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UNDERSTANDABLE · July 9 · 20 min

Why Most Avoidants Come Back After No Contact (Healed Avoidant Explains How to React)

► Build secure relationships, without losing yourself: https://understandable.net (ad) Welcome to today's episode! Here's why most avoidants come back after no contact and how to respond to their comeback ► Links and Resources: No Contact Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A9xqR6zfBIk&t=13s Rebound Relationship Video: https://youtu.be/QrhTOoAai_M?si=G8Z4AcXbOLvsXePk ► Subscribe On Your Favorite Platform! YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGiJdF0yeTyRJanW_uSICDw?sub_confirmation=1⁠ Spotify: ⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/2gaheQLxBwByM9txVzlpI6 Apple Podcasts: ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/understandable/id1399616905 Amazon Music: ⁠https://music.amazon.de/podcasts/ee3580cb-61c5-4aa1-9ad4-1204014078e7/understandable⁠ ► Episode Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction to No Contact 02:03 What Is No Contact 03:55 Why Avoidants Return 09:11 Your Growth During Separation 13:19 How to React When They Come Back 17:14 Assessing True Change 20:04 Final Thoughts ► Reach Out To Me :) E-Mail: info@understandable.net ► Hi, my name is Robert! I make videos about how to build stable, secure relationships without losing yourself or waiting forever for the “perfect” partner. :) ► Disclaimer: None of the contents are therapeutic or medical recommendations. The contents are not to be understood as therapeutic-medical instructions and are neither intended as professional health advice nor as education. I am not a health professional myself. My content is based on research and my personal experiences working with various therapists as a client for three years.

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► Build secure relationships, without losing yourself: https://understandable.net (ad)


Welcome to today's episode! Here's why most avoidants come back after no contact and how to respond to their comeback


► Links and Resources:

No Contact Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A9xqR6zfBIk&t=13s

Rebound Relationship Video: https://youtu.be/QrhTOoAai_M?si=G8Z4AcXbOLvsXePk


► Subscribe On Your Favorite Platform!

YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGiJdF0yeTyRJanW_uSICDw?sub_confirmation=1⁠

Spotify: ⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/2gaheQLxBwByM9txVzlpI6

Apple Podcasts: ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/understandable/id1399616905

Amazon Music: ⁠https://music.amazon.de/podcasts/ee3580cb-61c5-4aa1-9ad4-1204014078e7/understandable⁠


► Episode Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction to No Contact

02:03 What Is No Contact

03:55 Why Avoidants Return

09:11 Your Growth During Separation

13:19 How to React When They Come Back

17:14 Assessing True Change

20:04 Final Thoughts


► Reach Out To Me :)

E-Mail: info@understandable.net


► Hi, my name is Robert! I make videos about how to build stable, secure relationships without losing yourself or waiting forever for the “perfect” partner. :)


► Disclaimer: None of the contents are therapeutic or medical recommendations. The contents are not to be understood as therapeutic-medical instructions and are neither intended as professional health advice nor as education.

I am not a health professional myself. My content is based on research and my personal experiences working with various therapists as a client for three years.

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