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We Met At Acme

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.

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  • Sunday · 51 min

    Get In Loser, We’re Manifesting Our Husbands ft. Gabby Bernstein

    I’m joined by bestselling author and spiritual teacher Gabby Bernstein to talk about manifesting love and where the line is between calling someone in and straight-up obsessing over them. We discuss whether you can manifest a specific person, how specific your ideal partner list should be, and what Gabby did to manifest her husband versus what she actually had to go out and do herself. We also get into wanting a relationship without getting attached to a timeline, whether “dating in New York is terrible” is keeping you stuck, and how to tell a sign from the universe from seeing what you want to see. Plus, raising your standards, letting go of someone who checks every box but treats you badly, and a manifestation practice you can try tonight. — Get More We Met At Acme! Youtube: @wemetatacme IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby Website: @wemetatacme — This episode is sponsored by: Right now, new customers can get 15% off sitewide at magneticme.com If you're in the market for a beautiful new sofa, dining table, or bed, head over to article.com Use code ACME at monarch.com for half off your first year Save 25% on your first month now at Ritual.com/ACME Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/acme — Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • November 1 · 48 min

    Are You Dating For Love Or Validation? ft. Tim Demirjian

    Tim Demirjian is a television personality, entrepreneur, and digital creator. He is also the winner of the Hulu show Love Overboard. Tim happens to be a handsome single dude, so we are picking his brain. We’re discussing tough dating expectations, the real reason many men are on dating apps, how he struggles with his online perception, the pressure to recreate our parents' marriage, and so much more! — Get More We Met At Acme! Youtube: @wemetatacme IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby Website: @wemetatacme — This episode is sponsored by: If you're in the market for a beautiful new sofa, dining table, or bed, head over to article.com Join the membership for where you live at joinbilt.com/acme Go to exponentbeauty.com and use code ACME20 for 20% off orders of $75 or more. Go to dipseastories.com/acme for your first week FREE - then 25% off. — Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • October 25 · 44 min

    My Man Better WORK! ft. Daisy Toye

    Daisy Toye is on the pod today! Daisy is Martha Stewart’s longtime makeup artist and now a new cast member on Real Housewives of NYC aka RHONY. We talk about everything and nothing from being libras, her relationship with her husband, whose side she is on in all of the RHONY fights, where she stands with the girls present day, and how the hell to do your make up as a millennial. — Get More We Met At Acme! Youtube: @wemetatacme IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby Website: @wemetatacme — This episode is sponsored by: Right now, new customers can get 15% off sitewide at magneticme.com Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/acme Join the membership for where you live at joinbilt.com/acme All that’s new and uniquely you. It’s in the bag. Visit Target.com — Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • October 18 · 50 min

    How Much Should You Reveal When You’re Newly Dating?

    Today’s solo episode dives into how much we should or shouldn’t reveal when we are newly seeing someone. When is it right to share certain personal information? Should you let them know if you are following rules? — Get More We Met At Acme! Youtube: @wemetatacme IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby Website: @wemetatacme — This episode is sponsored by: Refresh your wardrobe with Quince. Don't wait. Go to Quince.com/acme for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/acme Join the membership for where you live at joinbilt.com/acme All that’s new and uniquely you. It’s in the bag. Visit Target.com Go to exponentbeauty.com and use code ACME20 for 20% off orders of $75 or more. — Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • October 11 · 1 hr 5 min

    He’s Not Playing Games ft. Craig Conover

    Craig Conover is on the pod! You know Craig from Southern Charm, Sewing Down South, and now he has a children’s book called Patch Work: Bee Brave. Bee Kind. Bee You. He will also star in the upcoming season of Traitors UK! We are talking all about what he’s looking for right now, his dating style, how he used ChatGPT to heal from his last relationship, where he stands with alcohol, giving himself the ick, his relationship with Shep and Austen, and so much more. Order his book here: https://www.worldofkidsbooks.com/pages/patch-work-preorder — Get More We Met At Acme! Youtube: @wemetatacme IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby Website: @wemetatacme — This episode is sponsored by: If you're in the market for a beautiful new sofa, dining table, or bed, head over to article.com Use code ACME at monarch.com for half off your first year Save 25% on your first month now at Ritual.com/ACME Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/acme Right now, new customers can get 15% off sitewide at magneticme.com All that’s new and uniquely you. It’s in the bag. Visit Target.com — Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • October 4 · 50 min

    Let Him Chase You ft. Jessie James Decker

    Jessie James Decker joins me to talk about how she met Eric, the secret sauce to a happy marriage, and keeping the spark alive with four kids. We get into balancing family and work, how their relationship has changed since Eric retired, and her dating advice for single girls, including what you should never compromise on. Order her new book The Secret Sauce here https://www.harpercollins.com/products/the-secret-sauce-jessie-james-deckersydney-rae-basskaren-parker?variant=44738427715618 — Get More We Met At Acme! Youtube: @wemetatacme IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby Website: @wemetatacme — This episode is sponsored by: If you're in the market for a beautiful new sofa, dining table, or bed, head over to article.com Visit acme.omnibioticlife.com and use code BEST for 20% off your first order. Join the membership for where you live at joinbilt.com/acme All that’s new and uniquely you. It’s in the bag. Visit Target.com Go to dipseastories.com/acme for your first week FREE - then 25% off. — Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • September 27 · 50 min

    Is The Housewives Curse Real? ft. Teresa Guidice

    The QUEEN of New Jersey is on the pod!! We discuss what it was like watching her marriage destruct on TV, finding love again with Luis, the housewives curse, her relationship with the other housewives, the difference between ultimate girls trip and RHONJ, where she stands with Melissa, having her daughter Gia follow in her footsteps, and so much more! Pre order Teresa’s new book here! https://www.ballastbooks.com/ballast-bookstore/the-queen-of-new-jersey — Get More We Met At Acme! Youtube: @wemetatacme IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby Website: @wemetatacme — This episode is sponsored by: If you're in the market for a beautiful new sofa, dining table, or bed, head over to article.com Join the membership for where you live at joinbilt.com/acme Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/acme Save 25% on your first month now at Ritual.com/ACME Get 20% off your DeleteMe plan when you go to joindeleteme.com/acme and use promo code ACME at checkout — Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • September 20 · 49 min

    If You Can’t Fart in Front of Him, It’s Not Gonna Work ft. Serena Kerrigan

    Serena Kerrigan is back on the pod for the first time since 2018!! We are talking about everything from dating (6 years) younger, life as an only child, why she went on a GLP1, how important farting in front of them is, and so much more. Pre-order Serena's new book! Let’s F*cking Date: Become the Prize, Enjoy the Ride, and Never Settle Again releases on September 22, 2026. Pre-order your copy here! — Get More We Met At Acme! Youtube: @wemetatacme IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby Website: @wemetatacme — This episode is sponsored by: Refresh your wardrobe with Quince. Don't wait. Go to Quince.com/acme for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns Head to https://forkfulmeals.com/ACME for 50% off your first order today! Get 20% off your DeleteMe plan when you go to joindeleteme.com/acme and use promo code ACME at checkout Right now, as a listener of this show, you get at least 15% off any annual membership at masterclass.com/acme Visit acme.omnibioticlife.com and use code BEST for 20% off your first order. — Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • September 13 · 1 hr 6 min

    The Best Relationships Come To Those Who Wait Part 6

    Your favorite series is back with heartwarming stories of couples who found their love a little later than they expected in life. The best relationships truly do come to those who wait. — Get More We Met At Acme! Youtube: @wemetatacme IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby Website: @wemetatacme — This episode is sponsored by: If you're in the market for a beautiful new sofa, dining table, or bed, head over to article.com Use code ACME at monarch.com for half off your first year Get 10% off your first order sitewide with code ACME at oseamalibu.com Learn more and plan your trip at VisitBuffalo.com Right now, Arya is offering our listeners $10 off your first month at arya.com/acme. This offer is only for our podcast listeners so use my link to get this discount — Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • September 6 · 1 hr 2 min

    Your Husband And A Waste Of Time ft. Yhasmina Ferrera

    Yhasmina Ferrera is a beauty and fashion creator who has captured her followers by being incredibly authentic and real, while also being aspirational. Yhas and I talk about why opposites don’t work, she shares her traumatic birth story, why she is content with 1 child, the difference between your husband and a waste of time, questions she asked her husband on the first date, and how she got out of a depressive funk and took control of her life. — Get More We Met At Acme! Youtube: @wemetatacme IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby Website: @wemetatacme — This episode is sponsored by: Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/acme Join the membership for where you live at joinbilt.com/acme Save 25% on your first month now at Ritual.com/ACME Get 20% off your DeleteMe plan when you go to joindeleteme.com/acme and use promo code ACME at checkout Visit acme.omnibioticlife.com and use code BEST for 20% off your first order. — Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • August 30 · 46 min

    Chemistry Is Not Enough ft. Lisa Paz

    Dr. Lisa Paz, LMFT is an experienced clinical sex and marriage therapist with more than 20 years of experience helping individuals and couples navigate intimacy and relationship issues. She can be seen on Peacock’s hit show Married At First Sight, where she advises couples. Lisa and I discuss chemistry vs. compatibility, what is most important when choosing a partner, how to raise good men, what’s holding singles back, the difference between how men think and women think, and so much more. — Get More We Met At Acme! Youtube: @wemetatacme IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby Website: @wemetatacme — This episode is sponsored by: If you're in the market for a beautiful new sofa, dining table, or bed, head over to article.com If you are interested in learning more about therapy or our services head to beyoupsychotherapy.com If you’re expecting, Nanit is definitely the number one thing you’re going to want to add to your baby registry. You can learn more about Nanit on their website at nanit.com. Right now, as a listener of this show, you get at least 15% off any annual membership at masterclass.com/acme Visit acme.omnibioticlife.com and use code BEST for 20% off your first order. Ready to clean out your closet and make some extra money? Download the Vinted app for free and start listing. With no seller fees, you keep every dollar you earn. — Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • August 23 · 46 min

    Should You Change Before Meeting Someone? ft. Shep Rose

    Shep Rose from Bravo’s Southern Charm is on the pod today! We are chatting about our history, whether or not he’s actually ready to settle down, his new book Nothing in Moderation, the problem with politics today, what his type is, his relationship to alcohol at the moment, and so much more. — Get More We Met At Acme! Youtube: @wemetatacme IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby Website: @wemetatacme — This episode is sponsored by:: Refresh your wardrobe with Quince. Don't wait. Go to Quince.com/acme for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns Join the membership for where you live at joinbilt.com/acme Learn more and plan your trip at VisitBuffalo.com If you are interested in learning more about therapy or our services head to beyoupsychotherapy.com If you’re expecting, Nanit is definitely the number one thing you’re going to want to add to your baby registry. You can learn more about Nanit on their website at nanit.com. — Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • August 16 · 58 min

    Wedding Culture Has Gotten Out of Hand ft. Ruhama Wolle

    Ruhama Wolle is a writer and the author of I Hope You Elope: A Bridesmaid Survival Guide. Ruhama has written for The Cut, Glamour, and is now at the NY Post. We discuss how to get better at saying no, steps you can take to avoid becoming a Bridezilla, how to handle wedding finances, if you need to give a gift to a destination wedding, why I actually love being a bridesmaid, and so much more. — Get More We Met At Acme! Youtube: @wemetatacme IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby Website: @wemetatacme — Sponsors: If you're in the market for a beautiful new sofa, dining table, or bed, head over to article.com Use code ACME at monarch.com for half off your first year Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/acme If you are interested in learning more about therapy or our services head to beyoupsychotherapy.com! Head to https://forkfulmeals.com/ACME for 50% off your first order today! — Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • August 9 · 46 min

    You Marry The Family ft. Taylor Strecker

    Taylor Strecker is a former radio vet who is now the host of the podcast Taste of Taylor. She is also now starring in House of Stassi. We discuss everything from what didn’t work with her first marriage, to figuring out she was a lesbian, falling in love with her wife, being a mom, the ins and outs of reality TV, and why I’m scared of Stassi. — Get More We Met At Acme! Youtube: @wemetatacme IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby Website: @wemetatacme — Sponsors: If you're in the market for a beautiful new sofa, dining table, or bed, head over to article.com Right now, Arya is offering our listeners $10 off your first month at arya.com/acme. This offer is only for our podcast listeners so use my link to get this discount. Get 10% off your first order sitewide with code ACME at oseamalibu.com. — Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • August 2 · 52 min

    Are Straight People Repressed?

    Finally, a solo! I’ve missed chatting with you guys 1-1. Today I’m answering your questions about sex frequency, how my single friends are meeting people, bleph updates, what it’s like with 2 kids vs 1, and we’re going in-depth on the nuances of cheating. — Get More We Met At Acme! Youtube: @wemetatacme IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby Website: @wemetatacme — Sponsors: If you're in the market for a beautiful new sofa, dining table, or bed, head over to article.com Refresh your wardrobe with Quince. Don't wait. Go to Quince.com/acme for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns — Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • July 29 · 52 min

    Is It A Red Flag Or A Preference? ft. Therapists Maddy and Marissa

    Madeline Weinfeld Shill and Marissa Robinson are licensed therapists at Be You Psychotherapy, a boutique NYC therapy group practice specializing in anxiety, relationships, life transitions, women’s mental health, and perinatal care. We chat about everything from the most common problems people are facing in therapy, to healthy and unhealthy boundaries, the difference between therapy back then and now, the most common dating issues people discuss and so much more. — Get More We Met At Acme! Youtube: @wemetatacme IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby Website: @wemetatacme — Sponsors: Be You Psychotherapy offers individual therapy, couples therapy and seasonal groups such as a body image group and an ongoing women's group for single women with in-person offices in Manhattan (Financial District and NEW Upper East Side) and virtual therapy throughout New York. If you are interested in learning more about therapy or our services head to beyoupsychotherapy.com or email us at hello@beyoupsychotherapy.com — Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • July 26 · 1 hr

    Are You Actually Ready For A Relationship? ft. Stefanos Sifandos

    Stefanos Sifandos is a relationship educator and expert. We discuss all things intimacy, relationships, self-awareness, and healing. We discuss how to stay present instead of thinking about the next best thing, how we attract people to us, if women need to lower their standards, and so much more. https://stefanossifandos.com/ — Get More We Met At Acme! Youtube: @wemetatacme IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby Website: @wemetatacme — Sponsors: Join the membership for where you live at joinbilt.com/acme Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/acme Learn more and plan your trip at VisitBuffalo.com Head to https://forkfulmeals.com/ACME for 50% off your first order today! — Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • July 19 · 44 min

    You Have To Let Your Friends Figure It Out ft. Bran Flakezz

    Bran Flakezz aka Brandon Edelman got started on TikTok with a mission to bring smiles and help people forget about the stresses of daily life. His relatable, unfiltered, and witty commentary has gained him a devoted cross-platform audience of over one million followers. We discuss how he met his boyfriend (DMs were involved), the reality of online hate, competition in the creator space, what led him and his man to make it official, our friends' bad decisions, and more. — Get More We Met At Acme! Youtube: @wemetatacme IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby Website: @wemetatacme — Sponsors: Join the membership for where you live at joinbilt.com/acme Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/acme Learn more and plan your trip at VisitBuffalo.com Head to https://forkfulmeals.com/ACME for 50% off your first order today! — Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • July 12 · 50 min

    No One Watches Unseen Bits ft. My Sister

    My sister Allie is back on the pod and it’s the light energy you needed to hear today. We’re talking about how to pronounce Khaite and Loewe, how she skips all the Bravo reunions (insane), what our husbands are allowed to have a say about, if you need to have sex with someone on a vacation, and so much more. — Get More We Met At Acme! Youtube: @wemetatacme IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby Website: @wemetatacme — Sponsors: Use code ACME at monarch.com for half off your first year If you're in the market for a beautiful new sofa, dining table, or bed, head over to article.com — Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • July 5 · 1 hr 1 min

    Can You Really Change Your Attachment Style? ft. Dr. Amir Levine

    Dr. Amir Levine is a psychiatrist, clinician and expert on Attachment Theory. Today we dive deeper into how understanding attachment styles can help you better navigate today’s dating landscape. We discuss how to change from being anxious or avoidant into secure, the difference between anxious attachment and ROCD, signs of avoidant vs. disinterest, how our attachment styles affect us, and so much more. Check out Dr. Amir Levine’s Masterclass and read his new book “Secure” here Get More We Met At Acme! Youtube: @wemetatacme IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby Website: @wemetatacme Sponsors: If you're in the market for a beautiful new sofa, dining table, or bed, head over to article.com Right now, Arya is offering our listeners $10 off your first month at arya.com/acme. This offer is only for our podcast listeners so use my link to get this discount. Get 10% off your first order sitewide with code ACME at oseamalibu.com. Refresh your wardrobe with Quince. Don't wait. Go to Quince.com/acme for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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