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The It Girl Mindset

Ashley Robutz

Welcome to The It Girl Mindset, the podcast dedicated to helping you easily and effortlessly step into your next-level self. Hosted by Ashley Robutz, this show is your go-to resource for mastering your mindset, manifesting your deepest desires, and creating a powerful connection with your body. Each episode is designed to empower you with the tools, insights, and strategies you need to elevate every aspect of your life.

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  • S1 · E197
    Tuesday · 30 min

    (197) 4 hacks to brainwash yourself into your dream body (step by step)

    Ashley has been brainwashing herself into her dream body, and none of it looks like a diet. In this episode she gives the four things she actually does, in the order she does them, including the one she runs while she's working out and the one she does first thing in the morning. None of them ask for more discipline, which is where most people go wrong when they try to change their body. She also gets into why building trust with yourself matters more than the result. 🤎Apply to The Code 📩 Join my weekly ⁠newsletter⁠ 🤍 Book a ⁠Brainwashing Session⁠ — 60 min 1:1 to find the ONE block keeping you stuck + recode it (code POD30) 🖤Check out my ⁠⁠⁠⁠ShopMy ⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🌿Subscribe to my ⁠⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠⁠ Leaving a review really helps the podcast grow. If you leave a review I'll send you a free pep talk meditation to help motivate you to workout. Just make sure you screenshot your review and email me (⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ashleyrobutz@gmail.com⁠⁠) Thank you in advance! MUAH 💋 🎧⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Leave a review on Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🤎Follow Me on Socials 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INSTAGRAM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YOUTUBE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

  • S1 · E196
    August 18 · 31 min

    (196) I stopped hiding my intensity and quantum leaped into a new reality

    Apply to THE CODE Ashley has been softening how she says things so the people around her stay comfortable, and this episode is the end of that. She goes through five things she's done sugarcoating, including the one she's been sitting on the longest. She gets into why she has no patience left for a victim mindset, what she says to people who tell her to relax and go have fun instead of building, and why she thinks most people are misreading their own timeline. She also says the thing she'd say to anyone who wants a coach to tell them they're doing a good job. What she gets into The one she's been sitting on the longest, and why she stopped hiding it Why she has no patience left for a victim mindset What she thinks when someone tells her to go have fun instead of working Why doing the work and manifesting are not two separate things How to trust your timeline when your life hasn't caught up yet 📩 Join my weekly ⁠newsletter⁠ 🤍 Book a ⁠Brainwashing Session⁠ — 60 min 1:1 to find the ONE block keeping you stuck + recode it (code POD30) 🖤Check out my ⁠⁠⁠⁠ShopMy ⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🌿Subscribe to my ⁠⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠⁠ Leaving a review really helps the podcast grow. If you leave a review I'll send you a free pep talk meditation to help motivate you to workout. Just make sure you screenshot your review and email me (⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ashleyrobutz@gmail.com⁠⁠) Thank you in advance! MUAH 💋 🎧⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Leave a review on Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🤎Follow Me on Socials 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INSTAGRAM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YOUTUBE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

  • S1 · E195
    August 11 · 29 min

    (195) how to become a rich girl (it's not about working harder)

    🔓UNLOCKED is Wednesday, August 12 at 4:00 PM PST A free live class on brainwashing yourself to be hot, rich, and successful. Replay will be available. Money behaves like energy. It moves, it gets exchanged, and it goes where there's a channel open for it. So the question Ashley keeps coming back to is not how to get more of it, it's what you're transmitting and whether you can actually receive. In this episode she gets into the relationship you're already in with money, the one nobody sat you down and asked you about, and why two women doing the exact same work end up with completely different bank accounts. She pulls three cards on it. The third one is the reason she stopped playing it safe. In this episode: Why "I have to work hard for money" was never a sentence about money What "there's never enough" is actually saying about you The reason your brain has decided broke is the safer option, and what it thinks it's protecting If money were your boyfriend, what kind of relationship would this be Why money that comes in above a certain number never seems to stick around The one question she leaves you with, and why most people can't answer it 📩 Join my weekly ⁠newsletter⁠ 🤍 Book a ⁠Brainwashing Session⁠ — 60 min 1:1 to find the ONE block keeping you stuck + recode it (code POD30) 🖤Check out my ⁠⁠⁠⁠ShopMy ⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🌿Subscribe to my ⁠⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠⁠ Leaving a review really helps the podcast grow. If you leave a review I'll send you a free pep talk meditation to help motivate you to workout. Just make sure you screenshot your review and email me (⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ashleyrobutz@gmail.com⁠⁠) Thank you in advance! MUAH 💋 🎧⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Leave a review on Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🤎Follow Me on Socials 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INSTAGRAM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YOUTUBE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

  • S1 · E194
    August 4 · 31 min

    (194) 7 codes I live by (as a logical turned woo woo girlie)

    🔓join UNLOCKED the free masterclass✨ I used to be the most logical person I know, and now I plan my week around my human design and I believe energy is as real as anything I could prove on paper. This episode is the whole list of what I actually believe and why. It starts with the big one, which is that you don't manifest from your thoughts, you manifest from your subconscious beliefs, and that's why affirmations you don't believe do nothing for you. I get into what like attracts like really means, what happens to your energy when you recode what's underneath, why I let money be easy now, and why doing the things I said I would do gave me more freedom than any amount of flexibility ever did. 📩 Join my weekly ⁠newsletter⁠ 🤍 Apply to THE CODE 🖤Check out my ⁠⁠⁠⁠ShopMy ⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🌿Subscribe to my ⁠⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠⁠ Leaving a review really helps the podcast grow. If you leave a review I'll send you a free pep talk meditation to help motivate you to workout. Just make sure you screenshot your review and email me (⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ashleyrobutz@gmail.com⁠⁠) Thank you in advance! MUAH 💋 🎧⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Leave a review on Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🤎Follow Me on Socials 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INSTAGRAM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YOUTUBE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

  • S1 · E193
    July 28 · 49 min

    (193) the secret to trusting yourself with intuitive guide and energy healer Emma Jackson

    Emma Jackson is back for part two, and this one is all energy. We got into what energy actually is, why you can walk into a room and feel off without being able to name why, and how to tell the difference between your intuition and your fear. I spent most of this conversation asking her for the steps and the hack, and she kept handing it back to me. There is no one right way to do this. It's about coming home to yourself and trusting what you already know. What you'll learn What energy actually is, and why Emma calls it information How to tell the difference between an intuitive nudge and fear talking The "I Wonder" note in her phone, and why writing down random thoughts builds self trust Why fear sits at the lowest vibration and love sits at the highest, and what that means for the decisions you're avoiding What actually happens in a Reiki session, including the blocks that show up in the root and solar plexus Why energetic sensitivity is a spectrum and not a gift some people were born with How Emma protects and clears her energy, including the hat trick How one small nudge to visit her mom in Newfoundland changed the entire direction of her life The Code is open The Code is my private mentorship. Six months of me in your subconscious, recoding the beliefs running your money, your body, and your success. This is the thing I do that changes people's lives, and I take a small number of clients at a time. Apply here: ashleyrobutz.com/the-code Connect with Emma Instagram: September 2026 RELORIA Reiki Certification + Energy Healing Training The Bridge Between Podcast 📩 Join my weekly ⁠newsletter⁠ 🤍 Book a ⁠Brainwashing Session⁠ — 60 min 1:1 to find the ONE block keeping you stuck + recode it (code POD30) 🖤Check out my ⁠⁠⁠⁠ShopMy ⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🌿Subscribe to my ⁠⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠⁠ Leaving a review really helps the podcast grow. If you leave a review I'll send you a free pep talk meditation to help motivate you to workout. Just make sure you screenshot your review and email me (⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ashleyrobutz@gmail.com⁠⁠) Thank you in advance! MUAH 💋 🎧⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Leave a review on Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🤎Follow Me on Socials 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INSTAGRAM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YOUTUBE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

  • S1 · E192
    July 23 · 23 min

    (192) my client thought sugar was the reason she couldn't lose the weight (I'm giving away $10k in coaching scholarships)

    APPLY TO THE SCHOLARSHIP My client came in convinced the reason she'd given up on her dream body was sugar. Too many cravings, not enough discipline. What we found in her audit was the complete opposite, and it had nothing to do with food. In this episode I walk through her full client audit start to finish: what she came in with, the subconscious belief we uncovered, where it started, and what we recoded it to. What you'll learn Why "I eat too much sugar" is almost never the actual problem How to tell the difference between a surface symptom and a real subconscious block The belief that was keeping her from even considering her dream body as a possibility Why disappointment can feel safer to your nervous system than going after what you want How to spot the block underneath your own start-stop cycle What it looks like to map the identity and habits of your healthy, confident self Why your body already knows what movement it wants, and what happens when you stop overriding it Scholarship applications Friday at 12 pm PST I'm giving away a free 3 month coaching scholarship to The Code, my 1-1 mentorship, plus multiple partial scholarships. Inside The Code we go through your money, body and success blocks to find out why you are the way you are and how to recode it. We meet every other week, you have access to me during the week, and there's a check-in form and habit tracker so you're actually doing the work. 📩 Join my weekly ⁠newsletter⁠ 🖤Check out my ⁠⁠⁠⁠ShopMy ⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🌿Subscribe to my ⁠⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠⁠ Leaving a review really helps the podcast grow. If you leave a review I'll send you a free pep talk meditation to help motivate you to workout. Just make sure you screenshot your review and email me (⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ashleyrobutz@gmail.com⁠⁠) Thank you in advance! MUAH 💋 🎧⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Leave a review on Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🤎Follow Me on Socials 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INSTAGRAM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YOUTUBE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

  • S1 · E191
    July 21 · 29 min

    (191) the science of glowing tf up (unlock a full system upgrade)

    APPLY TO WIN FREE COACHING HERE You've heard "glow up" a thousand times — new hair, new body, new wardrobe. But what if everything you thought a glow up was, was only scratching the surface? In this episode we're getting into the actual science behind what happens when a woman truly transforms — and it starts way before the mirror. We're talking about the electromagnetic energy you're already emitting and why people feel you before you even speak, the neuroscience of confidence and how your nervous system is either making you magnetic or pushing people away without you even knowing it, and what's actually happening inside your body and brain when a real glow up takes place. This isn't wellness fluff. This is the science nobody in this space is talking about — and once you hear it, you'll never think about your transformation the same way again. 📩 Join my weekly ⁠newsletter⁠ 🖤Check out my ⁠⁠⁠⁠ShopMy ⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🌿Subscribe to my ⁠⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠⁠ Leaving a review really helps the podcast grow. If you leave a review I'll send you a free pep talk meditation to help motivate you to workout. Just make sure you screenshot your review and email me (⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ashleyrobutz@gmail.com⁠⁠) Thank you in advance! MUAH 💋 🎧⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Leave a review on Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🤎Follow Me on Socials 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INSTAGRAM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YOUTUBE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

  • S1 · E190
    July 14 · 30 min

    (190) 5 brutally honest truths about becoming THAT GIRL

    Join THE CODE private mentorship Find your Block (take the free quiz) Changing your life looks exciting from the outside. From the inside, it's uncomfortable, lonely, and slower than anyone admits. In this episode, Ashley breaks down 5 brutally honest truths about what real change actually feels like, so you stop thinking the hard parts mean you're doing it wrong. This is for the woman who's already reaching for more and finding the middle harder than she expected. No surface-level tips, just the honest mechanics of becoming who you know you're meant to be. In this episode: Why growth never stops being uncomfortable, and how to stay in it instead of running What it really costs to have what most people don't Why you have to feel like you already have the thing before it shows up How changing your life quietly changes your relationships, and why outgrowing people is part of it Why discipline can't fix a belief, and what actually recodes self-sabotage If you're in the messy middle of leveling up, this episode will make you feel less alone in it and give you a new way to read the discomfort you're feeling. 📩 Join my weekly ⁠newsletter⁠ 🤍 Book a ⁠Brainwashing Session⁠ — 60 min 1:1 to find the ONE block keeping you stuck + recode it (code POD30) 🖤Check out my ⁠⁠⁠⁠ShopMy ⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🌿Subscribe to my ⁠⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠⁠ Leaving a review really helps the podcast grow. If you leave a review I'll send you a free pep talk meditation to help motivate you to workout. Just make sure you screenshot your review and email me (⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ashleyrobutz@gmail.com⁠⁠) Thank you in advance! MUAH 💋 🎧⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Leave a review on Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🤎Follow Me on Socials 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INSTAGRAM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YOUTUBE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

  • S1 · E189
    July 7 · 25 min

    (189) wealthy, healthy + healed pt. 1: money rituals, health anxiety + getting lip filler

    A new series, and a fresh start for an old one. I used to do Healthy Hot & Healed, and I'm bringing it back as Wealthy, Healthy and Healed, because I want to take you through all of it now, the money, the body, and the healing. This isn't me telling you how to do it from the finish line. I'm a student of this work too, so I'm just letting you behind the curtain on what I'm actually working on right now. The money rituals and the belief I'm rewiring, the health things I'm genuinely working through, where I'm going deeper spiritually, and a real catch-up on my life at the end. Consider this your reminder that you're not healing alone. 📩 Join my weekly ⁠newsletter⁠ 🤍 Book a ⁠Brainwashing Session⁠ — 60 min 1:1 to find the ONE block keeping you stuck + recode it (code POD30) 🖤Check out my ⁠⁠⁠⁠ShopMy ⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🌿Subscribe to my ⁠⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠⁠ Leaving a review really helps the podcast grow. If you leave a review I'll send you a free pep talk meditation to help motivate you to workout. Just make sure you screenshot your review and email me (⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ashleyrobutz@gmail.com⁠⁠) Thank you in advance! MUAH 💋 🎧⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Leave a review on Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🤎Follow Me on Socials 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INSTAGRAM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YOUTUBE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

  • S1 · E188
    June 30 · 33 min

    (188) the mid-year reset: how to lock in for the rest of 2026 (steal my 7 step method)

    Book Your Brainwashing Session In today's episode, Ashley shares her exact 7-step process for a mid-year reset so you can lock in for the rest of 2026, even if this year hasn't gone the way you planned. Her take is that most resets fail for one reason: we set new goals on top of the same beliefs that stopped us the first time. So this isn't about building better habits or trying harder. It's about finding what's actually been in your way and recoding it.If you've been telling yourself it's too late to turn this year around, this is the episode that proves it isn't. 📩 Join my weekly newsletter 🤍 Book a Brainwashing Session — 60 min 1:1 to find the ONE block keeping you stuck + recode it (code POD30) 🖤Check out my ⁠⁠⁠ShopMy ⁠⁠⁠ 🌿Subscribe to my ⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠ Leaving a review really helps the podcast grow. If you leave a review I'll send you a free pep talk meditation to help motivate you to workout. Just make sure you screenshot your review and email me (⁠⁠⁠⁠ashleyrobutz@gmail.com⁠) Thank you in advance! MUAH 💋 🎧⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Leave a review on Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🤎Follow Me on Socials 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INSTAGRAM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YOUTUBE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

  • S1 · E187
    June 23 · 50 min

    (187) my reinvention eras: binge drinking, performing at the superbowl and soft girl discipline

    In today's episode, Ashley Robutz joins Becca Nichols for an honest conversation about her reinvention eras and what it actually takes to feel good from the inside out. Ashley opens up about the binge eating and binge drinking of her college years, the negative self-talk she lived in for a long time, and the turning point that started it all. She gets into her time performing as a 49ers cheerleader, why none of the external wins fixed how she felt inside, and what finally did: regulating her nervous system, learning to trust her body instead of forcing it, and practicing what she calls soft girl discipline. If you've ever hit the goal and still felt empty, this one's for you. 🤎Apply To The Code 🖤Check out my ⁠⁠⁠ShopMy ⁠⁠⁠ 🌿Subscribe to my ⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠ Leaving a review really helps the podcast grow. If you leave a review I'll send you a free pep talk meditation to help motivate you to workout. Just make sure you screenshot your review and email me (⁠⁠⁠⁠ashleyrobutz@gmail.com⁠) Thank you in advance! MUAH 💋 🎧⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Leave a review on Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Check out Becca's podcast here 🤎Follow Me on Socials 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INSTAGRAM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YOUTUBE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

  • S1 · E186
    June 16 · 25 min

    (186) become magnetic: how to actually attract what you want in 4 simple steps

    In today's episode, Ashley breaks down what it actually means to be magnetic, and why some people seem to attract everything they want while you're working twice as hard for half the result. She gets into 4 signs you're out of alignment (the body symptoms, the Sunday-night dread, feeling behind even when you're winning), and why doing everything "right" still leaves you stuck when you're aimed at the wrong thing.This one's for the woman who's done everything she's supposed to and still feels the gap between who she is and who she knows she could be. 🤎Apply to THE CODE 🖤Check out my ⁠⁠⁠ShopMy ⁠⁠⁠ 🌿Subscribe to my ⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠ Leaving a review really helps the podcast grow. If you leave a review I'll send you a free pep talk meditation to help motivate you to workout. Just make sure you screenshot your review and email me (⁠⁠⁠⁠ashleyrobutz@gmail.com⁠) Thank you in advance! MUAH 💋 🎧⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Leave a review on Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🤎Follow Me on Socials 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INSTAGRAM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YOUTUBE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

  • S1 · E185
    June 9 · 27 min

    (185) 10 THAT GIRL upgrades you need in 2026

    🤎Apply to The Code These are the ten things that genuinely made my life better. None of them are life-overhaul big. They're small upgrades that added up until I became the version of me I actually wanted to be, and in this episode I'm breaking down all ten. This isn't about more discipline. It's about changing what your normal looks like, one small swap at a time. From the products that upgraded my routine to the mindset work that rewired how I move through my day, these are the ten things I'd tell any woman to start with in 2026. 🖤Check out my ⁠⁠⁠ShopMy ⁠⁠⁠ 🌿Subscribe to my ⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠ Leaving a review really helps the podcast grow. If you leave a review I'll send you a free pep talk meditation to help motivate you to workout. Just make sure you screenshot your review and email me (⁠⁠⁠⁠ashleyrobutz@gmail.com⁠) Thank you in advance! MUAH 💋 🎧⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Leave a review on Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🤎Follow Me on Socials 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INSTAGRAM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YOUTUBE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

  • S1 · E184
    June 2 · 19 min

    (184) the 3 beliefs keeping you broke, stuck and playing small (recode these now)

    🤎Apply To THE CODE You can see exactly where you want to be. The body, the money, the life. But no matter how hard you try, something keeps getting in the way. Those aren't external obstacles. They're invisible walls — limiting beliefs running so deep in your subconscious you don't even know they're there. In this episode we're breaking down the top 3 limiting beliefs I see most in my practice, why they're blocking everything you want, and exactly how to recode them so you can go after your hottest, richest, most successful self without the self sabotage, the overthinking, or the fear. This is the work that actually changes everything. 🗓️⁠⁠⁠Free 6 Week Soft Girl Discipline Reset Notion dashboard ⁠⁠⁠ 📩⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join my weekly newsletter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🖤Check out my ⁠⁠⁠ShopMy ⁠⁠⁠ 🌿Subscribe to my ⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠ Leaving a review really helps the podcast grow. If you leave a review I'll send you a free pep talk meditation to help motivate you to workout. Just make sure you screenshot your review and email me (⁠⁠⁠⁠ashleyrobutz@gmail.com⁠) Thank you in advance! MUAH 💋 🎧⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Leave a review on Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🤎Follow Me on Socials 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INSTAGRAM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YOUTUBE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

  • S1 · E183
    May 26 · 31 min

    (183) brainwashing 101: train your brain to be HOT RICH and CONFIDENT

    🤎Book a free RECODING AUDIT You're already being brainwashed. By your past, your patterns, your programming. The question is whether you're going to keep letting it happen on accident — or start doing it on purpose. In this episode, I'm breaking down the actual neuroscience of why your subconscious is running the show, why willpower and positive thinking alone will never be enough, and the exact process I use to help my clients recode limiting beliefs at the root and rewire new ones that actually stick. This is how you stop surviving your old story and start living from your next level. 🤎Apply to The Code 🖤Check out my ⁠⁠⁠ShopMy ⁠⁠⁠ 🌿Subscribe to my ⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠ Leaving a review really helps the podcast grow. If you leave a review I'll send you a free pep talk meditation to help motivate you to workout. Just make sure you screenshot your review and email me (⁠⁠⁠⁠ashleyrobutz@gmail.com⁠) Thank you in advance! MUAH 💋 🎧⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Leave a review on Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🤎Follow Me on Socials 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INSTAGRAM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YOUTUBE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

  • S1 · E182
    May 19 · 23 min

    (182) the duality method: how optimism + grit makes you unstoppable

    Apply to 1-1 Coaching You've been told to stay realistic. To manage your expectations. To be grateful for where you are. And maybe that advice has kept you safe — but has it kept you stuck? In this episode we're breaking down the method nobody talks about: pairing radical, borderline irrational optimism with an unshakeable inner toughness that means nothing — and no one — can knock you off course. This is the science and the strategy behind becoming the woman who has it all, and actually believes she deserves it. 🗓️⁠⁠⁠Free 6 Week Soft Girl Discipline Reset Notion dashboard ⁠⁠⁠ 📩⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join my weekly newsletter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🖤Check out my ⁠⁠⁠ShopMy ⁠⁠⁠ 🌿Subscribe to my ⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠ Leaving a review really helps the podcast grow. If you leave a review I'll send you a free pep talk meditation to help motivate you to workout. Just make sure you screenshot your review and email me (⁠⁠⁠⁠ashleyrobutz@gmail.com⁠) Thank you in advance! MUAH 💋 🎧⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Leave a review on Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🤎Follow Me on Socials 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INSTAGRAM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YOUTUBE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

  • S1 · E181
    May 12 · 27 min

    (181) niche ways I’m getting in the best shape of my life (even while traveling)

    🤎Apply to The Code In this episode, I'm sharing the unconventional habits that are genuinely transforming how I look and feel, even with a packed travel schedule and zero interest in rigid routines. From visualizing my dream body mid-workout to ditching my Oura ring entirely, these are the shifts that actually moved the needle — and none of them came from a mainstream wellness playbook. We cover: Why I stopped tracking my food and started listening instead The sleep rituals keeping me regulated across time zones My non-negotiable travel toolkit (fiber, electrolytes, and the supplements I never check without) How I'm using human design and astrology to build routines that work with my nature — not against it 🗓️⁠⁠⁠Free 6 Week Soft Girl Discipline Reset Notion dashboard ⁠⁠⁠ 📩⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join my weekly newsletter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🖤Check out my ⁠⁠⁠ShopMy ⁠⁠⁠ 🌿Subscribe to my ⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠ Leaving a review really helps the podcast grow. If you leave a review I'll send you a free pep talk meditation to help motivate you to workout. Just make sure you screenshot your review and email me (⁠⁠⁠⁠ashleyrobutz@gmail.com⁠) Thank you in advance! MUAH 💋 🎧⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Leave a review on Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🤎Follow Me on Socials 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INSTAGRAM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YOUTUBE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

  • S1 · E180
    May 5 · 29 min

    (180) how to actually reinvent your self in 2026 (completely transform your life in 90 days step by step)

    🔓Get a 7 Day Free Trial to The Future Self System App 🤎Free Re-Coding Audit If you’ve been feeling stuck in the same patterns… the same habits… the same version of yourself—you’re not broken. You’re just operating from an outdated identity. In today’s episode, we’re breaking down what it actually takes to reinvent yourself in 2026—and no, it’s not about forcing discipline or trying to become someone you’re not. It’s about understanding the deeper layers that are running your life behind the scenes. We’re going beyond surface-level habits and getting into the real work: Who you are at your core (and how to reconnect with your authentic self) The hidden beliefs that are keeping you small—even when you know you want more How your nervous system is shaping your decisions, consistency, and self-trust Why your emotional triggers are actually your biggest opportunity for growth And how all of this directly impacts your behavior, your results, and your ability to create the life you want 🗓️⁠⁠⁠Free 6 Week Soft Girl Discipline Reset Notion dashboard ⁠⁠⁠ 📩⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join my weekly newsletter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🖤Check out my ⁠⁠⁠ShopMy ⁠⁠⁠ 🌿Subscribe to my ⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠ Leaving a review really helps the podcast grow. If you leave a review I'll send you a free pep talk meditation to help motivate you to workout. Just make sure you screenshot your review and email me (⁠⁠⁠⁠ashleyrobutz@gmail.com⁠) Thank you in advance! MUAH 💋 🎧⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Leave a review on Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🤎Follow Me on Socials 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INSTAGRAM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YOUTUBE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

  • S1 · E179
    April 28 · 32 min

    (179) ask ash anything (intuition, alcohol, routines, subconscious reprogramming + more)

    🤎Apply to The Code In this episode, Ashley answers your most requested questions, raw, unfiltered, and nothing held back. We cover intuition, the truth about reaching your dream body, supplement stacks, subconscious reprogramming, alcohol alternatives, discipline, routines, PCOS and GLP-1s. 🗓️⁠⁠⁠Free 6 Week Soft Girl Discipline Reset Notion dashboard ⁠⁠⁠ 📩⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join my weekly newsletter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🖤Check out my ⁠⁠⁠ShopMy ⁠⁠⁠ 🌿Subscribe to my ⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠ Leaving a review really helps the podcast grow. If you leave a review I'll send you a free pep talk meditation to help motivate you to workout. Just make sure you screenshot your review and email me (⁠⁠⁠⁠ashleyrobutz@gmail.com⁠) Thank you in advance! MUAH 💋 🎧⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Leave a review on Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🤎Follow Me on Socials 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INSTAGRAM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YOUTUBE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

  • S1 · E178
    April 21 · 26 min

    (178) 5 habits that have made me hotter and richer

    🤎Apply to The Code Here This episode breaks down the real habits that made me hotter, more confident, and increased my income. We’re talking about the mindset shifts, routines, and identity changes that actually work, without strict plans or burnout. If you feel like you’re doing everything right but still not getting results, this is for you. this episode we cover… why your money beliefs dictate your capacity for receiving it a simple hack to start receiving more the morning routine that made me hotter and richer why having a strict health and fitness plan will never get you to your hottest self the number 1 way i increased my income and had the biggest glow up of my life 🗓️⁠⁠⁠Free 6 Week Soft Girl Discipline Reset Notion dashboard ⁠⁠⁠ 📩⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join my weekly newsletter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🖤Check out my ⁠⁠⁠ShopMy ⁠⁠⁠ 🌿Subscribe to my ⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠ 💲⁠Track your expenses ⁠(save 50% off) Leaving a review really helps the podcast grow. If you leave a review I'll send you a free pep talk meditation to help motivate you to workout. Just make sure you screenshot your review and email me (⁠⁠⁠⁠ashleyrobutz@gmail.com⁠) Thank you in advance! MUAH 💋 🎧⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Leave a review on Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🤎Follow Me on Socials 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INSTAGRAM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💛⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YOUTUBE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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