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The Season of Self Love · June 8 · 34 min

"Reframing 'Underestimated' as Protection"

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me Sunday morning, Nyomi was washing dishes when a revelation hit: What if being underestimated isn't a wound? What if it's a SHIELD? What followed was a poem that became this month's series: "Underestimated is your protection! Those that don't see your value isn't for you. Concentrate on those that understand and overstand you. Your actions, your growth, your ability to come into a room and make the room better—that is your power." The shift: Stop seeing underestimation as proof you're not enough. Start seeing it as protection from the wrong people. In this episode, Nyomi breaks down: Why underestimation FILTERS OUT wrong people How it PROTECTS your peace & energy The 4 ways underestimation serves you Her 53 years of accumulated power How to reframe: "Thank God they don't see my value" So what they underestimate you? THANK GOD THEY DO. It means they're not FOR you. And you're not for them either. Next Wednesday: Building your REAL community (those who OVERSTAND you) Share your reframe: @TheRealNyomiBanks @TheSeasonofSelfLovePodcast #Underestimated #Protection #ReclaimedAndUnashamed #UnderestimatedAndUnstoppable #YourPower Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-season-of-self-love--6003379/support. "Thank you for spending this time with me on The Season of Self Love. Remember, self-love isn't selfish – it's sacred. You are worthy of the love you so freely give to others. If today's episode resonated with you, share it with someone who needs this reminder. And don't forget to rate and review the show – it helps us reach more beautiful souls. Connect with me on Instagram @TheRealNyomiBanks and @TheSeasonofSelfLovePodcast visit theseasonofselflovecom for resources and our downloadable workbook. Want to be a guest on The Season of Self Love? Send Nyomi Banks a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/171967138753618818df2d7f3 Until Monday – keep choosing YOU. This is your girl, the goddess Nyomi Banks. Stay in your season." Elevate Me: Self Discovery App 4-phase self-love journey: meditations, workbooks, coaching chat & journaling. Goli Ashwagandha Gummies Daily wellness support for grounding & stress relief. Use code AskNyomi for a discount! --- ## 💬 CONNECT WITH ME **Text or Voice Note:** Use the link below to send me a message or voice note directly through Buzzsprout. I read and listen to everything! **Instagram:** @TheRealNyomiBanks | @TheSeasonofSelfLovePodcast **Website:** theseasonofselflove.com **YouTube:** Subscribe to @TheSeasonofSelfLove for video episodes, behind-the-scenes content, and more! --- ## 🎯 ELEVATE ME: SELF-DISCOVERY APP Ready to go deeper with guided support? **Elevate Me: Self-Discovery** is an AI-powered coaching app with 4 transformation phases, guided meditations, body scans, journaling prompts, and personalized daily practices. 👉 **Learn more:** studio.com/nyomi Join the mailing list: elevatemenyomi.com --- ## 📋 SHOW NOTES & RESOURCES All links, templates, exercises, and resources mentioned in this episode are available in the full show notes above. --- ## 🙏 CLOSING Be good to one another and yourselves, and always keep it sexy. Love yourself first so you can love others well. **Have a good one.** 💜 --- ...

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💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me

 Sunday morning, Nyomi was washing dishes when a revelation hit:
What if being underestimated isn't a wound? What if it's a SHIELD?

What followed was a poem that became this month's series:

"Underestimated is your protection! Those that don't see your value isn't for you. Concentrate on those that understand and overstand you. Your actions, your growth, your ability to come into a room and make the room better—that is your power."

The shift: Stop seeing underestimation as proof you're not enough. Start seeing it as protection from the wrong people. 

In this episode, Nyomi breaks down:
  • Why underestimation FILTERS OUT wrong people
  • How it PROTECTS your peace & energy
  • The 4 ways underestimation serves you
  • Her 53 years of accumulated power
  • How to reframe: "Thank God they don't see my value"
So what they underestimate you? THANK GOD THEY DO.

 It means they're not FOR you. And you're not for them either.

Next Wednesday: Building your REAL community (those who OVERSTAND you)

Share your reframe: @TheRealNyomiBanks @TheSeasonofSelfLovePodcast  #Underestimated #Protection #ReclaimedAndUnashamed #UnderestimatedAndUnstoppable #YourPower

Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-season-of-self-love--6003379/support.

"Thank you for spending this time with me on The Season of Self Love. Remember, self-love isn't selfish – it's sacred. You are worthy of the love you so freely give to others.

If today's episode resonated with you, share it with someone who needs this reminder. And don't forget to rate and review the show – it helps us reach more beautiful souls.

Connect with me on Instagram @TheRealNyomiBanks and @TheSeasonofSelfLovePodcast
visit theseasonofselflovecom for resources and our downloadable workbook.

Want to be a guest on The Season of Self Love? Send Nyomi Banks a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/171967138753618818df2d7f3

Until Monday – keep choosing YOU.
This is your girl, the goddess Nyomi Banks. Stay in your season."


Elevate Me: Self Discovery App
4-phase self-love journey: meditations, workbooks, coaching chat & journaling.


Goli Ashwagandha Gummies
Daily wellness support for grounding & stress relief. Use code AskNyomi for a discount!

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## 💬 CONNECT WITH ME

**Text or Voice Note:** Use the link below to send me a message or voice note directly through Buzzsprout. I read and listen to everything!

**Instagram:** @TheRealNyomiBanks | @TheSeasonofSelfLovePodcast

**Website:** theseasonofselflove.com

**YouTube:** Subscribe to @TheSeasonofSelfLove for video episodes, behind-the-scenes content, and more!

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## 🎯 ELEVATE ME: SELF-DISCOVERY APP

Ready to go deeper with guided support?

**Elevate Me: Self-Discovery** is an AI-powered coaching app with 4 transformation phases, guided meditations, body scans, journaling prompts, and personalized daily practices.

👉 **Learn more:**  studio.com/nyomi  

Join the mailing list: elevatemenyomi.com

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## 📋 SHOW NOTES & RESOURCES

All links, templates, exercises, and resources mentioned in this episode are available in the full show notes above.

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## 🙏 CLOSING

Be good to one another and yourselves, and always keep it sexy.

Love yourself first so you can love others well.

**Have a good one.** 💜

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