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Wire Talk with Karen Stubbs

Karen Stubbs

Wire Talk was created to encourage and equip moms throughout the challenging and life-changing journey of motherhood. Each week on Wire Talk Karen Stubbs offers godly, practical advice on the topics every mother has questions about: mom guilt, our children’s faith, potty-training, divorce, our teenagers dating, and more!

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Tuesday · 21 min
533: When Your Child’s Behavior Scares You
Have you ever looked at your child and wondered, Where in the world is this behavior coming from? If you’re feeling overwhelmed by big emotions, difficult behavior, or a child you just can’t seem to figure out, this episode is for you. Karen and Emily share practical insight and tools to help you better understand your child and respond with confidence instead of frustration. Episode Recap: Sign up for SOAR today! (1:32) My 10 yr old is so domineering that other kids don’t want to play with him (3:44) My ADHD daughter cannot control her temper and hits frequently (5:39) My son has been horribly mean to us lately, what could be wrong that he has started to treat us this way? (10:05) It’s okay to pause and remind your kids of your family’s rules (13:25) When we discipline our son, he takes his anger out on our Sheetrock (18:09) Scripture: James 1:19-20 (NIV) “My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires.” Discussion Questions: What behavior in your child scares/worries you the most right now? Are you dealing with what’s actually happening, or are you catastrophizing about where it could lead? Karen talked about knowing her children’s sin tendencies. Do you know your child’s? Have you asked God to show you what’s really going on in their heart? When your child loses control, do you tend to lose control too? What would it look like for you to pause before responding? Is there a behavior you’ve been excusing that actually needs a clear boundary or consequence? What do you need to address this week? Resources: Use code WT20 to get $20 off SOAR registration today! Listen to past ADHD specific episodes: 207, 208, 530 Reach out to have Karen come speak in your community. Become a WT+ Insider this month and get an exclusive SOAR discount! Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk+, Karen pulls back the curtain on what discipline really looked like in the Stubbs home, plus she and Emily talk about how to keep from catastrophizing when our kids’ behavior scares us. Become an Insider today to get bonus content each week, join quarterly Zoom calls with Karen and sustain the ministry of this podcast.
August 25 · 18 min
532: Am I Making the Right Parenting Decision?
Ever wish God would just TELL you what to do? Today, Karen and Emily tackle parenting decisions that don’t have a clear right or wrong answer; from kindergarten readiness and family size to going back to work and navigating technology at school. If you’re facing a parenting dilemma, we hope this episode helps you pray, trust God’s guidance, and move forward with confidence. Episode Recap: SOAR is only one month away! Sign up today (2:00) Should I redshirt my Kindergartener? (2:40) How do you know when you are done having kids? (5:39) Is there a time that it’s wise to stop having kids? (7:20) How do I know if it’s time to go back to work or if I should continue staying home? (10:44) I’m frustrated about the amount of technology my young child is using at school (14:58) Practical capability exercises for each age group (18:00) Scripture: Proverbs 3:5-6 (NIV) “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” Discussion Questions: Is there a parenting decision you are wrestling with right now? What influences your decisions most: fear, opinions, practicality, or prayer? How can you invite God into a decision you’re facing? What parenting decision once felt huge but seems much smaller in hindsight? Resources: Use code WT20 to get $20 off SOAR registration today! Reach out to have Karen come speak in your community. Become a WT+ Insider this month and get an exclusive SOAR discount! Want More of This Conversation? Wire Talk+ moms will hear Karen share some of the parenting decisions that kept her up at night! Become an Insider today to hear more from Sissy and help us reach our goal of 400 subscribers this year!
August 18 · 20 min
531: Are We Making Our Kids Less Capable? with Sissy Goff
Kids today are becoming increasingly afraid of risk and discomfort- are parents part of the problem? Today bestselling author and counselor Sissy Goff joins Karen and Emily to talk about her new book, Capable, and why loving our kids well sometimes means encouraging them to do hard things. Sissy shares how moms can manage their own anxiety and trust their parenting instincts to prepare their kids for greater confidence. Don’t miss the absolutely brilliant catchphrases she offers for reminding kids that hard isn’t a bad thing! Episode Recap: Sissy is a therapist and counselor in Nashville who has been counseling families for 33 years! (1:30) Kids today more than ever are risk and discomfort avoidant (2:18) Parents are abdicating intuition for the sake of experts (5:19) We need to re-evaluate what it means to love our kids well (7:00) How can we let go of our own anxiety to help our kids step up in independence? (13:30) The three Cs of Capability (16:17) Practical capability exercises for each age group (18:00) Scripture: James 2:1-4 (NIV) “Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.” Discussion Questions: Where are you most tempted to step in and remove risk, discomfort, or struggle for your child? How might your own anxiety be affecting your child’s willingness to try hard things independently? What is one responsibility or challenge your child may be ready to handle without your help? What words could you use this week to remind your child that something being hard does not mean it is bad? Resources: Connect with Sissy: https://www.daystarcounseling.com/ Pick up a copy of Capable on Amazon Use code WT20 to get $20 off SOAR registration today! Reach out to have Karen come speak in your community. Become a WT+ Insider this month and get an exclusive SOAR discount! Want More of This Conversation? Wire Talk+ moms will hear practical capability-building exercises for preschoolers through teenagers, along with specific phrases that help kids believe they can handle hard things. Become an Insider today to hear more from Sissy and help us reach our goal of 400 subscribers this year!
August 11 · 20 min
530: How to Stay Calm When Your Child Isn’t with Josh Thames
If you've ever lost your temper with your kids, this conversation is for you. Counselor Josh Thames shares practical tools to help moms stay calm, communicate more effectively, and respond with confidence, even when emotions are running high. Whether you're parenting a child with ADHD, anxiety, or just big feelings, you'll walk away with practical encouragement you can use today. Episode Recap: Josh is an LPC with a background in teaching (1:30) Are we making parenting decisions out of fear? (5:18) Remaining steady is critical, especially for parents of kids with ADHD (8:07) How can I stay calm on crazy, back to school mornings? (10:22) A practical illustration of what tasks are like for an ADHD brain (14:29) How can I bring down the emotional climate in my home? (17:30) Having kids who are wired differently is a really good thing! (20:11) Scripture: Isaiah 40:11 (NIV) "He tends his flock like a shepherd: He gathers the lambs in his arms and carries them close to his heart; he gently leads those that have young." Discussion Questions: Josh said our job is to be shepherds, not engineers. How does that change the way you think about your role as a parent? When your child becomes emotionally overwhelmed, what usually happens inside of you? How can you become the calm your child needs? Which parenting habit would make the biggest difference in your home this week: using more concrete language, planning better transitions, or slowing down your own reactions? Josh reminded us that success isn't measured by our child's behavior on any given day. How would redefining success change the way you parent this week? Resources: Connect with Josh: @joshthameslpc, thamescounseling.com Use code WT20 to get $20 off SOAR registration today! Reach out to have Karen come speak in your community. Become a WT+ Insider this month and get an exclusive SOAR discount! Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk+, Josh shares practical advice for connecting with teens who don't want to talk, helping kids navigate transitions, and learning how to stay calm when your own emotions start to rise. This extra conversation is full of real-life parenting wisdom you won't want to miss! Become an Insider today and help us reach our goal of 400 subscribers this year!
August 4 · 23 min
529: You Don't Have to Disciple Your Kids Alone
You don't have to carry the weight of discipling your kids by yourself! In this episode, Karen and Emily sit down with children's ministry leader Kendra Fleming to share how partnering with your church can strengthen your family's faith without adding more to your plate. As we head into a new school year, we hope this episode encourages you to lean into the support God has already provided. Episode Recap: Kendra has been working in children’s ministry for 30+ years (3:30) Church gives your kids another trusted voice and a place to serve (7:00) What are some church rhythms that are worth protecting this school year? (11:00) What does spiritual development look like at the different stages of childhood? (15:50) Scripture: Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 "Two are better than one...if either of them falls down, one can help the other up." Discussion Questions: When you think about discipling your children, do you feel excitement, pressure, fear, or something else? Why? Has your church encouraged or supported your family in ways you couldn't have done on your own? What rhythms around church have been most life-giving for your family? Are there any you've allowed to slip? Is there a children's ministry leader, small group leader, or mentor you could intentionally encourage or build a relationship with this fall? What practical step could your family take this year to more intentionally partner with your church in helping your kids grow in their faith? Resources: Connect with Kendra on Instagram: @kendrafleming Use code WT20 to get $20 off SOAR registration today! Reach out to have Karen come speak in your community. Become a WT+ Insider this month and get an exclusive SOAR discount! Join our private FB group, BOAW Moms Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk+, Kendra continues to encourage us to be authentic in our relationship with Jesus, plus Kendra and Karen each give advice to their younger selves! Become an Insider today and help us reach our goal of 400 subscribers this year!
July 28 · 45 min
528: Marriage First: Why Your Spouse Comes Before the Kids [RE-AIR]
In this listener-favorite episode re-air, Karen and Greg pull back the curtain on nearly four decades of marriage—the good, the hard, the early years, and the season they’re in now. This conversation will make you smile, and maybe even tear up, as they remind us that we serve a faithful God who wants the best for us and our marriages. Episode Recap: How Karen and Greg back met in 1984 (4:00) What were some of your biggest differences as newlyweds? (7:50) How did you stay connected during the early years of raising kids? (10:09) What has been the hardest season of your marriage? (18:48) How has your relationship changed now that your kids are grown and gone? (31:35) What has surprised you about becoming grandparents? (37:19) Lightening round questions (40:12) Scripture: Proverbs 3:5–6 (NIV) “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” Discussion Questions: Karen and Greg talked about prioritizing their marriage even while raising young kids. How do you currently make space for your spouse in a busy season of parenting? Greg shared the advice he received from his dad: “Your family is your hobby.” What might it look like for you to protect your margin for your family? Karen described her “needy gal” season where she learned to depend on God to meet her needs. How have you experienced God providing for you in a hard marriage or parenting season? What small rhythms (like a daily debrief, date nights, or intentional quiet time) could you adopt to strengthen your connection with your spouse? Looking ahead, what do you hope your marriage will look like when you reach the “high five” finish line of raising kids together? Resources: Use code WT20 to get $20 off SOAR registration today! Reach out to have Karen come speak in your community. Become a WT+ Insider this month and get an exclusive SOAR discount! Join our private FB group, BOAW Moms Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk+, Greg and Karen share advice for making it through difficult seasons of family life and don’t miss the very end of this conversation, when they share some of their biggest fights that they laugh about now! Become an Insider today and help us reach our goal of 400 subscribers this year!
July 21 · 27 min
527: The Secret to Stress-Free Potty Training [RE-AIR]
If you’ve been thinking that summer is the perfect time to potty train, this one’s for you! Christine Clark joins Karen and Emily today - she’s a mom, preschool teacher, and pro who’s successfully potty trained 17 children. From handling accidents with grace to dealing with fear, regression, or defiance, this episode is packed with wisdom and encouragement for moms in the potty-training trenches. Episode Recap: Christine runs an in-home daycare and LOVES toddlers (2:33) Personality definitely feeds into potty training (5:58) Is there a difference in training girls vs boys? (7:25) Give us a step-by-step for those who are new to this (8:55) What are the biggest mistakes parents make? (12:00) How to support your child’s training at daycare (14:16) What about kids who have “accidents” out of defiance? (16:35) What if a child is afraid to go #2? (22:21) Scripture: Galatians 6:9 (NIV) “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” Questions for Discussion: What’s been your biggest potty training challenge so far, and what mindset shift could help you handle it with more patience? How can you bring fun and encouragement into the process instead of frustration? What does “everything can be cleaned” look like for you in this season of motherhood? What other “hard things” have you done recently that remind you you’re capable of more than you think? Resources: Use code WT20 to get $20 off SOAR registration today! Reach out to have Karen come speak in your community! Become a WT+ Insider this month and get an exclusive SOAR discount! Join our private FB group, BOAW Moms Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk+, Karen and Emily share some of their own adventures in potty-training and remind us once again that everything can be cleaned! Become an Insider today and help us reach our goal of 400 subscribers this year!
July 14 · 29 min
526: [RE-AIR] How to Handle Big Emotions and Bigger Attitudes
From tantrums to name-calling to after-school meltdowns, this listener-favorite episode is packed with practical help for moms dealing with big emotions…and even bigger attitudes. Karen and Emily talk about red temperaments, ADHD outbursts, and how to handle disrespectful behavior without losing your cool. Listen in for advice on teaching kids to pause before reacting, role-playing tough situations, plus learn why setting boundaries with screens and school is worth the fight. Episode Recap: Meltdowns can happen at 6 or 16 (2:10) Lean into the Lord and He will help you (5:14) What do I do about a 10 year old who dominates her friends all the time? (6:31) Role playing is a powerful teaching tool (8:56) My daughter resorts to name calling when she’s angry - any advice? (9:39) Anger is a secondary emotion (18:00) I’m struggling with the amount of screen time that is embedded in school/homework, it clearly changes my kid’s behavior. What can I do? (24:00) Scripture for Reflection: Proverbs 15:1 (NIV) — “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” Questions for Discussion: How do you typically respond when your child is disrespectful or melts down? What do you think is really behind your child’s anger in those moments? What boundaries do you need to reinforce in your home around disrespect, screen time, or emotional outbursts? How could role-playing or using tools like the feelings wheel help your child grow in emotional maturity? Resources: Use code WT20 to get $20 off SOAR registration today! Become a WT+ Insider, boaw.mom/insider Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk+, Karen and Emily talk about why so many parents are afraid to address disrespectful behavior and they discuss how to use devices intentionally so they serve your family instead of becoming a parenting crutch. Head to https://www.patreon.com/c/BOAW to become an Insider and help us reach our goal of 400 subscribers this year!
July 7 · 29 min
525: [RE-AIR] Do Less For Your Kids - Parenting for the Long Haul
We're re-airing one of our most popular episodes this week! Karen and Emily sit down with Elizabeth Pehrson to discuss how moms can parent with purpose by focusing on the long game. In this conversation, Elizabeth shares her no-nonsense approach to raising independent, contributing adults. Whether you’re navigating the pressures of parenting littles or wondering how to prepare your teens for the real world, this episode will leave you inspired and equipped. Episode Recap: Elizabeth is a long time friend of BOAW Moms and a breakout speaker at Soar (2:09) Most women live a Groundhog Day kind of life, but they don’t have to (8:08) We can’t love others when we’re not loving ourselves well (10:32) How did The Exchange come about? (12:37) We need to raise adults who are contributors, not consumers (18:25) We are overprotecting and under preparing our kids for the real world (21:00) Keep the long game in mind! (25:01) Scripture: Proverbs 22:6 (ESV) Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old, he will not depart from it." Questions for Discussion: What areas of parenting do you feel pressured to “do more,” and how might adopting a “do less” mindset bring freedom to your family? How are you currently preparing your children for independence, and what’s one practical step you can take to help them contribute more? Elizabeth emphasizes the importance of rediscovering yourself as a mom. What’s something you used to enjoy that you can reintroduce into your life? How can shifting your focus from short-term achievements to long-term character development change the way you approach parenting? Resources: Register for the SOAR Conference today. Become a WT+ Insider, boaw.mom/insider Check out Elizabeth’s organization, The Exchange Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk+, Karen and Emily talk about why it’s easier to do for our kids than to teach them to do for themselves and Emily shares her new chore routine for her kids this summer. Head to https://www.patreon.com/c/BOAW to become an Insider and help us reach our goal of 400 subscribers this year!
June 30 · 29 min
524: My Kid Saw Porn...Now What?
Pornography exposure is happening younger and more often than most parents realize, and it’s affecting both boys and girls. In this episode, Karen and Erin Mashaw are joined by returning guest Kristen Jenson, author of Good Pictures, Bad Pictures, for a practical conversation about what to do when your child has been exposed to pornography. If you’ve been avoiding this awkward conversation, today’s discussion will motivate you and equip you to help your child navigate this topic. Episode Recap: We want our kids to have a plan to reject pornography when they see it (1:30) Parents underestimate kids’ negative online exposure (3:30) Your kid is not bad because they are curious about sex (6:00) Girls’ exposure to pornography is often through literature (8:10) Take time to compose yourself before responding (13:50) Don’t blame yourself (18:00) These conversations help arm our kids against the influence of porn (22:00) Your child deserves to be prepared (27:00) Scripture: Psalm 119:9 (NIV) "How can a young person stay on the path of purity? By living according to your word." Discussion Questions: What emotions come up when you think about having conversations about pornography with your children? What practical steps has your family taken to create open communication around technology and online safety? What would it look like for your home to be a safe place for difficult conversations? Resources: Register for the SOAR Conference today. Become a WT+ Insider today! boaw.mom/insider Pick up a copy of Good Pictures Bad Pictures or Good Pictures, Bad Pictures Guide for Girls Arm yourself with free anti-pornography resources at Defend Young Minds Connect with Kristen online: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DefendYM/ Instagram: @defendyoungminds X: @defendYM LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/defend-young-minds Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk+, Kristen explains what's happening in a child's brain after pornography exposure, why these images can become "sticky," and how parents can help prevent repeated viewing from becoming a long-term struggle. Head HERE and join us for the full conversation.
June 23 · 29 min
523: Simple Ways to Make Summer More Fun
Summer doesn't have to be packed with fancy vacations or elaborate plans to be memorable. In this episode, Karen and Emily share simple, practical ways to add more laughter, spontaneity, and fun to your family's everyday moments. From DQ runs to dance-party cleanups, we hope this episode gives you some ideas and encourages you to let go of the pressure and just enjoy your kids this summer! Episode Recap: We’re talking about creating fun this summer with your kids (2:02) Does summer feel daunting or fun to you? (4:35) Fun isn’t trivial, it creates connection (9:53) It’s okay to let your kids be bored (12:10) Ask yourself, “is there a FUN way to do this?” (18:33) Fun is the antidote to anxiety! (20:57) I’m a blue, what if “fun mom” is just not my personality? (22:38) Nothing is ever enough for my kids (26:22) My kids are always bored, no matter what I do (27:11) Scripture: Proverbs 17:22 (NIV) "A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones." Discussion Questions: What are some of your favorite summer memories from childhood? Which ideas from this episode for adding fun into everyday life could you try with your family this week? Do you feel pressure to create a "perfect" summer for your kids? How might that expectation be stealing joy from your family? How does your temperament influence the way you approach fun and play with your children? Resources: Register for the SOAR Conference today. Become a WT+ Insider today! boaw.mom/insider Pick up a pack of conversation starters to add some fun to family dinner Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk +, Karen and Emily dive into how temperament affects the way moms experience and create fun at home. They also discuss why cultivating joy and laughter in your home matters in the long run. Head HERE and join us for the full conversation.
June 16 · 20 min
522: How to Build Work Ethic in Your Kids This Summer
Summer brings more snacks, more messes, and more opportunities to teach our kids valuable life skills! Today Karen and Emily are talking about why building a strong work ethic starts at home and why moms should avoid overfunctioning for their children, plus Karen gives practical ideas to teach age-appropriate responsibility. We hope this conversation will encourage you to play the long game this summer as you prepare your kids for real life! Episode Recap: You don’t have to be the one cleaning all the messes this summer (1:50) Helping around the house instills confidence in kids (3:15) We want to raise contributors, not consumers (5:00) Teach your children to go the extra mile (8:10) What are good kids' chores at each stage of development? (12:00) How do you handle kids who push back on doing chores? (18:50) Scripture: Colossians 3:23-24 (NIV) "Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving." Discussion Questions: How were chores and household responsibilities handled in your home growing up? Are you mimicking that environment or handling the workload differently in your own home? Are there areas where you might be "over-functioning" for your children? What is one responsibility you could begin transferring to them this summer? Which age-appropriate chore or life skill would be most beneficial for your child to learn right now? What would the training phase look like? Resources: Register for the SOAR Conference today. Become a WT+ Insider today! boaw.mom/insider Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk+, Karen and Emily get real about how chores work in Emily’s houses and Karen demonstrates how to fold a fitted sheet! Don’t sleep on becoming an Insider - learn today! Head HERE and join us for the full conversation.
June 9 · 20 min
521: Serving Alongside Your Kids This Summer
Summer is a perfect time to help our kids learn to look beyond themselves. In this episode, Karen and Emily share simple, practical ways families can serve together, whether that’s visiting a nursing home, helping with food recovery, serving on a mission trip, or just paying attention to the needs around you. We hope this conversation encourages you to start small, think intentionally, and discover how serving others can grow your family's faith this summer! Episode Recap: Snack time strategies for summer (2:00) Serving with your kids can feel daunting (3:52) Start small wherever you are (5:36) Organizations like Lighthouse have opportunities for your whole family (13:17) When you open your eyes, you’ll start to see opportunities everywhere (15:55) Pray and ask God to show you ways to give back with your kids this summer (18:00) Scripture: Philippians 2:3–4 (NIV) "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others." Discussion Questions: What opportunities already exist in your community for your family to serve together? What keeps your family from serving more often, and what’s one small step you could take this summer? Karen talks about how serving helps us get outside our own "bubble." Where might God be inviting your family to lift your eyes beyond your bubble this summer? Resources: Register for the SOAR Conference today. Second Helpings Atlanta Lighthouse Family Retreats Become a WT+ Insider today! boaw.mom/insider Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk+, Karen shares a personal story about taking Abby on a mission trip to China when she was just 9 years old - you never know how God is going to use your kids in service! Head HERE and join us for the full conversation.
June 2 · 33 min
520: How to Grow Spiritually Alongside Your Kids This Summer
We’re kicking off a brand-new summer series today! All month long, we’ll be talking about how to make the most of the new rhythm summer brings to your home. In this episode, we’re talking about simple, practical ways moms can grow spiritually alongside their kids. We hope this conversation encourages you that you don’t have to do this perfectly to take meaningful steps of growth toward Jesus together as a family. Episode Recap: Whether you look forward to summer or dread it, try to enjoy it! (2:00) You do not have to entertain your child all summer long (4:14) Which kind of summer mom are you? (7:15) You want your kids to see Jesus shining through you to your kids (11:35) Let your kids see your real struggles (appropriately) (14:00) Pray BIG with your kids (17:00) Walk your kids through unanswered prayers when you are praying together (20:31) Model humility and repentance (22:00) What does this look like at different ages? (25:30) Scripture: Deuteronomy 6:6-7(NIV) “These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.” Discussion Questions: Which part of this conversation felt most challenging to you: praying big, modeling repentance, letting your kids see your struggles, or something else? Which one of these do you feel like you’re already doing? How can you create small, intentional spiritual rhythms in your home this summer without putting pressure on yourself to “do it perfectly”? What is one practical step you could take this week to help your kids see authentic faith lived out in everyday life? Resources: Pick up a copy of Karen’s devotional to read this summer Register for the SOAR Conference today. Snag How to Teach Your Kids the Bible and work through it with your kids this summer! Become a WT+ Insider today! boaw.mom/insider Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk+, Karen and Emily answer listener questions about kids pushing back against going to church and asking big questions about God. Head HERE and join us for the full conversation.
May 26 · 23 min
519: You Are Not Defined by Your Past
As we wrap up our Mothers of the Bible series, we’re looking at one of the most complicated and heartbreaking stories in Scripture: Bathsheba. Her life was marked by loss, pain, shame, and circumstances she never would have chosen, yet God was still at work redeeming her story. In this episode, Karen and Emily talk about how our worst moments do not define us, how God meets us in brokenness, and why it’s never too late for redemption. Episode Recap: Soar is coming up in September - join us and see Karen live! (4:00) What we know of Bathsheba’s story begins with David’s lust (6:54) Bathsheba becomes the mother of Solomon (11:12) Bathsheba was not in control of what was happening to her (12:35) God is in the business of redemption (14:00) Our worst days or seasons do not define our identity (16:00) No one is too far gone for God to use in His story (18:19) Do not let Satan convince you that you are unworthy (19:20) Scripture: Matthew 1:6 (NIV) “David was the father of Solomon, whose mother had been Uriah’s wife…” Discussion Questions: Have you ever felt defined by a mistake or painful season in your life? What parts of Bathsheba’s story stand out to you the most, why? Is there an area of your life where you struggle to believe God can bring redemption? What does it practically look like to separate your identity from your past? Resources: Register for the SOAR Conference today. Snag How to Teach Your Kids the Bible and work through it with your kids this summer! Become a WT+ Insider today! boaw.mom/insider Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk+, Karen and Emily share a family story that illustrates the importance of bringing our sin into the light and allowing Christ to redeem our past. Head HERE and join us for the full conversation.
May 19 · 19 min
518: How Do We Trust God When Life Hurts?
Naomi’s story is one of grief and disappointment, but ultimately, it’s about redemption. Today on Wire Talk, Karen and Emily continue our Mothers of the Bible series by looking at how God was working behind the scenes even when Naomi felt abandoned and bitter. If you’re walking through loss, broken relationships, or a season that feels nothing like the life you imagined, we hope this look at the life of Naomi reminds you that God is not absent and He is still writing your story. Episode Recap: This week we’re looking at Naomi’s story (1:26) When this story begins, Naomi is living through one crisis after another (3:00) Naomi’s outlook on her future was bleak (7:30) God works to weave a thread of redemption through Naomi’s life (13:42) God never abandons us even when it feels like He has (15:33) We are not writing our own stories (18:19) Scripture: Ruth 4:14 (NASB) “Then the women said to Naomi, “Blessed is the Lord who has not left you without a redeemer today, and may his name become famous in Israel.” Discussion Questions: Have you ever gone through a season where disappointment or grief changed the way you viewed your life or even God? Are there losses or disappointments you’ve tried to “move past” without honestly grieving them? Is there a story you’re currently telling yourself that may not actually be true? (“God has forgotten me,” “Things will never change,” etc.) Which truth from Naomi’s story do you most need to hold onto right now: It’s okay to grieve Your perspective isn’t always accurate God is still writing your story Resources: Register for the SOAR Conference today. Become a WT+ Insider today! boaw.mom/insider Snag How to Teach Your Kids the Bible and work through it with your kids this summer! Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk+, Karen shares more personally about seasons in her own life that didn’t turn out the way she expected and how God redeemed her disappointment. Head HERE and join us for the full conversation.
May 12 · 20 min
517: When God Feels Silent
Today we’re continuing our Mothers of the Bible series by looking at Hannah’s story in 1 Samuel. Hannah was a woman who longed for a child and wrestled with seasons of waiting and disappointment. Listen as Karen teaches through this story, reminding us that God invites us to trust Him, even when our prayers feel unanswered. If you’ve ever waited on God for something close to your heart, we hope you are encouraged to persevere today. Episode Recap: This week we’re looking at Hannah’s story (0:43) Don’t miss the BOAW birthday party after the Soar Conference this year! (2:30) Hannah is where, “...for this child I have prayed.” comes from (5:00) Hannah had dealt with infertility for years (7:00) Your pain may be different from Hannah’s but we can learn from her response (11:03) Hannah and Jochebed both had hearts that were surrendered to the Lord (12:40) Hannah recognized that it was the Lord who made her strong (16:00) Like sheep, we need to follow first (17:28) We must continually remind ourselves that God is good (19:06) Scripture: 1 Samuel 2:1-2 (NIV) “Then Hannah prayed and said: “My heart rejoices in the Lord; in the Lord my horn is lifted high. My mouth boasts over my enemies, for I delight in your deliverance. “There is no one holy like the Lord; there is no one besides you; there is no Rock like our God.” Discussion Questions: What is something in your life that feels like a “waiting season” right now? How do you typically respond when God doesn’t answer a prayer in your timing? What would it look like to surrender that situation fully to God, like Hannah did? Where are you tempted to compare your life to others, and how is that affecting your heart? How can you remind yourself daily that “God is good” even when life feels hard? Practically speaking, what does it look like for you to let God be your strength instead of trying to do it all yourself? Resources: Register for the SOAR Conference today. Become a WT+ Insider today! boaw.mom/insider Pick up Karen’s Prayer Journal in the BOAW Store Want More of This Conversation? Insiders will hear Karen share a personal story of a season of waiting in her own life and what God taught her through it. Head HERE and join us for the full conversation.
May 5 · 18 min
516: Letting Go and Trusting God With Your Child
This week, we kick off our month of celebrating moms with a new series: “Mothers of the Bible.” Today we’re looking at the life of Jochebed, a woman who faced unimaginable fear and made an unthinkable choice to save her son. Through her story, Karen and Emily unpack what it looks like to do our best for our kids and trust God with the rest. If you’ve ever struggled to let go, this conversation will meet you right where you are. Episode Recap: We’re kicking off a new series by looking at the lives of some mothers in the Bible (0:49) Jochebed was Moses’ mom (2:00) She did everything in her power to keep Moses alive (4:10) God enabled Jochebed to nurse Moses after his adoption by Pharoah’s daughter (8:00) Jochebed did everything she could and left the rest up to God (9:50) Jochebed was not Moses’ savior (10:20) Only God can reach our children’s hearts (10:55) Let go of your need to be a perfect parent (11:35) Children are a blessing - try not to hoard the blessing (15:05) Scripture: Psalm 56:3 (NIV) “When I am afraid, I put my trust in you.” Discussion Questions: Where in your parenting are you trying to “be the savior” instead of trusting God? What does it look like practically to “open your hands” and give your children back to God each day? How can you balance doing your part as a parent while still surrendering outcomes to the Lord? In what ways might striving for “perfect parenting” be keeping you from trusting God more deeply? Resources: Register for the SOAR Conference today. Become a WT+ Insider today! boaw.mom/insider Pick up Karen’s Prayer Journal in the BOAW Store Want More of This Conversation? In Wire Talk+, Karen and Emily go deeper into real-life parenting moments, sharing honest stories about when letting go has been hardest for them and how they navigated situations they couldn’t fix for their kids. Head HERE and join us for the full conversation.
April 28 · 30 min
515: Trusting Your Mom Gut with special guest Dr. Laura Bleekrode
Are you trusting your mom gut or Googling yourself into anxiety? In this episode, pediatrician Dr. Laura Bleekrode shares wisdom from nearly 40 years of experience to help moms cut through the noise and parent with confidence. We talk about how social media and constant information can erode your instincts and how to get back to trusting yourself. You’ll be reminded that you know your child better than anyone and that matters! Episode Recap: Dr. Bleekrode is a mom of 8 who owns a pediatric practice and has been practicing medicine for 36 years (1:11) How does Dr. Bleekrode “do it all”? (4:36) What are you seeing in today’s families that moms didn’t face 20 years ago? (6:15) Our “social networks” used to be personal (6:30) God gave mom’s intuition for a reason! (8:53) What symptoms require immediate medical or psychological attention? (12:13) My toddler is not sleeping for hours at a time, multiple times a month (15:55) What does a healthy sleep routine look like for a toddler? (20:06) Have you noticed parents trying to control all outcomes for their children? (27:20) How does your faith shape the way you counsel your patients? (28:13) Scripture: Isaiah 26:3 (NIV) "You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you.” Discussion Questions: When you feel anxious about your child, where do you tend to turn first; your friends, your instincts, or Google? Can you think of a time your “mom gut” was right? What helped you trust it (or ignore it)? What outside influences (social media, advice, comparison) tend to shake your confidence as a mom? How can you create stronger, real-life support systems instead of relying on online answers? What is one area where you can release perfection and trust God more in your parenting this week? Resources: Become a WT+ Insider today! boaw.mom/insider Pick up Karen’s Prayer Journal in the BOAW Store Want More of This Conversation? WT+ Insiders will hear Dr. Bleekrode share 4 things she wishes all her patients knew! Head HERE and join us for the full conversation.
April 21 · 17 min
514: You Can’t Do It All (and That’s Okay): Surviving May
May can feel overwhelming for moms, filled with endless events, expectations, and emotional moments.Today Karen offers practical wisdom to help you navigate the busyness without losing your joy (or your mind.) From setting realistic expectations to prioritizing what truly matters, this conversation is full of encouragement. Episode Recap: May is just December with sunscreen! (0:30) May feels chaotic with elementary schoolers - how do I get through? (4:40) Sit down with your high schooler and help them prioritize (9:10) Don’t be a wet blanket on your high schooler’s parade (10:15) Working mom here struggling with school events - help! (11:15) This season has me emotionally up and down with my Senior(14:35) Scripture: Ecclesiastes 3:1 (NIV) “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.” Discussion Questions: What part of May feels the most overwhelming for you right now? Are you trying to attend everything? What might you need to let go of? How can you involve your kids in deciding what matters most this month? Where are you feeling guilt, and is it justified or self-imposed? What is one small way you can slow down and enjoy this season? Resources: Become a WT+ Insider today! boaw.mom/insider Pick up Karen’s Prayer Journal in the BOAW Store Want More of This Conversation? In the extended WT+ conversation, Karen and Emily get even more practical. Karen shares her system for breaking down exactly how to prioritize without feeling overwhelmed or stretched too thin. If you’re craving less stress and more clarity this month, don’t miss this part of the conversation! Head HERE and join us for the full conversation.

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