The Audaci-Tea

How To Be A Horrible, Mean, Bad Woman (feat. Horrible Mean Bad Woman)

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign are joined by returning guest Sarah, also known as Horrible Mean Bad Woman, to ask the question men desperately don’t want you to: What if being a “good woman” is the problem? Together, they break down how women are socially conditioned into constant niceness, emotional labor, and moral responsibility, all while men are never held to the same standards. Sarah unpacks the power of embracing the “horrible, mean, bad woman” identity as a rejection of impossible expectations designed to keep women compliant. Together they explore how male behavior is excused while women are expected to absorb harm gracefully, how agreeing with men’s negative stereotypes can expose the absurdity of their logic, and why redefining your identity outside of patriarchy is a necessary step toward real autonomy. But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign discuss the shocking murder case involving singer D4vd, the reality behind churches requiring sexual misconduct insurance, Nikki Glaser’s comments about non-monogamy on the Call Her Daddy podcast, and the internet’s reaction to influencer MJ Gray’s engagement. Later, they open the mailbag for one of the wildest listener stories yet, covering a journey from trad marriage to dominatrix to taking down her pedophile father. 🎧 This episode is an unapologetic look at how to embrace your full potential to become the most horrible, mean, bad woman you can be! 🎙️ Topics Discussed: • The pressure on women to be “good” and endlessly accommodating • Emotional labor, morality, and unequal standards between men and women • Reclaiming identity outside patriarchal expectations • Using humor and “agree and amplify” to expose male logic • Why women are not responsible for fixing men or dismantling patriarchy • Embracing autonomy, boundaries, and self definition ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Singer D4vd charged with murder https://www.latimes.com/california/story/2026-04-20/d4vd-murder-charge-slaying-celeste-rivas-hernandez The Clergy Abuse Crisis Has Cost The Catholic Church $3 Billion https://www.npr.org/2018/08/18/639698062/the-clergy-abuse-crisis-has-cost-the-catholic-church-3-billion Exposing A Global ‘Rape Academy’ https://www.cnn.com/interactive/2026/03/world/expose-rape-assault-online-vis-intl/index.html Gisèle Pelicot case https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c89xde5qzvgo Woman sets man on fire case https://www.abc.net.au/news/2025-05-08/corbie-walpole-sentenced-burning-jake-loader-howlong-sentence/105265038 📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Follow Sarah https://linktr.ee/HorribleMeanBadWoman 💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon and become a Tea VIP for perks like: •Early access to every episode (and the show notes!) •Ad-free listening or viewing •Our weekly bonus unhinged and uncensored Crumpets after show •Priority mailbag + topic submissions, and voting power on future topics •Access to our private women only community, and chat channels just for you 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea 🛍️ Shop The Audaci-Tea Merch Store https://audaci-tea-shop.fourthwall.com ▶️ Subscribe and watch full episodes on YouTube https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast 📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/the_audaci-tea_podcast Facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61585115231509 Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788 🕰️ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 04:31 D4vd Charged With Murder 09:01 Church Sexual Misconduct Insurance 12:28 Misandry and Double Standards 14:36 Nikki Glaser and Non Monogamy 21:26 MJ Gray Engagement Reaction 30:08 Welcome Back Sarah! 37:24 The Burden of Female Morality 44:39 Embracing the “Horrible Woman” Mentality 51:27 The Absurdity Of Male Arguments 01:01:06 The Illusion of Female Moral Responsibility 01:16:56 Embracing the 'Worst Woman' Persona 01:25:30 Mailbag: A Listeners Journey Away From Trad-Wifery 01:47:28 Poll Results 🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio, video, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound. 📩 For advertising or inquiries: info@sirensound.co 💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates.

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Yes, It IS ALL Men

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign take on one of the most predictable deflections in modern gender discourse. “It’s not all men.” According to who? Together, they break down why this argument falls apart under even the slightest scrutiny, examining the full spectrum of male behavior from overt violence to passive complicity. The hosts explore how even “good men” benefit from, uphold, or ignore systems that consistently harm women, and why minimizing that reality only protects the problem. They unpack the social conditioning that allows harmful behavior to persist, the role of male defensiveness in shutting down accountability, and why women are forced to navigate a world where safety is never guaranteed. This conversation is not about individual exceptions. It is about patterns, systems, and the lived reality women are responding to. But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign discuss a disturbing trend in Brazil involving men training for violent responses to rejection, react to the rise of AI replacing human workers in fast food, break down the implications of the automatic U.S. military draft taking effect this year, and cover reactions to Justin Bieber’s Coachella performance and Aubrey Plaza’s pregnancy news. Later, in Therapy Or The Void, they review the men featured in Louis Theroux’s Manosphere documentary and decide exactly where they belong. 🎧 This episode is a direct confrontation with the systems and behaviors that shape women’s daily reality and why dismissing them only makes things worse. 🎙️ Topics Discussed: • “Not all men” and the spectrum of male behavior • Violence, safety, and women’s lived experiences • Male complicity and passive participation in misogyny • Defensive reactions and the avoidance of accountability • Social conditioning, patriarchy, and normalized harm • Why systemic issues require collective responsibility ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Stabbed For Saying No: Is Online Misogyny Fueling Violence In Brazil? https://www.barrons.com/news/stabbed-for-saying-no-is-online-misogyny-fueling-violence-in-brazil-98c7955f Women are being abandoned by their partners on hiking trails. What’s behind ‘alpine divorce’? https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/ng-interactive/2026/mar/17/alpine-divorce-abandoned-hiking-trail Robots Cook Your Burger? https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTkUdsFvv/ OpenAI closes Sora video-making app and cancels $1bn Disney deal https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c3w3e467ewqo Automatic military draft registration takes effect in December https://www.cnn.com/2026/04/09/politics/us-military-draft-registration-2026 Justin Bieber’s Coachella Performance https://slate.com/culture/2026/04/justin-bieber-coachella-2026-performance-set.html?pay=1776196715975&support_journalism=please Aubrey Plaza Speaks Out About Her Pregnancy for the First Time https://people.com/aubrey-plaza-speaks-out-about-her-pregnancy-for-the-first-time-11948450 Women Did Just Fine Doing “Men’s” Work https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8gDJydY/ 📚 This Week’s Recommendation: The power to dismantle patriarchy starts with NO https://www.tiktok.com/@kristen1942/video/7625690305525763342 It’s Not “All Men” https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8gCBNRn/ 💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community https://www.patreon.com/audacitea 🛍️ Shop The Audaci-Tea Merch Store https://audaci-tea-shop.fourthwall.com ▶️ Subscribe and watch full episodes on YouTube https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast 📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/the_audaci-tea_podcast Facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61585115231509 Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788 🕰️ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time 03:56 Violence Trend in Brazil 11:40 AI Replacing Fast Food Workers 21:11 The US Military Draft 24:34 Justin Bieber Coachella Performance 26:59 Aubrey Plaza Pregnancy Reaction 31:08 It Is All Men 40:21 Women’s Safety and Reporting 52:53 Why Men Get Defensive 01:01:55 Patriarchy and Social Consequences 01:12:50 Escalation of Harmful Mindsets 01:20:20 Addressing Misconceptions 01:27:30 Therapy Or The Void 01:44:30 Poll Results 🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio, video, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound. 📩 For advertising or inquiries: info@sirensound.co 💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this episode are those of the hosts and guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates.

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10 Things A Man Will NEVER Admit

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign are back with another episode men will not want you to hear. What are the things a man will never admit out loud? Together, they break down more than 10 unhinged dark truths about how men actually think, move, and operate in relationships and in society. From the way they lie to gain access, to why they stay out of convenience instead of love, to how they use confusion as a weapon, the hosts pull back the curtain on the psychology most men will take to their graves. This is not about bashing men for sport. It is about giving women the information they need to see clearly, protect themselves, and stop absorbing consequences that were never theirs to carry. They also break down why men speak almost entirely in projection, why "jealousy equals love" is one of the oldest scams running, and why a man who nags you about something you are good at is not doubting you. He is afraid of you. But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign cover the firing of Pam Bondi and what it reveals about conservative women who sign up to be the patriarchy's bullet bag. They discuss the Kristi Noem husband situation and what the "bimbofication" phenomenon actually says about how these men view women. And they cover the heartbreaking case of Coral Springs Vice Mayor Nancy Bowen, with a candid conversation about why successful women are most at risk. They also react to a clip of Leslie Jones comparing marriage to legalized slavery and explain why she did not tell a single lie. Later, they open up the mailbag and read a message from a listener who went from dating a younger man with a Viagra habit and a choking problem, to a guy who trauma-dumped his entire childhood on a phone call before calling HER weird. 🎧 This episode is a field guide to male nature that no one handed you. Consider it required listening. 🎙️ Topics Discussed: Why men don't fear losing you, they fear losing control of how you see them Men, Peter Pan syndrome, and why withholding does not work The difference between being a resource and being an investment Why men stay in relationships out of convenience, not love How men knowingly waste your time while keeping you emotionally hooked Breadcrumbing, negging, and deliberate confusion as tools of control Why men change faster for male approval than for the women they hurt Men, projection, and how to decode what they actually mean The jealousy equals love scam Subtle intimidation tactics and how to recognize them The Universe 25 experiment and what it tells us about the patriarchy crumbling ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Pam Bondi Fired https://www.cnn.com/2026/04/04/politics/how-pam-bondi-lost-her-job Kristi Noem Responds to Husband's Bimbofication Fetish Photos https://www.rollingstone.com/politics/politics-news/kristi-noem-husband-bimbofication-fetish-photos-1235539805/ Kat Blaque: Byron Noem Is Not A Closet Case https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTkB8TJJP/ Coral Springs Vice Mayor Found Dead Inside Her Home, Husband in Custody https://www.cbsnews.com/miami/news/coral-springs-vice-mayor-death-investigation/ 📚 This Week's Recommendation: The power to dismantle patriarchy starts with NO https://www.tiktok.com/@kristen1942/video/7625690305525763342 💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with "The Audaci-Tea" in the subject line. ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community. Sign up for free or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: Bonus Crumpets segment, completely unhinged and uncensored Early access to episodes Voice memo mailbag access Ad free listening A private community just for women 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea 🛍️ Shop The Audaci-Tea Merch Store https://audaci-tea-shop.fourthwall.com ▶️ Subscribe and watch full episodes on YouTube and become a member for Crumpets after show: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast 📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/the_audaci-tea_podcast Facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61585115231509 Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788 🕰️ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time! 04:26 Pam Bondi Fired 07:03 Kristi Noem and the Bimbofication of Her Husband 13:12 Nancy Bowen: Rest in Power 17:50 Video React: Leslie Jones on Marriage and Slavery 24:58 Introduction to 10 Things A Man Will Never Admit 25:52 Truth 1: Men Don't Fear Losing You, They Fear Losing Control 30:28 Truth 2: Men Refuse to Grow Up 37:02 Truth 3: Men Are Transactional 39:35 Truth 4: Men Stay Out of Convenience 45:42 Truth 5: Men Knowingly Waste Your Time 47:06 Truth 6: Men Neg and Humble Women on Purpose 55:24 Truth 7: Men Respect Other Men More Than Women 57:27 Truth 8: Men Deliberately Keep You Confused 59:15 Truth 9: Men Don't Want You to Grow 1:04:38 Truth 10: Men Speak in Projection 1:15:39 What to Do With This Information 1:17:12 Mailbag: Viagra, Choking, and Trauma Dumping 1:40:05 Poll Results 🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio, video, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound. 📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries: info@sirensound.co 💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

What "Demons" Are Men Really Fighting??

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign ask a question women hear constantly but almost never get a real answer to. What “demons” are men actually fighting? Together, they unpack the behaviors, compulsions, insecurities, and social conditioning that so often get brushed off as “male struggle” while women are left to absorb the consequences. From emotional repression and attraction to violence to fear of inadequacy, sexual shame, and the pressure to perform masculinity, the hosts break down what men are really battling and why women are too often expected to become collateral damage in the process. They explore how patriarchy rewards emotional avoidance, suppresses vulnerability, and creates men who are deeply disconnected from themselves while still demanding access to women’s labor, bodies, care, and compassion. The conversation also examines how these unresolved patterns show up in dating, relationships, power, sexuality, and male entitlement. But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign discuss the Lindy West controversy, react to a viral video breaking down the roots of male violence, and unpack Druski’s viral skit parodying Erika Kirk. Later, in Tea Or Trash, they debate whether certain feminist cultural talking points are actually tea or complete trash, including the Barbie movie, motherhood as a feminist redemption arc in film, and the idea of “aging gracefully.” 🎧 This episode is a brutally honest look at the dysfunction so often disguised as masculinity, and a reminder that understanding men’s “demons” is less about saving them and more about protecting yourself. 🎙️ Topics Discussed: • Emotional suppression, male shame, and the performance of masculinity • Violence, power, and the social conditioning of men • Sexual repression, inadequacy, and fear of vulnerability • Patriarchy, entitlement, and the hidden costs women pay • How male dysfunction shows up in dating and relationships • Feminist media, motherhood narratives, and “aging gracefully” ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Why people are having such strong reactions to Lindy West’s new memoir https://www.vox.com/podcasts/484187/lindy-west-adult-braces-memoir-polyamory-controversy Druski dresses up as Erika Kirk in viral skit https://www.nbcnewyork.com/news/druski-erika-kirk-parody-skit/6481805/ Blackface: The Birth of An American Stereotype https://nmaahc.si.edu/explore/stories/blackface-birth-american-stereotype The Top 4 “demons” most males are fighting daily!! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lih13KBcZzw Nearly one in five LGBTQ+ Americans are still in the closet, says new study https://www.intomore.com/culture/identity/nearly-one-in-five-lgbtq-americans-are-still-in-the-closet-says-new-study A survey found 1 in 6 men admit sexual feelings for children https://theconversation.com/a-survey-found-1-in-6-men-admit-sexual-feelings-for-children-so-is-paedophilia-increasing-218124 📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Honk for Jesus. Save Your Soul. https://www.imdb.com/title/tt12655436/ Gaslit by My Husband: The Morgan Metzer Story https://www.imdb.com/title/tt32245467/ Check Out Lisa’s Free Blog About This Episode! https://www.patreon.com/collection/960341 💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or wild stories to share? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with “The Audaci-Tea” in the subject line. ☕✨ Support the Show: Join our Patreon community. Sign up for free or become a Tea VIP for exclusive perks like: • Bonus Crumpets segment, completely unhinged and uncensored • Early access to episodes • Voice memo mailbag access • Ad free listening • A private community just for women 👉 https://www.patreon.com/audacitea 🛍️ Shop The Audaci-Tea Merch Store https://audaci-tea-shop.fourthwall.com ▶️ Subscribe and watch full episodes on YouTube and become a member for Crumpets after show: https://youtube.com/@theaudaci-teapodcast 📱 Follow Us Online: TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@the_audacitea0 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/the_audaci-tea_podcast Facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61585115231509 Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/1qfGGpJ0aS626IGBGwLtdU Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788 🕰️ Episode Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time 02:24 Lindy West Discussion: Feminism and Personal Choices 09:40 Men’s Violence and Power Dynamics 16:31 Reacting to Druski’s Erika Kirk Video 24:52 What “Demons” Are Men Actually Fighting? 29:57 Sexuality, Shame, and Male Secrecy 39:15 Dark Attraction and Disturbing Impulses 52:17 Inadequacy and Male Fragility 56:02 Violence and Male Socialization 01:02:42 Emotional Suppression 01:05:45 Fear of Failure 01:07:51 Pressure to Provide 01:12:23 The “Demons” Women Actually Face 01:18:46 Tea Or Trash: Feminist Ideas 01:19:00 The Barbie Movie 01:24:02 Motherhood Redemption Arcs in Film 01:30:39 Aging Gracefully 01:37:48 Poll Results 🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio, video, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound. 📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries: info@sirensound.co 💡 Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.

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