Asexuals Anonymous

Amie Butler

A Safe Space for Exploring Asexuality

Welcome to Asexuals Anonymous, a podcast dedicated to exploring the diverse and multifaceted world of Asexuality. Whether you identify as asexual, are questioning, or simply want to learn more, this is your space. Join us as we share personal stories, answer your questions, and offer advice—all while keeping it safe, inclusive, and anonymous if you prefer.

We believe that understanding asexuality is key to fostering empathy and inclusivity in a world that often overlooks it. Tune in for honest conversations, guest interviews, and resources to help you navigate your asexual journey or support others who do. This is a place where everyone can feel heard and understood—no matter where they are on their path.

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August 24 · 22 min
A Mental Breakdown Helped Me Realize I Was Asexual
This week's episode we go back out how I told people I was Asexual and gaining confidence and self acceptance with this. We try and discuss tip for navigating identity and disclosure and this importance of community and visibility. Also how accepting being Ace has opened up new opportunities. As always every download, subscribe, rate, like comment is really noticed and appreciated! If you would like to message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do! You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality. asexualsanon@hotmail.com Pod Insta: @asexualsanonymouspod TikTok-@amiebutler66 Insta-@amiebutler96
S3 · E43
August 16 · 28 min
Queerplatonic Relationships Vs Traditional Friendships
In this week's episode, we remind everyone Asexuality is a spectrum, not a one-size-fits-all label. We talk about how queerplatonic relationships break the mold of traditional friendship. And as always, sharing experiences helps us feel less alone in our identities! As always every download, subscribe, rate, like comment is really noticed and appreciated! If you would like to message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do! You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality. asexualsanon@hotmail.com Pod Insta: @asexualsanonymouspod TikTok-@amiebutler66 Insta-@amiebutler96
S3 · E42
July 14 · 26 min
Dont' Settle, Find Your Match
In this episode we have a big catch up, talk about London Pride and read an email that leads up to a conversation about Fraysexuality. In any relationship it is important to have compromise, and that absolutely, goes with a relationship. that includes an asexual person... it's maybe even more important! As always every download, subscribe, rate, like comment is really noticed and appreciated! If you would like to message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do! You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality. asexualsanon@hotmail.com Pod Insta: @asexualsanonymouspod TikTok-@amiebutler66 Insta-@amiebutler96
July 2 · 49 min
Authentic Representation
In this episode, we discuss the importance of representation in various forms of media, including theatre and television, and why it matters for the asexual community. We have another listeners email with provokes important self reflection and interesting conversations. As always every download, subscribe, rate, like comment is really noticed and appreciated! If you would like to message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do! You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality. asexualsanon@hotmail.com Pod Insta: @asexualsanonymouspod TikTok-@amiebutler66 Insta-@amiebutler96
June 8 · 37 min
Do We Still Need Pride?
Happy Pride! & Happy 40th episode! This week we discuss point to why we still need pride and how some might celebrate and be proud about being part of the LGBT community more than the asexual one. As always every download, subscribe, rate, like comment is really noticed and appreciated! If you would like to message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do! You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality. asexualsanon@hotmail.com Pod Insta: @asexualsanonymouspod TikTok-@amiebutler66 Insta-@amiebutler96
S3 · E39
June 2 · 38 min
I Wouldn't Call Myself Innocent
This week we have a lovely email from a listener who needed a bit of cheerleading and we were 100% on that. We also talk about how being asexual doesn't mean we are innocent, and unknowledgeable. We also catch up on Amie meeting the Pope.. As always every download, subscribe, rate, like comment is really noticed and appreciated! If you would like to message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do! You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality. asexualsanon@hotmail.com Pod Insta: @asexualsanonymouspod TikTok-@amiebutler66 Insta-@amiebutler96
S3 · E38
May 25 · 29 min
Prefer cuddling To Intercourse
In this week's episode we have a wonderful anonymous email that we definitely related to! It sparked more great tangents for us go down and made us have some great conversations. We talk about trusting the universe and what it has in store for us and how we absolutely prefer cuddling to intercourse! Hello, this is goss ep where Amie tell you the full story of her finally talking to a boy, for 6 months, and the outcome of this... This ep might get deleted in the future depending on a few things; so you may be the lucky few to listen to a potential mystery episode for any future listeners. As always every download, subscribe, rate, like comment is really noticed and appreciated! If you would like to message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do! You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality. asexualsanon@hotmail.com Pod Insta: @asexualsanonymouspod TikTok-@amiebutler66 Insta-@amiebutler96
S3 · E37
May 18 · 36 min
The Goss- Might Get Deleted In The Near Future!
Hello, this is goss ep where Amie tell you the full story of her finally talking to a boy, for 6 months, and the outcome of this... This ep might get deleted in the future depending on a few things; so you may be the lucky few to listen to a potential mystery episode for any future listeners. As always every download, subscribe, rate, like comment is really noticed and appreciated! If you would like to message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do! You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality. asexualsanon@hotmail.com Pod Insta: @asexualsanonymouspod TikTok-@amiebutler66 Insta-@amiebutler96
S3 · E36
May 10 · 44 min
Ep 36: WE'RE BACK BABY!
Hello! We are officially back! After a long break we have returned and ready to be better than ever! This week we have a long overdue catch up and get back into the swing of things. What was only meant to be a 20 min welcome back ep, turned into (of course) a full blown 40 minuter! As always every download, subscribe, rate, like comment is really noticed and appreciated! If you would like to message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do! You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality. asexualsanon@hotmail.com TikTok-@amiebutler66 Insta-@amiebutler96
S2 · E35
Dec 22, 2025 · 42 min
Ep 35: It's Chirstmasssss
IT'S A CHRISTMAS SPECIAL! In this weeks episode we read out one last email of the year! Discuss an asexuals experience of Christmas and get excited for the new year. Thank you so much for listening this year, it has been amazing to connect with our community and create a save space for everyone. It's been incredible to be WORLD WIDE BABY and we can't wait to continue connecting with you all next year! For now, we hope you have a lovely Christmas and a gorgeous new year! BE BACK COMING IN YOUR EARS NEXT YEAR! Every download, subscribe, rate, like comment is really noticed and appreciated! If you would like to message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do! You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality. asexualsanon@hotmail.com TikTok-@amiebutler66 Insta-@amiebutler96
S2 · E34
Nov 27, 2025 · 38 min
Ep 34: It's Only Embarrassing If You Let it
This week we share personal updates, discuss the complexities of asexuality and self-identity, and read a listener's email exploring their feelings about being on the asexual spectrum. We delve into the challenges of navigating relationships, the importance of self-acceptance, and the significance of labels in understanding one's identity. The conversation emphasizes the value of community and support in the journey of self-discovery. Every download, subscribe, rate, like comment is really noticed and appreciated! If you would like to message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do! You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality. asexualsanon@hotmail.com TikTok-@amiebutler66 Insta-@amiebutler96
S2 · E33
Nov 11, 2025 · 49 min
Ep 33: Expectations Vs Reality & Platonic Spoons
In this week's episode we discuss expectations Vs reality in relationships, the complexities of navigating asexuality and partners, explore emotional connections and the challenges of self-acceptance within the asexual community. We also read out another gorgeous email and talk about the quest for the right partner. Message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do! Or if you would like to be a guest on the show, please get in touch! You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality. asexualsanon@hotmail.com TikTok: @amiebutler66 Insta: @asexualsanonymouspodcast Youtube: @amiebutler1862 Amie's Insta: @amiebutler96
S2 · E32
Oct 30, 2025 · 39 min
Ep 32: Dropping Asexuality Into Conversations
As well as a good catch up including a bit of Traitors talk, we read out a fabulous email from one of our dear listeners, discuss how actions don't always reflect feelings and also talk about annoying phrases that have been said recently from some uneducated people.. Message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do! Or if you would like to be a guest on the show, please get in touch! You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality. asexualsanon@hotmail.com TikTok: @amiebutler66 Insta: @asexualsanonymouspodcast Youtube: @amiebutler1862 Amie's Insta: @amiebutler96
S2 · E31
Oct 23, 2025 · 35 min
Ep 31: Asexuals Awareness Week & Never Had Spotted Dick
Happy Asexuality Awareness Week! This week's episode is all about reminding ourselves of the good affirmations, tips and things to remember when maybe we aren't feeling too good or confidient about our sexuality. We also talk about how it can be difficult when pushed down the priority ladder in friendships once romantic partners are on the scenes. We obviously go off on some tangents and also realise our lack of knowledge about the classic English dessert, Spotted dick. Message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do! Or if you would like to be a guest on the show, please get in touch! You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality. asexualsanon@hotmail.com TikTok: @amiebutler66 Insta: @asexualsanonymouspodcast Youtube: @amiebutler1862 Amie's Insta: @amiebutler96
S2 · E30
Oct 10, 2025 · 49 min
Ep 30: Labels Are Useless Until They Aren't
This weeks episode went deeper than expected with some interesting conversations stemming from a wonderful email. We chat about how the thoughts on who you are, might change depending on your experiences and people you meet, and learning about yourself is amazing but can also be confusing at the same time... and that's ok. Message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do! Or if you would like to be a guest on the show, please get in touch! You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality. asexualsanon@hotmail.com TikTok: @amiebutler66 Insta: @asexualsanonymouspodcast Youtube: @amiebutler1862 Amie's Insta: @amiebutler96
S2 · E29
Oct 3, 2025 · 19 min
Season 2 Ep 29: Everything's Made Up
Welcome back to a second series! We've missed you! We jump straight into a lovely catch up and how we have been doing without our weekly asexual therapy sessions. We are super excited for future episodes and expanding the community... we want to hear more from you, our lovely dear listeners! We want to get more of you on the pod to share your stories, advice, thoughts and whatever you want really! We would love more of you to get in touch via email or DM's to give us questions, thoughts, experiences, stories, anything at all, we are interested! We can't wait to see where series 2 takes us and learn more about our identities! Message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do! Or if you would like to be a guest on the show, please get in touch! You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality. asexualsanon@hotmail.com TikTok: @amiebutler66 Insta: @asexualsanonymouspodcast Youtube: @amiebutler1862 Amie's Insta: @amiebutler96
S1 · E28
Aug 9, 2025 · 28 min
Ep 28: Bonding Not Bondage
LAST EP OF SERIES 1! We are having a little summer break and will be back in September! So to round up our first series of Asexuals Anonymous we do a little quiz and round up what we have learnt in our first 28 episodes!.. which obviously prompts some good mini conversations. Thank you so much for joining the conversations so far, we are so exited to be back in September and talk to more of you on series 2! Our inboxes as ever are still very much open and we would love for you to get in touch! Message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do! Or if you would like to be a guest on the show, please get in touch! You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality. asexualsanon@hotmail.com TikTok: @amiebutler66 Insta: @asexualsanonymouspodcast Youtube: @amiebutler1862 Amie's Insta: @amiebutler96
S1 · E27
Aug 1, 2025 · 35 min
Ep 27: I Dabble In The Horizontal Tango
In this week's episode we read another gorgeous email which provokes some great conversations. We share how unexpected friendships and support networks have shaped our lives. Amie reflects on the validation and encouragement she receives from her community, while Anon discusses the importance of emotional connections in their journey. Discover the power of shared experiences and the impact of genuine connections in this week's conversation. If you would like to message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do! Or if you would like to be a guest on the show, please get in touch! You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality. asexualsanon@hotmail.com TikTok: @amiebutler66 Insta: @asexualsanonymouspodcast Youtube: @amiebutler1862 Amie's Insta: @amiebutler96
S1 · E26
Jul 25, 2025 · 36 min
Ep 26: You're Dealing With It Really Well
In this week's episode we discuss the intersection of asexuality with other identities, the importance of community, and the ongoing quest for understanding, validation and finding a good therapist! We read out a lovely email that leads us to a good conversation and discussions. Thank you so much to everyone that emails or messages in, we really appreciate every single one! If you would like to message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do! Or if you would like to be a guest on the show, please get in touch! You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality. asexualsanon@hotmail.com TikTok: @amiebutler66 Insta: @asexualsanonymouspodcast Youtube: @amiebutler1862 Amie's Insta: @amiebutler96
S1 · E25
Jul 18, 2025 · 28 min
Ep 25: I Don't Want To Kiss You
In this week's episode we firstly apologise for the lack of episode last week! We talk about our London pride weekend, explore the nuances of aromanticism, the significance of love languages, and the differences between platonic and romantic relationships. If you would like to message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do! Or if you would like to be a guest on the show, please get in touch! You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality. asexualsanon@hotmail.com TikTok: @amiebutler66 Insta: @asexualsanonymouspodcast Youtube: @amiebutler1862 Amie's Insta: @amiebutler96

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