The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Doctor Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Welcome to "The Intimate Marriage Podcast," the podcast where we explore the secrets to cultivating passionate and intimate relationships. I'm your host, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, aka "The Intimacy Doctor," an experienced intimacy coach and marriage expert.

In every committed marriage, intimacy and connection are the foundation for a fulfilling relationship. Join me as we delve into how small shifts and being uncompromising in your daily interactions can lead to profound and nourishing physical/emotional intimacy.

During each episode, we'll explore topics such as sexual intimacy, emotional awareness, and building an intimate connection that feels comfortable and authentic for you and your partner. I'll share practical advice and strategies to help you unlock the full potential of your relationship.

As "The Intimacy Doctor," I've helped countless couples transform their relationships and create a life filled with passion, purpose, and deep satisfaction. With over two decades of experience, I believe that true intimacy and success stem from being unapologetically yourself. Together, let's uncover the secrets to a juicy, nourishing, and intimate marriage.

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Download the first chapter of my bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=book

If you're ready to take your intimacy skills to the next level, explore my Aligned & Hot Marriage program. It's designed specifically for couples who refuse to settle for anything less than extraordinary love and connection. Visit https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/aligned-hot-marriage/?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=ahm to learn more.

Join my email list to stay connected—it's where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=subscribe

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WHAT DOES AN INTIMACY COACH DO?

An intimacy coach is a trained professional who specializes in helping individuals and couples cultivate deeper connections and enhance their intimate relationships. The role of an intimacy coach is to guide and support their clients in exploring various aspects of intimacy, including emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy.

Intimacy coaches create a safe and non-judgmental space for their clients to express their needs, desires, and concerns related to intimacy. An intimacy coach helps clients develop self-awareness and emotional intelligence, enabling them to better understand their own desires and those of their partner. They provide guidance on effective communication techniques, conflict resolution, and exploring new ways to deepen emotional and physical intimacy.

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#296
Yesterday · 40 min
296. Pleasure Is Part Of Healing, Not The Reward For It | with Dr. Kimberly Pendleton
Many people believe they need to completely heal before they can experience deep intimacy, joy, or desire. But what if waiting until you're "fixed" keeps you from the very experiences that help you heal? In this conversation, Alexandra Stockwell, MD welcomes intimacy coach and trauma-informed educator Dr. Kimberly Pendleton for a compassionate discussion about the relationship between trauma, pleasure, and lasting intimacy. Together, they explore why healing isn't a linear journey, how reconnecting with your senses can restore your sense of self, and why flirtation, confidence, and playfulness aren't frivolous—they're powerful expressions of feeling fully alive. Whether you're navigating the effects of past trauma, supporting a loved one through their healing, or simply longing for a more vibrant relationship with yourself and your partner, this episode offers a hopeful perspective on what's possible. In this episode, you'll discover: • Why pleasure can be an essential part of healing rather than something to postpone• How trauma impacts identity, desire, and emotional connection• Practical ways couples can create safer conversations around past experiences• Why flirtation is really about confidence, aliveness, and enjoying yourself in the presence of another• Small, intentional practices that help you reconnect with your body and your joy Healing isn't about becoming someone new. It's about reclaiming the parts of yourself that have always deserved love, pleasure, and connection. Connect with Dr. Kimberly Pendleton: Website: www.kimberlyrosependleton.comInstagram: www.instagram.com/drkimberlyrosependletonFree Pleasure Bundle: https://www.kimberlyrosependleton.com/offers/LeK3pvdA/checkout?coupon_code=BRAVOBRAVOBRAVO
#295
August 19 · 20 min
295. What if your best sex is yet to come?
Many of us assume that passion naturally fades with time and that the most exciting years of our sex lives are behind us. But what if that's simply a story we've been told? What if intimacy, pleasure, and desire can continue to grow throughout your marriage? In this episode, Alexandra Stockwell challenges the belief that long-term relationships inevitably become predictable in the bedroom. She explains why satisfying sex isn't about recapturing the excitement of the early years, but about intentionally allowing your intimate relationship to evolve as you evolve. Through practical examples and gentle encouragement, she shares how small acts of curiosity and adventure can reignite connection without sacrificing the trust and safety that make intimacy meaningful. Whether your sex life feels routine, disconnected, or simply ready for something new, this episode will inspire you to see lasting passion in an entirely different way. In this episode, you'll discover: • Why your sex life should continue growing throughout every stage of marriage • How routine quietly diminishes intimacy and erotic energy • The difference between functional sex and deeply connected intimacy • Simple, approachable ways to bring more playfulness and adventure into your relationship • Why meaningful change happens one small, courageous step at a time Your marriage doesn't have to settle into predictability. With curiosity, intention, and a willingness to grow together, your most intimate years may still be waiting for you. Past Episodes on BDSM:
#294
August 12 · 27 min
294. The strongest move in your marriage is going first
When something feels off in your relationship, it's natural to hope your partner will be the one to change first. But waiting often keeps couples stuck in the same painful patterns. Real transformation begins when someone has the courage to take the first step. In this conversation, Alexandra Stockwell sits down with marriage therapist and host of Sexy Marriage Radio, Dr. Corey Allan, to explore why taking responsibility for your own growth is one of the most powerful gifts you can give your marriage. Together, they unpack the difference between compromising and honoring your individuality, why our differences can strengthen rather than weaken a relationship, and how authenticity creates deeper intimacy. If you've ever found yourself waiting for your spouse to apologize, communicate differently, or meet your needs before making a change yourself, this episode offers a refreshing perspective that can shift the entire dynamic of your relationship. In this episode, you'll discover: • Why "going first" is an act of strength, not surrender • How focusing on yourself changes the entire relationship dynamic • Why your differences don't have to become points of conflict • The hidden cost of waiting for your partner to change first • How authenticity creates more intimacy than people-pleasing ever can Healthy marriages aren't built by keeping score. They're built by two people who are willing to grow, take responsibility, and choose connection, even when it feels vulnerable. Connect with Dr. Corey Allan: Website:⁠ https://marriagefullyalive.com/about/⁠ Books:⁠ https://www.amazon.com/Books-Dr-Corey-Allan⁠ Sexy Marriage Radio:⁠ https://smr.fm/about/⁠ Alexandra and Corey’s previous conversation: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/108-sexy-marriage-radio-w-dr-corey-pam-allan/
#293
August 5 · 22 min
293. Turning Her On: What if better sex starts long before the bedroom?
Many couples believe the key to a more satisfying sex life is finding the right technique or creating the perfect mood. But often, the most meaningful intimacy begins with something much simpler: feeling deeply seen, understood, and emotionally connected. In this episode, Alexandra Stockwell responds to a thoughtful listener's question about maintaining intimacy after nearly five decades of marriage. She explores why emotional curiosity, playful connection, and honest conversations about sex create the foundation for a vibrant intimate life, no matter how long you've been together. Whether you've been married for five years or 50, this episode offers practical, compassionate guidance for nurturing the kind of connection that naturally leads to greater closeness, trust, and desire. In this episode, you'll discover: - Why emotional connection is often the missing ingredient in physical intimacy - How asking meaningful questions can deepen your relationship every day - The surprising role that playfulness and novelty have in sustaining desire - Why talking about sex after intimacy can strengthen your connection - How both partners can take responsibility for creating a fulfilling intimate life Lasting intimacy isn't built by finding the perfect technique. It's created one conversation, one playful moment, and one intentional act of connection at a time.
#292
July 29 · 26 min
292. Can conflict actually bring you closer? | with Devon & Nico Hase
Most of us grow up believing that healthy relationships have very little conflict. But what if the goal isn't avoiding conflict at all? What if the real opportunity lies in how we repair, reconnect, and grow together afterward? In this conversation, Alexandra Stockwell is joined by meditation teachers and authors Devon and Nico Hase to explore the beautiful, messy reality of long-term partnership. Together, they unpack why conflict styles differ, how mindfulness can transform the way couples navigate disagreements, and why embracing our humanity creates deeper intimacy than striving for perfection ever could. Whether you're the first to seek repair, struggle with difficult conversations, or simply want to feel more connected to your partner, this episode offers compassionate wisdom and practical insights for building a relationship that can hold both the mess and the love. In this episode, you'll discover: - The three common conflict styles and how they shape your relationship - Why repair matters more than avoiding disagreements• How mindfulness and deep listening create stronger connection during difficult moments - What Buddhism can teach us about intimacy without expecting perfection - Why healthy relationships make room for both conflict and joy The strongest relationships aren't conflict-free. They're built by two people who are willing to keep showing up, listening deeply, and choosing connection again and again. Connect with Devon & Nico Hase: Website: https://www.devonandnicohase.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/devonandnicohase Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/devonandnicohase
#291
July 22 · 7 min
291. Do you have enough fun in your marriage?
When we think about creating a more intimate marriage, it's easy to focus on communication, conflict, or even sex. But what if one of the most powerful ways to strengthen your relationship is also one of the simplest? In this episode, Alexandra Stockwell explores what she calls our modern-day "fun recession" and why so many couples have unintentionally stopped prioritizing joy together. Drawing from years of coaching couples, as well as her own marriage, she shares why laughter, novelty, and play aren't luxuries. They're essential ingredients for emotional closeness, trust, and lasting passion. Whether your relationship feels busy, predictable, or simply overdue for more lighthearted moments, this episode offers a heartfelt invitation to reconnect through shared experiences that bring you both alive. In this episode, you'll discover: • Why fun is a powerful foundation for intimacy• How novelty and shared experiences strengthen emotional and physical connection• Simple ways to bring more laughter, play, and delight into everyday married life• Why creating joy together makes navigating life's challenges easier When you choose fun, you're not avoiding the deeper work of marriage. You're creating the conditions that make deeper connection possible.
#290
July 15 · 22 min
290. What to Do When Your Partner Won't Do the Work
When you’re the only one invested in improving your marriage, it’s easy to feel lonely, frustrated, and discouraged. In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell responds to a listener’s heartfelt question about what happens when one partner is eager to grow while the other seems resistant. She explores the “teenager attitude” that can emerge in relationships, explains why pushing for change often creates more resistance, and offers practical ways to foster deeper connection without pressure. Through personal stories, coaching insights, and compassionate guidance, Alexandra shares how choosing your own growth can positively transform your marriage—even if your partner isn’t ready to join you yet. Resources Mentioned: What To Do When You’re Outgrowing Your Partner: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/how-to-handle-growth-differences/ When Your Partner Isn’t Into Personal Growth: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/102-when-your-partner-isnt-into-personal-growth-the-intimate-marriage-podcast/ The Intimate Connection App: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/app Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book, Uncompromising Intimacy, here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/aligned-hot-marriage Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights, and opportunities to learn with her: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
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July 8 · 34 min
289. How to Reignite Desire After Having Children | with Cordelia Kent
When children become the center of family life, it's easy for intimacy to fade into the background. In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and Cordelia Kent share a heartfelt conversation about how to reignite desire, deepen emotional connection, and return to one another as loving partners. About Cordelia Kent Cordelia Kent writes evocative love stories where desire tells the truth. Her contemporary romances are known for their emotional intelligence and unapologetic heat: in her worlds sex is transformation, intimacy is courage, and every happily-ever-after starts with radical vulnerability. She lives in a storybook Tudor in Kansas City with her dreamboat husband, two small wonders, and a backyard full of bunnies. Connect with Cordelia Kent: ⁠https://www.cordeliakent.com/⁠ ⁠https://amzn.to/4a583Gb⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/cordeliakentauthor⁠ ⁠https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/29131546.Cordelia_Kent⁠ https://www.facebook.com/cordeliakentauthor/ https://freebie.cordeliakent.com Resources Mentioned: Emily Nagoski’s “Come As You Are”⁠ https://amzn.to/3MjOBfx⁠ Certified Sexological Bodywork Trainings throughout the world: ⁠https://sexologicalbodyworkers.org/schools ⁠ Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Linkedin⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.alignedhotmarriage.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights, and opportunities to learn with her:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Simplified Impact⁠⁠⁠
S1 · E288
July 1 · 12 min
288. Marriage Communication That Builds Intimacy | Text Like Lovers, Not Roommates
Marriage communication is shaped by the small moments you create every day, including the texts you send. In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares simple, heartfelt ways to bring more playfulness, intimacy, and authentic relationship communication into your messages so you can nurture a marriage that feels warm, connected, and fully alive. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Linkedin⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.alignedhotmarriage.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights, and opportunities to learn with her:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Simplified Impact⁠⁠
S1 · E287
June 24 · 11 min
287. How Small Moments Build Extraordinary Marriages | 30 Years of Choosing Intimacy
Intimacy in marriage is not something you find. It's something you create through everyday moments of connection, vulnerability, and care. In this live talk, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares the simple yet powerful practice of choosing emotional intimacy, deepening communication, and creating a passionate, fulfilling relationship that grows stronger with time. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Linkedin⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.alignedhotmarriage.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights, and opportunities to learn with her:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Simplified Impact⁠⁠
S1 · E286
June 17 · 25 min
286. The Male Loneliness Epidemic: What It Means for Relationships and Connection | Sean Harvey
Male loneliness affects more than just men. Join Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and Sean Harvey for a compassionate conversation about why so many men struggle with loneliness, disconnection, and belonging, and how a deeper understanding of men's inner lives strengthens intimacy, communication, and connection in your relationship. About Sean Harvey Sean Harvey is a men's engagement strategist and founder of the Warrior Compassion Institute. He works across high intensity and hyper masculine systems to engage men, strengthen leaders, and transform cultures. His statewide efforts focus on engaging the hardest to reach men in the hardest to access systems to model approaches relevant for all men. He is the co-founder of Project Compassion, a national initiative advancing compassion in policing. Sean is the author of Warrior Compassion, a fellow at American University's PERIL, and speaks nationally on men, masculinity, and disrupting the quiet crisis in organizational systems. Learn more: https://warriorcompassion.com https://linkedin.com/in/seanharvey https://dudepsychology.substack.com https://www.warriorcompassion.com/accelerator Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Linkedin⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.alignedhotmarriage.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights, and opportunities to learn with her:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Simplified Impact⁠⁠
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June 10 · 13 min
285. Why Most Couples Never Reach Their Sexual Potential
Most couples are accessing only a small fraction of what is possible in their sexual intimacy. In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores the difference between impact-oriented sex and sensually authentic sex, and why understanding that distinction deepens sexual intimacy, awakens erotic vitality, and creates a more nourishing and fulfilling experience of marriage. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Linkedin⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.alignedhotmarriage.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights, and opportunities to learn with her:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Simplified Impact⁠⁠
S1 · E284
June 3 · 8 min
284. The Important Investment You Should Make in Your Marriage
Marriage retreats offer couples the chance to slow down, step away from the responsibilities of daily life, and reconnect in ways that feel deeply nourishing and alive. In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares how intentional time together deepens emotional intimacy, rekindles passion, strengthens communication, and helps you and your spouse feel more connected, playful, and inspired in your marriage again. If you’re ready to experience this kind of transformation in your own relationship, learn more about Dr. Alexandra Stockwell’s couples retreat experiences here: Couples Retreats with Dr. Alexandra Stockwell Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Linkedin⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.alignedhotmarriage.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights, and opportunities to learn with her:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Simplified Impact⁠⁠
S1 · E286
June 1 · 12 min
288. Marriage Communication That Builds Intimacy | Text Like Lovers, Not Roommates
Marriage communication is shaped by the small moments you create every day, including the texts you send. In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares simple, heartfelt ways to bring more playfulness, intimacy, and authentic relationship communication into your messages so you can nurture a marriage that feels warm, connected, and fully alive.
S1 · E283
May 27 · 24 min
283. How Women Can Ask for What They Want in Marriage and Sex | with Kevin Anthony
Marriage and sex flourish when you feel safe expressing what you truly want and need with the person you love. In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and Certified Sexologist Kevin Anthony explore how honest communication deepens emotional intimacy, reduces resentment, and creates more connection, understanding and pleasure in your marriage, in and out of the bedroom. About Kevin Anthony: Kevin Anthony is a Certified Sexologist, Tantra Counselor, NLP Practitioner and a Sex, Love & Relationship coach. For over 10 years he has worked with men, women, and couples to have the relationships of their dreams, and the best sex of their lives! He is also the host of "The Love Lab Podcast", creator of the popular YouTube channel Kevin Anthony Coaching, and creator of the popular online course series "Power and Mastery" as well as other online courses for both men and women." https://www.kevinanthonycoaching.com/ https://www.powerandmastery.com/ https://www.sacredfemininearts.com/ https://www.instagram.com/kevinanthonycoaching/ https://www.youtube.com/@Kevinanthonycoaching https://www.facebook.com/kevinanthonycoaching https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevinanthonycoaching Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Linkedin⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.alignedhotmarriage.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights, and opportunities to learn with her:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Simplified Impact⁠⁠
S1 · E282
May 20 · 15 min
282. How To Rekindle Desire
Female desire is not selfish, irrational, or something to push aside. In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell invites you to reconnect with your desires so you can experience deeper intimacy, more emotional connection, and a more nourishing relationship with both yourself and your partner. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Linkedin⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.alignedhotmarriage.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights, and opportunities to learn with her:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Simplified Impact⁠⁠
S1 · E281
May 13 · 29 min
281. Inside a BDSM Marriage Part 2: When Submission Felt More Healing Than Staying in Control
In Part 2 of this intimate two-part conversation, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and her special guest focus on the relational impact of BDSM marriage dynamics. They discuss sexual aftercare, trauma healing, mindfulness, and the connection between surrender, trust, and personal transformation. They describe how conscious submission reshaped her relationship, emotional wellbeing, and capacity for intimacy. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠ Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: ⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠Linkedin⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl⁠⁠⁠⁠ Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book⁠⁠⁠⁠ Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠www.alignedhotmarriage.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights, and opportunities to learn with her:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠ This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: ⁠⁠⁠⁠Simplified Impact⁠⁠
S1 · E281
May 13 · 28 min
281. Inside a BDSM Marriage Part 1: Why High-Achieving Women Crave Surrender in Relationships
BDSM marriage dynamics open unexpected pathways to trust, emotional intimacy, surrender, and deeper connection. In Part 1 of this thoughtful, intimate, two-part conversation, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and her special guest explore feminine surrender, power dynamics, conscious BDSM, and how learning to let go of control transformed her marriage, informed her healing journey, and expanded her relationship with herself. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: ⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcast⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠ Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: ⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠Linkedin⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: ⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl⁠⁠⁠ Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book⁠⁠⁠ Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  ⁠⁠⁠www.alignedhotmarriage.com⁠⁠⁠ Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights, and opportunities to learn with her:  ⁠⁠⁠https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe⁠⁠⁠ This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: ⁠⁠⁠Simplified Impact⁠
S1 · E280
May 6 · 10 min
280. The Truth About Intimacy: What Most Couples Get Wrong
Intimacy is often misunderstood, a misunderstanding which quietly limits the depth of connection available in your relationship. In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares how emotional intimacy, vulnerability, and honest communication create the kind of connection that makes love and sex feel deeply fulfilling and alive. Dr. Alexandra’s book Uncompromising Intimacy offers practical ways to bring this into your relationship. Get your copy now: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: ⁠⁠Apple Podcast⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠ Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: ⁠⁠Website⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠Linkedin⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠ Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: ⁠⁠https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl⁠⁠ Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: ⁠⁠https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book⁠⁠ Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  ⁠⁠www.alignedhotmarriage.com⁠⁠ Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights, and opportunities to learn with her:  ⁠⁠https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe⁠⁠ This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: ⁠⁠Simplified Impact⁠
S1 · E279
April 29 · 10 min
279. The Intimacy Secret Lady Gaga Swears By
When you move beyond surface-level connection and allow yourself to be real, intimacy in relationships grows–even in the smallest interactions. In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares words of wisdom from Lady Gaga; it’s an invitation to soften, connect more deeply, and create a marriage where you both feel genuinely seen and understood. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: ⁠Apple Podcast⁠ | ⁠YouTube⁠ | ⁠Spotify⁠ Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: ⁠Website⁠ | ⁠Linkedin⁠ | ⁠Instagram⁠ Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: ⁠https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl⁠ Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: ⁠https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book⁠ Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  ⁠www.alignedhotmarriage.com⁠ Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights, and opportunities to learn with her:  ⁠https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe⁠ This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: ⁠Simplified Impact⁠

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