Skip to content
Sign in
Artwork for brb crying
ComedySociety & CulturePersonal JournalsExplicit

brb crying

nins + arns

brb crying is a cozy comedy podcast where we share what makes us cry in a way that makes us laugh. join nins + arns—two thirty-something teenagers and lifelong BFFs—as they dive into what moves them to tears (movies! books! personal stories! tbh anything is fair game!) and why crying helps us connect with ourselves and each other.

Play
Open in
  • 25 episodes
  • fortnightly
  • Avg 1 hr 8 min
  • English

Episodes 25

NewestOldestLongest
All5Unplayed5In progress0Played0
Counted on this page — what you have heard stays on this device, so it is not something the list can be paged by.
  • January 27 · 59 min

    039: we live in time, modern love, & the people who change us

    This week, we explore the people who quietly change our lives—and the fleeting moments we wish could last forever. Arns reflects on We Live in Time (2024), starring Florence Pugh and Andrew Garfield, and why this devastatingly beautiful film about love, mortality, grief, and the passage of time left her in tears. We unpack what it means to love fully even when life offers no guarantees. Nins brings us to one of Modern Love's most beloved stories, "When the Doorman Is Your Main Man," a moving reminder that family isn't always biological and that some of life's most meaningful relationships come from unexpected places. From romantic love to found family, this episode explores friendship, loneliness, vulnerability, emotional healing, community, and the people who make life feel a little less lonely. To all our crybabies who have ever been changed by a movie, a stranger, a friendship, or a love that arrived when you needed it most: this one's for you. In this episode: We Live in Time (2024) Florence Pugh & Andrew Garfield Modern Love Found family and chosen family Love and mortality Friendship and human connection Loneliness and belonging Emotional healing and vulnerability 0:00 - Preview 0:30 - Intro 0:53 - Welcome to our new studio! 3:12 - Viral on TikTok 5:48 - Arns: We Live in Time 30:19 - Nins: Modern Love doorman story 57:16 - Outro Referenced in this episode: Film We Live in Time (2024) Original essay "When the Doorman Is Your Main Man" by Julie Margaret (2015) The Modern Love TV show (aired in 2019) Two NYT articles by David Jones, the editor of modern Love: “To her He was More than a Doorman” (2019) “Where Did Modern Love Come From?” (2024) Join the brb crying community—a heartfelt, cozy comedy podcast about friendship, vulnerability, emotional storytelling, and all the movies, books, music, and life experiences that leave us in tears. Follow us: » Instagram: @brbcrying.podcast » TikTok: @brbcrying.podcast » YouTube: @brbcrying.podcast Want episode recaps, behind-the-scenes/community updates, and occasional emotional damage delivered straight to your inbox? Sign up for our newsletter at brbcryingpodcast.com. Have a sob story or cry recommendation that absolutely wrecked you? We'd love to be wrecked, too. Submit your story at brbcryingpodcast.com or email us at hello@brbcryingpodcast.com. brb crying—hosted by longtime best friends Nins & Arns—is a podcast where we explore the songs, books, TV shows, films, pop culture moments, and personal stories that help us laugh, cry, heal, and feel a little less alone. Crying is our superpower, and by sharing what makes us cry in a way that makes us laugh, we show how crying helps us connect with ourselves and each other.

    • Transcript
    • Chapters
  • January 13 · 1 hr 2 min

    038: animal communication, emotional healing, & finding yourself again

    This week, we explore animal communication, emotional healing, personal growth, and the lifelong process of finding yourself again. Nins shares the story of an emotional animal communication session with pet psychic Jenny of Bluebird Animal Communication. After years of wondering what her beloved cat Meredith Grey might be thinking, she finally books a session and receives unexpected messages about love, connection, healing, and the ways our pets can change our lives. Arns dives into the viral "midlife glow up" journey of creator Leila Howell (@mykindofglow_), whose honest reflections on motherhood, identity, self-worth, reinvention, and personal growth have resonated with millions. We discuss what it means to lose yourself in life's transitions—and how to find your way back. From pet psychics and spiritual experiences to motherhood, self-discovery, vulnerability, and emotional wellness, this episode is a reminder that growth often begins in the smallest and most unexpected moments. Topics discussed: Animal communication Pet psychics Cats and emotional bonds Spiritual experiences Emotional healing Personal growth Self-discovery Midlife glow ups Motherhood and identity Reinvention Vulnerability Finding yourself again 0:00 - Intro 2:47 - Flood our notifications, please 3:48 - HBD Nins & NY resolutions 7:09 - Nins: animal communicator session 40:26 - Arns: Leila's midlife glow up 1:01:17 - Outro Referenced in this episode: Bluebird Animal Communication website "Meredith Grey: The Sweetest Cat Companion" (TikTok of Nins' cat Mer and her session with Jenny from Bluebird Animal Communication) Leila Howell from @mykindofglow_ "41 and trying to glow up instead of lie down" by @mykindofglow_ "Taking a moment to celebrate my wins" by @mykindofglow_ Join the brb crying community—a heartfelt, cozy comedy podcast about friendship, vulnerability, emotional storytelling, and all the movies, books, music, and life experiences that leave us in tears. Follow us: » Instagram: @brbcrying.podcast » TikTok: @brbcrying.podcast » YouTube: @brbcrying.podcast Want episode recaps, behind-the-scenes/community updates, and occasional emotional damage delivered straight to your inbox? Sign up for our newsletter at brbcryingpodcast.com. Have a sob story or cry recommendation that absolutely wrecked you? We'd love to be wrecked, too. Submit your story at brbcryingpodcast.com or email us at hello@brbcryingpodcast.com. brb crying—hosted by longtime best friends Nins & Arns—is a podcast where we explore the songs, books, TV shows, films, pop culture moments, and personal stories that help us laugh, cry, heal, and feel a little less alone. Crying is our superpower, and by sharing what makes us cry in a way that makes us laugh, we show how crying helps us connect with ourselves and each other.

    • Transcript
    • Chapters
  • Dec 23, 2025 · 50 min

    037: losing my soul dog, wading through grief, & the relationship that kept me grounded

    In this deeply emotional throwback to episode 010, Arns shares the story of Cosmo, her beloved Maltese who spent more than 16 years by her side. From awkward high school memories and college adventures to the devastating experience of saying goodbye, she reflects on pet loss, grief, unconditional love, and the unique bond we share with the animals who become family. Nins then explores the song "Blurry" by JP Saxe and opens up about a period of depression, burnout, and feeling lost in her career. Through therapy, gratitude journaling, and the steady support of her partner, she discovered the one thing that remained clear when everything else felt uncertain. Topics: • Losing a beloved pet and navigating grief • The emotional impact of pet ownership • Depression, burnout, and seeking therapy • Gratitude journaling and emotional healing • Healthy relationships and feeling supported • Finding clarity during difficult seasons of life • The people (and pets) who become home to us Whether you're grieving a pet, navigating a challenging chapter, or reflecting on the relationships that keep you grounded, this episode is a reminder that love often leaves its deepest mark through vulnerability, loss, and connection. Content warning: pet loss, grief, anxiety, depression Referenced in this episode: The Line of Best Fit interview with JP Saxe by Jen Long Atwood Magazine interview with JP Saxe by Luke Pettican 7 Questions for JP Saxe video 0:00 – Intro & throwback episode announcement 3:52 – Arns shares the story of Cosmo 9:37 – Cosmo’s personality and growing up together 20:55 – Pregnancy, aging, and saying goodbye 28:44 – Grief, dreams, and learning how to let go 34:42 – Arns reflects on loving a pet for the first time 38:02 – Nins introduces JP Saxe and the song “Blurry” 47:18 – Burnout, depression, and therapy in 2020 55:26 – Gratitude journaling and finding clarity through love 1:02:41 – Why “everything’s blurry but you” hits so hard 1:08:20 – Outro Join the brb crying community—a heartfelt, cozy comedy podcast about friendship, vulnerability, emotional storytelling, and all the movies, books, music, and life experiences that leave us in tears. Follow us: » Instagram: @brbcrying.podcast » TikTok: @brbcrying.podcast » YouTube: @brbcrying.podcast Want episode recaps, behind-the-scenes/community updates, and occasional emotional damage delivered straight to your inbox? Sign up for our newsletter at brbcryingpodcast.com. Have a sob story or cry recommendation that absolutely wrecked you? We'd love to be wrecked, too. Submit your story at brbcryingpodcast.com or email us at hello@brbcryingpodcast.com. brb crying—hosted by longtime best friends Nins & Arns—is a podcast where we explore the songs, books, TV shows, films, pop culture moments, and personal stories that help us laugh, cry, heal, and feel a little less alone. Crying is our superpower, and by sharing what makes us cry in a way that makes us laugh, we show how crying helps us connect with ourselves and each other.

    • Transcript
    • Chapters
  • Dec 9, 2025 · 37 min

    who the f*ck are we, even??: the brb crying origin story

    We've spent dozens of episodes crying about movies, books, songs, childhood memories, and existential crises—but somehow we've never properly answered the question: who the f*ck are we, even?? In this special bonus episode, we're ditching our usual essay format and sitting down for an unhinged little Q&A. We talk about how we became friends (spoiler: it involves Catholic school, Filipino family parties, and some devastating childhood fashion criticism), our dream podcast guests, what we love most about ourselves, and the stories we never quite turned into full episodes. Along the way, we revisit some of our favorite brb crying moments, from About Time and The Hunger Games to Olivia Dean, Nancy Tillman, and the books and movies that continue to emotionally destroy us years later. If you're new here, consider this your unofficial orientation packet. If you've been with us since the beginning, consider this proof that we still can't stfu. In this episode: How Nins & Arns became friends 25+ years ago Growing up Filipino in a small Catholic school community Our dream podcast guests The qualities we admire most in ourselves (and each other) Stories we almost covered on the podcast The brb crying episodes that still haunt us 0:00 - Intro 0:50 - Something *different* for today's ep 5:18 - Collabs 7:26 - 1. From your memory, how did we meet? 12:03 - 2. Who is your dream podcast guest? 18:49 - 3. What do you love most about yourself (and me)? 27:12 - 4. What's a story for the pod you started writing but never aired? 30:29 - 5. What's something I've shared on the pod that stuck with you? 35:32 - Outro Referenced in this episode: "Carmen" by Olivia Dean, brb crying ep 003: periods are hard / other people's grandmothers Shark Heart by Emily Habeck, brb crying ep 018: death prep / shark weak Film About Time, brb crying ep 031: about about time / somebody feed arns Psychic-ish podcast episode 33. Got stuck in a dream for 40 years Join the brb crying community—a heartfelt, cozy comedy podcast about friendship, vulnerability, emotional storytelling, and all the movies, books, music, and life experiences that leave us in tears. Follow us: » Instagram: @brbcrying.podcast » TikTok: @brbcrying.podcast » YouTube: @brbcrying.podcast Want episode recaps, behind-the-scenes/community updates, and occasional emotional damage delivered straight to your inbox? Sign up for our newsletter at brbcryingpodcast.com. Have a sob story or cry recommendation that absolutely wrecked you? We'd love to be wrecked, too. Submit your story at brbcryingpodcast.com or email us at hello@brbcryingpodcast.com. brb crying—hosted by longtime best friends Nins & Arns—is a podcast where we explore the songs, books, TV shows, films, pop culture moments, and personal stories that help us laugh, cry, heal, and feel a little less alone. Crying is our superpower, and by sharing what makes us cry in a way that makes us laugh, we show how crying helps us connect with ourselves and each other.

    • Transcript
    • Chapters
  • Nov 25, 2025 · 1 hr

    036: why a viral pianist's tears moved millions + baking as a love language: yumeka nakagawa, vulnerability & friendship

    This week, we talk about a viral piano performance that left millions of people emotional—and the surprising ways love finds its way back to us. First, Arns shares the story of Japanese pianist Yumeka Nakagawa, whose tearful performance of Chopin's "Raindrop" Prelude captivated audiences around the world. Why did watching someone cry while playing piano feel so powerful? What does vulnerability in art teach us about vulnerability in our own lives? Then, Nins tells a deeply personal story about baking, friendship, and what it means to be chosen by the people you love. From a $30 stand mixer to baking a gender reveal cake for one of her closest friends, this story explores how acts of care become their own language of love. In this episode, we discuss: • Yumeka Nakagawa's viral piano performance • Chopin's "Raindrop" Prelude and emotional music • Why vulnerability resonates so deeply with people • Crying, emotional expression, and authenticity • Baking as a love language • Friendship, belonging, and being chosen • Gender reveal cakes and meaningful traditions • The many ways we say "I love you" Whether you've cried while listening to music, baked something for someone you love, or simply want permission to feel your feelings a little more openly, this one's for you. 0:00 - Intro 1:50 - Recap: late nights 3:57 - Announcement: merch! 4:40 - Arns: Yumeka Nakagawa's piano performance 27:05 - Nins: baking a special sweet treat 58:23 - Outro Referenced in this episode: "24-year-old pianist Yumeka Nakagawa was visibly moved to tears while performing Chopin’s ‘Raindrop’ Prelude" (IG: @classicfm) Yumeka Nakagawa interview by Shinnosuke Nagai and translated by Midori Tamura and Miho Ebihara for Kawai Australia "What made the participants of the 19th Chopin Competition's Preliminary Round become pianists?" (IG: @chopininstitute) "Chopin's 'Raindrop' Prelude" on the Ethan Hein Blog Join the brb crying community—a heartfelt, cozy comedy podcast about friendship, vulnerability, emotional storytelling, and all the movies, books, music, and life experiences that leave us in tears. Follow us: » Instagram: @brbcrying.podcast » TikTok: @brbcrying.podcast » YouTube: @brbcrying.podcast Want episode recaps, behind-the-scenes/community updates, and occasional emotional damage delivered straight to your inbox? Sign up for our newsletter at brbcryingpodcast.com. Have a sob story or cry recommendation that absolutely wrecked you? We'd love to be wrecked, too. Submit your story at brbcryingpodcast.com or email us at hello@brbcryingpodcast.com. brb crying—hosted by longtime best friends Nins & Arns—is a podcast where we explore the songs, books, TV shows, films, pop culture moments, and personal stories that help us laugh, cry, heal, and feel a little less alone. Crying is our superpower, and by sharing what makes us cry in a way that makes us laugh, we show how crying helps us connect with ourselves and each other.

    • Transcript
    • Chapters
Showing 21–25 of 25 episodes