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Sue Patterson

The Unschooling Mom2Mom podcast is a quick conversation with Sue Patterson, coach, author, and mother of 3 grown unschoolers. Sue shares inspiration and tips to help you find the unschooling confidence you're looking for!
Even if you’re more of a “homeschooler” than an “unschooler,” these 10 minute(ish) podcasts can help you find more joy in parenting, educating and connecting with your children!
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  • S6 · E228
    Yesterday · 10 min

    You Don’t Need Curriculum to Make Learning Happen | 228

    Looking for fun homeschooling ideas that don’t require curriculum? Discover how unschooling and strewing help children learn naturally through everyday activities and interests. Your September Calendar is ready for you! In this episode, Sue explores how learning can weave through playful September possibilities—from making Rice Krispie treats to investigating rabbits or noticing the changing daylight around the Autumn Equinox. She explains how strewing introduces interesting ideas without assigning lessons, controlling the outcome, or requiring every activity to become a major project. You’ll also hear how the Strewing Calendar makes this easier with a printable monthly calendar, daily links and ideas, and learning objectives that help parents recognize—or document—the academics already woven through real life. Your children don’t need days packed with educational activities. They need an interesting life with plenty of possibilities. Learn more about the Strewing Calendar: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/strewing-calendars Explore Creating Confidence Community Support: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/creating-confidence-sign-up Let me know what you think of this! Support the show _____________________________________________________ You don't have to do this alone. Try Creating Confidence free for 7 days. Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best. Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community. Come spend a week with us! Creating Confidence Options UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue Stay Connected: Free Email List with weekly unschooling resources www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com

  • S6 · E227
    Thursday · 11 min

    How to Stay Confident About Unschooling—Before a Crisis Hits | 227

    Looking for unschooling support that will help you stay confident without adding another overwhelming plan or curriculum to your life? In this episode, Sue Patterson explains how a simple daily “unschooling workout” can protect your confidence from the school-centered messages surrounding you. You’ll hear: Why unschooling confidence can disappear even when everything is going well How school expectations gradually creep back into our thinking Why you shouldn’t wait for a crisis to reconnect with unschooling How two or three minutes a day can strengthen your perspective Why connecting with other unschooling parents matters—even if you’re an introvert How to decide between Creating Confidence Daily and Full Community Support Both membership options are changing after Labor Day. Join Creating Confidence Daily by September 7, 2026, to lock in the introductory price of $8.99/month or $60/year. Want coaching from Sue and support from an experienced unschooling community? Join Full Community Support before Labor Day to lock in the current month-to-month price of $49/month. Listen to the previous episode (#226) for the story behind Sue’s “little unschooling experiment”—and why new members can benefit from it now. Find both membership options in the link below. https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/creating-confidence-sign-up Let me know what you think of this! Support the show _____________________________________________________ You don't have to do this alone. Try Creating Confidence free for 7 days. Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best. Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community. Come spend a week with us! Creating Confidence Options UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue Stay Connected: Free Email List with weekly unschooling resources www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com

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  • S6 · E226
    August 25 · 8 min

    Six Months Ago, I Tried An Unschooling Experiment | 226

    Daily unschooling support can help homeschooling parents build confidence before doubts, comparisons, and outside pressure take over. Six months ago, I created a small Daily Support app as an experiment. Those one- or two-minute morning voice notes became something much more useful than I expected. In this episode, I’m sharing: Why brief, daily support can have such a powerful impact How unschooling confidence can quietly erode when life gets busy Why we shouldn’t wait for a crisis to reconnect with what we believe What Daily Support has grown to include The new Creating Confidence — Daily and Full Support options Creating Confidence pricing changes on Labor Day. Join before then to keep the current monthly rate: Daily Support: $8.99/month Full Community Support: $49/month Choose your support: Here https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/creating-confidence-sign-up Maybe tomorrow morning, we’ll have our coffee together. ☕️ Read the transcript here https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/daily-unschooling-support Let me know what you think of this! Support the show _____________________________________________________ You don't have to do this alone. Try Creating Confidence free for 7 days. Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best. Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community. Come spend a week with us! Creating Confidence Options UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue Stay Connected: Free Email List with weekly unschooling resources www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com

  • S6 · E225
    August 21 · 6 min

    School Refusal: A Mom-to-Mom Reframe When Your Kid Is Miserable | 225

    My Kid Won't Go Back to School — What If We Didn't Make Them? Every school-refusal article this week says the same thing: watch for the warning signs, then find gentler ways to get your kid back in the building. But what if that's not the only option? In this episode, Sue talks — mom to mom — about the real question underneath the panic of school refusal: not "how do I get compliance," but "what if my kid's distress is actually information worth listening to?" Sue shares her own story of never planning to homeschool, why "unschooling" doesn't have to be a scary word or an identity you adopt, and why a plan that wasn't working at school probably won't magically work at your kitchen table either. If you're standing at the edge of a decision you never expected to be making, this episode is for you. Want to talk it through? Book a free call with Sue — no program, no pitch, just mom to mom: Use this link for a 30-minute Quick Call: https://suepatterson.as.me/Quick-30 New episodes exploring what comes after this decision — coming soon. Follow the show so you don't miss them. Let me know what you think of this! Support the show _____________________________________________________ You don't have to do this alone. Try Creating Confidence free for 7 days. Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best. Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community. Come spend a week with us! Creating Confidence Options UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue Stay Connected: Free Email List with weekly unschooling resources www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com

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  • S6 · E224
    August 18 · 7 min

    The School Year Is Starting Without Us—Why Does It Feel So Weird? | 224

    The school year is starting, but your child isn’t going back. Even when homeschooling is the right decision, back-to-school season can stir up doubt, mixed feelings, and the urge to suddenly make a bigger plan. In this episode, we talk about why August can feel so strange when your family steps outside the school calendar, why your child may miss parts of school without wanting to return, and how old school expectations can creep into your thinking before you realize it. If you’re new to homeschooling or unschooling and wondering why this transition feels harder than expected, this episode will help you recognize what’s really happening—and why you don’t need to rush to recreate school at home. Not Back to School 7-Day Challenge If you’re ready for some help figuring out what comes next, join me for the Not Back to School 7-Day Challenge. We’ll spend a week looking at: how your home and your days can support this new way of living how to recognize the learning already happening which school expectations you may still be carrying with you how to handle outside questions and opinions how to create a beginning that actually fits your family Join the challenge: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/nbts-challenge Let me know what you think of this! Support the show _____________________________________________________ You don't have to do this alone. Try Creating Confidence free for 7 days. Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best. Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community. Come spend a week with us! Creating Confidence Options UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue Stay Connected: Free Email List with weekly unschooling resources www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com

  • S6 · E223
    August 13 · 12 min

    My Child Isn’t Going Back to School—Now What? | 223

    Is your child not going back to school? Here’s how to start homeschooling—or explore unschooling—without rushing into curriculum or recreating school at home. Once you’ve made the decision to leave school, a new worry often moves in: What are we supposed to do now? In this episode, Sue Patterson shares five practical ways to begin: Handle your state’s legal requirements without mistaking them for an educational plan Consider what your child may need to recover from after leaving school Avoid letting fear rush you into curriculum, rigid schedules, and too many commitments Collaborate with your child as you figure out what comes next Expect the doubts that can surface when everyone else goes back to school You don’t need to become a homeschooling expert or understand unschooling perfectly before you begin. You need time to reconnect, observe your child, and create an approach that fits your actual family. Help for Parents If your child isn’t going back to school and you’re wondering what happens next, the Not Back to School 7-Day Challenge will help you take those first steps with more clarity and confidence. https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/nbts-challenge Go straight to sign up: https://cc.unschoolingmom2mom.com/checkout/not-back-to-school-challenge For ongoing coaching, resources, and support from other unschooling parents, explore the Creating Confidence Membership. https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/creating-confidence-sign-up Let me know what you think of this! Support the show _____________________________________________________ You don't have to do this alone. Try Creating Confidence free for 7 days. Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best. Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community. Come spend a week with us! Creating Confidence Options UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue Stay Connected: Free Email List with weekly unschooling resources www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com

  • S6 · E222
    July 30 · 10 min

    The Cons of Unschooling: Where Homeschooling Parents Need to Pivot | 222

    A recent Parents.com article explaining the pros and cons of unschooling raises an important question: Are these really problems with unschooling—or signs that we’re still defining learning through a school lens? In this episode, Sue Patterson looks at the concerns raised about basic skills, parental involvement, free time, and schedules—and explores where homeschooling parents may need to pivot. Are children really learning only when they’re completing lessons? Does making them study subjects they dislike prepare them for the future? And what might they lose when their curiosity is repeatedly interrupted by an adult’s curriculum checklist? We’ll also explore what involved unschooling parenting actually looks like—and why starting with the learner may make more sense in today’s world than starting with a predetermined body of knowledge. If you’re ready to move away from the school version of learning but aren’t sure what to do next, Unschooling 101 and Learning Math Without Curriculum can help. Both courses are included in the Unschooling Starter Bundle for $99 through July. Find the Unschooling Starter Bundle: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/product/Unschooling-Starter-Bundle More about the July Special: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/build-your-unschooling-confidence Let me know what you think of this! Support the show _____________________________________________________ You don't have to do this alone. Try Creating Confidence free for 7 days. Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best. Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community. Come spend a week with us! Creating Confidence Options UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue Stay Connected: Free Email List with weekly unschooling resources www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com

  • S6 · E221
    July 27 · 5 min

    Unschooling Course or Resource Library: Which One Fits You? #221

    Would an unschooling course you can work through step by step—or a library of resources you can pull from when you need them—fit you better? Some unschooling parents want a clear path they can follow from beginning to end. Others want trusted help waiting for them when questions about deschooling, technology, math, or doing enough appear. In this short episode, Sue explains the difference between two kinds of self-paced unschooling support: • The Unschooling Starter Bundle—with Unschooling 101 and Learning Math Without Curriculum • The Unschooling Parent Toolkit—with all 25 unschooling guides Both options are $99 through July 31. See both options and choose the one that fits you: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/build-your-unschooling-confidence Let me know what you think of this! Support the show _____________________________________________________ You don't have to do this alone. Try Creating Confidence free for 7 days. Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best. Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community. Come spend a week with us! Creating Confidence Options UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue Stay Connected: Free Email List with weekly unschooling resources www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com

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  • S6 · E220
    July 24 · 10 min

    Maybe Timelines Are Why Unschooling Feels So Hard | 220

    Why does it feel like unschooling isn’t working—even when you can see learning happening? The problem may be the school timelines you’re still using to measure your child. Many homeschooling and unschooling parents worry that their children aren’t reading, doing math, becoming independent, or preparing for the future soon enough. We may have left school behind, but its milestones can still shape how we define progress—and turn ordinary uncertainty into fear. In this episode, Sue looks at why timelines make unschooling so difficult to trust, how today’s concern can become a frightening story about the future, and what parents can use instead of grade levels and curriculum benchmarks. Through July: Get Unschooling 101 and Learning Math Without Curriculum together for $99. Learn how to reframe education and put learning without curriculum into practice. https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/product/Unschooling-Starter-Bundle Let me know what you think of this! Support the show _____________________________________________________ You don't have to do this alone. Try Creating Confidence free for 7 days. Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best. Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community. Come spend a week with us! Creating Confidence Options UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue Stay Connected: Free Email List with weekly unschooling resources www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com

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  • S6 · E219
    July 16 · 13 min

    Is My Child Behind? Or Am I Using the Wrong Timeline? | 219

    Is your child really behind... or are you comparing them to the wrong timeline? When we leave school, do we have to carry the school's timeline with us? Doesn't the freedom to learn outside a classroom give us a different way to measure growth? In this episode, we're exploring one of the most common fears homeschooling and unschooling parents face: the worry that their child is falling behind. But before we answer that question, I want to challenge the assumptions behind it. If you've ever found yourself wondering whether your child is learning enough, reading soon enough, or keeping pace with everyone else, this conversation will help you see learning—and your child—through a different lens. If this episode has you looking at your own child a little differently, you may have questions that are unique to your family. That's exactly what we talk through inside my Creating Confidence Community. https://cc.unschoolingmom2mom.com/checkout/creating-confidence-membership Every week, parents bring questions about reading, math, teenagers, motivation, transcripts, screens... and yes, those worries about whether their child is "behind." If you'd like to experience those conversations for yourself, I'd love to invite you to come spend a week with us. You can join a coaching call, meet other unschooling parents, browse the resource library, or simply listen in. Your first week is free, so you'll have plenty of time to see whether it's the kind of support you've been looking for. I hope to see you there. Let me know what you think of this! Support the show _____________________________________________________ You don't have to do this alone. Try Creating Confidence free for 7 days. Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best. Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community. Come spend a week with us! Creating Confidence Options UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue Stay Connected: Free Email List with weekly unschooling resources www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com

  • S6 · E218
    July 8 · 7 min

    Why Summer Makes Homeschooling Parents Rush to Plan | 218

    Summer has a funny way of making homeschooling parents feel like they should have a plan. Even unschooling parents can start worrying about filling the time, finding a routine, or doing... more. Being between one school year and the next can feel surprisingly uncomfortable. Maybe it's the extra space. In this episode, we're exploring why those in-between seasons make us want to rush into decisions—to buy something, fix something, or make a plan—and why slowing down to observe your child may bring more clarity than planning ever could. It's almost as if creating a plan will fill the space and stop the worrying. Read at the Blog: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/summer-the-in-between-season NEW! Try Sue's Creating Confidence Community for a week - for Free! https://cc.unschoolingmom2mom.com/checkout/creating-confidence-membership Let me know what you think of this! Support the show _____________________________________________________ You don't have to do this alone. Try Creating Confidence free for 7 days. Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best. Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community. Come spend a week with us! Creating Confidence Options UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue Stay Connected: Free Email List with weekly unschooling resources www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com

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  • S6 · E217
    July 6 · 8 min

    When Your Kid Won't Get Off Screens: Why It Turns Into a Battle | 217

    When your kid won't get off screens, even a simple request can quickly turn into a battle. Many homeschooling and unschooling parents find themselves caught in this frustrating pattern. What starts as "time for dinner" or "we need to leave" suddenly becomes an argument, leaving everyone wondering why it escalated so quickly. In this episode, Sue Patterson explores why screen time battles happen, what children experience when they're deeply engaged in gaming, and how understanding those transitions can help reduce conflict without relying on more rules or consequences. In this episode you'll learn: Why screen time battles escalate so quickly What children experience when they're deeply engaged in video games and gaming Why transitions away from screens can feel so difficult How repeated conflicts create predictable family patterns Practical ways to reduce power struggles around screen time Why understanding your child's perspective often changes everything Whether you're homeschooling, unschooling, or simply trying to create a healthier relationship with screens, this episode will help you understand why these moments happen—and how to make them feel less like a battle. Read transcript at the blog: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/when-your-kid-wont-get-off-screens-why-it-turns-into-a-battle Let me know what you think of this! Support the show _____________________________________________________ You don't have to do this alone. Try Creating Confidence free for 7 days. Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best. Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community. Come spend a week with us! Creating Confidence Options UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue Stay Connected: Free Email List with weekly unschooling resources www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com

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  • S6 · E216
    June 23 · 6 min

    Making Homeschooling Decisions Out of Fear | 216

    What if fear is influencing more of your homeschooling decisions than you realize? When we're anxious about our children's future, it's easy to mistake fear for wisdom and urgency for insight. In this episode, Sue Patterson explores how fear can cloud our judgment, shape our homeschooling decisions, and make it difficult to separate what we're actually observing from what we're afraid might happen. If you've ever wondered whether you're responding to your child—or to your fear—this episode is for you. Need help sorting through your specific situation? Throughout June, Sue's 30-minute coaching calls are half price. Sometimes a conversation can help you separate what's actually happening from what fear is telling you might happen. http://www.suepatterson.as.me/june-special ________________________________ Read the transcript here: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/making-homeschooling-decisions-out-of-fear Let me know what you think of this! Support the show _____________________________________________________ You don't have to do this alone. Try Creating Confidence free for 7 days. Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best. Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community. Come spend a week with us! Creating Confidence Options UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue Stay Connected: Free Email List with weekly unschooling resources www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com

  • S6 · E215
    June 19 · 11 min

    Can Video Games Count as High School Credit? | 215

    They're playing all the time - is there anything worthwhile that we can count for homeschooling transcript? The answer may surprise you. In this episode, Sue Patterson explores how gaming can support learning in subjects like history, science, math, philosophy, leadership, and communication—and shares real examples of how those experiences can be documented on a transcript. Many parents worry that gaming is "just entertainment," especially when their teen spends hours immersed in Minecraft, Civilization, Kerbal Space Program, Factorio, Discord communities, or competitive gaming. But when you look beyond the label and focus on what a student is actually learning, a very different picture begins to emerge. In this episode, you'll discover: • How to identify academic learning hidden inside gaming interests • Real examples of transcript-worthy subjects connected to video games • Why philosophy, ethics, history, science, and math often show up through gaming • How leadership and communication skills develop in online communities • Why "video games" isn't a course title—but can lead to many legitimate high school credits • Tips for translating interest-led learning into transcript language Whether you're homeschooling, unschooling, or creating a non-traditional high school transcript, this episode will help you recognize learning that may already be happening right in front of you. UNSCHOOLING RESOURCES MENTIONED: Unschooling Transcript Course https://suepatterson-unschooling.thinkific.com/courses/unschooling-transcripts Creating Confidence Daily APP - Talking about Technology this month! https://cc.unschoolingmom2mom.com/checkout/creating-confidence-daily Creating Confidence COMMUNITY - Full Support for the journey! https://cc.unschoolingmom2mom.com/checkout/creating-confidence-membership-2 If you've ever wondered how to document gaming, screen time, or interest-led learning on a high school transcript, this episode is for you. Let me know what you think of this! Support the show _____________________________________________________ You don't have to do this alone. Try Creating Confidence free for 7 days. Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best. Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community. Come spend a week with us! Creating Confidence Options UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue Stay Connected: Free Email List with weekly unschooling resources www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com

  • S6 · E214
    June 12 · 5 min

    Are Homeschooling Questions Stealing Your Summer? | 214

    Are you wondering whether it's time to make a change in your child's education? Many parents spend the whole summer questioning what's working, what's not, and whether a different approach to learning might be a better fit for their family. Some are considering leaving the school system. Others are rethinking traditional homeschooling. Still others are exploring unschooling for the first time. They aren't just looking for answers about academics, motivation, socialization, or learning gaps. They're trying to decide what comes next—and what they need to know before making a change. In this episode of Unschooling Mom2Mom, Sue Patterson explores the questions parents often ask when considering homeschooling, unschooling, or a more individualized approach to learning, and shares how coaching can help families move forward with greater clarity and confidence. You'll hear stories from parents who: • Had a teen who seemed interested only in gaming • Felt like their child didn't fit the traditional homeschooling mold • Were curious about unschooling but afraid to make the leap • Needed reassurance that they weren't ruining their children • Wanted a clearer path forward before the new school year began Whether you're new to homeschooling, curious about unschooling, transitioning away from curriculum, or simply looking for reassurance, this episode will help you approach the new school year with more confidence and less stress. Special Resource mentioned: • 1:1 Coaching Calls (50% off during June) Let me know what you think of this! Support the show _____________________________________________________ You don't have to do this alone. Try Creating Confidence free for 7 days. Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best. Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community. Come spend a week with us! Creating Confidence Options UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue Stay Connected: Free Email List with weekly unschooling resources www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com

  • S6 · E213
    May 18 · 6 min

    What Really Prepares Kids for Adulthood? | 213

    Are we preparing kids for adulthood… or preparing them for school expectations? Parents worry about grades, gaps, transcripts, screen time, and whether their kids will be successful adults. But real adult life often depends on something else entirely: adaptability, communication, confidence, initiative, emotional regulation, and problem solving. In this episode, Sue Patterson explores how real-life experiences, play, curiosity, gaming, technology, and pursuing interests can help kids develop the skills they actually need for adulthood. Also: why school expectations still shape our fears how unschooling builds real-world problem-solving skills the difference between memorizing information and learning how to navigate life reducing power struggles around technology helping parents feel more confident taking an unconventional path If you’ve ever wondered whether unschooling truly prepares kids for adult life, this episode will help you rethink what “life prep” really means. → Creating Confidence Community and Daily Confidence App: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/creating-confidence-sign-up → Read transcript at the blog https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/the-life-prep-unschooling-homeschooling-kids-really-need Let me know what you think of this! Support the show _____________________________________________________ You don't have to do this alone. Try Creating Confidence free for 7 days. Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best. Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community. Come spend a week with us! Creating Confidence Options UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue Stay Connected: Free Email List with weekly unschooling resources www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com

  • S6 · E212
    May 7 · 9 min

    The Mother's Day Fairy - For Unschooling Moms! | 212

    Mother's Day can be a lot of things — wonderful, disappointing, emotional, or somewhere in between. For unschooling and homeschooling moms, there's an added twist: your kids aren't sitting in a classroom getting reminded to make something for you. No teacher. No craft. No school newsletter nudging dad to pick up flowers. So this year? You become the Mother's Day Fairy. 🧚‍♀️ In this episode, Sue Patterson — mom to three now-grown unschooled kids and founder of Unschooling Mom2Mom — shares why unschooling really is a Mother's Movement, and how you can reclaim Mother's Day so it actually fits YOU and your family. You'll hear: Why waiting and seeing is a recipe for disappointment The Mother's Day Fairy concept and how to make it a family tradition A practical night-before checklist so the day doesn't just arrive like a regular Sunday Why appreciation is an inside job — and what to do about it How to set your kids up for success without doing it all for them Whether your Mother's Day has been wonderful, meh, or a total flop in the past — this episode will help you create something that actually feels good. No comparisons. No "what will people think." Just a day that fits the actual humans in your family. Because that's what unschoolers do. 🌸 Resources mentioned in this episode: The Mother's Day Collection Page — bookmarkable, comes back every year: UnschoolingMom2Mom.com/mothersday Mother's Day Fairy Checklist @blog: Link Mother's Day Songs Playlist on YouTube: Link Mother's Day Playlist on Spotify: Link Printables for Kids or Moms: Links Bazillion Memes to share with other moms: Link Join the Unschooling Mom2Mom App Community Try it for FREE for 7 days Let me know what you think of this! Support the show _____________________________________________________ You don't have to do this alone. Try Creating Confidence free for 7 days. Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best. Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community. Come spend a week with us! Creating Confidence Options UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue Stay Connected: Free Email List with weekly unschooling resources www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com

  • S6 · E211
    May 5 · 13 min

    What Does an Unschooling Day Look Like? Real-Life Examples by Age | 211

    What does an unschooling day actually look like? If you’ve been searching for a routine, a schedule, or some kind of structure you can follow… and keep coming up empty, this episode will give you something more useful. Instead of a rigid plan, we’re walking through real-life examples of unschooling days—what it looks like for younger kids, older kids, and teens—and why it can feel so unstructured (even when learning is happening all day long). Inside this episode: What unschooling looks like in real life (by age) Why “structure” feels missing at first How learning shows up without curriculum What’s actually happening during gaming, YouTube, and downtime How to recognize patterns, rhythms, and progress This is the shift most parents need: From trying to create structure… to learning how to see it. If your days feel open-ended, uncertain, or like you’re “not doing enough,” this will help you reframe what’s really going on. 🎧 Want daily support like this? The Creating Confidence Daily app gives you short, practical voice notes each day to help you stop second-guessing and feel more grounded in your unschooling. Try it free for 7 days. 📝 Prefer to read or revisit this later? You can find the full transcript on the blog. Looking for those Seasonal Unschooling Guides Sue mentioned? See all 4 Guides here. Let me know what you think of this! Support the show _____________________________________________________ You don't have to do this alone. Try Creating Confidence free for 7 days. Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best. Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community. Come spend a week with us! Creating Confidence Options UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue Stay Connected: Free Email List with weekly unschooling resources www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com

  • S6 · E210
    April 28 · 7 min

    Is Unschooling Enough? What it looks like day to day | 210

    What does unschooling look like day to day—and how do you know it’s enough?This is where most parents start to second-guess everything. If you’ve ever lwondered, “Is this enough?”—you’re not alone. We’re unpacking one of the most common fears in unschooling: What learning actually looks like when it doesn’t look like school. With no worksheets, no visible lessons, and no clear benchmarks… it can feel like nothing is happening. But that’s not what’s going on. We’ll talk about: Why unschooling feels “too unstructured” Where that pressure to do more comes from What learning actually looks like in everyday real life Why confidence comes and goes—and how to handle that If you’ve been second-guessing your choices or worried your child is falling behind, let's reframe what you’re seeing—and what really counts. 🎧 Listen in, then take a closer look: Full transcript and resources https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/is-unschooling-enough-what-it-really-looks-like-day-to-day Want daily support instead of figuring this out on your own? Inside the Creating Confidence Daily app, I walk alongside you for a couple minutes each morning—helping you reset your thinking and build real confidence over time. Try it free for 7 days. https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/creating-confidence-daily Podcasts Mentioned: Unschooling Doubts: Why Unschooling Parents Feel They Aren't Doing Enough The Real Reason Unschooling Confidence Disappears "I Want to Do More to Teach” Let me know what you think of this! Support the show _____________________________________________________ You don't have to do this alone. Try Creating Confidence free for 7 days. Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best. Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community. Come spend a week with us! Creating Confidence Options UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue Stay Connected: Free Email List with weekly unschooling resources www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com

  • S6 · E209
    April 17 · 9 min

    How Unschooling Kids Learn Math Without Curriculum (A Real Day, Hour by Hour) | 209

    How do unschoolers learn math without a curriculum? Can kids really learn math without school—and how do you know it’s enough? Here's a real “day in the life” of an unschooling teen. See exactly where math shows up—hour by hour—without worksheets, textbooks, or formal lessons. If you’ve been wondering: how do kids learn math without curriculum is real life math enough am I doing enough math in our homeschool what about unschooling math gaps …you'll get a clear, practical look at how math naturally develops through everyday life. Real life Math examples like: Mental math, estimation, math in daily routines Math in video games Cooking, shopping, and budgeting Sports, timing, decision-making Problem-solving, estimation But here’s the struggle you'll recognize— Noticing is Step 1 - Seeing it in YOUR kids's lives is the Next Level. We talk about why so many parents feel confident after seeing examples like this… and then fall back into doubt—and what actually helps build long-term confidence with unschooling math. If you’re transitioning from homeschool curriculum, questioning traditional math approaches, or trying to trust unschooling, this episode will help you start recognizing what’s already happening—and understand what comes next. 🎯 Want help seeing and trusting real-life math in your home? UNSCHOOLING RESOURCES for Episode 209 Learning Math WITHOUT Curriculum - Let's conquer your math concerns and talk about what real math adults are using daily. Day-In-The-Life - How Unschoolers Learn Math (blogpost) See the Hour-by-Hour Math in this unschooled teen's life Creating Confidence Membership Group - Ready to level up and figure this out with other unschoolers? This is for you! Creating Confidence Daily - Voicenotes and inspirating messages every day. This daily habit really will grow your confidence! (7-day Free trial!) Let me know what you think of this! Support the show _____________________________________________________ You don't have to do this alone. Try Creating Confidence free for 7 days. Whether you prefer daily encouragement or a supportive community with live coaching, you can explore it all and see what fits your family best. Choose the level of support that fits you best—from daily encouragement to live coaching and community. Come spend a week with us! Creating Confidence Options UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue Stay Connected: Free Email List with weekly unschooling resources www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com

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