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Jeff Schroeder and Jordan Lloyd

Husband and wife, Jeff Schroeder and Jordan Lloyd are no strangers to Reality TV. From Big Brother to The Amazing Race, Couples Therapy, and their very own, Jeff and Jordan Do America, this team knows just how messy life can get. Listen each week as together they dive into parenting, marriage, Reality TV, pop culture and so much more!

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  • #291
    Yesterday · 39 min

    Our Family Vacation Turned Into Complete Anarchy

    Jeff goes missing at the ship casino at 2 AM, sparking total panic, while spa bill arguments threaten the trip budget. Big Sexy returns to break down high-stakes craps tables, retail return disasters, and wild childhood vacation memories that wouldn’t fly today. Thank you to our partners: Hers: Visit forhers.com/mess to get personalized affordable care that gets you. (Weight Loss by Hers is not available in all 50 states). Fabletics - Shop now at fabletics.com/togethermess to get 70–80% off everything when you sign up as a new VIP. Cozy Earth: Go to cozyearth.com and use code MESS for up to 20% off home and sleepwear. Our official Jeff and Jordan merch shop is now open! Visit https://togethermess.com/ to shop TogetherMess merch, favorite finds, videos, family stories, and a little everyday chaos. Produced by Ian McNeny for YEA Media Group See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  • #293
    Wednesday · 31 min

    Getting a Dog... or a Monkey?!?

    Five Christmas trees in November, travel burnout, and approaching the big 4-0. We get brutally honest about why people-pleasing ruins celebrations, the reality of living out of a suitcase, and our hilarious spiral into wanting farm animals instead of a dog. Thank you to our partners: Hers: Visit forhers.com/mess to get personalized affordable care that gets you. (Weight Loss by Hers is not available in all 50 states). AG-1: For a limited time visit drinkag1.com/togethermess and get a FREE Immune Support Bundle, including Omega-3 Fish Oil and Vitamin D3+K2, with your first subscription of AG1 Next Gen or AG1 Pro. Cozy Earth: Go to cozyearth.com and use code MESS for up to 20% off home and sleepwear. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  • #292
    November 2 · 46 min

    Is This a Spider Bite, or Something Way Worse?

    Hungover and putting up Christmas decor, Jeff and Jordan face sudden health scares and dealership nightmares. Big Sexy joins to discuss surviving an infected elbow, new peptide routines, and testing restaurant biscuits by throwing them at the wall. Thank you to our partners: Hers: Visit forhers.com/mess to get personalized affordable care that gets you. (Weight Loss by Hers is not available in all 50 states). AG-1: For a limited time visit drinkag1.com/togethermess and get a FREE Immune Support Bundle, including Omega-3 Fish Oil and Vitamin D3+K2, with your first subscription of AG1 Next Gen or AG1 Pro. Cozy Earth: Go to cozyearth.com and use code MESS for up to 20% off home and sleepwear. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  • #291
    October 28 · 44 min

    A Faked Pregnancy?!?

    Thank you to our partners: Hers: Visit forhers.com/mess to get personalized affordable care that gets you. (Weight Loss by Hers is not available in all 50 states). Quince: Give the gift of quality this holiday season. Download the Quince app for app-exclusive offers, or go to quince.com. Get free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Now available in Canada and the UK, too. And when Quince asks where you heard about them, let them know it was TogetherMess. It’s the best way to support the show. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  • #290
    October 26 · 43 min

    Fake Drama To Keep You Watching!

    Thank you to our partners: Hers: Visit forhers.com/mess to get personalized affordable care that gets you. (Weight Loss by Hers is not available in all 50 states). Quince: Give the gift of quality this holiday season. Download the Quince app for app-exclusive offers, or go to quince.com. Get free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Now available in Canada and the UK, too. And when Quince asks where you heard about them, let them know it was TogetherMess. It’s the best way to support the show. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  • #289
    October 21 · 45 min

    We're Not THAT Far Off!!!

    Thank you to our partners: Hungryroot: For a limited time get 40% off your first orderPLUS get a free item in every box for life. Go to hungryroot.com/togethermess and use code TOGETHERMESS. AG-1: Go to drinkag1.com/togethermess and for a limited time, get a free Immune Support Bundle, including a bottle of Omega-3 fish oil and a bottle of Vitamin D3K2, with your first subscription order of AG1 Next Gen or AG1 Pro. Hers: Visit forhers.com/mess to get personalized affordable care that gets you. (Weight Loss by Hers is not available in all 50 states). Stio: Ski season’s almost here. Gear up now, the way the locals do. Go to stio.com/togethermess for 20% off your order. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  • #288
    October 19 · 38 min

    Jeff Got The Full Dad Experience

    After a chaotic week apart, Jeff and Jordan recount what happens when routine completely collapses. Jeff details his week of "Single Dad" duties—complete with Broncos games, arcades, and a messy house—while Jordan opens up about her girls' trip on Celebrity Cruises, dealing with flight anxiety, and a heart-wrenching moment with a fellow traveler on her flight home. Thank you to our partners: Hungryroot: For a limited time get 40% off your first orderPLUS get a free item in every box for life. Go to hungryroot.com/togethermess and use code TOGETHERMESS. AG-1: Go to drinkag1.com/togethermess and for a limited time, get a free Immune Support Bundle, including a bottle of Omega-3 fish oil and a bottle of Vitamin D3K2, with your first subscription order of AG1 Next Gen or AG1 Pro. Hers: Visit forhers.com/mess to get personalized affordable care that gets you. (Weight Loss by Hers is not available in all 50 states). Stio: Ski season’s almost here. Gear up now, the way the locals do. Go to stio.com/togethermess for 20% off your order. Produced by Ian McNeny for YEA Media Group See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  • #287
    October 14 · 40 min

    The 6am Mexico Shakedown

    Thank you to our partners: Hers - Visit https://forhers.com/mess to get personalized affordable care that gets you. (Weight Loss by Hers is not available in all 50 states). Fabletics - Shop now at fabletics.com/togethermess to get 70–80% off everything when you sign up as a new VIP. Freestyle - Get 30% off your first 3 months of a Freestyle diaper subscription at freestyle.world/togethermess with code TOGETHERMESS. That's a full month of premium diapers delivered to your door for just $49/month for your first 3 months. Our official Jeff and Jordan merch shop is now open! Visit https://togethermess.com/ to shop TogetherMess merch, favorite finds, videos, family stories, and a little everyday chaos. Produced by Ian McNeny for YEA Media Group See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  • #286
    October 12 · 35 min

    The Derek Jeter Souvenir Rumor - Worse Than You Think

    Before we were raising kids in the suburbs, we were serving tables, and the restaurant drama was real. In TogetherMess episode 286, we’re looking back at workplace favoritism, Jeff’s missed chance to meet Matthew McConaughey, and how our priorities have changed since those days. We also share what we learned at a Meta parenting event, our worries about teens on social media, and why we’re glad our younger years weren’t caught on camera. Thank you to our partners: Hers - Visit https://forhers.com/mess to get personalized affordable care that gets you. (Weight Loss by Hers is not available in all 50 states). Fabletics - Shop now at fabletics.com/togethermess to get 70–80% off everything when you sign up as a new VIP. Freestyle - Get 30% off your first 3 months of a Freestyle diaper subscription at freestyle.world/togethermess with code TOGETHERMESS. That's a full month of premium diapers delivered to your door for just $49/month for your first 3 months. Our official Jeff and Jordan merch shop is now open! Visit https://togethermess.com/ to shop TogetherMess merch, favorite finds, videos, family stories, and a little everyday chaos. Produced by Ian McNeny for YEA Media Group See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  • #282
    October 7 · 36 min

    Parenting in the Age of iPads and Video Games

    Jordan saw flashing lights and thought the other driver was getting pulled over… until the cop stopped her. Jeff spent two hours fighting with a printer before realizing our computer was connected to the neighbor’s Wi-Fi. In the TogetherMess episode 285, we’re sharing a school pickup gone wrong, tax stress, and a V-Bucks purchase Jeff still can’t figure out. Jordan also opens up about getting her hormones checked, and we talk about parenting, iPad limits, and why keeping up with technology is making us feel old. Our official Jeff and Jordan merch shop is now open! Visit https://togethermess.com/ to shop TogetherMess merch, favorite finds, videos, family stories, and a little everyday chaos. Thank you to our partners: AG1 - For a limited time, get a free immune support bundle with your very first subscription of AG1 Next Gen or AG1 Pro at https://drinkag1.com/togethermess Hungryroot - For a limited time get 40% off your first order PLUS get a free item in every box for life. Go to https://hungryroot.com/togethermess and use code togethermess. Hers - Visit https://forhers.com/mess to get personalized affordable care that gets you. (Weight Loss by Hers is not available in all 50 states). See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  • #284
    October 5 · 38 min

    Jeff Accidentally Bid $2,000 at the School Fundraiser

    In Togethermess Episode 284, Jeff accidentally waves during the school fundraiser auction and suddenly gets hit with a $2,000 bid he never meant to make. We also talk about cowboy night, drinking around the kids’ teachers, donating to the school, and why knowing exactly where your money goes matters more to us now. Subscribe, like, and tap "Hype" below to boost this video! Our official Jeff and Jordan merch shop is now open! Visit https://togethermess.com/ to shop TogetherMess merch, favorite finds, videos, family stories, and a little everyday chaos. Thank you to our partners: AG1 - For a limited time, get a free immune support bundle with your very first subscription of AG1 Next Gen or AG1 Pro at https://drinkag1.com/togethermess Hungryroot - For a limited time get 40% off your first order PLUS get a free item in every box for life. Go to https://hungryroot.com/togethermess and use code togethermess. Hers - Visit https://forhers.com/mess to get personalized affordable care that gets you. (Weight Loss by Hers is not available in all 50 states). See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  • #11
    October 2 · 51 min

    Big BrotherMess LIVE - 10/1/26

    Recorded LIVE on 10/1/26! Don't miss out on our mess! Follow us: INSTAGRAM - @togethermesspod JEFF - @jeffschroeder23 JORDAN - @bbjordanlloyd We would love your feedback... If you enjoyed this episode, tell us why! Leave us a review and make sure you subscribe on your favorite podcast platform. Executive Producers are Riley Peleuses + Ian McNeny for YEA Media Group. If you are interested in advertising on this podcast or having Jeff and Jordan as guests on your Podcast, Radio Show, or TV Show, reach out to podcast@yeamediagroup.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  • #283
    September 30 · 41 min

    Ghosts? Jordan Still Can’t Explain What She Saw

    In Togethermess Episode 283, we somehow go from Chicago sports and Halloween decorating chaos to creepy dolls, haunted places, ghost stories, and the guy in San Diego we still swear did not seem human. Then Jordan shares the childhood experience that shaped the way she thinks about faith to this day. Subscribe, like, and tap "Hype" below to boost this video! Our official Jeff and Jordan merch shop is now open! Visit https://togethermess.com/ to shop TogetherMess merch, favorite finds, videos, family stories, and a little everyday chaos. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  • #282
    September 28 · 36 min

    We Used to Live VERY Different Lives

    In Togethermess Episode 282, we somehow go from Friday energy and old Denver apartment memories to the moment Jeff realized, “I’ve got to change my life.” We talk about those early DBL years, the strip-club story that still makes us laugh, and how wildly different our life looked before kids, routines, Costco runs, and suburban weekends. Subscribe, like, and tap "Hype" below to boost this video! Our official Jeff and Jordan merch shop is now open! Visit https://togethermess.com/ to shop TogetherMess merch, favorite finds, videos, family stories, and a little everyday chaos. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  • #10
    September 25 · 24 min

    Big BrotherMess LIVE - 9/24/26

    Recorded LIVE on 09/24/26 ! Don't miss out on our mess! Follow us: INSTAGRAM - @togethermesspod JEFF - @jeffschroeder23 JORDAN - @bbjordanlloyd We would love your feedback... If you enjoyed this episode, tell us why! Leave us a review and make sure you subscribe on your favorite podcast platform. Executive Producers are Riley Peleuses + Ian McNeny for YEA Media Group. If you are interested in advertising on this podcast or having Jeff and Jordan as guests on your Podcast, Radio Show, or TV Show, reach out to podcast@yeamediagroup.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  • #281
    September 23 · 45 min

    Is AI Coming for Local News?

    In TogetherMess Episode 281, we somehow go from talking about Teslas and self-driving cars to wondering if AI is about to take over local news. Jeff has seen firsthand how much TV has already changed, and honestly, the whole thing kind of freaks us out. Are real people eventually getting replaced… or are we getting way ahead of ourselves? Our official Jeff and Jordan merch shop is now open! Visit https://togethermess.com/ to shop TogetherMess merch, favorite finds, videos, family stories, and a little everyday chaos. Thank you to our partners: AG1 - For a limited time, save 20% on your first subscription order of AG1 Next Gen or AG1 Pro at https://drinkag1.com/togethermess Hungryroot - For a limited time get 40% off your first order PLUS get a free item in every box for life. Go to https://hungryroot.com/togethermess and use code togethermess. Hers - Visit https://forhers.com/mess to get personalized affordable care that gets you. (Weight Loss by Hers is not available in all 50 states). See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  • #280
    September 21 · 33 min

    The Neighborhood Incident That Really Upset Us

    Episode 280 gets surprisingly emotional as Jeff decides family memories matter more than money. We talk about his dad turning 80, Lawson turning 10, trying to make a Cubs game happen, crazy ticket prices, and why sometimes the right choice is the one you’ll still remember 20 years from now. Subscribe, like, and tap Hype below to boost this video! Our official Jeff and Jordan merch shop is now open! Visit https://togethermess.com/ to shop TogetherMess merch, favorite finds, videos, family stories, and a little everyday chaos. Thank you to our partners: AG1 - For a limited time, save 20% on your first subscription order of AG1 Next Gen or AG1 Pro at https://drinkag1.com/togethermess Hungryroot - For a limited time get 40% off your first order PLUS get a free item in every box for life. Go to https://hungryroot.com/togethermess and use code togethermess. Hers - Visit https://forhers.com/mess to get personalized affordable care that gets you. (Weight Loss by Hers is not available in all 50 states). See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  • #9
    September 18 · 28 min

    Big BrotherMess LIVE - 9/17/26

    Recorded LIVE on 09/17/26 ! Don't miss out on our mess! Follow us: INSTAGRAM - @togethermesspod JEFF - @jeffschroeder23 JORDAN - @bbjordanlloyd We would love your feedback... If you enjoyed this episode, tell us why! Leave us a review and make sure you subscribe on your favorite podcast platform. Executive Producers are Riley Peleuses + Ian McNeny for YEA Media Group. If you are interested in advertising on this podcast or having Jeff and Jordan as guests on your Podcast, Radio Show, or TV Show, reach out to podcast@yeamediagroup.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  • #279
    September 16 · 42 min

    We’re Done Putting Ourselves Last

    Fall has us in full reset mode. In TogetherMess Episode 279, we’re talking house projects, getting back into workouts, eating better, organizing our lives, and why feeling better physically can completely change your mindset. We’re trying to stop people-pleasing, clear the clutter, and focus on ourselves again. Thank you to our partners! Shopify - Start your free trial at https://www.SHOPIFY.COM/togethermess Poshmark - Download the Poshmark app and use code TOGETHERMESS when you sign up to get $10 off your first order, or shop now at https://www.poshmark.com/togethermess and get $10 off your first purchase! Our official Jeff and Jordan merch shop is now open! Visit https://togethermess.com/ to shop TogetherMess merch, favorite finds, videos, family stories, and a little everyday chaos See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  • #278
    September 14 · 48 min

    Italy Was Beautiful… and Almost Took Us Out

    We’re back for Togethermess Episode 278 with part two of our Celebrity Cruise recap, from La Spezia and Jeff’s emotional family roots to Rome, the Colosseum, Trevi Fountain, Vatican stops, new travel friends, and us trying to slow down European-style Thank you to our partners! Shopify - Start your free trial at https://www.SHOPIFY.COM/togethermess Poshmark - Download the Poshmark app and use code TOGETHERMESS when you sign up to get $10 off your first order, or shop now at https://www.poshmark.com/togethermess and get $10 off your first purchase! Our official Jeff and Jordan merch shop is now open! Visit https://togethermess.com/ to shop TogetherMess merch, favorite finds, videos, family stories, and a little everyday chaos See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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