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Consult the Counselor

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S2 · E5
August 1 · 1 hr 28 min
Difficult Counselees
On this episode of Consult the Counselor, host Brian Walker is joined by Anchored Virtual counselor Evan Magelson to explore the challenges of counseling difficult counselees. Together they share real stories from sessions and discuss practical strategies for de‑escalation, self‑care, and maintaining spiritual focus. They talk about recognizing personal triggers, setting healthy boundaries, and leaning on gospel truths to stay grounded. Listeners will hear candid reflections on compassion fatigue, the importance of community support, and concrete tips for handling aggressive or resistant clients while staying compassionate and effective. --- ⁠www.anchoredvirtual.com⁠
S2 · E4
July 1 · 2 hr 13 min
Emotional Abuse
On this episode of Consult the Counselor, we talk with Brittany Beltran and Shanda Anderson about the complex and painful reality of emotional abuse. Together, we consider what emotional abuse is, how it differs from ordinary conflict, why it can be so difficult to recognize, and how patterns of control, manipulation, intimidation, and isolation can deeply affect a person’s sense of identity, agency, and relationship with God. We also discuss the ways Scripture and spiritual authority can be misused to reinforce harm, as well as how the gospel restores dignity, clarity, and hope to those who have been diminished by destructive relationships. Throughout the conversation, we explore how counselors, pastors, churches, and faithful friends can respond with wisdom, patience, compassion, and courage—especially when questions of safety, repentance, and long-term care are involved. Our hope is that this conversation brings greater understanding to a difficult topic and helps those who are suffering know that they are seen, their story matters, and help is available.
June 1 · 1 hr 59 min
High-Conflict Relationships
On this episode of Consult the Counselor we explore the complexities of high‑conflict relationships through a candid conversation with counselors Jocelyn Wallace and Brit Gilman. We unpack why conflict persists, share personal stories that illustrate the heart of relational struggles, and discuss practical tools such as the “four promises of forgiveness,” scripted listening exercises, and the Punnett‑square model for relationship dynamics. Throughout, we emphasize the gospel’s power to transform conflict, highlight resources like Ken Sande’s The Peacemaker and Paul Tripp’s War of Words, and offer concrete steps listeners can take to bring clarity, hope, and healing into their own relationships. This episode provides both theological insight and actionable guidance for anyone navigating the turbulence of conflict. --- www.anchoredvirtual.com
S2 · E2
May 1 · 1 hr 45 min
Counseling Sexual Abuse Victims & Survivors
On this episode of Consult the Counselor, we talk with Dr. Peggy Banks and Anna Kate Mullinix about counseling and caring for sexual abuse survivors. We unpack what sexual abuse can include, why survivors may struggle to name their experience, and why trust and safety are essential in trauma-informed care. We also discuss how churches can be better prepared to respond wisely, avoid causing further harm, and connect survivors with appropriate support and resources. Finally, we highlight gospel themes that sustain hope, including lament, God’s presence with the wounded, and the long road of healing with compassionate, skillful care.
S2 · E1
April 1 · 1 hr 40 min
Gospel-Centered Counseling
Season 2 of Consult the Counselor kicks off with a foundational conversation on what it means to practice truly gospel-centered biblical counseling. Host Brian Walker is joined by Anchored Virtual counselors Katie Boomer and Wagner Floriani to unpack why “gospel-centered” is more than a buzzword—and how it shapes both the message and the tone of faithful counseling. Together, they define gospel-centered counseling as more than offering quick fixes or isolated Bible verses. Instead, they explore how Scripture’s one unfolding story of redemption helps counselors connect a person’s lived experience of sin and suffering to the person and work of Jesus. The discussion also highlights how hermeneutics (how we interpret the Bible) matters deeply in counseling, especially in avoiding moralistic “try harder” approaches and learning to apply the imperatives of Scripture in the context of the gospel’s indicatives. Along the way, Katie and Wagner talk candidly about sanctification, union with Christ, common misconceptions about gospel-centered counseling, and practical ways counselors can cultivate gospel “instincts” that bring real hope to real problems. Topics include: gospel doctrine + gospel culture, counseling tone and patience, avoiding formulaic “life hacks,” reading the Old Testament with Christ in view, identity as saints/sufferers/sinners, and recommended resources for growing in gospel-centered counseling.
S1 · E7
Aug 1, 2025 · 2 hr 3 min
Cross Cultural Counseling
On this episode of Consult the Counselor, we explore cross-cultural counseling with our expert guests Dr. Peggy Banks and Kate Mullinax. We discuss the importance of cultural awareness in counseling, practical steps for churches to better serve diverse communities, and resources for missionaries working in different cultural contexts. We also address the unique challenges faced by third culture kids and how counselors can effectively support them. Join us as we examine how the gospel transcends cultural boundaries while honoring cultural differences.
S1 · E6
Jul 1, 2025 · 1 hr 43 min
Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder
On this episode of Consult the Counselor, we explore the complex world of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD). We're joined by counselors Anna Carini and Adam Mollica as we dive deep into understanding what OCD truly is - beyond common misconceptions. We discuss how this condition affects 2.5-4% of the population and is considered the seventh most debilitating disease across all medical conditions. We examine the neurological aspects of OCD, exploring how brain scans reveal that "the brain responds too much to errors and too little to stop signals,"creating persistent thought loops that sufferers find nearly impossible to break. Our conversation covers the three main categories of OCD manifestations: checking, repetition, and order. Our guests share both professional insights and personal experiences with OCD tendencies, offering a compassionate perspective on this challenging condition. We also introduce the concept of religious scrupulosity as a specific form of OCD that creates constant spiritual anxiety. This episode provides valuable information for those experiencing OCD symptoms, their loved ones, and counselors seeking to better understand and provide effective support.
S1 · E5
Jun 1, 2025 · 2 hr 4 min
Forgiveness
In this episode of Consult the Counselor, host Brian Walker is joined by counselors Megan Evans and Will Anderson for an in-depth conversation about forgiveness. Together, they explore the biblical foundations of forgiveness, practical steps through the REACH model, and common misconceptions about the forgiveness journey. They examine both personal experiences and professional insights, offering wisdom for those struggling with forgiveness and those supporting others through the process. The discussion covers everything from trauma-informed approaches to specific considerations for ministry leaders, providing valuable resources and biblical encouragement for the challenging work of forgiveness. Key Topics Covered What is forgiveness: Biblical understanding and definition of true forgiveness The process of forgiveness: Understanding the REACH model and practical steps Common misconceptions: Addressing myths about forgiveness and reconciliation Trauma and forgiveness: How to approach forgiveness after significant hurt Ministry leadership perspective: Special considerations for those in ministry roles The role of empathy: Understanding its importance in the forgiveness process Commitment to forgiveness: How to maintain forgiveness long-term Biblical examples: Learning from Joseph and other scriptural narratives Resources and tools: Books, media, and other materials for further study Professional support: When and how to seek counseling for forgiveness issues
S1 · E4
May 1, 2025 · 1 hr 34 min
Addictions
In this episode of Consult the Counselor, host Brian Walker is joined by counselors Tyson Lott and Kate Kate Mcewan for an in-depth discussion about addiction. They explore the crucial role of counseling in addiction recovery, drawing from their extensive experience in the field. The conversation covers the importance of transparent communication, the need for counselors who understand addiction's complexity, and practical guidance for those seeking help. They discuss valuable resources for addiction recovery and emphasize the significance of bringing struggles into the light while approaching recovery with grace rather than shame. Key Topics Covered: The role of counseling in addiction recovery Understanding addiction as a complex, holistic issue The importance of transparent communication in counseling How counselors can effectively work with those struggling with addiction The need to avoid vague answers and surface-level solutions The balance between accountability and grace in addiction counseling The importance of bringing struggles into the light Recommended resources for addiction recovery Available treatment programs and support options The role of biblical counseling in addiction recovery
S1 · E3
Apr 1, 2025 · 2 hr 6 min
Trauma
In this episode of Consult the Counselor, host Brian Walker is joined by Meg King and Brittany Beltran for an in-depth conversation about trauma. Together, they explore the complexities of trauma counseling, discussing both professional expertise and practical guidance. They examine the importance of family support, counselor qualities, and biblical foundations in trauma care, offering wisdom for both those experiencing trauma and those supporting them. The conversation emphasizes the significance of finding counselors who are both Scripture-grounded and trauma-informed, while highlighting the need for patience, humility, and hope in the healing journey. Key Topics Covered: • The nature of trauma and its various manifestations • The importance of biblical foundations in trauma counseling • How trauma affects individuals differently • The role of family members in supporting trauma survivors • Key qualities to look for in a trauma counselor • The integration of Scripture with trauma-informed care • The importance of patience and proper pacing in trauma counseling • How to provide resources and support for trauma survivors • The need for support for family members of trauma survivors • The significance of humility and continuous learning in trauma counseling
S1 · E2
Mar 1, 2025 · 1 hr 56 min
Infertility
In this episode of Consult the Counselor, host Brian Walker is joined by Taylor Willis and Rachel Parker for an in-depth conversation about infertility. Together, they explore the emotional, spiritual, and relational impact of infertility, discussing both personal experiences and professional insight. They examine the deep grief, struggles, and hope that come with this journey, offering wisdom and biblical encouragement for those facing infertility and those supporting them. Key Topics Covered: What infertility is and how it manifests. The emotional, spiritual, and relational toll it takes on individuals and couples. How infertility affects men and women differently. Common misconceptions about infertility. How faith intersects with fertility treatments and medical options. The role of lament and how to grieve well. How churches and communities can support those experiencing infertility. The biblical hope found in Christ amid suffering. Practical advice for those suffering and those supporting them. Resources Mentioned: Books: Dark Clouds, Deep Mercy by Mark Vroegop – A guide on biblical lament and processing grief. Longing for Motherhood by Chelsea Patterson Sobolik – A book offering personal reflections on infertility and adoption. Praying Through Infertility (Edited by Sheridan Voysey) – A devotional providing encouragement and guidance through infertility. When Empty Arms Become a Heavy Burden – A book providing both medical and biblical perspectives on infertility. Support Groups & Ministries: Waiting and Hope Ministries – Offers in-person and virtual support groups for those experiencing infertility. New Mercy Moms – A ministry supporting bereaved moms, including those who have experienced miscarriage and stillbirth. Foster the Family – A resource for those considering foster care and adoption. National Embryo Donation Center – A resource for couples considering embryo adoption. Embryo Adoption Podcast – A podcast discussing embryo adoption and providing insight into the process. Connect with Our Guests: Taylor Willis and Rachel Parker are experienced counselors at Anchored Virtual, specializing in biblical counseling for individuals and couples facing infertility, grief, trauma, and adoption-related issues. If you are struggling with infertility or considering adoption, you can message Taylor or Rachel through the Anchored Virtual website for support and guidance. If this episode has resonated with you, we encourage you to share it with a friend, leave a review, or reach out to us with any questions. You are not alone in this journey, and we are here to walk with you.
S1 · E1
Feb 1, 2025 · 2 hr 2 min
Understanding Church Hurt
In this first episode of Consult the Counselor, host Brian Walker is joined by Rebekah Hannah and Jonathan Haefs for a deep dive into the complex issue of Church Hurt. Together, they explore what it is, why it’s so painful, and how it affects individuals spiritually, emotionally, and relationally. With personal stories and professional insight, they discuss the long-term impact of church-related wounds and, most importantly, how the hope of the Gospel offers healing and restoration. Key Topics Covered: • What defines Church Hurt and how it manifests. • The emotional and spiritual toll it takes on individuals. • How pastors and church leaders experience hurt differently. • Biblical wisdom on processing pain and finding healing.
Jan 15, 2025 · 47 sec
Introducing Consult the Counselor
We're really excited to tell you about Anchored Virtual's new podcast, Consult the Counselor. There are very few spaces that are designed for long form conversations on difficult counseling topics. On Consult a Counselor, that's what we want to provide. In each episode, we invite two of our counselors at Anchored Virtual into a deep dive conversation on a counseling topic. Once a month, we'll release episodes on issues such as addictions, trauma, church hurt, infertility, forgiveness, abuse, and more. You'll get to hear expert counselors discuss the nuances and challenges of these issues and ultimately apply the hope of the gospel in practical and meaningful ways. The first episode drops February 1st. We hope you'll join us.

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