The Hoely Hour

The Hoely Hour, Blue Wire

The Hoely Hour is an irreverent, earnest podcast about modern dating experiences — the good, the bad, and the hilarious. Cheeky hostesses Amelia and Liz candidly talk about personal experiences while amplifying sex positivity and advocating for mental health. Listeners write in their touching and shocking stories, and guests share their expertise on topics ranging from BDSM safety to healing relationship attachment wounds. All this, and more, during The Hoely Hour. Follow us on TikTok, Twitter, and Instagram @thehoelyhour.

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#275
August 7 · 51 min
Genderslop
Is chivalry really dead? What even is "chivalry"? Liz and Amelia discuss "genderslop" content, the alleged romance recession, and give a listener some advice on moving in with their partner.
#274
July 17 · 42 min
Caca or Correct?
Love Island is over so please excuse this random episode while our brains recover from the past 10 weeks. After discussing the finale, we play a quick round of “guess who” to warm our brains up before Amelia asks Liz if she thinks some hot takes are caca or correct.
#273
July 3 · 54 min
Insufferable Island
Liz explains wtf is wrong with the worst boys on Love Island, and we get a new Enemy of the Pod!
#272
June 19 · 47 min
The Psychology of Love Island
Amelia put her Bachelor of Science and expert Googling skills to use to explain why everyone on Love Island is losing their minds. We're also talking via Riverside which is both a godsend and the work of the devil, so please bear with us on any audio hiccups :')
#271
June 5 · 1 hr 2 min
It's My Podcast and I Need It NOW!
RIP Dick Cheney, you would have hated this podcast. Amelia and Liz share a podcast update, and read and answer some Very Good Questions from an article on the Substack, "Uncynical."
#270
May 22 · 42 min
The Hoelywed Game
We have had this podcast for 6 years…so we’re basically married. How well do we know each other? We also read an email about girlhood from one of you angels and we loved it and you.
#269
May 15 · 50 min
Holding A Grudge & A Fart
Mr. Liz fills in for Amelia this week, and as our resident man over 30, he answers questions like if God is real and explains why mini vans are cool actually.
#268
May 8 · 51 min
Klarna for Sex
Is your sex more like paying on klarna, or are you sucking the life out of each other's mouths? We interview Dark Frank (one of Frank's friends) about his experience with tantric sex and Amelia takes the opportunity to ask him about his experience as a polyamory magnet.
#267
May 1 · 47 min
Infamousmaxxing
IMPORTANT NOTE: We recorded this episode before the recent sexual assault and battery allegations brought against influencer Braden Peters, AKA Clavicular. Clavicular is brutally self-awareness-mogged by two podmaxxers! This week: who he is, why he’s infamous, and how a man can confidence-maxx his way into a full-blown public identity crisis.
#266
April 24 · 1 hr 3 min
They need to be doxxed
We went back to our roots this ‘sode, y’all. We read a girlhood email from one of our angels before diving in to some sex headlines. We also briefly discuss the unsurprising and absolutely horrific online rape academy that around 63million people visited toward the end of this episode so please take care of yourselves if this is going to be triggering for you. It’s in the last 5 minutes. We love you!!!
#265
April 10 · 52 min
Girlhood Pt. 2
We had so much to say about girlhood the first time, that we came back for more! Liz and Amelia talk about calling home phones, ringback tones, popular girls, mean girls, and girls who become life-long friends. Girlhood is lifelong!
#264
April 3 · 49 min
The Housewives of Desperate Mormons
Sausage curtains are now what vaginas are called. As though that’s not enough on it’s own, we also discuss Taylor Frankie Paul, the manosphere documentary, and how weird Christians are about divorce.
#263
March 27 · 1 hr 2 min
Unsolicited Feedback with Abby Acone
Our guest this week is Emmy Award Winning Meteorologist & News Anchor, Abby Acone! Abby reads some interesting "fan" DMs and shares about her queer awakening.
#262
March 20 · 1 hr 1 min
Where the F*ck is the Whimsey?
One of you cutie patooties wrote in asking us to talk about girlhood, and girlhood we talked about indeed. And we miss it. Also side note we were testing recording on Riverside again and safe to say that was a. mistake. Thank you for your patience with our sound issues :')
#261
March 13 · 55 min
Have You Heard About This?
Liz reads Amelia read an interesting Craigslist ad, and no, it's actually weirder than you're picturing.
#220
March 6 · 47 min
WuThERiNg hEiGhTs
Wuthering is a stupid word. You know it, we know it, Margo Robbie knows it. We discuss the discource around the movie, a search engine to let you find people who look like your crush having sex, and why the straight women of the world are so hung up on Heated Rivalry.
#219
February 27 · 1 hr 14 min
Fraternity from Weapons
We look to Reddit to see what people are asking men!
#260
February 13 · 52 min
He's Giving Dog
You’ve heard of horoscopes, but have you heard of judging people based on what role they played when they played house in preschool? We discuss what our ideal version of Heated Rivalry would be and list out what we thought was normal in our 20s that definitely wasn’t.
#259
February 6 · 54 min
Dating on Stage with Alli Goldberg
Our guest this week is comedian Alli Goldberg! Alli is the mastermind of "Love Isn't Blind," a live dating show where the men can't speak. In fact, your mom might have to speak for you...
#258
January 30 · 59 min
Indoctrinate Me, Daddy
The world is on fire! Everything is bad! But did you know that it’s scientifically proven that optimism and consuming good content is good for your brain? This woman’s mormon husband is addicted to porn, by the way. And Ye apologized…again.

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