and what it would take to finally get different results. If you want to build a roster of two to three commitment-ready men, join my free training on August 16 HERE. Join the Training: Build Your Roster: Attract 3 Commitment-Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#196
August 6 · 59 min
How To Have Conversations With Men That Lead To Pursuit
Send episode requests here In this episode, I'm teaching you how to have conversations with men that actually lead to pursuit. You'll find out the one question to ask yourself the moment a man messages you, why the "fizzle" is a myth you keep telling yourself, and the three things you need in place so you know within the first week whether a man is even capable of giving you what you want. Walk away knowing how to have conversations that move toward the dates, the calls, and the pursuit you actually want—so you never have to sit around wondering what happened again. If you want to build a roster of two to three commitment-ready men, join my free training on August 16 HERE. Join the Training: Build Your Roster: Attract 3 Commitment-Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#195
July 30 · 1 hr 6 min
How Patricia Went From Pick Me To Dating Generous Men Who Please Her
Send episode requests here In this episode, Patricia shares how her love life became fun, loving, and confident after joining C2C. You'll hear how she went from a "pick me" who considered changing her whole look just to get chosen, to a woman who chooses herself first and has quality men lining up to please her. She gets honest about the man she left the program for early on thinking he was the one, why his "generosity" wasn't actually generous, and the hard months of learning to be responsible for her own life instead of waiting for a man to rescue her. Whether you've been told to "just love yourself" and don't know what that actually looks like in action, or you're stuck waiting to be chosen, Patricia's story shows what changes when you finally choose you. If you want to build a roster of two to three commitment-ready men, join my free training on August 16 HERE. Join the Training: Build Your Roster: Attract 3 Commitment-Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#194
July 23 · 1 hr 41 min
From Church Girl To Dream Girl With Juliet R (Part 2)
Send episode requests here In this episode, my client Juliet, is back with another update of what her love life looks like now—the men who show up for her with flowers, spa days, and cleared shopping carts, the standards she holds without over-explaining herself, and the identity shift that took her from wanting to be chosen to doing the choosing. You'll hear how she got comfortable with the caliber of men she once found intimidating, why she's in no rush to get married even with a man ready to lock her down, and what it really took behind the scenes to get the kind of results most women assume just happen by luck. Whether you're a "recovering good girl," a high achiever who's been told you're too much, or someone who believes you shouldn't have to build these skills at all, Juliet's story shows you what's possible when you commit to the work. If you want to build a roster of two to three commitment-ready men, join my free training on August 16 HERE. Join the Training: Build Your Roster: Attract 3 Commitment-Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#193
July 16 · 1 hr 23 min
Delicious Dating Q&A Part 5
Send episode requests here In this episode, I'm answering your dating questions live and giving you real answers, not fluff. You'll find out what to do when life is beating you up but you still want to date, why a man spending big money on you might mean nothing at all, and what most women get wrong about the man who says all the right things and then disappears. Walk away knowing how to make decisions about men without asking your girlfriends, the group chat, or the comment section what his behavior means. If you want to build a roster of two to three commitment-ready men, join my free training on August 16 HERE. Join the Training: Build Your Roster: Attract 3 Commitment-Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#192
July 9 · 38 min
How I Quickly Know If A Man Is Worth My Time (Within The First Week Of Dating)
Send episode requests here Most women spend weeks, even months, trying to figure out if a man is worth their time—dating him, running him by the group chat, hoping it turns into something. I don't do any of that. I know pretty quickly whether a man has even earned a phone call from me, and I never waste three to six months learning what I could have known in the first week. In this episode, I'm breaking down the exact framework I use to evaluate a man from the moment he speaks to me. You'll find out why "do I like him?" is the wrong question to be asking, the difference between a man who's interested and a man who's actually investing, and how to spot the yellow flags most women wait months to catch. Walk away able to trust yourself enough to know who qualifies for your time—without the weeks of confusion, second-guessing, or asking everybody else what his behavior means. If you're ready to learn how to evaluate your options without settling, get on the Curved to Cuffed wait list HERE. Learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#191
July 2 · 46 min
How I Make It Easy For Men To Pursue Me
Send episode requests here There's a difference between a man getting your number and a man actually pursuing you. I've learned how to inspire the men I want to pursue me—planning the dates, investing, and showing up consistently—without ever forcing it or looking thirsty. In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly how I make it easy for a man to pursue me when he already wants to. You'll find out why men feel pressure from you without you ever saying a word, the way good girls accidentally push men away while thinking they're being interested, and what most women confuse for a real connection that isn't one at all. Walk away knowing how to create an experience a man can't stop thinking about—so the right man moves toward you instead of pulling back. Learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#190
June 25 · 44 min
How I Get Quality Men To Notice Me When I Walk Into A Room (Without Looking Thirsty)
Send episode requests here I've gotten to the point where I have no doubt that when I pick a place to go, I'm going to catch the attention of the kind of man I want—and lately that's meant meeting a millionaire four to five weeks in a row. In this episode, I'm sharing exactly how I get quality men to notice me the second I step into a room. You'll find out why you can feel invisible even when you're standing right there, what you're doing that quietly tells men to leave you alone, and the shift that takes you from waiting to be approached to being impossible to miss. Walk away knowing how to be the woman who pulls the attention of the man she actually wants—not just whoever happens to be thirsty that night. If you're ready to build these skills with feedback week after week, there’s still time to join the Relationship Roster Challenge HERE. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#189
June 18 · 35 min
Where Do I Go? The Secret To Finally Meeting The Quality Men In Your City
Send episode requests here You say you want a successful, ambitious provider. But have you ever really thought about how that man actually lives his life? Most women can't describe one real thing about their ideal man's day—and that's the exact reason they never know where to find him. In this episode, I'm teaching you how to stop guessing where the man you want hangs out and start knowing it. u'll find out why "where do I go?" is the wrong first question, what you have to figure out about a man before any place will make sense, and how to spot where he already spends his free time. Walk away able to pick a real spot this week where your kind of man actually is—instead of getting dressed up and hoping you run into him. If you're ready to stop guessing and learn exactly how to meet your ideal man, join the Relationship Roster Challenge HERE. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#188
June 11 · 1 hr 6 min
Five Lies Costing You Your Summer Boyfriend
Send episode requests here You know you want a man this summer. You say it, you feel it, your coochie is jumping for it—but somehow you keep talking yourself right out of going after it. And the stories you're telling yourself sound so smart and so responsible that you actually believe them. In this episode, I'm breaking down the five lies costing you your summer boyfriend. You'll find out why feeling "stuck" is rarely what's really going on, the truth about confidence that flips everything you've been told, and why the one lie most women won't say out loud is the reason all the others get to exist. Walk away ready to stop blocking your own blessing and disqualifying yourself before a man even gets the chance to choose you. If one of these lies has been costing you more than another dry summer, join the Relationship Roster Challenge HERE. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#187
June 5 · 1 hr 3 min
The Summer Plan For Women Who Want A Boyfriend By August
Send episode requests here In this episode, I'm giving you a simple summer plan to have a commitment-ready boyfriend by August—exclusive or not. You'll discover why "putting yourself out there" and "loving yourself" was never enough without a real system, the number that tells you whether your love life is actually moving or stuck, and why the men you want never seem to cross your path even when you're going outside and meeting people. Walk away knowing exactly what to do daily and weekly so you stop disappearing for months every time dating gets hard—and start building toward the kind of fall where you're the one choosing who to cuff. Join the FREE Lovergirl Summer Activation Call HERE to learn about the Roster Relationship Challenge coming up! Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#186
May 29 · 31 min
How To Stop Wasting Your Summer and Finally Meet Your Husband
Send episode requests here A lot of you are going to hit cuffing season with a dry and dusty dating life once again. Because you keep doing nothing in the summer and expecting a man by the fall…it's like wanting a summer body without ever hitting the gym. In this episode, I break down the three things keeping you stuck and headed for another manless winter. You'll find out why the men you actually want aren't showing up in your life, what you're doing that makes quality men lose interest even when the attraction is there, and why you keep quitting dating every time you get disappointed. Walk away ready to turn this summer into the season you finally build a roster of quality men—so you're choosing who to cuff instead of wishing someone would choose you. Join the FREE Lovergirl Summer Activation Call HERE to learn about the Roster Relationship Challenge coming up! Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#185
May 21 · 40 min
I Walked Away From A Good Man This Year - Here's Why
Send episode requests here A few weeks ago, I walked away from a good man after dating him for over a year and a half. In this episode, I'm breaking down what made me walk away from a man most women would have stayed with and why I don't regret it for a second. You'll discover why looks and investment alone don't move me anymore, what happens when you try to adjust a man into generosity instead of requiring it from the start, and why you don't need a "good enough reason" to leave when something stops being in alignment with you. Ready to stop staying with men just because they look good on paper and start trusting your decisions even when the room disagrees? Listen now. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#184
May 14 · 53 min
I Don't Trust Men And It's The Best Dating Decision I Ever Made (My Meg & Klay Take)
Send episode requests here I used to be the woman who let a man decide whether my week was good or bad. My marriage taught me that. When it ended, I couldn't get out of bed for weeks because I had outsourced my entire sense of safety to him. That's when I had to ask a different question: “Why am I making my peace depend on whether a man can be trusted at all?” This episode walks you through the six steps that got me from that woman to the woman I am now—the one who dates without scanning men for proof they won't hurt me, who sleeps peaceful at night not stressed about what a man is doing, and who can walk away from anything that doesn't serve me. Because when you trust yourself more than you trust any man, disappointment can't destroy you. Work with me to stop being scared of a man hurting you and start building the kind of love life where it doesn't matter either way. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#183
May 7 · 39 min
DWC REWIND: When You Put In Too Much Effort
Send episode requests here If you’re a woman of faith who struggles with putting in too much effort while dating ….but not getting much in return from the men you date, this episode is for you. You’re the woman who is always making time You’re the woman who is there to provide emotional support, You’re the woman who is always keeping conversations going. You’re the woman who is always there to make men feel good about themselves. Join me in this episode to hear the difference between “putting in too much effort” and putting in the right kind of effort for delicious dating results. Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world… …AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES: Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#182
April 30 · 30 min
DWC REWIND: Launching Your H.O.E. Phase
Send episode requests here Part of the reason why you waste time on the wrong men is because you’re EASY. All it takes is for a man to pay you some consistent attention and now you’re his girlfriend. And then you get big mad when you realized you invested months…sometimes years into a man who wasn’t worth all that effort There’s no wonder why you’re always so drained and disappointed with men Listen closely to this episode as I help you uncover your power to choose the right man for you, instead of settling for being chosen. Be prepared to reclaim your time! HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: My signature model for a premium dating experience for high-achieving women of faith. What it means to be a good H.O.E and how it puts you in a position of power. 7 Practical guidelines that will help you vet men before you go exclusive with them. A unique approach to rotational dating that will lead you to date better men and have better dating experiences. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#181
April 23 · 29 min
DWC REWIND: How To Show Up As A Quality Woman Who Attracts Quality Men
Send episode requests here “There’s not enough quality men out here for quality women.” That’s the lie we tell ourselves when we’re not ready to do the work. The truth is that there are more than enough quality men for quality women AND quality women aren’t finding it hard to meet these men. Why? Because they are doing the real work towards creating the love lives the desire And that work is deeper than being a nice girl who has her shit together. It’s deeper than being educated, financially stable and knowing how to cook and clean. Listen to this episode as I share with you the REAL work that quality women are doing daily that allows them to attract, meet and connect with an abundance of quality men. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: What it really means to “work on yourself” while dating. The difference between a decent woman and a quality woman A quality woman’s biggest super power that helps her navigate dating. The high-quality characteristics that attract high-quality men Why it’s important to embrace “messiness” on your dating journey Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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#180
April 16 · 32 min
DWC REWIND: Why You Keep Choosing The Wrong Man (And Why It’s Exhausting You)
Send episode requests here You finally have multiple men pursuing you, but now you don't know what the hell to do with them ... .so you're either picking whoever texts back fastest or stressing yourself out trying to be "fair" to everyone. Most women think the goal is just getting men's attention, but the real challenge is knowing how to handle it when you actually have choices. You end up settling for the first guy who's consistent or getting overwhelmed and picking based on who gives you butterflies instead of who's actually right for you. I'm breaking down exactly what to do when you have real options so you stop making decisions from panic and start choosing the man who actually fits your life. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed
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