Yesterday · 10 min
TS
Health & Fitness
The Secret Life of Swingers
Brooke & Lola
Get ready to pull back the curtain and step into a world where curiosity meets desire. The Secret Life of Swingers is your all-access pass into the intoxicating universe of ethical non-monogamy, the lifestyle, and all the juicy stories that come with it.
Every week, Lola and Brooke, your fearless, flirty guides, dive deep into passionate conversations about ENM, swinging, polyamory, boundaries, kink, jealousy, intimacy, and everything that makes love extra. They share wild real-life tales, candid confessions, expert tips, and thoughtful advice with warmth, humor, and zero judgment.
- 54 episodes
- Updated Yesterday
- Explicit
Episodes54
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Thursday · 38 minReign's Transition to Full LS Saturdays w/ Brad and Val
Brad and Val are back! Reign Social Club is going FULL LIFESTYLE every Saturday starting August 8th. Tune in to hear all the details about the transition and some funny stories from the owners. For more info on Reign Social Club and their upcoming events, check out https://reignhtx.net/ or follow them @reignhtx #polyamory #SwingingLifestyle #PRIDE #OpenRelationships #SexPositive
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July 23 · 31 minPurgatory Recap with Gianni
Let’s hear what Gianni has to say about Purgatory 😈 #polyamory #SwingingLifestyle #PRIDE #OpenRelationships #SexPositive
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July 21 · 34 minPurgatory Recap
The struggle bus is REAL today Let’s recap Purgatory… a 4-day hotel takeover packed with themes, DJs, and unexpected wild moments. Think dance floors, secret rooms, and a hotel full of people just there to let loose. Themes include: Wednesday - Night: Little Black Dress Thursday - Day: Represent & Night: Superheroes Friday - Day: Forbidden Eden & Night: Heavenly White (Glow) Saturday - Day: Mykonos Vibes & Night: Purgatory: Heaven or Hell For more info on the event or theme descriptions, follow @desirouspartylifestyle #polyamory #SwingingLifestyle #PRIDE #OpenRelationships #SexPositive
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July 13 · 12 minPurgatory Pregame 2026
Ever been to a hotel takeover so wild it’s basically prom but with a sexier dress code? 😅 This weekend, Lola and Gianni are heading to Purgatory… a 4-day hotel takeover packed with themes, DJs, and unexpected wild moments. Think dance floors, secret rooms, and a hotel full of people just there to let loose. Themes include: Wednesday - Night: Little Black Dress Thursday - Day: Represent & Night: Superheroes Friday - Day: Forbidden Eden & Night: Heavenly White (Glow) Saturday - Day: Mykonos Vibes & Night: Purgatory: Heaven or Hell For more info on the event or theme descriptions, follow @desirouspartylifestyle #polyamory #SwingingLifestyle #PRIDE #OpenRelationships #SexPositive
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July 12 · 36 minTemptations Review w Giani
Temptations review 2026 with Gianni That is all ... :)
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July 10 · 10 minShout out to our Listeners
🥳We just hit 15,000 listens AND over a thousand individual listeners, and honestly, it’s wild to see how much traction we’ve gained without heavy promotion. It’s crazy because most of our stats come from people who secretly tune in, many from different countries, not just our local Houston crew. So, if you’re loving these insights and want to see us grow, CLICK ‘FOLLOW’ on Spotify and share with your friends, especially those who love a little controversy 😈 #polyamory #SwingingLifestyle #PRIDE #OpenRelationships #SexPositive
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July 8 · 29 minS2 Ep5 Red Flags & Green Flags
Green flags, red flags, and a whole lot of honesty. 👀💬 We’re talking communication, consent, boundaries, and the little things that tell you everything you need to know. What’s your biggest green or red flag? #polyamory #SwingingLifestyle #PRIDE #OpenRelationships #SexPositive
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July 6 · 11 minFireworks on the Face feat. Daddy & Julia (although the audio is off)
Fireworks on the face … yay or nay? #polyamory #SwingingLifestyle #PRIDE #OpenRelationships #SexPositive
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July 3 · 32 minS2 Ep4 Anna and Wyatt
Ever wonder how a small-town couple gets into the lifestyle? 💭 Their story might surprise you! They started with casual fantasies, then took that bold first step into a night at a club… totally out of their small-town bubble. What’s wild? They went from nervous newbies to loving every moment. Discovering new fetishes, trying floggers, and actually loving an all-adult-themed resort experience. The key? Having a trusted crew around makes all the difference. Supporting each other, taking chances, and playing with no expectations but curiosity. Ever felt like you’re too small-town for this? Think again. It’s all about mindset and the right people. What’s one thing you’d try if fear wasn’t an issue? #polyamory #SwingingLifestyle #PRIDE #OpenRelationships #SexPositive
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July 1 · 13 minThe Uneven Experience
Ever felt like your partner had a way better time than you? Here's the truth, it’s totally normal to feel a bit jealous or off sometimes. 🤔 But what really matters? That they are happy, and you’re still supporting each other, even when experiences aren’t perfectly aligned. The key? Focus on connection, communication, and enjoying your own journey, not comparing. Because honestly, knowing your partner is having a good time, even if it’s different from yours, can actually strengthen your bond. So, what do you do when your partner scores a better experience? What’s your go-to vibe when one of you has a better night? Drop your thoughts below or tag a friend who needs this reminder! #polyamory #SwingingLifestyle #PRIDE #OpenRelationships #SexPositive
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June 29 · 35 minS2 Ep3 - Nadia
Introducing Nadia and her story on how she and her hubby organically got into the lifestyle, all thanks to Daddy and Julia of course. She shares with us how they came out to their friends via slide show presentation, some of her best and worst experiences and how she got the name Nadia plus much more! #polyamory #SwingingLifestyle #PRIDE #OpenRelationships #SexPositive
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June 17 · 10 minFinally talked about butt plugs!
Let's talk toys…Part 1 of a billion
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June 15 · 28 minS2 Ep2 - PRIDE: Love Wins
Celebrating Pride & Lifestyle… More alike than you think? 🌈💃 Drop a 🌟 if you’ve ever felt there’s surprisingly a lot in common between the LGBTQ+ community and the lifestyle community. Did you know many of the shared values, like openness, consent, and a love for self-expression, are at the heart of both? Both communities are about embracing who you are and creating spaces that feel safe and inclusive. It’s wild to see how much overlap there is, whether it’s the accepting vibe at Pride parades or the welcoming spirit at lifestyle clubs. And a huge misconception? Not everyone in the lifestyle is bicurious, many just love the freedom and fluidity it offers. What’s your favorite thing about either community? Drop your thoughts below or tag someone who needs to hear this. Let’s celebrate diversity together! #polyamory #SwingingLifestyle #PRIDE #OpenRelationships #SexPositive
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June 9 · 12 minHow did we not talk about BUTT PLUGS?!?
"Ever wonder why some men are totally into butt stuff, while others aren’t? Here’s the honest truth behind the stigma and misconceptions 👀" Drop a 🔥 if you’ve ever been curious but hesitant about trying it. Most of us grow up thinking butt play is taboo or just for a certain crowd, but reality is way more nuanced. It’s about comfort, size, and understanding, not some hidden secret or shame. And honestly, it’s often just good old preparation and communication, like any other part of intimacy. What’s your take? Think there’s still a stigma around it? Or is it just the curiosity talking? Remember, everyone’s preferences are completely valid. The key is always consent and knowing your own limits. #polyamory #SwingingLifestyle #KinkTalk #OpenRelationships #SexPositive
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June 5 · 29 minS2 Ep1 - Lifestyle Secrets: Who gets to know?
Would you tell your friends you’re in the lifestyle? Or keep it a secret forever? I used to think I’d never tell anyone, too scared of judgment, losing friends, or weird assumptions. But over time, I realized how much freedom comes with honesty. No matter your choice, just remember, it’s about what feels right for you and respecting your own boundaries. Ever had a crazy way you revealed your lifestyle? Share below or DM us! Life’s too short to hide your shine.✨ #polyamory #SwingingLifestyle #KinkTalk #OpenRelationships #SexPositive
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June 1 · 12 minBody Count - Does it matter?
Ever wondered if body count really matters? 🤔 Honestly, whether high or low, it’s all about care and testing. The interesting part? Society’s bias still judges women more harshly, even in the swing lifestyle. But for us, experience seems to be what counts. If you’re careful and tested, your past isn’t the story, it’s how you handle the present. What’s your take? Is there a perfect number you’d feel comfortable with? Or does it just not matter? Either way, let’s normalize having these conversations with honesty, humor, and no judgment. #polyamory #SwingingLifestyle #KinkTalk #OpenRelationships #SexPositive
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May 29 · 40 minReign Social Club with Brad and Val
"Ever wondered what really goes on behind the scenes of a lifestyle club? The wild stories, the real reasons people attend, and why it's about so much more than just sex." Tag a friend who's curious about the lifestyle but hesitant to try it out! This episode dives into the true purpose of these clubs: connection, safe space, and fun. Far from the misconceptions. Brad and Val share hilarious, shocking, and heartfelt stories that reveal the human side of the scene. They emphasize that it’s about community, trust, and shared experiences, not just the wild nights everyone assumes. Worth thinking about: How do we create spaces that are welcoming, inclusive, and responsible while still fun? What’s your take?
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May 25 · 11 minLearning About Dildos & Boners
How did you first learn about sex? It’s wild how many of us remember those moments like it was yesterday. From goofy school stories to OMG moments with friends. Drop a 🔥 if you’ve got a funny or awkward sex talk story! Growing up, Lola’s mom was a nurse, so sex talk was more clinical than embarrassing, just the facts, no shame. Meanwhile, Brooke discovered her dad’s vintage "Joy of Sex" book, making her laugh and eventually piecing it all together herself. And let’s not forget those hilarious childhood moments, like finding a random dildo on the sink or that time she overheard my parents’ intimate conversations through the wall! Honestly, our first lessons about sex often come from curiosity, accident, or the crazy stories our friends share. And knowing these moments are so universal makes me wonder: how did YOU find out? Let’s normalize sharing these stories, because we all started somewhere. What’s your funniest or most cringe-worthy sex discovery moment?
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May 23 · 30 minKinks & Fetishes
In the world of ethical non-monogamy, the conversation around kinks often takes a backseat to the act of swinging itself. But what if embracing kinks could elevate your experience? In this post, we’ll explore the nuances of kinks within the swinging community, share personal stories, and discuss the importance of open communication and consent. Kinks refer to unconventional sexual practices, fantasies, or role-playing that enhance pleasure. In the context of swinging, understanding these kinks can deepen intimacy and connection between partners. It allows individuals to explore their desires while also respecting the boundaries of others. By recognizing that kinks are an integral part of many people’s sexual identities, we can foster more inclusive and fulfilling experiences in the swinging lifestyle. This understanding can lead to richer connections and more exciting adventures. Exploring kinks in the swinging lifestyle can lead to richer, more fulfilling experiences. By understanding and embracing these aspects of sexuality, individuals can create deeper connections and enjoy more varied encounters. Remember, open communication and consent are vital to ensuring that everyone involved feels comfortable and excited about their experiences. Want to dive deeper into the world of kinks and swinging? Like, comment and subscribe!