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Unshaming

Jordan Gonsalves

If you’ve ever felt judged or like you’ve had to hide who you are, you’re invited to the Unshaming dinner party. A place where you are safe to be your authentic self and where your curiosity knows no limits. Hosted by journalist Jordan Gonsalves, we’ll have raw conversations with experts and storytellers to explore how shame is quietly shaping our relationships, our culture, our sense of self - and what becomes possible when we stop hiding and start belonging. Dinner’s ready.

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Wednesday · 34 min
"Squeeze the Sh*t Out of Life": 9/11 Son's Guide to Grief
David Ferrugio’s father was one of the nearly 3,000 victims in the September 11th attacks. He was working on the 105th floor of the first tower that fell. The plane struck floors 93-99. 25 years after the attacks, his son tells his story in detail and what his grief can teach you. David is the host of the “Dead Talks” podcast, which you can listen to on YouTube. His new book is called "You're Not Dead Yet: How Grief and Loss Can Teach You to Live.” You can find it at deadtalks.net/book. We cover: The 1 word that can help you get through grief What loss can teach us about how to live How shame can prevent the grieving process The most awkward part of grief that no one talks about The importance of humor in grief If this episode resonated, please share with just one person who you believe it would benefit. Executive Producer Jordan Gonsalves Producers Amanda McLoughlin, Multitude Brandon Grugle, Multitude Editor Deanna Chapman Special thanks to: Larry Colton Adam Berman Chip Conley Larry Colton & John McCoy Mike Phillps & Jay Morton Bill Glenn & Scott Hafner Robert Holgate Jenny & Jude Gonsalves DeeDee Towery Kevin Palmer & Tom Ellicott Michael & Laura Werner Alex Berman & Alex Scotta Steve Houck Dave Koz David Beatty Paul Grossinger Randy Quebec Tom Viola Broadway Cares / Danny Whitman Julie Stampler David Vogel Brooke & Will Muggia Judi & David Issacson Reesa Manning Kathleen Salemi Cindy & Neil Lyon Anil Crasto Teresa Kersten Cary Berman Rhett Wilson Tom Emrich & Jonathan Carver Moore Nick Scandalious Dixie Webster Davis David Schutte Stuart Spencer Jay Kuo Ned Lustbader Ken Lustbader & Jay Kidd Susan & Joyce Lowenberg See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
September 9 · 41 min
Young, Successful Men are Hiring Escorts. Here’s Why.
1 in 7 American have paid for s*x work, according to the National Institute of Justice. If the oldest profession in the world is still so popular, why is it so stigmatized? Former escort Thea Rose dishes why. Thea is the host of one of the most popular sexuality podcasts in America called “Seggs Talk Radio.” She recently came out publicly as a former escort, and you can watch that YouTube video here. She became an escort to fund her startup “Testie,” and revolutionize STI testing. We cover: Why so many men are paying for escorts What a former escort can teach us about being a better lover and partner The life of a s*x worker no one sees How s*x work impacted Thea’s dating life If this episode resonated, please share with just one person who you believe it would benefit. Executive Producer Jordan Gonsalves Producers Amanda McLoughlin, Multitude Brandon Grugle, Multitude Editor Deanna Chapman Special thanks to: Larry Colton Adam Berman Chip Conley Larry Colton & John McCoy Mike Phillps & Jay Morton Bill Glenn & Scott Hafner Robert Holgate Jenny & Jude Gonsalves DeeDee Towery Kevin Palmer & Tom Ellicott Michael & Laura Werner Alex Berman & Alex Scotta Steve Houck Dave Koz David Beatty Paul Grossinger Randy Quebec Tom Viola Broadway Cares / Danny Whitman Julie Stampler David Vogel Brooke & Will Muggia Judi & David Issacson Reesa Manning Kathleen Salemi Cindy & Neil Lyon Anil Crasto Teresa Kersten Cary Berman Rhett Wilson Tom Emrich & Jonathan Carver Moore Nick Scandalious Dixie Webster Davis David Schutte Stuart Spencer Jay Kuo Ned Lustbader Ken Lustbader & Jay Kidd Susan & Joyce Lowenberg See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
September 2 · 45 min
The Evolutionary Reason You’re So Sensitive w/ Dr. Sasha Hamdani
Have you ever felt too much? Or like your feelings are so big compared to others? Board certified psychiatrist and an ADHD clinical specialist Dr. Sasha Hamdani joins Unshaming to discuss the science behind it. She recently published a book on the understudied area of ADHD called Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria or RSD. And she’s going to share everything she learned. We cover: The evolutionary reason you feel so sensitive The evolutionary strengths of having an emotionally sensitive brain Why ADHD brains are most likely to have RSD What happens in the brain when a situationship doesn't text back The most impactful thing you can do when triggered by rejection ADHD hacks for better sleep, brain health, and productivity Check out Dr. Hamdani’s new book wherever books are sold: “Too Sensitive: Rejection, Resilience, and the Science of Feeling Deeply" Executive Producer Jordan Gonsalves Producers Amanda McLoughlin, Multitude Brandon Grugle, Multitude Editor Deanna Chapman Production & Publicity Franklin Benavides Morgan Jones Ben Lauer Dio Anthony Larry Colton Adam Berman Special thanks to: Chip Conley Larry Colton & John McCoy Mike Phillps & Jay Morton Bill Glenn & Scott Hafner Robert Holgate Jenny & Jude Gonsalves DeeDee Towery Kevin Palmer & Tom Ellicott Michael & Laura Werner Alex Berman & Alex Scotta Steve Houck Dave Koz David Beatty Paul Grossinger Randy Quebec Tom Viola Broadway Cares / Danny Whitman Julie Stampler David Vogel Brooke & Will Muggia Judi & David Issacson Reesa Manning Kathleen Salemi Cindy & Neil Lyon Anil Crasto Teresa Kersten Cary Berman Rhett Wilson Tom Emrich & Jonathan Carver Moore Nick Scandalious Dixie Webster Davis David Schutte Stuart Spencer Jay Kuo Ned Lustbader Ken Lustbader & Jay Kidd Susan & Joyce Lowenberg See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
August 26 · 51 min
How to Have the Best Anal Sex Ever w/ Dr. Goldstein
Subscribe so you never miss an episode. Groundbreaking proctocologist Dr. Evan Goldstein has changed thousands of lives. His mission is to destigmatize or “unshame” butts and “everything that goes in them and out of them.” He has definitive information on how to have the best poops and how to have the best bottoming experiences. We cover: Why most people should having “no wipe” poops in 30 seconds or less - and how you can too The fiber craze and everything you need to know about it The ideal diet for bottoming The 3 types of butts How to have pain free, fun bottoming Why there’s so much shame around anal and why it’s pleasurable from an anatomy perspective Check out Dr. Goldstein’s book “Butt Seriously: The Definitive Guide to Anal Health, Pleasure and Everything In-Between” If this episode resonated, please share with two people who you believe it would benefit. Executive Producer Jordan Gonsalves Producers Amanda McLoughlin, Multitude Brandon Grugle, Multitude Editor Deanna Chapman Production & Publicity Franklin Benavides Morgan Jones Ben Lauer Dio Anthony Larry Colton Adam Berman Special thanks to: Chip Conley Larry Colton & John McCoy Mike Phillps & Jay Morton Bill Glenn & Scott Hafner Robert Holgate Jenny & Jude Gonsalves DeeDee Towery Kevin Palmer & Tom Ellicott Michael & Laura Werner Alex Berman & Alex Scotta Steve Houck Dave Koz David Beatty Paul Grossinger Randy Quebec Tom Viola Broadway Cares / Danny Whitman Julie Stampler David Vogel Brooke & Will Muggia Judi & David Issacson Reesa Manning Kathleen Salemi Cindy & Neil Lyon Anil Crasto Teresa Kersten Cary Berman Rhett Wilson Tom Emrich & Jonathan Carver Moore Nick Scandalious Dixie Webster Davis David Schutte Stuart Spencer Jay Kuo Ned Lustbader Ken Lustbader & Jay Kidd Susan & Joyce Lowenberg See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
August 19 · 43 min
Why You Need Shame To Find Your Purpose w/ Melissa Petro
Subscribe so you never miss an episode. Shame journalist Melissa Petro thinks almost all your problems are because of shame. She’s no stranger to it. She was once earning money as a call girl. Years later, she embarked on a healing journey that ended in her becoming a public school teacher. But the NY Post found out about her past, and embarked on a public shaming campaign against her that forced her to resign. Since being publicly humiliated, Melissa has become a student of shame: why it’s so prevalent in culture and why women are so susceptible to it. We cover: The life changing consequences women pay for higher rates of shame The 4 ways your nervous system responds to shame Was Taylor Frankie Paul a victim? Was Amber Heard? Melissa’s healing journey from sex worker to shame expert Why Donald Trump likely feels intense shame Why you need shame to live your best life Check out Melissa’s book “Shame on You: How to Be a Woman in the Age of Mortification” If this episode resonated, please share with someone who you believe it would benefit. Executive Producer Jordan Gonsalves Producers Amanda McLoughlin, Multitude Brandon Grugle, Multitude Editor Deanna Chapman Production & Publicity Franklin Benavides Morgan Jones Ben Lauer Dio Anthony Larry Colton Adam Berman Special thanks to: Chip Conley Larry Colton & John McCoy Mike Phillps & Jay Morton Bill Glenn & Scott Hafner Robert Holgate Jenny & Jude Gonsalves DeeDee Towery Kevin Palmer & Tom Ellicott Michael & Laura Werner Alex Berman & Alex Scotta Steve Houck Dave Koz David Beatty Paul Grossinger Randy Quebec Tom Viola Broadway Cares / Danny Whitman Julie Stampler David Vogel Brooke & Will Muggia Judi & David Issacson Reesa Manning Kathleen Salemi Cindy & Neil Lyon Anil Crasto Teresa Kersten Cary Berman Rhett Wilson Tom Emrich & Jonathan Carver Moore Nick Scandalious Dixie Webster Davis David Schutte Stuart Spencer Jay Kuo Ned Lustbader Ken Lustbader & Jay Kidd Susan & Joyce Lowenberg See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
August 12 · 43 min
Is OnlyFans Brainwashing Men to Quit Romance? w/ Gracie Canaan & Leon Neyfakh
Subscribe so you never miss an episode. Men are burning their cash to pay for OF. But why? I sat down with OF creator Gracie Canaan and legendary journalist Leon Neyfakh to find out. They just released an explosive podcast called “OnlyFantasy” exploring the psychology of OF and all the sides of it they don’t want you to know about. What they found is that OF is using shame to rewrite the rules of human intimacy. Watch to find out how. We cover: Why men would rather pay for OF than watch corn for free The mutli-million dollar secret industries that are being created by OnlyFans The disturbing rise of e-pimps How OF is changing modern dating forever Listen to OnlyFantasy here: https://open.spotify.com/show/3HmSbXPy9Ype5VXhAcQ6gd?si=1eb94f464b3d4d68 If this episode resonated, please share with someone who you believe it would benefit. Executive Producer Jordan Gonsalves Producers Amanda McLoughlin, Multitude Brandon Grugle, Multitude Editor Deanna Chapman Production & Publicity Franklin Benavides Morgan Jones Ben Lauer Dio Anthony Larry Colton Adam Berman Special thanks to: Chip Conley Larry Colton & John McCoy Mike Phillps & Jay Morton Bill Glenn & Scott Hafner Robert Holgate Jenny & Jude Gonsalves DeeDee Towery Kevin Palmer & Tom Ellicott Michael & Laura Werner Alex Berman & Alex Scotta Steve Houck Dave Koz David Beatty Paul Grossinger Randy Quebec Tom Viola Broadway Cares / Danny Whitman Julie Stampler David Vogel Brooke & Will Muggia Judi & David Issacson Reesa Manning Kathleen Salemi Cindy & Neil Lyon Anil Crasto Teresa Kersten Cary Berman Rhett Wilson Tom Emrich & Jonathan Carver Moore Nick Scandalious Dixie Webster Davis David Schutte Stuart Spencer Jay Kuo Ned Lustbader Ken Lustbader & Jay Kidd Susan & Joyce Lowenberg See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
August 5 · 47 min
America Doesn’t Value Family w/ Suzy Welch
I sat down with America’s #1 career expert Suzy Welch. Her approach to careers isn’t about resumes though; it’s about values. She has the best data set on human values in the world. I wanted to understand what her research could tell us about shame. We cover: Why only 7% of people know their values How you can become part of the 7% America’s #1 value isn’t what you think it is Why Only 2% of Gen Z is hirable The connection between values and shame THE 16 HUMAN VALUES 1. Agency: Need for self-determination and making decisions. 2. Scope: Desire for a big, chaotic, adventurous life versus a small, secure one. 3. Affluence: Importance of financial wealth and money. 4. Achievement: Drive for visible success and personal validation. 5. Belonging: Need for community, friends, and your people. 6. Belovedness: Value placed on romantic love. 7. Work Centrism: Making work the primary lens of your identity. 8. Family Centrism: Organizing your life and decisions around family. 9. Eudaimonia: Focus on self-care, personal wellbeing, pleasure, and fun. 10. Beholderism: Caring about how things and people look. 11. Radius: Drive to change or blow up large social systems. 12. Cosmos: Reliance on faith and spirituality. 13. Voice: Need to be heard and express yourself. 14. Luminance: An inner desire for wide recognition, fame, or legacy. 15. Nonsibi: The internal drive to give back, be altruistic, and help others. 16. Place: The deep importance and grounding of a specific physical location. TAKE THE VALUES BRIDGE ASSESSMENT If this episode resonated, please share with someone who you believe it would benefit. Executive Producer Jordan Gonsalves Producers Amanda McLoughlin, Multitude Brandon Grugle, Multitude Editor Deanna Chapman Production & Publicity Franklin Benavides Morgan Jones Ben Lauer Dio Anthony Larry Colton Adam Berman Special thanks to: Chip Conley Larry Colton & John McCoy Mike Phillps & Jay Morton Bill Glenn & Scott Hafner Robert Holgate Jenny & Jude Gonsalves DeeDee Towery Kevin Palmer & Tom Ellicott Michael & Laura Werner Alex Berman & Alex Scotta Steve Houck Dave Koz David Beatty Paul Grossinger Randy Quebec Tom Viola Broadway Cares / Danny Whitman Julie Stampler David Vogel Brooke & Will Muggia Judi & David Issacson Reesa Manning Kathleen Salemi Cindy & Neil Lyon Anil Crasto Teresa Kersten Cary Berman Rhett Wilson Tom Emrich & Jonathan Carver Moore Nick Scandalious Dixie Webster Davis David Schutte Stuart Spencer Jay Kuo Ned Lustbader Ken Lustbader & Jay Kidd Susan & Joyce Lowenberg See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
July 28 · 47 min
How to Heal From Shame w/ Tim Fletcher
I sat down with Tim Fletcher, a counselor and researcher specializing in Complex Trauma recovery with over 30 years of experience. The goal: how do we heal our shame and reclaim our lives? We cover: Why 100% of the Population Struggles with Shame The #1 thing to heal from shame How Shame Shows Up in Dating: Fawning and Self-Abandonment Why We Subconsciously Date People Like Our Parents How to Regulate Your Nervous System and Silencing the Inner Critic If this episode resonated, please share with someone who you believe it would benefit. Executive Producer Jordan Gonsalves Producers Amanda McLoughlin, Multitude Brandon Grugle, Multitude Editor Deanna Chapman Production & Publicity Franklin Benavides Morgan Jones Ben Lauer Dio Anthony Larry Colton Adam Berman Special thanks to: Chip Conley Larry Colton & John McCoy Mike Phillps & Jay Morton Bill Glenn & Scott Hafner Robert Holgate Jenny & Jude Gonsalves DeeDee Towery Kevin Palmer & Tom Ellicott Michael & Laura Werner Alex Berman & Alex Scotta Steve Houck Dave Koz David Beatty Paul Grossinger Randy Quebec Tom Viola Broadway Cares / Danny Whitman Julie Stampler David Vogel Brooke & Will Muggia Judi & David Issacson Reesa Manning Kathleen Salemi Cindy & Neil Lyon Anil Crasto Teresa Kersten Cary Berman Rhett Wilson Tom Emrich & Jonathan Carver Moore Nick Scandalious Dixie Webster Davis David Schutte Stuart Spencer Jay Kuo Ned Lustbader Ken Lustbader & Jay Kidd Susan & Joyce Lowenberg See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
July 22 · 53 min
How to Talk to Strangers w/ Markian B
Subscribe so you never miss an episode. I sat down with legendary YouTuber Markian B about how to talk to strangers. His entire brand and life story has been built on understanding what belonging is and how to find it. His biggest tip: talk to strangers more. Talking to strangers is our best chance at finding our people and finding ourselves. We cover: Why talking to strangers in person is a life hack How to talk to strangers The best prompts to start a conversation How to overcome the fear of rejection and judgment How to stop identifying with your feelings The work required to build authentic friendships Why you should smile at strangers more What is belonging How to make inner peace your north star If this episode resonated, please share with someone who you believe it would benefit. Executive Producer Jordan Gonsalves Producers Amanda McLoughlin, Multitude Brandon Grugle, Multitude Editor Deanna Chapman Production & Publicity Franklin Benavides Morgan Jones Ben Lauer Dio Anthony Larry Colton Adam Berman Special thanks to: Chip Conley Larry Colton & John McCoy Mike Phillps & Jay Morton Bill Glenn & Scott Hafner Robert Holgate Jenny & Jude Gonsalves DeeDee Towery Kevin Palmer & Tom Ellicott Michael & Laura Werner Alex Berman & Alex Scotta Steve Houck Dave Koz David Beatty Paul Grossinger Randy Quebec Tom Viola Broadway Cares / Danny Whitman Julie Stampler David Vogel Brooke & Will Muggia Judi & David Issacson Reesa Manning Kathleen Salemi Cindy & Neil Lyon Anil Crasto Teresa Kersten Cary Berman Rhett Wilson Tom Emrich & Jonathan Carver Moore Nick Scandalious Dixie Webster Davis David Schutte Stuart Spencer Jay Kuo Ned Lustbader Ken Lustbader & Jay Kidd Susan & Joyce Lowenberg See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
July 15 · 58 min
Gen Z’s Church Revival w/ Lauren Jackson
Subscribe so you never miss an episode. I sat down with New York Times spirituality journalist and host of the Believing newsletter Lauren Jackson. We talked about what's really driving the cultural movement back to church. Headlines like "Gen Z’s Catholic Revival" and "Young Adults Packing the Pews" have flooded our feeds. I myself decided to go back to church? But what's driving it? We cover: The surprising data that contradicts the "religious revival" headlines How AI is capitalizing on America’s longing for God What MAGA and the Eras Tour have in common The benefits of religion and the costs Why women who attend church are less likely to die of cancer Why countries like Indonesia and the Philippines outrank the US on human flourishing — despite being far less wealthy How this movement will impact America’s politics and how it already has If this resonated, please share it with someone who is still searching. Executive Producer Jordan Gonsalves Producers Amanda McLoughlin, Multitude Brandon Grugle, Multitude Editor Deanna Chapman Production & Publicity Franklin Benavides Morgan Jones Ben Lauer Dio Anthony Larry Colton Adam Berman Special thanks to: Chip Conley Larry Colton & John McCoy Mike Phillps & Jay Morton Bill Glenn & Scott Hafner Robert Holgate Jenny & Jude Gonsalves DeeDee Towery Kevin Palmer & Tom Ellicott Michael & Laura Werner Alex Berman & Alex Scotta Steve Houck Dave Koz David Beatty Paul Grossinger Randy Quebec Tom Viola Broadway Cares / Danny Whitman Julie Stampler David Vogel Brooke & Will Muggia Judi & David Issacson Reesa Manning Kathleen Salemi Cindy & Neil Lyon Anil Crasto Teresa Kersten Cary Berman Rhett Wilson Tom Emrich & Jonathan Carver Moore Nick Scandalious Dixie Webster Davis David Schutte Stuart Spencer Jay Kuo Ned Lustbader Ken Lustbader & Jay Kidd Susan & Joyce Lowenberg See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
July 8 · 1 hr 8 min
The Anxious-Avoidant Trap w/ Kati Morton
Subscribe so you never miss an episode! Do you feel either anxious or suffocated in your relationship? Then this episode is for you. I sat down with licensed marriage and family therapist Kati Morton to discuss attachment styles. She explains why we are constantly chasing emotionally unavailable partners, how we can finally break that cycle, the biggest dating green & red flags in dating and more. We cover: Why less than 10% of the population grows up with a secure attachment style How your romantic attachment style is completely formed within the first five years of your life The "anxious-avoidant trap" and why toxic relationships feel like high highs and low lows Why feeling intense "butterflies" on a first date is actually a massive red flag The deep connection between childhood emotional neglect, shame, and the fear of expressing your needs The exact steps to heal your attachment style If this resonated, please share it with someone who is on their unshaming journey. Executive Producer Jordan Gonsalves Producers Amanda McLoughlin, Multitude Brandon Grugle, Multitude Editor Deanna Chapman Production, Publicity, & Board Franklin Benavides Morgan Jones Ben Lauer Dio Anthony Larry Colton Adam Berman See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
July 1 · 48 min
The Predatory Forces Behind Credit Card Debt w/ Debt Heads
Subscribe so you never miss an episode! Are you or a loved one in credit card debt? Then this episode is for you. I sat down with debt journalists Jamie Feldman and Rachel Gayle Webster to discuss the biggest finding from their year-long investigation into America’s $2.27T credit card debt crisis. They host the award winning podcast Debt Heads, which chronicles their investigation in debt. And the villain isn’t who you think. We cover: Why the economy literally depends on you staying in debt The 1978 Supreme Court decision that created America's debt crisis (Marquette National Bank of Minneapolis v. First of Omaha Service Corp.) Why the "get out of debt" industry needs you to stay in debt How your childhood shapes your relationship with money before you were old enough to know it The hidden connection between debt, shame, and belonging How to stop blaming yourself and start seeing the full picture If this resonated, please share it with someone who is on their unshaming journey. Executive Producer Jordan Gonsalves Producers Amanda McLoughlin, Multitude Brandon Grugle, Multitude Editor Deanna Chapman Production, Publicity, & Board Franklin Benavides Morgan Jones Ben Lauer Dio Anthony Larry Colton Adam Berman See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
June 24 · 1 hr 11 min
Sexless Relationships w/ Ian Kerner
Subscribe so you never miss an episode! Do you have sex/intimacy issues? Then this episode is for you. I was in a sexless relationship with my dream man. For years, I couldn’t understand what I did wrong, until this conversation. I sat down with Ian Kerner, sex expert and licensed psychotherapist specializing in sex. He’s the author of the New York Times best-selling book She Comes First (Harper Collins) which has changed so many of friend’s sex lives. But I discovered through his last book which really changed my outlook on sex. It’s called So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex. We cover: The #1 sex issue couples face Why porn might actually be a good thing How to build your sexual intelligence Why most of us go into sex only 50% aroused How to talk to your partner about sex when shame makes it feel impossible Why men in their 20s have more ED than men in their 50s and 60s How to fix your sex issues If this resonated, please share it with someone who is on their unshaming journey! Executive Producer Jordan Gonsalves Producers Amanda McLoughlin, Multitude Brandon Grugle, Multitude Editor Deanna Chapman Production, Publicity, & Board Franklin Benavides Morgan Jones Ben Lauer Dio Anthony Larry Colton Adam Berman Special thanks to: Chip Conley Larry Colton & John McCoy Mike Phillps & Jay Morton Bill Glenn & Scott Hafner Robert Holgate Jenny & Jude Gonsalves DeeDee Towery Kevin Palmer & Tom Ellicott Michael & Laura Werner Alex Berman & Alex Scotta Steve Houck Dave Koz David Beatty Paul Grossinger Randy Quebec Tom Viola Broadway Cares / Danny Whitman Julie Stampler David Vogel Brooke & Will Muggia Judi & David Issacson Reesa Manning Kathleen Salemi Cindy & Neil Lyon Anil Crasto Teresa Kersten Cary Berman Rhett Wilson Tom Emrich & Jonathan Carver Moore Nick Scandalious Dixie Webster Davis David Schutte Stuart Spencer Jay Kuo Ned Lustbader Ken Lustbader & Jay Kidd Susan & Joyce Lowenberg See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
June 17 · 58 min
Homophobia in the Catholic Church w/ Father James Martin
If religion ever made you feel like you didn't belong, this episode is for you. I grew up gay, Catholic, and deeply ashamed. And most of my shame points back to the church. For the very first episode of Unshaming, I sat down with the one person who started to change that for me — Father Jim Martin, one of the most outspoken advocates for LGBT people in the Catholic Church today. He is also the author of a new book called Work in Progress and leads “Outreach”, the ministry bringing LGBTQ Catholics back to the Church. He has over 1 million followers across social media and has become one of the most important and controversial figures in American Catholicism. What we cover: Religious trauma origin stories The Church's treatment of LGBTQ people Why the transactional God doesn’t exist The recent sexual abuse settlements Father Jim grieving his mother who passed away this year Forgiveness and mercy If this resonated, please share it with someone who is on their unshaming journey, and subscribe so you never miss an episode! Executive Producer Jordan Gonsalves Producers Amanda McLoughlin, Multitude Brandon Grugle, Multitude Editor Deanna Chapman, Multitude Production & Publicity Franklin Benavides Morgan Jones Ben Lauer Dio Anthony Larry Colton Adam Berman Special thanks to: Chip Conley Larry Colton & John McCoy Mike Phillps & Jay Morton Bill Glenn & Scott Hafner Robert Holgate Jenny & Jude Gonsalves DeeDee Towery Kevin Palmer & Tom Ellicott Michael & Laura Werner Alex Berman & Alex Scotta Steve Houck Dave Koz David Beatty Paul Grossinger Randy Quebec Tom Viola Broadway Cares / Danny Whitman Julie Stampler David Vogel Brooke & Will Muggia Judi & David Issacson Reesa Manning Kathleen Salemi Cindy & Neil Lyon Anil Crasto Teresa Kersten Cary Berman Rhett Wilson Tom Emrich & Jonathan Carver Moore Nick Scandalious Dixie Webster Davis David Schutte Stuart Spencer Jay Kuo Ned Lustbader Ken Lustbader & Jay Kidd Susan & Joyce Lowenberg See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
June 10 · 51 sec
Unshaming Trailer
If you’ve ever felt judged or like you’ve had to hide who you are, you’re invited to the Unshaming dinner party. A place where you are safe to be your authentic self and where your curiosity knows no limits. Hosted by journalist Jordan Gonsalves, we’ll have raw conversations with experts and storytellers to explore how shame is quietly shaping our relationships, our culture, our sense of self - and what becomes possible when we stop hiding and start belonging. Dinner’s ready. Weekly episodes drop 6/17 on YouTube. Subscribe now! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Jun 20, 2022 · 1 hr 21 min
Sex & Dating Advice, Unshaming Style
Send us Fan Mail Answering your sex & dating questions! Don't get too excited... you're getting #unshaming advice. Letter 1 — 3:56 Letter 2 — 31:30 Letter 3 — 47:21 Shenny De Los Angeles returns to the pod this episode. She is an actress, activist, and poet. Engage with her here. Shenny’s instagram: Shenny’s email where you can write to her: shennyangeles@gmail.com #StayUnshaming with us at instagram.com/unshaming and unshamingpodcast.com. Email us your unshaming questions and stories at unshamingpodcast@gmail.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
May 25, 2022 · 47 min
The Unshaming Journey: Forgiveness, Anger, and Safeness
Send us Fan Mail Wtf does unshaming even mean?! We dive into it all in this episode. Nikila Cranage, host of Bad Behavior Podcast, joins the show. In this episode, we reference Jor's unshaming journey. You can listen to his episode on the shame of being gay here. We also reference an episode of the Oprah Winfrey Show about forgiveness — watch that here. TW: this episode briefly touches on sexual abuse. #StayUnshaming with us at instagram.com/unshaming and unshamingpodcast.com. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Apr 22, 2022 · 38 min
Shame of Being Gay & Royal (With Prince Manvendra)
Send us Fan Mail A glimpse into the royal life of a prince... Prince Manvendra's family is part of a 600 year dynasty in India. Learn more about him below: NY Times article Prince Manvendra on the Oprah Show #StayUnshaming with us at instagram.com/unshaming and unshamingpodcast.com. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Aug 16, 2021 · 34 min
Season 2 Finale: The Lessons of Adventure
Send us Fan Mail Unshaming returns in Fall 2021! You can #StayUnshaming with us instagram.com/unshaming and unshamingpodcast.com. Join us for this powerful conversation with host Jordan Gonsalves on grief, intuition, validation from social media, and following your dreams. Thank you for a fabulous Season 2. You can support Unshaming at patreon.com/unshaming. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Aug 3, 2021 · 46 min
Shame of Serious Mental Illness
Send us Fan Mail This episode contains discussion around sexual abuse and suicide. Victoria Lee is a fiction author, PhD Psychologist, and neuroscientist. She also lives with Psychotic Depression. Her work centers around representing people with mental illnesses as folks who have the same hopes and dreams as everyone else. Her new novel, A Lesson in Vengeance. does just that. If you or someone you know is being or has been sexually abused, and would like help, please find resources below: National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1.800.656.HOPE Chat with a trained specialist RAINN.org Resources for survivors and allies You can support Unshaming at patreon.com/unshaming. #StayUnshaming with us at instagram.com/unshaming and unshamingpodcast.com. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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