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UNDERSTANDABLE · July 17 · 39 min

Healed Avoidant Explains How to Respond When an Avoidant Comes Back

► Build secure relationships, without losing yourself: https://understandable.net (ad) Welcome to today's episode! In this video I explain how to respond when an avoidant comes back after rejection, after a breakup or after no contact. ► Links and Resources: Why Avoidants Come Back Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4umBMT2pBpY&t=10s ► Subscribe On Your Favorite Platform! YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGiJdF0yeTyRJanW_uSICDw?sub_confirmation=1⁠ Spotify: ⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/2gaheQLxBwByM9txVzlpI6 Apple Podcasts: ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/understandable/id1399616905 Amazon Music: ⁠https://music.amazon.de/podcasts/ee3580cb-61c5-4aa1-9ad4-1204014078e7/understandable⁠ ► Episode Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 03:30 Why Avoidants Return 11:54 Ask This One Question 16:15 Breaking the Chasing Pattern 26:34 Developing a Solid Self 30:41 The Dragon Metaphor 36:05 Setting Healthy Boundaries 40:40 Conclusion and Resources ► Reach Out To Me :) E-Mail: info@understandable.net ► Hi, my name is Robert! I make videos about how to build stable, secure relationships without losing yourself or waiting forever for the “perfect” partner. :) ► Disclaimer: None of the contents are therapeutic or medical recommendations. The contents are not to be understood as therapeutic-medical instructions and are neither intended as professional health advice nor as education. I am not a health professional myself. My content is based on research and my personal experiences working with various therapists as a client for three years.

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► Build secure relationships, without losing yourself: https://understandable.net (ad)


Welcome to today's episode! In this video I explain how to respond when an avoidant comes back after rejection, after a breakup or after no contact.


► Links and Resources:

Why Avoidants Come Back Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4umBMT2pBpY&t=10s


► Subscribe On Your Favorite Platform!

YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGiJdF0yeTyRJanW_uSICDw?sub_confirmation=1⁠

Spotify: ⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/2gaheQLxBwByM9txVzlpI6

Apple Podcasts: ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/understandable/id1399616905

Amazon Music: ⁠https://music.amazon.de/podcasts/ee3580cb-61c5-4aa1-9ad4-1204014078e7/understandable⁠


► Episode Timestamps:

00:00 Intro

03:30 Why Avoidants Return

11:54 Ask This One Question

16:15 Breaking the Chasing Pattern

26:34 Developing a Solid Self

30:41 The Dragon Metaphor

36:05 Setting Healthy Boundaries

40:40 Conclusion and Resources


► Reach Out To Me :)

E-Mail: info@understandable.net


► Hi, my name is Robert! I make videos about how to build stable, secure relationships without losing yourself or waiting forever for the “perfect” partner. :)


► Disclaimer: None of the contents are therapeutic or medical recommendations. The contents are not to be understood as therapeutic-medical instructions and are neither intended as professional health advice nor as education.

I am not a health professional myself. My content is based on research and my personal experiences working with various therapists as a client for three years.

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