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Home of the world's most OPEN, HONEST & EXPLICIT conversations! You’ll be hearing all of our juicy sex stories, getting professional sex advice from therapists to dominatrix’s and spilling horny tea with your favorite public figures.

Curious f**kers… welcome to COME CURIOUS the podcast. Hosted by award winning sex & relationship content creators, sex educators & p0rn directors: Florence Bark and Reed Amber.

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Thursday · 59 min
Hair Fetish and Being a Bearded Woman - Body confidence, Beauty standards & Kink
What happens when you stop treating your body hair as something that needs fixing and start seeing it as part of what makes you attractive? In this episode of Come Curious, Reed chats to Bethany, producer of Come Curious and host of The Sassy Show, about being a proudly hairy woman with a beard. They dive deep into body confidence, beauty standards and hair fetishes. Bethany shares her journey from shaving from the age of 10 to embracing her natural body hair and how queer & kinky communities helped her feel more confident in her body. We get into: Being a hairy woman: body hair, beauty standards & body acceptance Hair fetishes: when being fetishised can feel empowering vs objectifying Razor play & grooming: the intimacy of letting someone else care for your body Body confidence: learning to see and touch your body without shame Talking to partners: asking for reassurance, praise and what you actually need Tune in for a conversation about body hair, kink, fetishisation, confidence and unlearning the idea that your natural body needs to be changed. Follow Bethany on IG @bxsassy2 and get to know her platform The Sassy Show Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠⁠Patreon ⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠@comecurious⁠⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠⁠@florencebark⁠⁠ Follow Reed ⁠⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
August 20 · 1 hr 3 min
How to Make Friends and Break Friendships - Loneliness, Toxic Friendships & Friends With Benefits
Making Friends After 30? Trying to end a toxic friendship? Dealing with Adult Loneliness? This is the episode for you! In this episode of Come Curious, we get into the messy reality of adult friendship: how to make new friends, how to know when a friendship has run its course, and why ending a platonic relationship can hurt just as much as a romantic breakup. We talk about the loneliness epidemic, introversion and different social capacities, as well as the difference between a friendship naturally fizzling out and deliberately choosing to walk away. They also share their own experiences of friendship breakups — including the dramatic ones — and discuss why honest communication can sometimes be kinder than quietly disappearing. Our audience gets involved too, sharing how Curious Fckers made new friends through Bumble BFF, Instagram, burlesque, bouldering, dance classes, hobbies, local groups and niche communities. Plus, the episode touches on current LGBTQI+ and political news before getting back to the really important stuff: how the hell do you actually make friends when you're an adult? Expect conversations about loneliness, friendship breakups, social anxiety, finding your community, making friends online and IRL, and knowing when it's time to let a friendship go. Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠⁠Patreon ⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠@comecurious⁠⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠⁠@florencebark⁠⁠ Follow Reed ⁠⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
August 13 · 55 min
How to Initiate Sex: communicating desire & overcoming rejection anxiety
How do you actually initiate sex with your partner? It sounds simple, but for many couples, making the first move can be surprisingly awkward, vulnerable and even scary. In this episode, we get into why sexual initiation can become so difficult and what you can actually do about it. We discuss the loneliness epidemic and changing dating habits, before getting into the bigger question: how do we ask for sex without making it feel like a high-stakes negotiation? Drawing on ideas from Emily Nagoski's Come As You Are, we explore spontaneous and responsive desire, the "accelerators and brakes" that influence libido, and why initiating sex can start hours before you ever get into bed. We talk about: Why so many couples struggle to initiate sex How fear of rejection can make making a move feel terrifying Why sex can start with connection, safety and feeling understood Using love languages as a form of everyday intimacy and foreplay Spontaneous vs responsive desire How long-term relationships can change the way we experience sexual desire How having children can completely reshape your sex life Why asking your partner how they like to be initiated with could change everything How to communicate about sex without pressure, expectation or mind-reading And then we hit the watershed. The first half of this episode is available to everyone, but if you want to hear the more personal, intimate and unfiltered conversation - including our own stories about sexual initiation - you'll need to head over to Patreon for the full episode. So whether you've been together for ten years, you're newly dating, you're navigating parenthood, or you're simply wondering how to make the first move without dying of embarrassment… this one's for you. Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠@comecurious⁠⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠⁠@florencebark⁠⁠ Follow Reed ⁠⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
August 6 · 1 hr 4 min
My Friend's Having a Baby - WTF?! Friendship changes, parenthood & child-free life
No one really prepares you for what happens when your best friend has a baby. Suddenly your lives look completely different. Messages take longer to reply to, spontaneous plans disappear, priorities shift, and sometimes... it can feel like you're grieving a friendship that's still alive. In this deeply honest episode, Florence and Reed unpack how becoming a parent changes friendships—not just for the person having the baby, but for the friends left wondering where they fit in. We discuss: Why it's normal to grieve a friendship changing after parenthood Feeling left behind when your friends start families How to support a friend who's just had a baby What parents actually need from their child-free friends Navigating jealousy, loneliness and changing priorities Why friendships naturally have "seasons" Creating your own village—whether you have children or not How honest communication can save lifelong friendships Whether you're expecting your first baby, proudly child-free, undecided, or simply watching your friendship group evolve, this episode is for anyone trying to hold onto meaningful relationships through life's biggest transitions. Because growing up doesn't have to mean growing apart. Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠⁠Patreon ⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠@comecurious⁠⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠⁠@florencebark⁠⁠ Follow Reed ⁠⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
July 30 · 50 min
What Porn Are You Watching? - Hentai, MILFs & modern porn habits
Porn is everywhere but how much is too much? What are people actually searching for? And should we be worried about our viewing habits? This week we're diving headfirst into the world of pornography. As former porn creators ourselves, we're unpacking how our relationship with porn has changed over the years, what healthy consumption looks like, and why the conversation around "porn addiction" might be more complicated than people think. We explore: Is porn addiction real or is it better understood as a compulsion? When does watching porn become unhealthy? The world's most searched porn categories (including why hentai has dominated global searches) Why Gen Z's porn habits are changing The fastest-growing sexually active age group How porn can affect relationships, intimacy and desire Our own experiences working in the adult industry Wild, weird and wonderful listener-submitted porn searches From anime to MILFs, roleplay to relationship dynamics, this episode explores what our fantasies can tell us, without judgement. Whether you watch porn regularly, occasionally or not at all, this is an honest conversation about fantasy, shame, curiosity and sexual wellbeing. Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠⁠Patreon ⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠@comecurious⁠⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠⁠@florencebark⁠⁠ Follow Reed ⁠⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
July 23 · 40 min
0rgies vs G4ng Bangs? - Group Sex, Swinging, Fantasy & Sexual Health
What's the actual difference between an ()rgy and a g4ng bang? And why do these two forms of group sx carry such different cultural baggage? In this episode of Come Curious, we're diving into the definitions, misconceptions, fantasies and realities surrounding two of the most talked-about group sx experiences. We explore where these ideas come from, how they've been shaped by mainstream 🌽orn, and why consent, agency and communication matter so much when discussing group sexual experiences. Along the way, we discuss: The difference between ()rgies and g4ng bangs Why group sex remains one of the world's most common fantasies How porn influences our understanding of group sx Listener stories, unexpected experiences and hilarious mishaps Sexual health, testing and safer group play Why these experiences aren't exclusive to any one gender or sexuality How our own relationships with sx, sobriety and intimacy have evolved over time We also take a look at some recent developments in contraception research, including updates in male contraception trials and conversations around informed contraceptive choices. Whether you're simply curious, have fantasised about group sx, or want to better understand the language and culture surrounding it, this episode offers an open, honest and judgement-free discussion. Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠⁠Patreon ⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠@comecurious⁠⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠⁠@florencebark⁠⁠ Follow Reed ⁠⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
July 16 · 48 min
Non Sexy Things That Turn Us On - Acts of Service, Emotional Vulnerability & Why Confidence is So Sexy!
Turns out the sexiest things aren't always sexual. In this episode of Come Curious, we're diving into the unexpected, surprising, and sometimes downright bizarre things that make people feel attracted, connected, and turned on. From fresh bed sheets and gardening to emotional vulnerability and conflict resolution, we're exploring the green flags, personality traits, and everyday moments that can spark desire in ways we never expected. We discuss: Why emotional vulnerability can be incredibly attractive The appeal of emotional regulation and healthy communication Acts of service and why chores can become foreplay Competence, confidence and professional attraction Eye contact, direct communication and feeling desired Nature, scent, fresh sheets and creating an erotic atmosphere Listener submissions about accents, singing, oral fixations and more We also share some personal life updates, including navigating parenthood, balancing work and childcare, and our recent visit to Parliament to discuss the shadow-banning and deplatforming of sx workers, educators and LGBTQ+ creators on social media platforms. Because attraction isn't always about bodies or sex. Sometimes it's about feeling safe, understood, supported or watching someone confidently reverse a car into a parking space. Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠⁠Patreon ⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠@comecurious⁠⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠⁠@florencebark⁠⁠ Follow Reed ⁠⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
July 9 · 51 min
Should I Stay If They've Cheated On Me? - Affairs, Trust Issues, Couples Therapy & Recovery
When cheating happens, everyone wants a simple answer: leave or stay. But real relationships are rarely that straightforward. In this episode of Come Curious, we unpack one of the most painful questions a person can face: should you stay with someone who has cheated on you? Drawing on listener stories, expert insights, personal experiences, and relationship research, we explore why affairs happen, what cheating can reveal about a relationship, and whether trust can genuinely be rebuilt after betrayal. Tune in to hear about: Why people cheat in the first place Emotional affairs vs physical affairs When cheating is a symptom of deeper relationship problems The role of communication, accountability and therapy Signs a relationship may be repairable When leaving might be the healthiest choiceListener stories of recovery, separation and ethical non-monogamy The long-term impact of betrayal on mental health and self-worth We also examine the reality that many couples do stay together after infidelity, and why healing looks different for every relationship. Whether you've been cheated on, cheated yourself, or simply want to understand the psychology behind affairs, this conversation offers compassion, honesty and practical perspectives without reducing a deeply human experience to a simple yes-or-no answer. Shout out to therapist Jemma Hardelle who provided her insight on this topic. You can find her online at @hardelle_jemma on IG and www.jemmahardelle.com Sign the petition for 'Holding Meta Accountable for Wrongful Deletion' Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠⁠Patreon ⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠@comecurious⁠⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠⁠@florencebark⁠⁠ Follow Reed ⁠⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
July 2 · 1 hr 7 min
Threesomes, Male Multiple Orgasms and Throat Orgasms - Pleasure Skills Nobody Taught You
What if orgasm isn't something you're born knowing how to do but a skill you can learn? This week on Come Curious, we're joined by sex educator, author and pleasure advocate Susan Bratton for a mind-expanding conversation about the incredible range of pleasure our bodies are capable of experiencing. We dive into male multiple o's, prostate pleasure, orgasmic intercourse, throat o's, and why so many people have been taught limiting beliefs about their sexual potential. Susan shares practical techniques for men to separate orgasm from ejaculation, explains the "M Breath" method for full-body pleasure, and reveals how learning to recognise the point of no return can completely transform sexual stamina and confidence. We also explore: Male multiple o's and ejaculatory choice Pr0state massage and blended o's Throat o's and overcoming the gag reflex Why o's are a learnable skill How women can experience more pleasure during penetration The surprising connection between pleasure, health and longevity Long-term non-monogamy and relationship anarchy The future of sx toys and teledildonics Whether you're curious about expanding your orgasmic potential, improving partnered sx, or challenging everything you've been taught about pleasure, this episode is packed with practical advice and fascinating insights. Susan's suggestions: Drive Desire Orgasmic Intercourse Follow Susan online at @susanbratton Learn more about the toys Susan mentions: Keon 2 (Pre-Order) Keon LuXus Pearl 3 ProWand You can also get 10% off storewide at checkout using the code ComeCurious10 Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠Patreon ⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Follow Reed ⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
June 25 · 41 min
Is this cheating? Dating Apps, Exes, Emotional Affairs & Secret Texts
Is subscribing to someone's OnlyFans cheating? What about texting an ex, keeping a dating app "just to look", or fantasising about someone else during sex? In this special watershed episode, we're diving into the murky grey areas of modern relationships with a boundary-pushing cheating quiz that sparks some surprisingly revealing conversations. Together, we unpack the behaviours that sit between loyalty and betrayal, exploring emotional affairs, secret crushes, dating apps, hidden messages, workplace flirtations, exes, social media boundaries, and what "cheating" actually means in monogamous and non-monogamous relationships. The truth? There isn't one universal definition. What feels harmless to one person might feel devastating to another. This episode is designed to help you better understand your own boundaries, communicate your expectations, and start the conversations many couples avoid until it's too late. ⚠️ This is a Watershed episode. Free listeners get the first half of the conversation, but if you want the full debate, all our answers, and the deeper discussions around ENM, trust, honesty and relationship agreements, you'll need to join us on Patreon. Whether you're happily monogamous, exploring ethical non-monogamy, or simply wondering where your own line is, this episode will leave you with plenty to think about. Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠Patreon ⁠ Learn about The Love Tank's new Dark Room Etiquette guide to help navigate dark rooms with safety and reassurance here Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Follow Reed ⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
June 18 · 1 hr 6 min
Babies, Bodies & Banging Sex - new motherhood, polyamory & intimacy after birth
We're back! After a whirlwind few months, Florence and Reed reunite to share some huge life update and trust us, a lot has happened. Florence opens up about her traumatic birth experience, from preeclampsia and induction to the realities of labour, recovery and becoming a mum. Meanwhile, Reed spills the tea on ending a dishonest situationship, finding a healthy new polyamorous relationship, and what dating has taught her about attachment, communication and vulnerability. The pair also dive into some of the biggest stories affecting sexual health right now, including NHS policy changes impacting trans healthcare, breakthroughs in endometriosis and PCOS research, and why menstrual products are finally being tested with real blood. Plus, they answer your questions on: Sex and intimacy after having a baby Maintaining connection during major life changes Dating, honesty and ethical communication Talking about penis size before sex Women's health research and medical advocacy Raw, funny, emotional and completely unfiltered - this is Come Curious catching up on everything you've missed. Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠Patreon ⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Follow Reed ⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
June 11 · 59 min
What makes a great Cis, Straight Dominant Man - Authority, Kink Theory and Ethical Domination
This week on Come Curious, Reed sits down with kink theorist, power exchange mentor and educator Tripp Terrier to unpack one of the most misunderstood roles in BDSM: the dominant. Together they explore why true dominance isn't about control, arrogance or entitlement but instead, it's about presence, responsibility and service. Tripp shares his unique perspective on power exchange, explaining how authority is earned through knowledge, patience and skill rather than demanded through status or ego. They discuss the importance of integrating every part of yourself including the feminine and more uncomfortable aspects of your personality, and why self-awareness is one of the most powerful tools a dominant can develop. Inside the episode: - Why dominance is a giving role, not a taking one - The difference between confidence and entitlement - How power exchange can become deeply transformative - Why consent is more complex than a simple "yes" or "no" - The role of humility in healthy masculinity and leadership - Supporting partners through subdrop and emotional vulnerability Tripp also shares his essential reading list for anyone curious about kink, including The Topping Book and The Bottoming Book by Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton, alongside The Heart of Dominance and The Dominance Playbook by Anton Fulmen. Whether you're dominant, submissive, curious or simply interested in healthier models of masculinity, this conversation offers a fascinating look into power, connection and personal responsibility. Follow Tripp online @tripp.terrier Come watch the full episode, AD FREE over on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious And tune in on all major streaming platforms - Come Curious. Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious Florence @florencebark Reed @reedamberx Our podcast is released every Thursday. Listen to the full episode wherever you get your podcasts. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4nQnVqQcEn4ptshlKjtdqo Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/f-ks-given-by-comecurious/id1444176549 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
June 4 · 33 min
Why Is Cumming So Hard???
Ever feel like everyone else is having mind-blowing Os while you're still trying to figure out what all the fuss is about? In this solo episode, Reed dives into one of the most common questions in seggs: why can orgasms feel so difficult to reach? From cl"toral Os and G-spots to nipple Os, footgasms and everything in between, Reed shares her own experiences navigating pleasure, performance pressure and learning what actually works for her body. She explores the biggest O blockers — including stress, overthinking, hormones, shame, medication and unrealistic expectations — and explains why chasing an O is often the fastest way to stop one from happening. Plus, she tackles: 💦 Why faking Os helps nobody 🧠 The mind-body disconnect that kills pleasure 🔥 How solo play can transform partnered seggs ✨ What our Curious Fckers revealed about their O habits ⚡ The difference between pleasure and performance Whether you O every time, rarely get there, or are still figuring out what works for your body, this episode is a reminder that pleasure isn't one-size-fits-all. Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠Patreon ⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Follow Reed ⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
May 28 · 41 min
Single, Slutty and Sad? - Dodgy dates, fantastic f*cks & everything in between
Is being single actually lonely… or are we just taught to fear it? In this deeply honest solo episode, Reed opens up about the messy, liberating, emotional rollercoaster of single life — from dodgy dates and incredible seggs to heartbreak, healing, k'nk exploration and learning how to stop losing yourself in relationships. Expect candid chats about: 💔 Codependency and self-worth 🍑 Casual seggs, k'nk, and ethical dating 🧠 Nervous systems, attachment and emotional safety ✨ Learning your boundaries through dating AND it's a Watershed episode meaning our Patreon's get the secret second half where Reed goes in deep on fantastic sx stories… and the disappointing dates. Raw, reflective, horny and healing all at once — this is Reed fully unfiltered. Come get curious 💫 Watch the full watershed video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠Patreon ⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Reed ⁠⁠@reedamberx⁠ Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
May 21 · 47 min
How to Pleasure Yourself - Pickle d*ldos, size queens and The Bad Peach
M4sturbation May is officially here, and Reed is diving deep into the art of pl3asuring yourself. From shame, fantasy and corn habits to discovering what actually makes your body feel good, this solo episode is an honest, hilarious and deeply relatable guide to self-pleasure. She explores why “bigger” isn’t always better, how knowing your size can transform seggs, and why orgasms should never feel like a performance. Plus, this episode is sponsored by The Bad Peach - your one-stop shop for toys, lingerie, b0ndage and all things solo pl3asure. Use code ComeCurious20 for 20% off your order and start building the pleasure toolkit you actually deserve. Inside the episode: – How shame impacts m4sturbation and 0rgasms – Why corn taught Reed the wrong techniques – Learning your real size preferences (and unlearning corn myths) – Toys, wands, d*ldos, suction toys & discovering what works for your body – The importance of fantasy, mood-setting and self-exploration – Why mutual m4sturbation can completely change partnered seggs Come get curious 💦 Follow them on IG @thebadpeach_offical Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠Patreon ⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Follow Reed ⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
May 14 · 47 min
Married vs Single - Life Assumptions Busted with Feeld
Is being single really freer? Is marriage actually boring? And does your sex life have to change once you settle down? This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed unpack the assumptions we make about relationships, sex, and happiness — and why neither married nor single life is as simple as people think. From pregnancy libido changes and emotional intimacy to loneliness, rejection, freedom and validation, the girls get brutally honest about what their current realities actually look like. They also dive into your listener confessions about: – Dead bedrooms and relationship ruts – Ethical non-monogamy and opening things up – Why communication changes everything – How chronic pain, stress, kids and life impact intimacy – The pressure society places on both single and married people Plus, the episode is sponsored by Feeld celebrating their’s new Reflections feature — a tool designed to help you better understand your desires, boundaries, relationship style and sexual authenticity. Check it out here: https://feeld.co/reflections And follow Feeld on IG @feeldco Because whether you’re single, partnered, married, exploring, confused, horny, lonely or somewhere in-between… there’s no “right” way to build a fulfilling sex life. Come get curious 💫 Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠Patreon ⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Follow Reed ⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
May 7 · 50 min
How To Be a Better Man w/ Jerry Xzeng - Vasectomies, "bro-culture' and positive masculinity online
What does it actually mean to be a “better man” today? This week on Come Curious, Florence is joined by Jerry Xzeng for a powerful conversation about masculinity, identity, and the pressures men are facing right now.From the rise of red-pill culture to the quiet crisis of male loneliness and mental health, they unpack why so many men feel lost and what needs to change. Jerry shares his personal journey growing up in a traditional household, how he’s redefined masculinity on his own terms, and why emotional accountability is at the heart of being a better partner, friend, and human. They also explore: – The impact of toxic online spaces on young men – Cultural expectations and masculinity across different backgrounds – Why awareness is the first step to change – Rethinking responsibility in relationships (including Jerry’s decision to get a vasectomy) This episode is honest, nuanced, and an essential listen for anyone thinking about what masculinity could - and should - look like today. Come get curious 💫 online and check out his series on IG about Being a Better Man IG: @jerryxzeng Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠Patreon ⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Follow Reed ⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
April 30 · 58 min
Tickle Fetishes & MY tickle fetish - Taboo, desire and radical self-acceptance
Tickling… but make it kinky? This week on Come Curious, Reed gets personal as she opens up about her own tickle fetish — what it is, how it feels, and why it’s so often misunderstood. From the difference between kinks and fetishes to the shame that can come with desires we don’t always choose, this episode is all about destigmatising pleasure and owning what turns you on. Reed dives into: – What a tickle fetish actually is – Why it can feel so intense (and confusing) – The language of the community (lur, lee, switch 👀) – How to find others safely – Why consent and communication are EVERYTHING Plus, how she’s building community through her own event Ticklethusiasm. Check it out on IG ⁠@ticklethusiasm⁠ and get in touch if you're interested in coming along on 13th June. If you’ve ever felt unsure, curious, or a little ashamed of what turns you on - this one’s for you. Come get curious 💫 Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠Patreon ⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Follow Reed ⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
April 23 · 1 hr 5 min
Male Etiquette in the Kink Scene w/ Kyron Kruger - performance anxiety, latex love & power play
What does it actually mean to be a man in the kink scene? This week on Come Curious, Reed is joined by Kryron Kruger - latex-loving, boundary-pushing content creator who’s redefining what it means to be a man in sex work. Together they unpack male etiquette in BDSM from communication and consent to performance pressure and what it really takes to show up respectfully in kink spaces. Kyron shares how he found himself in the industry through fetish communities, why being a male sex worker is far more than just sex, and how emotional intelligence, trust, and reputation are everything. Expect to hear ALL the juice on: – Why men need to stop expecting people to read their minds – The truth about performance anxiety (and why erections ≠ good sex) – How to respectfully approach dominatrixes (and why your DMs aren’t it) – The importance of serving your partner — even as a dom – Breaking down shame around men, desire, and vulnerability This episode is honest, eye-opening, and essential listening for anyone navigating kink, dating, or sex with more awareness. Follow Kyron on IG @the_kyron_kruger and see his latex loving side @king_kruger_ Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠Patreon ⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Follow Reed ⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
April 16 · 58 min
Your Dirty Little Secrets - From Sounding & Sock F3tishes to Cum Confessions… Nothing Is Off Limits
This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed dive headfirst into your dirtiest, most unhinged, and secretly-held confessions — and let’s just say… we were not prepared. From: Golden showers & cum curiosities CNC fantasies & breeding kinks Sock fetishes & used shoe obsessions Watching yourself back for pleasure Fantasies that feel better than reality And the question… are we all just a little bit queer? We also get real about shame, desire, and where they collide and why your fantasies don’t define you (but they do deserve exploring). Plus, Florence opens up about pregnancy, body changes, and feeling finally at home in her body - while Reed shares a very honest “get f*cked” about performative sex and Viagra culture. This episode is chaotic, validating, shocking, and weirdly comforting because no matter how “dirty” your secret feels… you are definitely not alone. Come get curious 💫 Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠Patreon ⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Follow Reed ⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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