
Seeing God in Others and Other Lessons of Faith from Homeboy Industries with Mikala Rahn, Fr. Frank Buckley, S.J., and Mary Ellen Burton
After surviving a brain hemorrhage and facing stage-four metastatic cancer, Fr. Frank Buckley, S.J. describes the past year as both the hardest and the best of his life. His experience revealed something he had spent years searching for: God was not somewhere “out there.” God was already present within him, and in the people surrounding him at Homeboy Industries. In this deeply personal conversation, Tom Vozzo is joined by Mikala Rahn, Fr. Frank Buckley, S.J., and Mary Ellen Burton to explore how Homeboy Industries has transformed their understanding of God, faith, and unconditional love. Mikala shares why curiosity protects us from judgment and how loving ourselves is inseparable from accepting God’s love. Mary Ellen reflects on arriving at Homeboy broken, being welcomed into the community, and discovering a God who is “relaxed and smiling.” Together, they examine faith in action, the relationship between suffering and joy, and the difference between helping people and walking alongside them in kinship. They also discuss spiritual doubt, contemplative practice, cherished belonging, and why Homeboy can feel more like church than church itself. This episode is an honest exploration of what becomes possible when faith moves beyond belief and becomes a way of being with others. Key Takeaways God can be found in the chaos. Homeboy Industries may not look peaceful from the outside, but its relationships reveal a deeply present, loving, and nonjudgmental God. Accepting God’s love requires self-love. Believing that God loves us unconditionally is only part of the journey. We must also confront the barriers that prevent us from loving ourselves. Kinship is different from rescuing people. The goal is not to fix or save someone. It is to stand beside them and allow both people to be changed through the relationship. Homeboy offers a different model of leadership. Humble leadership is rooted in relationships, openness, and a willingness to be corrected while staying grounded in the mission. In This Episode [00:00] Introduction to The Homeboy Way [01:28] How Homeboy changed Mikala’s understanding of God [03:25] Mary Ellen arrives at Homeboy broken and finds love [04:18] Discovering a God who is relaxed and smiling [08:35] Fr. Frank’s hardest and best year [10:58] Experiencing the kingdom of God in a Homeboy classroom [11:38] A God too busy loving us to judge us [13:05] Finding unexpected joy after a devastating diagnosis [14:01] The dream that changed Fr. Frank’s surgery experience [19:04] The daily practices that keep Mary Ellen grounded [20:19] Finding Jesus in Homeboy’s “secure village” [21:46] Why Homeboy can feel more powerful than Sunday church [24:40] Mikala receives an unexpected “ticket to heaven” [27:13] Why suffering and resurrection belong together [28:13] Cherished belonging and the Homeboy model of healing [36:38] Fr. Richard Rohr, Henri Nouwen, Rumi, and belovedness [38:15] Finding spiritual teachers in everyday life Notable Quotes “All you need to do in this life is take in that you are beloved and support anybody who comes across your path in taking that in for themselves.” - Mary Ellen Burton [05:39] “At Homeboy, we learn to meet what Fr. Greg says, ‘A God who is way too busy loving us to judge us.’” - Fr. Frank Buckley, S.J. [11:38] “I’m a kinship person. I wanna be with someone so that I’m transformed as much as they’re transformed.” - Mikala Rahn [26:14] Resources and Links Homeboy Industries https://homeboyindustries.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@HomeboyIndustries_LA/videos Donate: https://homeboyindustries.org/donate/donate-online/ Homeboy Media https://homeboyindustries.org/social-enterprises/homeboy-media/ Thomas Vozzo https://www.linkedin.com/in/thomasvozzo The Homeboy Way: A Radical Approach to Business and Life: https://www.amazon.com/Homeboy-Way-Radical-Approach-Business/dp/082945456X Credits: Hosted by: Tom Vozzo Produced by: Podify, and Alexa Rousso and Melody Carter of Homeboy Media


















