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What I Love About Sex

Stephanie Ganowski

What I Love About Sex is the podcast for high-achieving men who feel like they're successful everywhere but their sex life.
It's hosted by clinical sexologist and men's sex coach Stephanie Ganowski and each weekly episode helps men to understand their relationship more clearly and learn the skills it takes to show up to their woman with confidence, conviction and connection.

Stephanie directly coaches men on topics most men were never taught: sexual performance anxiety, desire and arousal, lasting longer, intimacy vs sex, emotional intelligence, emotional leadership, and how to actually communicate about sex... so you can have more of it.

You'll get practical, judgment-free, science-backed tools to become the man you want to be in your relationship and sex life.
New episodes every week.

🎧 Want to learn more? Go to stephanieganowski.com

  • 21 episodes
  • Updated Wednesday
  • Explicit

Episodes21

  • Nov 19, 2025 · 21 min

    How a Secure Couple Talks About Sex: A Real Conversation With My Boyfriend #415

    It feels a little vulnerable getting my boyfriend on the mic with me to talk a bit openly together for strangers lol. I also wondered if this episode would come across like I was bragging about my relationship being in a good place when I know so many people struggle, or if it would be too boring because, well, listening to a secure, happy, sexually satisfied couple talk about their relationship is not the most entertaining thing in the world haha. But I do believe it's important for other people to hear/witness what security does sound like, so they know what's possible for them too and to not settle for less! I've had clients tell me things they want and then say "I would love...But I know that kind of love doesn't even exist so I'd even settle for..." and I'll cut in like "Whatttt? No, it does exist." So hopefully you see the value in listening to security, so that you can build on it yourself or find it. If you work to be a secure man, than you will attract or keep a secure woman. <3 00:00 Cringe Introduction lol 00:53 Handling Conflict in Relationships 03:47 Maintaining Playfulness and Humor 06:28 Deepening the Relationship 08:24 Sexual Surprises and Communication 11:10 Expressing Emotions and Frustrations 16:19 Discussing Fantasies and Kinks 19:28 Dirty Talk 21:17 Signing off Ready to improve your sex life? Apply to work with me: https://www.stephanieganowski.com/coaching-application-video/ Find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephganowski/ Learn more about Ronan: https://stephanieganowski.ac-page.com/ronan-landing-page Join my weekly "sex topics" newsletter: https://www.stephanieganowski.com/