The Stay or Go Podcast for Women Considering Divorce

The Sex Talk You Were Never Supposed to Hear With Quinn Otrera

Apr 8, 2025 · 1 hr 41 min · 73.1 MB
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Episode 52:🔥 Buckle up, babes! In this raw and radically honest episode, I’m teaming up with my soul sister Quinn for a full-on, no-holds-barred intimacy chat. We're diving DEEP into the orgasm gap, the tragedy of hetero sex myths, and what it really means to reclaim your body and your pleasure—especially after divorce. 💦

We’re pulling back the curtain on everything we were never taught to talk about—from painful sex and religious shame to mind-blowing orgasms and the freedom that comes with saying “I deserve more.” 💥 This one’s juicy, unfiltered, and straight from the heart—and yes, the fireworks were literally going off in the background. 🎆 (You’ll see what I mean! 😂)

Whether you're considering leaving your marriage, already divorced, or just feeling disconnected from your own pleasure, this conversation is a permission slip to put YOUR desires at the center. 💖

We talk: ✨ The orgasm gap (and why it’s so damn real) ✨ What makes sex worth having (spoiler: it’s not a hard dick) ✨ Religious and cultural programming that’s kept us silent ✨ The power of community in healing and reclaiming pleasure ✨ And why post-divorce sex can be the best sex of your life 🙌

This is the sex talk we all deserved but never got. You ready? Let’s go. 💋

Show Notes: 

The Post-Divorce Glow-Up Show - Quinn Otrera

Vitamin O: Get Yourself Off, Get Your Life Back - The Post-Divorce Glow-Up Show

The Tragedy of Heterosexuality - Jane Ward

Vitamin O: Why Orgasms are Vital to a Woman's Health and Happiness, and How to Have Them Every Time! - Natasha Janina Valdez

Do Straight Women Really Exist? - The Cut

Maria - Dua Lipa 

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