

Your Anger Isn't a Character Flaw — It's Biology (And Here's the 60-Second Fix)
You go from calm to boiling in half a second. That’s not a character flaw — it’s biology. Psychotherapist Olivia Bergeron breaks down Stop, Soften, See: a 60-second reset that moves you from reactive anger to responsive parenting before the blowup. We cover: • Why parental rage is a nervous-system problem, not a willpower problem • The 60-second SOP between trigger and response • Why connection beats punishment as your influence system • Phones, screen time, and the loyalty binds quietly wrecking the house • One Parent Action you can run tonight Olivia Bergeron — psychotherapist, parent coach Defend the kids. Run the house. ▶️ Watch next + full playbook: parenttap.io Podcast: https://rss.buzzsprout.com/2607696.rss Music by Edgars Bukovskis Used with permission. #Parenting #StopYelling #ParentTap Send us Fan Mail Support the show JOIN THE SYSTEM Get operator blueprints: parenttap.io | hi@parenttap.io THE PARENT TAP Music by Edgars Bukovskis — www.edgarsbukovskis.com Music by Lana Crow — https://www.youtube.com/@LanaCrow CONNECT YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheParentTap Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheParentTap TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/theparenttappod Instagram: @TheParentTapPod X: https://x.com/theparenttap Reading List: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/19F2YVH0CLDH9 If today's SOP gave you a system, leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. It’s the #1 way to help other high-performing parents find the playbook.
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