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What happens when long-time friends sit down to talk about life? You get the All In Podcast: a place for honest, curious, and often hilarious conversations about work, family, faith, friendship, sports, pop culture, and the everyday moments that shape us. Whether we’re debating the big questions or just swapping stories from real life, every episode is about exploring what matters most with heart, humor, and a whole lot of authenticity.
Feel like you should have your life figured out by now? John Michael and Luke sit down with Fr. Kevin Dyer, SJ, to explore how to make big decisions, overcome the fear of choosing wrong, and trust God when the path ahead isn't clear. Plus, they discuss why life's hardest questions don't always have easy answers—and why sometimes simply showing up for someone matters most.
Catholic community can feel strangely hard to find once you leave college. Let's talk about what changes in your 20s and 30s, why waiting to be invited usually stops working, and how to build real relationships at your parish instead of just showing up. Don't forget, JOIN US at the SEEK27 in Columbus or San Antonio! Register here. https://bit.ly/4cMLabj Use the code ALLIN in your registration to receive 13 exclusive talks you can't find anywhere else!
Most of us think of fitness as optional—something for athletes, gym bros, or people with more time. But what if the way you care for your body says something about how you see the life God gave you? Don't forget, JOIN US at the SEEK27 in Columbus or San Antonio! Register here. https://bit.ly/4cMLabj Use the code ALLIN in your registration to receive 13 exclusive talks you can't find anywhere else!
This week, the guys talk about what it actually means to honor your parents as you grow from being a kid into an adult. They unpack how honor can start with obedience, but eventually becomes something more like gratitude, respect, advice, and staying close without needing your parents to make every decision for you.They also share some stories of family traditions, the difficulties of leaving home, choosing life as a missionary, and so much more! If you’re figuring out how to become your own person while still loving and honoring your parents, this episode is for you.JOIN US! At the SEEK27 Conference. Register here. https://bit.ly/4cMLabj Use the code ALLIN in your registration to receive 13 exclusive SEEK talks you can't find anywhere else!
Money can be one of the hardest things to talk about, especially as a Christian man. This week, John Michael and Luke unpack what it actually means to have a healthy relationship with money, from the pressure to look successful to the shame that can come with not having enough. They talk about why money itself isn’t the problem, how ambition and hard work can be good things, and even tell a story of gasoline in a Nalgene bottle. You're not going to want to miss this! If you’ve ever felt ashamed of your finances, struggled to know how much to save or give, or wondered what God actually wants you to do with your money, this episode is for you. JOIN US! At the SEEK27 Conference. Register here. @Use the code ALLIN in your registration to receive 13 exclusive SEEK talks you can't find anywhere else!
Making friends in your 20s and 30s is harder than it used to but, but that doesn’t mean you have to do it alone. This week, the guys sit down with Sarah Stanley from What a Gift to talk about how to actually make friends as an adult, from putting yourself out there and joining an established group to finding people who share your interests and learning when to say no. Along the way, they break down friendship “tiers,” talk about the disappearance of “third places,” and talk about the best ways to make friends with people at your parish. If you’re struggling to find community, trying to deepen the friendships you already have, or just wondering how adults actually become friends, this episode is for you. JOIN US! At the SEEK27 Conference. Register here. @Use the code ALLIN in your registration to receive 13 exclusive SEEK talks you can't find anywhere else!
Join John Michael and Luke at the 2026 SENT Conference in Denver, where they talk about the difference between passions and careers. Are your passions well ordered? Does the work you're doing feel fulfilling? What's the difference between doing a job and doing something that brings me life? They cover these questions and more on this bonus episode of All In! Find the rest of the episode exclusively on Fio, an incredible platform to find this and so many other amazing Catholic podcasts, shows, music, and more! Find the information listed below:Recorded live at the Fio podcast booth at SENT Summit 2026 in Denver, CO.Learn more about Fio: https://fio.fm/Download Fio for iOS: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/fio-catholic-music-podcasts/id6444684987Download Fio for Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.streamfio.fioLearn more about SENT Ventures: https://www.sentventures.com/
Join John Michael and Luke at the 2026 SENT Conference in Denver, where they talk about the difference between passions and careers. Are your passions well ordered? Does the work you're doing feel fulfilling? What's the difference between doing a job and doing something that brings me life? They cover these questions and more on this bonus episode of All In! Find the rest of the episode exclusively on Fio, an incredible platform to find this and so many other amazing Catholic podcasts, shows, music, and more! Find the information listed below:Recorded live at the Fio podcast booth at SENT Summit 2026 in Denver, CO.Learn more about Fio: https://fio.fm/Download Fio for iOS: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/fio-catholic-music-podcasts/id6444684987Download Fio for Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.streamfio.fioLearn more about SENT Ventures: https://www.sentventures.com/
Dating is supposed to help you discern whether someone is worth marrying, but how do you know when a relationship is healthy, when there are warning signs, and when it’s time to get out? This week, the guys use one very unexpected analogy to unpack the different “flags” you might encounter while dating, from green flags and yellow flags to red, double red, and even purple. They talk about finances, family, faith, chastity, compatibility, and the importance of being honest about the things you’re bringing into a relationship.If you’re dating, thinking about dating, or trying to help a friend navigate a difficult relationship, this episode is for you. JOIN US! At the SEEK27 Conference. Register here. @Use the code ALLIN in your registration to receive 13 exclusive SEEK talks you can't find anywhere else!
Have you ever asked the question, "Am I going to die alone?" For a lot of people, that fear can make dating feel hopeless.The guys are here to help unpack the fear of never finding "the one." It can be scary dating as a young adult, and that fear could lead to a lot of feeling like there isn't any hope, but there is hope with just a little perspective change. John Michael and Luke also talk about the two stereotypes they see in men who are looking to date: the guy who wants to get married but never actually asks anyone out, and the guy who thinks he needs to “fix himself” before dating.Throughout the episode they also talk dating apps like Hinge, whether or not blind setups are a good idea, and cover the concept of “dropping the glove.” If you’re single and wondering if you’re ever going to find someone, or if you know someone who is struggling with hope in dating, this episode is for you. JOIN US! At the SEEK27 Conference. Register here. https://bit.ly/4cMLabj Use the code ALLIN in your registration to receive 13 exclusive SEEK talks you can't find anywhere else!
Tension is inevitable, but how we handle it can change everything. This week, the fellas unpack what happens when tension shows up in our household relationships. From roommates to spouses, they talk about why the tension we feel isn’t always about the situation itself, how our own internal struggles can get projected onto the people around us. They also cover how sometimes, just addressing the issue could solve a lot of problems and remove tension. They also break down five practical ways to navigate conflict. If you've ever found yourself avoiding a difficult conversation, blowing up over something small, or wondering how to actually build more peace in your relationships, you should be all in for this episode. JOIN US! At the SEEK27 Conference. Register here. https://bit.ly/4cMLabj Use the code ALLIN in your registration to receive 13 exclusive SEEK talks you can't find anywhere else!
College football season is upon us again, and to celebrate the guys are unpacking why college football is more than just a sport. From tailgates and rivalries to family traditions passed down for generations they talk about how simply wearing a jersey can give you an instant connection with a stranger, why college football gives people an excuse to gather, and how a shared love for a team can bring people together even when they disagree about almost everything else. If you've ever wondered why people care so much about college football, or why something as simple as a game can create such a powerful sense of belonging, this episode is for you.
This week on the All-In Podcast, we’re talking about why change can feel so overwhelming, and how to navigate it without losing yourself. Before that though, we're introduced to our NEW HOST, Luke Landiak! We hear about what brought him to be on the podcast, and what makes him All In. John Michael and Luke then break down controllable vs. uncontrollable change, the blame game, choosing your environment intentionally, and the difference between exterior and interior surrender. Most importantly, they unpack why change isn’t just a shift in circumstances—it can feel like a complete change in how we see ourselves. The key? Finding the things that don’t change, especially our identity as sons of God.
Breakups are a difficult thing to go through, especially when we don't know what's going to happen next. Unfortunately, this episode is going to change how All In looks permanently as the fellas say goodbye to two of the founding hosts of the podcast. Luckily though, they're not leaving us in the lurch, there's already an amazing plan going forward, and amazing new topics to dive into, as we enter this new era of All In. You're not going to want to miss this!
Do you have friends but still feel like nobody really knows you? This week, the guys unpack the unofficial “friendship tier system,” why deep friendships get harder as we get older, and how to take a Tier 4 friend and turn him into a Day One homie. They talk about why vulnerability doesn’t have to mean oversharing, how trust actually develops, and why the best friendships require someone to make the first move. Along the way, they share stories about college friendships, moving to new cities, marriage and kids, friendship “relegation,” and the difference between simply hanging out and actually inviting someone into your life. If you want deeper friendships but aren’t sure how to get there, this episode is for you.
This week, we're tackling one of the most debated questions in dating and friendship: Can men and women really be just friends? We unpack where healthy friendships become emotionally confusing, why so many relationships stay stuck in the gray area, and the subtle boundaries that can protect your heart without making you afraid of genuine friendship. Along the way, we share embarrassing college stories, friendships we got wrong, advice from wise priests, and the practical rules that have shaped how we navigate relationships today. If you've ever wondered, "Are we just friends... or is this becoming something more?" this conversation is for you.
This week, the guys unpack why boundaries feel so awkward to set, why so many of us confuse them with rejection, and how healthy communication can actually make friendships stronger instead of weaker. They share stories about calling friends too often after switching to remote work, having the courage to lovingly challenge a friend, navigating friendships after marriage and kids, and learning that sometimes "I can't make it" isn't personal—it's simply part of a healthy friendship. If you've ever felt guilty for protecting your time, struggled to say "no" to someone you love, or wondered whether setting a boundary could actually strengthen a friendship, this episode is for you.
Some coworkers become lifelong friends. Others become the people you avoid in the break room. This week, the guys clock in to the world of work friendships—the good, the bad, and the ugly. They talk about how workplace friendships start with trust, how a project at work can lead to close friends, and they struggle with how to show charity and understand to that one coworker you just can't stand. Along the way, they share awkward office bathroom stories, Clayton's transition into the commercial paint industry, and 3 key moments that determine your friendship outside of the workplace. Whether you love your coworkers, tolerate them, or are already thinking of your office nemesis while reading this, this episode will help you navigate those work relationships with more wisdom, charity, and intentionality.
Most people avoid hard conversations. We stay silent to keep the peace, or we say everything at once and call it "honesty." Real relationship lives somewhere in the middle ground.This week, the guys unpack why correction is one of the hardest—and most important—parts of any healthy relationship. They talk about why we instinctively resist being corrected, how fear keeps us from speaking up, and why trust has to come before truth. They also confront the hard question, "why are we hardest on the people we love the most?"Along the way, they swap stories about giving unwanted advice, marriage conflicts, lessons in parenting, and why you have to build trust before you can correct the people in your life. If you've struggled to give feedback, need to have a tough conversation, or are avoiding just saying "you're wrong" this episode is for you! *LISTEN & FOLLOW US EVERYWHERE*Listen on Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/4vnHBKphp6xEBUsJNerBdT?si=59poYSVvQVOzj8TOIaHPaQ Listen on Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/all-in/id1831854757---*CONNECT WITH FOCUS ON SOCIAL MEDIA:*Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/focuscatholic/ ---*HAVE A QUESTION OR GUEST SUGGESTION?*Email us at *allin@focus.org* or leave a comment!Join Our Email List → http://seekreplay.com For more original content and early releases, please visit http://seekreplay.com All In is a production of FOCUS. http://www.focus.orgSynID: MB01RN8RZW5FOHO
The world tells men to work harder, stay disciplined, cut out distractions. But what if that isolation for success is what is stopping you from becoming the man you're meant to be? This week, the guys unpack the rise of the lone wolf mentality and explore why so many driven men see friendships as obstacles instead of assets. How the "lock in" mentality is actually inhibiting real connections and actual success. If you've ever felt like pursuing your goals meant doing life alone—or wondered how to build meaningful community without losing your ambition—this episode is for you.