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Why She Stayed

Grace Stuart

A podcast where we dive deep into what really goes on inside of domestic violence relationships that makes it so hard to simply "just leave". Through stories of survivors, and practical conversations with guests, I am going to put the microscope back on what the abuser is doing that causes us to become so trapped in the first place, and how each survivor was eventually freed. We will discuss what abusive relationships look like, sound like, and feel like for the purpose of educating and relating to one another in a much needed way.

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  • 22 episodes
  • weekly
  • Avg 1 hr 14 min
  • English

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  • S1 · E74
    Oct 21, 2025 · 55 min

    Ep. 74: Their Weight On Our Shoulders: How Abuse Makes Us Feel Responsible For Them | Wendy's Story

    In this episode, I’m joined by Wendy as she bravely shares her story of surviving abuse and how it manipulates your sense of duty, love, and identity. Wendy opens up about how her abuser made her feel responsible for his well-being, and how that emotional weight kept her trapped in a cycle of guilt and silence. We explore why so many survivors feel sorry for the very people hurting them, and how that misplaced empathy is a product of manipulation by the perpetrator. We also dive into the more subtle and often overlooked signs of financial control, the ways abusers rationalize physical violence, and how Wendy’s experience as a Latina woman added a layer of cultural confusion around expectations, and what it means to “stand by your man.” This conversation is a testament to resilience, clarity, and the power of naming what we’ve survived. Wendy's Instagram: @wendyc0rtes Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  • S1 · E73
    Oct 14, 2025 · 1 hr 12 min

    Ep. 73: How Did I Get Here (Again)? : A Story of Two Abusive Relationships

    In this episode, I sit down with Alissa to talk through the painful reality of surviving not one, but two abusive relationships, and the patterns that emerged between them. We dive into the emotional and financial toll of being made to feel responsible for the very people who were hurting us. Alissa shares how she was expected to take care of her abusers- emotionally, financially, and even physically, all while her own needs were ignored or weaponized against her. We talk about: The quiet, creeping signs of financial abuse How abusers make us feel like the caretaker or the problem-solver The excuses they give for physical abuse and how we learn to rationalize them Early signs of stalking and how they’re often misread as “love” or obsession The red flags that were different in each relationship- and the ones that felt eerily familiar If you’ve ever asked yourself “How did I end up here again?”, this episode is for you. Content warning: This episode discusses abuse, stalking, and physical violence. Please listen with care. Alissa's Instagram Pages: @makeituncomfortable @absolute_gray_media Other creator (Kimya) mentioned in the episode: @kimyamotley Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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