The Backdoor Podcast

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The Backdoor Podcast with Steph & Kayls is where no question is off-limits. The viral duo behind TikTok’s hit “question series” take their raw, hilarious chemistry to the mic — diving deep into relationships, social media, and the realities of being viral creators, parents, and OnlyFans personalities.
Expect unfiltered conversations, hot takes, and the kind of honesty everyone thinks but never says.
Because sometimes, the real talk happens through the backdoor.

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#81
Thursday · 20 min
What Your Partner Wishes You Knew But Will Never Tell You | Ep. 81
In today’s episode, we talk about What Your Partner Wishes You Knew But Will Never Tell You — from real relationship conversations and first-time parenting, to OnlyFans, social media life, and what it’s actually like being viral creators online. We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real — the kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE • What Your Partner Wishes You Knew But Will Never Tell You • Rapid fire. Would you tell your partner? • Easy wa
#80
August 20 · 27 min
The Relationship Double Standards We All Have.. | Ep. 80
In today’s episode, we talk about The Relationship Double Standards We All Have — from real relationship conversations and first-time parenting, to OnlyFans, social media life, and what it’s actually like being viral creators online. We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real — the kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE • The Relationship Double Standards We All Have • double standard reasoning • protective vs controlling
#79
August 13 · 26 min
The Habits That Make Someone Fall Out Of Love | Ep. 79
In today’s episode, we talk about The Habits That Make Someone Fall Out Of Love — from real relationship conversations and first-time parenting, to OnlyFans, social media life, and what it’s actually like being viral creators online. We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real — the kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE • The Habits That Make Someone Fall Out Of Love • Growing together vs growing apart • How to repair a disconnect in a relati
#78
August 6 · 23 min
The Green Flags We Ignore.. | Ep. 78
In today’s episode, we talk about The Green Flags We Ignore.. — from real relationship conversations and first-time parenting, to OnlyFans, social media life, and what it’s actually like being viral creators online. We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real — the kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE • What matters more? Green flags vs. Red flags • The Green Flags We Ignore • Green flag or bare minimum
#77
July 30 · 22 min
Awkward Questions We Don't Ask Our Partners | Ep. 77
In today’s episode, we talk about Awkward Questions We Don't Ask Our Partners — from real relationship conversations and first-time parenting, to OnlyFans, social media life, and what it’s actually like being viral creators online. We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real — the kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE • Awkward Questions We Don't Ask Our Partners • Would you rather? • Rapid fire
#76
July 27 · 24 min
What's Something You'd Never Tell Your Partner | Ep. 76
In today’s episode, we talk about What's Something You'd Never Tell Your Partner — from real relationship conversations and first-time parenting, to OnlyFans, social media life, and what it’s actually like being viral creators online. We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real — the kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE • What's Something You'd Never Tell Your Partner • What the DM's said • Rapid fire yes or no
#75
July 23 · 29 min
The Biggest Myths From Social Media | Ep. 75
In today’s episode, we talk about The Biggest Myths From Social Media — from real relationship conversations and first-time parenting, to OnlyFans, social media life, and what it’s actually like being viral creators online. We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real — the kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE - What are social media myths - Hustle culture - Perfect relationships on social media
#74
July 20 · 24 min
The Lies Social Media Tells Us About Relationships | Ep. 74
In today’s episode, we talk about The Lies Social Media Tells Us About Relationships — from real relationship conversations and first-time parenting, to OnlyFans, social media life, and what it’s actually like being viral creators online. We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real — the kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors.
#73
July 16 · 23 min
The Relationship Dealbreakers That Aren't Obvious | Ep. 73
In this episode were breaking down deal breakers in relationships that aren't typically talked about.. We dive into our own deal breakers and things we have heard from people all around the world through our social media pages.
#72
July 13 · 30 min
The Things We Never Thought We'd Argue About... | Ep. 72
In today’s episode, we talk about The Things We Never Thought We'd Argue About... — from real relationship conversations and first-time parenting, to OnlyFans, social media life, and what it’s actually like being viral creators online.
July 9 · 17 min
The Truth About Modern Dating | Ep. 71
Modern dating has changed, bringing more options, more mixed signals, and more challenges than ever before. In this episode, we unpack how dating apps, social media, and shifting expectations have reshaped relationships—and what it really takes to build a genuine connection today.
July 6 · 21 min
The Most Attractive Thing Someone Can Do That Has Nothing To Do With Looks | Ep. 70
What makes someone truly attractive has very little to do with their appearance. This episode explores the qualities, habits, and behaviors that build lasting attraction and why they're often more powerful than looks alone.
#69
July 2 · 24 min
Our Followers Told Us The Icks Men And Women Have | Ep. 69
Our followers shared the biggest "icks" that instantly change how they see someone, and we're reacting to the funniest, most relatable, and most controversial ones. From harmless habits to major turn-offs, we debate which icks are valid, which are ridiculous, and what they reveal about modern dating and attraction.
#68
June 29 · 19 min
Things We Pretend Don't Affect Us... But Do | Ep. 68
In this episode, we talk about the things we swear don't bother us—rejection, criticism, comparison, lack of attention, feeling left out—but secretly carry with us longer than we'd like to admit. We explore how these hidden emotions affect our relationships, confidence, and everyday interactions more than we realize.
#67
June 25 · 21 min
Kinks We're Curious About... But Too Nervous To Admit | Ep. 67
In this episode, we dive into the kinks and fantasies people are often curious about but rarely feel comfortable admitting out loud. From the psychology behind attraction to the conversations couples avoid having, we explore how curiosity, communication, and vulnerability play a role in modern relationships.
#66
June 23 · 22 min
Things We Secretly Test Our Partners On | Ep. 66
In today’s episode, we talk about Things We Secretly Test Our Partners On from real relationship conversations and first-time parenting, to OnlyFans, social media life, and what it’s actually like being viral creators online.
#65
June 18 · 26 min
Relationship Conversations We Avoid Until It's Too Late | Ep. 65
Many relationships don't end because of one big problem—they slowly fall apart because of important conversations that never happen. In this episode, we discuss the topics couples often avoid, from unmet needs and resentment to future goals and emotional disconnect, and why waiting too long to talk about them can change a relationship forever.
#64
June 15 · 29 min
The Relationship Standards We Have For Others But Not Ourselves | Ep. 64
In today’s episode, we talk about The Relationship Standards We Have For Others But Not Ourselves — from real relationship conversations and first-time parenting, to OnlyFans, social media life, and what it’s actually like being viral creators online.
#63
June 11 · 23 min
The Little Lies Couple's Tell Eachother | Ep. 63
In today’s episode, we talk about The Little Lies Couple's Tell Eachother — from real relationship conversations and first-time parenting, to OnlyFans, social media life, and what it’s actually like being viral creators online.
June 8 · 22 min
The Relationship Red Flags We Ignore Because We're Attracted | Ep. 62
In today’s episode, we talk about The Relationship Red Flags We Ignore Because We're Attracted — from real relationship conversations and first-time parenting, to OnlyFans, social media life, and what it’s actually like being viral creators online.

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