
Kiami Davael: Matilda
We sit down with Kiami Davael, who a whole generation knows as Lavender, Matilda's loyal best friend in the 1996 classic. Kiami's "first call" story starts with a dream she'd had since age three, and a mom who told her that while there was only one Whitney Houston, she could be the best Kiami there ever was. Kiami takes us from a small town in Kentucky to Los Angeles, where an agent fought to get her in the room for a role that wasn't written for a girl who looked like her, until Mara Wilson's mom took one look and told Danny DeVito, "that's your Lavender." She shares what it was like to grow up on that set with "Uncle Danny," turning nine over a giant birthday cake, and what it means now when grown women tell her Lavender was the first time they ever saw themselves on screen. We get into the honest stuff too, the sting of rejection as she aged out of the roles she used to book, the loneliness of high school, and the "create your own yes" mindset that turned her into a writer, director, and producer. She's open about a mom who did the research, protected every dollar, and made decisions with her instead of for her, one of the most refreshing money stories we've heard. And she tells us about the documentary she's making about her own life, on her own terms. It's funny, it's honest, and it's a reminder of exactly why this podcast exists, because the real stories behind the kids you grew up watching are always more interesting than anything that made it on screen. 🎥 What happens in this episode? 00:00 – Cold open, and welcoming Kiami 01:21 – Booking Matilda: "that's your Lavender" 04:21 – Kentucky, Whitney Houston, and "be the best Kiami" 07:44 – The move to LA and the first auditions 10:16 – Did she know Matilda would be huge? Why Lavender is her 14:08 – On set with Uncle Danny and a birthday cake 16:37 – Oldest of seven, and different households 21:00 – "The first time they saw themselves on screen" 23:34 – Handling the trolls and owning her place in history 25:33 – After Matilda, and aging into the awkward years 31:11 – Rejection, and "create your own yes" 34:44 – High school, bullying, and turning that tassel 41:55 – Choosing college, going home, and Starbucks 48:12 – The money: a mom who did the research 51:03 – The chocolate cake scene and the reunion 54:10 – The documentary, identity, and the proud/grateful close Send us Your Feedback! Follow, like, subscribe, and leave us comments! Check out more content on our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheNotSoLittleRascals SOCIALS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thenotsolittlerascals/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_not_so_lil_rascals Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thenotsolittlerascals
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