What‘s Your Position?

Ashley Weller

SEX. Relationships. Love. Life. I want to know your opinion on these, and many more topics. I love statistics, research and all things human brain. Why we fuck, how often we masturbate, why do we cheat, why do we have children...why we don‘t have children. I sit with friends, family, educators, doctors and regular people...like you...and ask burning questions about hot button, cold shoulder, warm and wet topics. Join me and my new friends as we ask...”What‘s your position?”

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May 5, 2024 · 53 min
QUICKIE: All About Anal; I said what what in the butt
On this quickie we dive into all things anus and talk about butt stuff! Oral, toys, lube, positions and, of course, statistics. The butt puns are HEAVY in this bad boi, so maybe listen with headphones 😂 If you have an ass, this episodes for you!
Apr 21, 2024 · 1 hr 36 min
FULL FRONTAL: Labias, PCOS, Endometriosis & Robots; Talking all things vaginal with DR. Shyama Mathews, OBGYN
Hello Humans! On this INCREDIBLE Full Frontal we have DR. Shyama Mathews on to discuss everything you wanted to know about PCOS, endometriosis and ways to advocate for yourself and your pain! We dive into topics surrounding finding a good gyno, and her work as a robotics surgeon for numerous types of OBGYN operations (so fricken cool!). We discuss why there has been a push recently for women to get "labiaplasty" and why our society makes women think their labia's need to be a certain shape or size to be "good enough". We also touch upon her work at "Playground" a Women's Wellness website founded by Christina Aguilera. Enjoy 15% off your first order when you use code "YOURPOSITION" at checkout! Enjoy! Click Here For A Discount at Playground! Dr. Mathews Website or reach out to her on Socials: @drmathewsgyn @helloplayground
Apr 15, 2024 · 1 hr 43 min
FULL FRONTAL: Sensuality Tantra & Shibari With Jaqueline Michelle
Hello Humans! In this sexy, sensual full frontal we are joined by Jaqueline Michelle who is a Sensuality Mentor and Sensual Shibari Practitioner based in Miami, FL. She specializes in supporting women in connecting to their bodies, revolutionizing their sexuality and sensuality, and healing from sexual trauma in an empowering and safe way. Her background is in yogic and tantric philosophy and solo conscious kink. We discuss the psychological benefits of bondage and BDSM are explored, including the flow state and enhanced communication skills. Jacqueline shares her experiences in the kink community and the deep connections and revelations that can occur. We dive into solo Shabari and how it can be a journey of self-intimacy and sensuality and Jacqueline shares her expertise in sensuality, tantra, and Shabari. She discusses the importance of tuning into the senses and embracing sensuality in all aspects of life, even in challenging moments. Jacqueline also explores the connection between sensuality and emotions, emphasizing the need to process and be present with one's feelings. She highlights the power of touch and sensation, both in self-pleasure practices and in intimate relationships. Jacqueline shares her personal kinks and the transformative impact her current relationship has had on her personal growth. She also discusses the revolutionary potential of ethical porn and the ways in which sensual tantra and Shabari have positively transformed lives. It is a powerful episode! We hope you enjoy! Check out her website here: Sensuality & Erotic Expression- BDSM + Tantra Foundation
Mar 31, 2024 · 1 hr 10 min
FULL FRONTAL: Know Your Yoni; Demystifying, destigmatizing and digging deep into Yoni massage W/ Freya Graf of Labia Lounge
In this Full Frontal, Ashley and guest Freya discusses the challenges in Yoni massage training and the lack of legitimate practitioners in the field. Freya also introduces her coaching services and her podcast, The Labia Lounge. We discuss her experiences in helping clients overcome pleasure issues and the importance of practice and integration. She emphasizes the need for understanding female genitalia and the challenges in exploring it. Freya provides insights on finding legitimate Yoni practitioners and coaching men on female pleasure. She also highlights the topics covered in her podcast and her online course. Takeaways Yoni massage training is challenging and there is a lack of legitimate practitioners in the field. Practice and integration are crucial for clients to overcome pleasure issues. Understanding female genitalia is important for both men and women. Finding legitimate Yoni practitioners can be difficult due to the lack of regulation in the industry. Coaching men on female pleasure helps improve their confidence and communication skills. The Labia Lounge podcast aims to demystify and de-stigmatize topics related to genitals, pleasure, and sexuality. Freya offers an online course that provides a step-by-step roadmap to experiencing more pleasure and intimacy. Frey has offered the WYPEEPS a discount for her online course! Use code 100CLAMSOFF to get $100 off! CLICK HERE TO LEARN ABOUT YOUR LABIA!
Mar 17, 2024 · 1 hr 49 min
FULL FRONTAL: Playtime, Polyamory and Hot Wifeing with Front Porch Swingers
In this Full Frontal, Ashley interviews Brenna and Brian, hosts of the Front Porch Swingers podcast, about their experiences and insights into the swinging lifestyle. They discuss misconceptions about swinging, the importance of communication, and the evolution of their own swinging relationship. They also talk about the evolution of their rules and preferences in the lifestyle, including their transition from couple swapping to playing separately. The conversation touches on the stigma and discrimination that still exist within the lifestyle community, particularly towards queer individuals. They also discuss their experiences starting a podcast and becoming coaches in the field of sex and relationships. They also share their favorite aspects of watching their partners experience pleasure and how they reconnect as a couple after playing with others, emphasizing the importance of both sexual and emotional intimacy. Brenna and Brian Front Porch Swingers https://frontporchswingers.com https://sexonyourterms.com
Mar 10, 2024 · 1 hr 20 min
FULL FRONTAL: It Grows When You Touch It; Boners, Delay Spray and Penis Magic with Jeff from Promescent
HELLO FELLOW HUMANS! On this Full Frontal we talk with CEO of Promescent about premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction and his incredible product, Delay Spray, which is an FDA clinically proven product to help people with penises make intimacy last longer. We touch on some social and psychological issues that can affect a person’s ability to get and maintain an erection and tips for helping you last longer in bed. Check out his website below for all their products, including sex toys, lubrication and more! Happy Cumming! Promescent Delay Spray
Mar 2, 2024 · 1 hr 16 min
FULL FRONTAL: Thank You for Your Service; How to navigate sex and love in military marriages
On this Full Frontal we have Author and Relationship Coach, Courtney Boyer back on to discuss the intricacies of being married in the military. Courtney is married to a physician for the US Army and she coaches a lot of couples who have one or both persons in the military. It is this insight that enables her to give us deep and personal insight into what makes military marriages different than civilian marries. From the basics like distance, missing life moments and intimacy, to deeper things like PTSD, infidelity and secret rules you have to follow as a military relationship. She also gives some amazing tips (both typical and outside of the box) to help individuals who marriages have these aspects of the military in them and are struggling to stay connected. This is an episode I have wanted to do for so long and we are very thankful to have had such an expert in the field chat with us. We at WYP love and appreciate those who serve our country and hope this episode helps you create more lasting, romantic, sexy moments with your spouse! Check out Courtney's Website here: Courtney Boyer Coaching Buy her new book about sexual desire and relationships here: Not Tonight Honey
Feb 18, 2024 · 1 hr 31 min
FULL FRONTAL: Herpes & Happiness; How to find solutions and live your life with HSV2
On this Full Frontal we speak to herpes advocate, educator and wellness specialist, Alexandra Harbushka. She has a Podcast, YouTube show and full wellness website called “Life With Herpes” where she helps others work through struggles and challenges that come with a herpes diagnosis. We discuss her diagnosis, stigma and shame as well as taking control and finding a path forward with health and happiness. Join us for this deeply personal and vulnerable conversation. check out her website here lifewithherpes.com
Feb 15, 2024 · 49 min
QUICKIE: Origins of Valentines Day; From Lupercalia to Love Letters
Hello Lovers. On this quickie we breakdown the very beginnings of this love celebration known as Valentines day. We discuss crazy facts about monies spent, cards sent and the history of Galentines day. We also breakdown the Pagan festival that started it all; Lupercalia and all its bloody, whipping, sexy glory... and how a saint named "Valentine" secretly married young romans to avoid war and became a love martyr. Check it out and make sure you tell someone you love them today. And remember, we love you <3 Check out our newest sponsor, Arya for an all new way to connect with your partner! Get a custom made adventure box that satisfy every desire and deepest fantasy. Go to Arya's Website Here and use code WYP15 at checkout for 15% off you first 3 months!
Feb 10, 2024 · 1 hr 30 min
FULL FRONTAL: 6 Pillars to Mindful Dating; How to drop assumptions, get honest with yourself and manifest healthy relationships with Dr Marie Thouin
Hello Humans! On this episode we discuss how to cultivate a healthier relationship with dating by become more mindful in our desire, our drive, our self esteem and creating a space where we are able to date and be successful at it! Dr. Marie Thouin is a dating & relationship coach who helps folks of all backgrounds and orientations create vibrant love lives. Her "mindful dating" framework has helped hundreds turn dating into an adventure of personal growth, freedom, and authentic connection with others. Marie is also a leading scholar on the topic of compersion (positive empathy) in consensually non-monogamous relationships, and celebrates relationship diversity as a foundation of creating an intentional life. You can find Marie at www.LoveInSight-Dating.com(coaching) as well as www.whatiscompersion.com (research). Follow her on Instagram at @love_insight_dating.
Jan 28, 2024 · 1 hr 56 min
FULL FRONTAL: Anal Cancer, A** Puns & HIV; When a comedian has it all with Daniel Garza
Our dear friend, Daniel Garza, joins us for an in depth conversation about living with HIV, beating anal cancer and doing it with a smile on your face. Daniel is an activist, actor, stand up comic, educator and SURVIVOR. And this episode has all the ass puns you could ever hope for. Check out Daniel’s production company LilMesicanproductions here!!!
Jan 19, 2024 · 1 hr 32 min
FULL FRONTAL: Boobs, Belly Buttons and Body Modifications; The how and why behind plastic surgery with our friend Amy
Hello Humans! We have a listener requested episode for you! We talk with our good friend Amy about her decision to get both a boob job and tummy tuck and we get the low down on the procedure and recovery. We also dive into why people choose to get body modification and gender affirming surgeries and what some pros and cons are. Remember, YOUR BODY, YOUR CHOICE! Stay safe, stay kind and stay sexy!
Jan 7, 2024 · 1 hr 27 min
QUICKE: Gettin Sexy With Serotonin; How Sex and Depression are linked.
Hello Humans! On this quickie we break down how depression affects our sex life! 🚨BE AWARE: Episode contains discussions about mental health and sensitive topics. 🚨 We break down what depression is, how desire, pleasure and libido are affected by our mental health and how sex can actually help some symptoms of depression. Remember to search for the joy in everyday. Stay safe, stay kind, and stay well 😘 If you or someone you know is struggling with their mental health issues, please call 988 ☎️
Jan 2, 2024 · 2 hr
Full Frontal: Good Sex, Air Horns and Hurricanes w/ Bottled Up Bitches
Hello Humans and Happy 2024! To start the year off with a BANG we collaborated with fellow sex podcasters, Bottled Up Bitches, to bring you a jam packed, sexifed, game filled, tip bursting episode with love from all of us! Join us as we discuss the difficulty of having a friend exit your life (and your show), what we all think "good sex" is and Kevin wins a sex game! THE AIR HORNS ARE FIRING in this bad boy! HAPPY NEW YEAR BITCHES!
Dec 23, 2023 · 1 hr 19 min
A Quickie For Christmas: How to Manage Relationships During the Holidays
🎄Ho ho ho fellow humans! We have a very Christmas Quickie for all you little elves out there. In this episode we give some gift ideas for your partner that are meaningful and sexy, we talk about managing your expectations and stress levels (Ashley tells a story about the worst Christmas ever when Kevin met her family for the first time!) and we talk about our favorite Christmas movies! It’s a holiday extravaganza for you! We love you and are so thankful for your continued support! Happy Holidays Humans!🎅
Dec 15, 2023 · 1 hr 37 min
FULL FRONTAL: Cum Sponge, Sticky Tits and Pee Funnels: Let’s Go Deep With Frances From Awkward Essentials!
In this AMAZING full frontal we got to get up close, live and personal with Frances Tang, owner, founder and Captain awkward from one of our affiliates; AWKWARD ESSENTIALS! You’ve heard our plugs for the drip stick and now you can hear from her how she got started and what it’s like to run a successful, sex and wellness business. Make sure you check out all of their amazing products and use our code WYP for a discount at checkout! Cum see all the products here!
Dec 5, 2023 · 1 hr 17 min
CHRISTMAS QUICKIE: A Sexy, Unconventional and Outside Your Box Gift Guide
HO HO Hello Humans! We have a super sexy, toy filled episode for all you sexy Santa’s out there. We get into some kinky and niche sexy play items you can introduce to the bedroom this holiday season. There are 3 levels of kinky for the novice, the intermediate and the advanced toy user. Links below! Enjoy and play safe!!! Level 1 WaterSlyde Aquatic Stimulator - https://lovabilityinc.com/products/waterslyde I Rub My Duckie - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01ACPEN00?ref_=cm_sw_r_apin_dp_D52MQGVED9BDGKMZTMEF&language=en-US Absinthe Lotion Teacup Candle - https://rosaliebodyworks.com/products/absinthe-halloween-candle Level 2 ElectraStim Flick Stimulator Multi-Pack - https://us.electrastim.com/products/flick-em60-m-stimulation-multi-pack DrakainaDS FLESHLIGHT GAS-MASK - https://www.etsy.com/listing/1411719067/fleshlight-gas-mask-rubber-military Mashable: The ultimate guide to fisting - https://mashable.com/article/fisting-vaginal-anal-how-to Level 3 Gates Of Hell Male Chastity Device - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B007W52874?ref_=cm_sw_r_apin_dp_ZJFCCMSGSTAM15MA6S05&language=en-US&th=1 PassionFruitsexart Inflatable Ovipositor Alien Egg Pump - https://www.etsy.com/listing/1562721339/inflatable-ovipositor-alien-knot-dildo Healthline: Everything You Need to Know About Urethral Sounding - https://www.healthline.com/health/urethral-sounding
Nov 24, 2023 · 2 hr 6 min
BONUS FULL FRONTAL: Sex and Spina Bifida: Discussing disability, sexuality and strength
We have a bonus episode for you humans! We *almost* didn’t release this episode because the audio is…well…not the greatest 😒. We tried three times to record this very important topic and this was the best one, sound wise. But boy oh boy this is a deep and intense episode about Britany, a woman with spina bifida, overcoming the odds, being sexual, getting married and having children. We cover so many important topics we couldn’t keep this one to ourselves. So bare with us, buckle up and get ready for an incredibly powerful bonus episode!
Nov 24, 2023 · 1 hr 36 min
FULL FRONTAL: LORALS IS HERE! Vanilla Undies, Latex Licking and STI Protection for All!
Hello fellow Humans! We are SO THANKFUL that Lorals is here!!! In this Full Frontal I fan girl BIG TIME as we talk all things Lorals and latex with Sarah, the face of Lorals and marketing guru! Dive in and learn more about their start, the path to FDA approval and their upcoming products! We discuss mouth stuff, butt stuff and kinky stuff you can do with Lorals amazing line of latex undies. Check out the links below and be sure to use our code: WYP for 10% off your order! WE LOVE LORALS! For pleasure and protection FDA Clears First Pair of Underwear to Protect Against STIs During Oral Sex Lorals on Instagram ----more----
Nov 19, 2023 · 1 hr 48 min
FULL FRONTAL: The Art of Pegging! Popping your Pooper Cherry with Ruby Ryder
Hello Fellow Humans! In this full frontal we are graced with the amazingly intelligent and incredibly knowledgeable, Ruby Ryder; professional Dominatrix, sex worker, educator and pegging aficionado. We ask Ruby all about her experiences with pegging, how it can be beneficial and why the prostrate is so underrated in the sexual pleasure of men. Below are some great links and resources if this episode peaked your interest! Stay safe, stay kind and stay sexy! HUGE SHOUT OUT TO Jacob Head Media for editing this episode! Check out their website! Jacob Head Media Links: PeggingParadise.com - pegging info, erotica and podcasts Pegging101.com - pegging info without the kink TheArtofPegging.com - webinars Pegging Paradise Podcasts - spotify link Shop for Toys - Support My Work - this is the EnticeMe.com link if you want to be an affiliate Become a Patron - Support My Work - Left Patreon, they are censorship heavy! Instagram TikTok Twitter FetLife Tryst - sex work Approaching your partner: • Givers: https://peggingparadise.com/blog/2015/09/podcast-112-for-the-ladies/ • Receivers: https://peggingparadise.com/2019/12/podcast-253-for-the-gentlemen