The Backdoor Podcast

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The Backdoor Podcast with Steph & Kayls is where no question is off-limits. The viral duo behind TikTok’s hit “question series” take their raw, hilarious chemistry to the mic — diving deep into relationships, social media, and the realities of being viral creators, parents, and OnlyFans personalities.
Expect unfiltered conversations, hot takes, and the kind of honesty everyone thinks but never says.
Because sometimes, the real talk happens through the backdoor.

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#95
Yesterday · 29 min
The Sexual Secrets People Keep Even In Healthy Relationships | Ep 95
Even in the healthiest relationships, there are sexual secrets, fantasies, and desires that people sometimes keep to themselves out of fear of judgment or changing how their partner sees them. We’re getting honest about what people hide behind closed doors, why keeping certain things private can feel easier, and where the line between personal privacy and secrecy falls in a relationship.
#94
Thursday · 32 min
The Unspoken Rules Of Being An Adult That No One Warned Us About | Ep 94
Nobody really prepares you for the unspoken rules of adulthood, from navigating friendships and relationships to managing money, responsibilities, and everyday social expectations. We’re sharing the things we’ve learned the hard way, the awkward realities no one warned us about, and the unofficial rules everyone seems to know except us.
#93
November 2 · 19 min
The Kinks People Judge Until They Try Them | Ep 93
We’re getting into the kinks people love to judge but might secretly be curious about themselves. From unexpected fantasies to the things people are hesitant to admit they enjoy, we’re breaking down the stigma, exploring what makes these desires so intriguing, and asking why we’re so quick to judge something we haven’t tried.
#92
October 29 · 27 min
The Things That Make Us Jealous But We're Too Afraid To Admit | Ep 92
We’re getting real about the things that make us jealous but we’re too afraid to admit, from relationship insecurities and social media comparisons to friendships, attention, and feeling like we’re falling behind. We’re unpacking the uncomfortable truths behind jealousy, why we try to act unbothered, and what these feelings reveal about us.
#91
October 22 · 25 min
The Bedroom Confessions Couples Avoid | Ep 91
We’re getting into the bedroom confessions couples often avoid, from unspoken fantasies and secret turn-ons to the awkward conversations people are afraid to have with their partners. We’re talking about why honesty and vulnerability can feel uncomfortable, how to communicate what you really want, and why the conversations we avoid might be the ones that bring us closer together.
#90
October 19 · 17 min
The Kinks That People Hide | Ep 90
We’re getting into the kinks people secretly have but are sometimes too embarrassed to admit, from unexpected turn-ons to fantasies they keep hidden from their partners. We’re talking about the stigma around sexual preferences, the importance of communication and consent, and what happens when we finally feel comfortable enough to share what we really like behind closed doors.
#89
October 15 · 27 min
The Things We Secretly Compare Our Partner Too | Ep 89
We’re getting honest about the things we secretly compare our partners to, from our friends’ relationships and social media to our exes and the expectations we’ve built in our heads. We’re unpacking how these comparisons impact our relationships, when they’re harmless, and when they start making us question what we already have.
#88
October 12 · 25 min
The Bedroom Habits That Make Someone More Attractive | Ep 88
We’re talking about the bedroom habits that make someone more attractive, from confidence and self-care to intimacy, communication, and the little things that make a big difference. We’re getting into what really creates chemistry, builds connection, and makes someone desirable beyond just physical appearance.
#87
October 8 · 26 min
The Things We Pretend Don't Hurt... But Actually Do | Ep 87
In this episode, we’re getting real about the things we pretend don’t hurt—from rejection and relationships to friendship, self-worth, and the feelings we bury deep. We’re talking about the pain we minimize, the emotions we hide, and what happens when we finally admit that something actually hurt.
#86
October 5 · 27 min
Silent Turn On's For Women | Ep. 86
In this episode, we're diving into the subtle things that make women feel attracted, connected, and desired —without having anything to do with looks. From confidence and initiative to emotional safety and the little everyday actions that often go unnoticed, we're uncovering the silent turn-ons women rarely talk about but never forget.
#85
September 24 · 21 min
The Things We Do When We're Feeling Unloved | Ep. 85
When we start feeling unloved, it can change the way we act without us even realizing it. In this episode, we talk about the behaviors, reactions, and relationship habits people fall into when they feel disconnected, unwanted, or like they’re no longer getting the love and attention they need.
#84
September 17 · 32 min
Things We Judge Our Partners For But Not Ourselves | Ep. 84
We all have standards for our partners that we don’t always hold ourselves to. In this episode, we unpack the double standards, habits, and behaviors we judge in our relationships while overlooking them in ourselves.
#83
September 10 · 27 min
Are We Actually Sexually Compatible? | Ep. 83
Are you and your partner actually sexually compatible, or is compatibility something that can be built over time? We discuss attraction, intimacy, mismatched libidos, communication, and the role sex plays in long-term relationships. Plus, we break down common misconceptions and the signs couples should pay attention to when it comes to physical and emotional connection.
#82
September 3 · 25 min
Things Men Secretly Need But Rarely Admit | Ep. 82
Men are often expected to be strong, independent, and unbothered—but what do they actually need from their partners and relationships? In this episode, we unpack the things men secretly crave but rarely ask for, from reassurance and appreciation to affection, support, and feeling understood. It’s an honest conversation about the needs men may struggle to communicate and how recognizing them can create a stronger, healthier relationship.
#81
August 27 · 20 min
What Your Partner Wishes You Knew But Will Never Tell You | Ep. 81
In today’s episode, we talk about What Your Partner Wishes You Knew But Will Never Tell You — from real relationship conversations and first-time parenting, to OnlyFans, social media life, and what it’s actually like being viral creators online. We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real — the kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE • What Your Partner Wishes You Knew But Will Never Tell You • Rapid fire. Would you tell your partner? • Easy wa
#80
August 20 · 27 min
The Relationship Double Standards We All Have.. | Ep. 80
In today’s episode, we talk about The Relationship Double Standards We All Have — from real relationship conversations and first-time parenting, to OnlyFans, social media life, and what it’s actually like being viral creators online. We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real — the kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE • The Relationship Double Standards We All Have • double standard reasoning • protective vs controlling
#79
August 13 · 26 min
The Habits That Make Someone Fall Out Of Love | Ep. 79
In today’s episode, we talk about The Habits That Make Someone Fall Out Of Love — from real relationship conversations and first-time parenting, to OnlyFans, social media life, and what it’s actually like being viral creators online. We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real — the kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE • The Habits That Make Someone Fall Out Of Love • Growing together vs growing apart • How to repair a disconnect in a relati
#78
August 6 · 23 min
The Green Flags We Ignore.. | Ep. 78
In today’s episode, we talk about The Green Flags We Ignore.. — from real relationship conversations and first-time parenting, to OnlyFans, social media life, and what it’s actually like being viral creators online. We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real — the kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE • What matters more? Green flags vs. Red flags • The Green Flags We Ignore • Green flag or bare minimum
#77
July 30 · 22 min
Awkward Questions We Don't Ask Our Partners | Ep. 77
In today’s episode, we talk about Awkward Questions We Don't Ask Our Partners — from real relationship conversations and first-time parenting, to OnlyFans, social media life, and what it’s actually like being viral creators online. We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real — the kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE • Awkward Questions We Don't Ask Our Partners • Would you rather? • Rapid fire
#76
July 27 · 24 min
What's Something You'd Never Tell Your Partner | Ep. 76
In today’s episode, we talk about What's Something You'd Never Tell Your Partner — from real relationship conversations and first-time parenting, to OnlyFans, social media life, and what it’s actually like being viral creators online. We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real — the kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE • What's Something You'd Never Tell Your Partner • What the DM's said • Rapid fire yes or no

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