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Toke Moments

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Toke Makinwa and friends take us on a journey of honest conversations on how to navigate the world of dating, career and much more.

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  • Avg 1 hr 5 min
  • English

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  • S5 · E18
    Yesterday · 18 min

    Birthday Blues, Unexpected Surprises & Lessons I’m Taking Into My New Age

    Toke celebrates her birthday with a solo episode that begins with a story she never saw coming: a surprise birthday dinner planned by the people closest to her, despite her insistence that she wanted to spend the day quietly at home. After a difficult October and a serious case of birthday blues, what was supposed to be a low-key celebration turns into an evening of unexpected joy, karaoke, cake and gratitude. From there, the conversation moves into the things Toke is no longer willing to subscribe to in this new chapter of her life. She talks about being completely done with talking stages, choosing comfort and quality over cheaper alternatives, embracing timeless fashion over fleeting trends, and leaving behind the need to prove herself or explain her side of every story. She also shares her changing relationship with money, why clubbing no longer appeals to her, and why she’d rather spend her time enjoying good dinners, travelling and experiencing new things. It’s an episode about getting older, growing into yourself and recognising that you don’t have to keep entertaining everything you once did. Toke also opens up about faith, gratitude and learning to trust God even when life doesn’t unfold the way you hoped. A birthday conversation about changing priorities, stronger boundaries and making room for the person you’re becoming. FOLLOW TOKE MOMENTS Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tokemoments?stkn=cTdyMmNvZXR1ZG84 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tokemoments?_r=1&_t=ZT-9A20YKSlJtd FOLLOW TOKE MAKINWA Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tokemakinwa?stkn=MXhxYnFla29rc3QzNw== TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tokemakinwa?_r=1&_t=ZT-9A20YBAFsC6 X: https://x.com/tokstarr?s=11 Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT, SHARE AND SUBSCRIBE for more conversations with Toke. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  • S5 · E17
    September 18 · 1 hr 40 min

    “I Feel Like an Imposter” - Hauwa Opens Up About Her Success & Creativity

    Toke sits down with content creator Hauwa the woman behind some of the internet’s funniest, most brutally honest videos for an episode that opens with one running question: what’s the color of your problem? From there, the conversation moves through Hauwa’s start ghostwriting comedy skits before ever showing her own face, her refusal to hide being broke, in debt, or turned down for a UK visa, and her unapologetic stance on wanting to marry a man with money without shame. She and Toke swap notes on marrying young and leaving fast, on choosing peace and financial independence over performing a relationship for anyone’s approval. Then the tone shifts entirely as Toke opens up about surviving the house fire that took both her parents when she was eight, and what therapy finally gave her the words to say a moment Hauwa meets with real tenderness. It’s an episode that swings from pure nonsense to real devastation and back again, a reminder that some of the funniest people are carrying the heaviest things. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  • S3 · E16
    September 4 · 1 hr 3 min

    Folagade Banks on Building Mama Deola From Zero to a Movie

    In this episode of Toke Moments, Toke sits down with content creator and comedian Folagade Banks, the man behind the viral character Mama Deola, for a conversation that traces his path from a failed record label that got him arrested at OAU, to a modeling agency, to accidentally becoming one of Nigeria’s most recognisable characters during the COVID lockdown. Folagade opens up about the deliberate choices behind Mama Deola why he picked the robe over an exaggerated, sexualised costume, why he keeps the character sharply separate from who he is in real life, and the deep hurt behind a viral moment where a women’s empowerment event appearance was twisted online into a controversy he never saw coming. He also talks candidly about underpricing himself early in his career, the friendships he’s had to walk away from, the mental health struggles he was quietly carrying between 2021 and 2023, and the upcoming Mama Deola film a Kava original dropping this September, built to prove that African stories can thrive outside the cinema model. It’s a conversation that moves from laugh-out-loud storytelling to real vulnerability, showing the discipline and heartbreak behind one of Nigeria’s most beloved comedic brands. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  • S3 · E15
    August 28 · 1 hr 17 min

    Inside Mo Abudu’s Empire: From Oil & Gas to EbonyLife Films

    In this episode of Toke Moments, Toke sits down with media mogul and EbonyLife Group founder Mo Abudu for a wide-ranging conversation that moves effortlessly between boardroom and heart-to-heart. Mo traces her path from a decade at ExxonMobil to building an entertainment empire from nothing, admitting that leaving a stable career at 40 to chase an idea for a Pan-African talk show felt less like ambition and more like a calling she couldn’t ignore. The conversation moves through Mo’s approach to rejection and fundraising, her decision to walk away from hosting Moments With Mo and hand it to the next generation without ego, and the discipline behind her days — the 4 a.m. wake-ups, the one meal a day, the phobia of flying she had to conquer to build a project in Calabar. She also opens up about returning to cinema after seven years away with her new film, The Secret Lives of Baba Segi’s Wives, and what it took to get the industry’s biggest names on board. This is a funny, unfiltered, and often surprising conversation about legacy, standards, and what it really costs to build something from scratch including Mo’s candid, tongue-in-cheek take on love, marriage, and why she still hasn’t made room for it at 61. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  • S3 · E14
    August 14 · 1 hr 2 min

    Why I Took A Break From Acting in 2024: Erica’s Honest Reset

    In this episode of Toke Moments, Toke sits down with Erica for a refreshingly honest conversation that goes far beyond the Big Brother headlines. Erica opens up about the therapy journey that helped her process years of online scrutiny, and the surreal, often invasive comments strangers feel entitled to make about her body and her life. The conversation moves through Erica’s only-child upbringing and how it shaped her independence, the emotional toll of building her own home from scratch as a woman in a male-dominated industry, and her refreshingly specific checklist for the kind of man she wants — fine, romantic, ambitious, and financially secure, no compromises. She also gets candid about dating after fame, protecting her friendships, and learning not to overshare with people who haven’t earned it. This is a funny, self-aware, and surprisingly deep conversation about healing, standards, and staying soft in an industry that constantly asks you not to be. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  • S3 · E13
    July 31 · 1 hr 19 min

    Call Of My Life: The Man Behind Nollywood’s Biggest Rom-Com ft. Dammy Twitch

    In this episode of Toke Moments, Toke sits down with director Dammy Twitch, the creative mind behind Nollywood’s breakout hit Call of My Life, for a candid conversation about his leap from shooting music videos to directing his first feature film. Dammy opens up about the risk of going straight to cinema, the casting process behind the film’s now-famous on-screen chemistry, and the humbling economics of Nigerian filmmaking. The conversation traces his journey from interning as a BTS photographer in Lagos to becoming one of the most talked-about new directors in the industry, including the sacrifices, the doubt, and the mother who supported him even when she didn’t understand the dream. Dammy also gets refreshingly honest about being his own harshest critic, his love for travel, and what’s next after breaking into the box office top ten. This is a funny, insightful conversation about passion, risk, and betting on yourself in an industry that doesn’t always reward patience. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  • S3 · E12
    July 17 · 1 hr 9 min

    Fitness, Fame and Finding Peace ft. Mercy Eke

    In this episode of Toke Moments, Toke sits down with Mercy Eke for a candid, high-energy conversation covering love, trust, and everything in between. Mercy opens up about going back to school for her Master’s degree while juggling a business, what it really took to push through, and why she believes education is one of the best investments anyone can make in themselves. The conversation moves through relationships and readiness - dating, trust, boundaries, and the misconceptions that have followed Mercy since Big Brother, as well as her journey building M&M into a lifestyle brand, her commitment to fitness as a form of healing, and what she’s really looking for in love and marriage. Mercy also gets refreshingly honest about female friendships, self-respect, and choosing peace over drama in an industry built on comparison. This is a fun, unfiltered, and at times deeply reflective conversation about growth, standards, and knowing exactly who you are. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  • S3 · E11
    July 10 · 16 min

    Toke Moments Is Back: I Was MIA, Here’s My Apology

    In this episode of Toke Moments, Toke is back — and she’s got a lot to catch up on. She opens up about stepping away this season to be a more intentional mother, and takes us along on a hilariously chaotic solo trip abroad with her daughter, Yaya. From a diaper emergency mid-flight to becoming an unlikely screen-time convert, Toke shares the unfiltered highs and lows of first-time motherhood, plus a heartfelt shoutout to diaspora moms doing it without help, and the nannies who make it all possible. She also leaves listeners with real, practical tips on how to actually support a mom in your life. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  • S3 · E10
    March 13 · 1 hr 11 min

    No One Prepares You for Motherhood | Simi Drey on Marriage, Family & Identity

    Motherhood changes everything and no one truly prepares you for it. In this episode of Toke Moments, Toke sits down with Simi Drey for an honest conversation about marriage, family, and the identity shifts that come with becoming a mother. Simi opens up about the realities behind the beautiful moments, the challenges many women don’t talk about, and how she’s learning to balance love, partnership, and self-discovery. It’s a heartfelt conversation about growth, womanhood, and navigating a new season of life. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  • S3 · E9
    March 6 · 1 hr 24 min

    Everyone Saw The Glow… Not The Pressure Ft Idia Aisien

    In this episode of Toke Moments, Toke sits down with Idia Aisien for an honest conversation about success, expectations, and the personal growth that happens behind the scenes. Idia opens up about the pressure that often comes with public success, the lessons she’s learned along the way, and the work it takes to keep becoming the best version of herself. This episode is a thoughtful reflection on ambition, resilience, and staying grounded while navigating life in the spotlight. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  • S3 · E8
    February 27 · 1 hr 24 min

    Lawyer, Creative, Traveller… & Full of Surprises ft Tobe Ugeh

    In this episode of Toke Moments, Toke sits down with Tobe Ugeh - lawyer, creative, traveller and more. From navigating the structure of law to embracing creativity and a life of global experiences, Tobe shares how he’s built a dynamic career without limiting himself to one identity. They talk about ambition, reinvention, passion, and what it really means to design a life on your own terms. It’s an inspiring, easy-flowing conversation about being multifaceted, fearless, and open to growth. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  • S3 · E7
    February 13 · 1 hr 16 min

    Faith, Trauma & How Depression Saved My Life Ft Chude

    In this episode of Toke Moments, Toke sits down with Chude for a powerful conversation about faith, trauma, and the journey through depression that ultimately transformed his life. From confronting painful childhood experiences to challenging the silence around male vulnerability, Chude shares how what felt like a breaking point became the very thing that saved him. Together, they explore healing, accountability, faith, and the courage it takes to face your truth. This is a raw, reflective conversation about turning pain into purpose and finding light in the darkest seasons. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  • Dec 26, 2025 · 1 hr 22 min

    A Very Threesome Podcast ft Madame Joyce & Taymesan

    This episode is brought to you by Blink Card. Download the O3 app here: https://apps.apple.com/ng/app/o3cards/id1565911719 Merry Christmas 🎄 and welcome to A Very Threesome Podcast as Toke Moments and Tea With Tay come together for a special crossover episode with Madame Joyce... and yes, the energy is exactly what the title promises. The trio reflects on what 2025 has looked like so far, sharing personal highlights, wins, and lessons. From relationships and dating conversations to listener dilemmas, nothing is off the table. There’s plenty of laughter, playful chaos, honest opinions, and moments that hit a little closer to home. Three voices and lots of tea, enjoy and don’t forget to share Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  • Aug 14, 2025 · 37 min

    I AM PREGNANT!!!

    Guys… I’m pregnant!!! 😭💖 In this episode, I’m letting you in on one of the most beautiful moments of my life so far. I talk about finding out the news, how I’ve been processing it, and the whirlwind of emotions, from pure joy to happy tears, that have been washing over me. It’s a mix of excitement, gratitude, and that little bit of “oh wow, this is really happening!” So grab a cup of tea and join me as I share my heart with you in the most personal way yet. A big thank you to Onewellness Center for sponsoring this episode and being part of this journey with me. You check Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  • S3 · E6
    May 8, 2025 · 11 min

    5 Types of People You Should Never Argue With

    Ever argued with someone who always thinks they're right? In this episode of Toke Moments, Toke Makinwa unpacks the 5 types of people you should never argue with. It's funny, relatable, and full of real talk on choosing peace over drama. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  • S3 · E5
    Apr 24, 2025 · 1 hr 13 min

    Healthy Friendships, Healthy Living ft Taymesan

    In this episode of Toke Moments, Toke and Taymesan dive into the power of healthy friendships and how they directly impact our mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being. They break down what it means to have healthy friendships, how to spot red flags, and why protecting your peace is a form of self-love. Oh — and there’s a fun twist when Taymesan tries to guess perfumes from Toke’s brand, TM Luxury. Make sure you rate, share and leave a comment wherever you listen to the podcast telling us how much you enjoyed the episode! Better Ratings mean even more people find out about the podcast! Don't forget to use the hashtag #TMpod Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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