
EP 24 | Lucinda - Sleep Deprivation, Infant Temperament, Returning to Work, Ready or Not and The Reality of Juggling Parenting and Paid Work
In this episode, Lu shares her experiences of becoming a mum to Ray and Posie, and how motherhood has shaped her relationship with work, identity and what she values most. We discuss: Ray arriving unexpectedly four weeks early Ray spending his first week in special care and the difficulty of leaving hospital without her baby Establishing breastfeeding and the support Lu received from the midwives around her Feeling incredibly held by family and friends during early postpartum Experiencing the baby blues, nighttime dread and loneliness Becoming unexpectedly pregnant again around one year postpartum Struggling physically and emotionally during the first trimester while parenting a young child Lu’s experience of going from one child to two Posie’s unsettled temperament and significant sleep challenges The enormous impact prolonged sleep deprivation can have on a parent’s wellbeing Feeling pressure to follow routines and “fix” a baby’s sleep Recognising the role of infant temperament and letting go of self-blame The judgment and unsolicited commentary mothers can experience Why motherhood can feel lonely even when you have people around you Returning to freelance work after becoming a mother Starting and growing Ready or Not with co-host Loz alongside motherhood The realities of trying to balance paid work and caring responsibilities Why there is no perfect blueprint or “hack” for combining motherhood and work How motherhood has reshaped Lu’s values, priorities and relationship with time Why sometimes the most helpful thing we can offer another mother is validation Lu is the co-host of Ready or Not, a podcast exploring the realities of motherhood, careers and trying to make the two work together. You can find Lu on Instagram at @lucindamckimm_ and Ready or Not at @readyornot.pod. And if you would like to buy a Postpartum Season cap, click this link below: https://www.thepostpartumseason.com/store/p/the-postpartum-season-cap Thank you for supporting the podcast! As mentioned in the episode, here are some postpartum support resources. Please reach out if you need help. Australia PANDA (Perinatal Anxiety & Depression Australia) Helpline: 1300 726 306 Website: https://www.panda.org.au Lifeline Australia 13 11 14 (24/7) Website: https://www.lifeline.org.au Beyond Blue 1300 22 4636 Website: https://www.beyondblue.org.au New Zealand PlunketLine 0800 933 922 (24/7) Healthline New Zealand 0800 611 116 (24/7) 1737 Need to talk? Call or text 1737 (24/7) Thank you for listening. Take care x