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The Breakup Debrief Podcast · June 14 · 18 min

#50 Off Campus & What It Taught Us About the Relationships We Actually Deserve

Have you watched Off Campus yet? Because if you haven't, go & watch it and then come back. This week Kelly is talking about the show that has taken over the internet & more importantly, the conversation it's opened up about healthy relationships, what we've been conditioned to expect from men & why so many of us were sitting watching it fully braced for the worst. ⚠️ Spoiler warning: this episode does discuss specific scenes from the show. You'll hear: ✨ Why Off Campus has been described online as a form of generational therapy ✨ The moments in the show where viewers were expecting toxicity, drama & blow-ups- & what it means that we were so ready for it ✨ How years of TV shows & movies have quietly taught us that jealousy means love, moodiness is romantic & chaos is passion ✨ The specific green flags in the show that felt radical but really shouldn't be ✨ Why "are you okay?" instead of a blow-up should be the standard, not the exception ✨ What it means if you watched this show & felt genuinely healed by it ✨ Kelly's comparison to Nobody Wants This- another show getting it right ✨ Why these men do actually exist & what to do if you haven't found yours yet ✨ A teaser for an upcoming episode with a very special guest (hint: he's single, thriving & smashing the gym 😂) The bar is not high, girls. Garrett Graham is not an impossibly perfect man. He just communicates, doesn't make everything about his ego & treats the woman he's with like she matters. That's it. That's the standard & this episode is your reminder to stop settling for anything less 💚 Links & Resources 📧 Share your story for the "Where Is She Now?" segment: info@kellyskoaching.com 📲 Follow Kelly on Instagram & TikTok: @kellyskoaching 🔗 Explore all links & resources: Linktree

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Have you watched Off Campus yet? Because if you haven't, go & watch it and then come back.

This week Kelly is talking about the show that has taken over the internet & more importantly, the conversation it's opened up about healthy relationships, what we've been conditioned to expect from men & why so many of us were sitting watching it fully braced for the worst.

⚠️ Spoiler warning: this episode does discuss specific scenes from the show.

You'll hear:

✨ Why Off Campus has been described online as a form of generational therapy

✨ The moments in the show where viewers were expecting toxicity, drama & blow-ups- & what it means that we were so ready for it

✨ How years of TV shows & movies have quietly taught us that jealousy means love, moodiness is romantic & chaos is passion

✨ The specific green flags in the show that felt radical but really shouldn't be

✨ Why "are you okay?" instead of a blow-up should be the standard, not the exception

✨ What it means if you watched this show & felt genuinely healed by it

✨ Kelly's comparison to Nobody Wants This- another show getting it right

✨ Why these men do actually exist & what to do if you haven't found yours yet

✨ A teaser for an upcoming episode with a very special guest (hint: he's single, thriving & smashing the gym 😂)

The bar is not high, girls. Garrett Graham is not an impossibly perfect man. He just communicates, doesn't make everything about his ego & treats the woman he's with like she matters. That's it. That's the standard & this episode is your reminder to stop settling for anything less 💚

Links & Resources

📧 Share your story for the "Where Is She Now?" segment: info@kellyskoaching.com

📲 Follow Kelly on Instagram & TikTok: @kellyskoaching

🔗 Explore all links & resources: Linktree

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