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Start to Stop Toddler Breastfeeding

Jenna Wolfe, Certified Lactation Counselor (CBI) and Certified Purejoy Parent Coach

Start to Stop Toddler Breastfeeding by Jenna Wolfe is dedicated to supporting moms breastfeeding and weaning their older babies, toddlers and preschoolers, and those who are hoping to make it that far and want to set themselves up for success.

You wanted to breastfeed for years, not months, but I bet you didn’t expect gymnurstrics, skin crawling with every latch, nipple twiddling, meltdowns, and still having sleepless nights. In this podcast you will find everything you need to extended breastfeed, full-term wean and even tandem feed without losing your mind (or your toddler’s trust). We will also cover nutrition, supporting healthy emotional and social development in your child, and so much more.

You will find fireside chats with incredible experts like Krystyn Parks of Feeding Made Easy, Samantha Radford of Evidence-Based Mommy, and more. You will leave every episode feeling like you have found your people and have a new-found confidence in your breastfeeding and parenting.

If you are looking to make some changes in your breastfeeding relationship with your older baby or child, make sure to download the free “Making Changes” communication guide & cheat sheet so that you can say “no” to the feed while saying “yes” to the need.

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S4 · E1
May 25 · 24 min
3 Ways "Nervous System Regulation" May Be Sabotaging Your Breastfeeding, Weaning & Parenting
"Nervous System" talk is definitely in the parenting ziegist. It's something I talk a lot about, and it's a corner stone to my approach for coaching and supporting families. AND - I have seen how the way it is often framed and discussed in the parenting space can actually *backfire* and leave you feeling worse than when you started. In this episode, I highlight 3 different beliefs about nervous system regulation that are easy to pick up, but aren't very helpful... and I share the real thing that I know to *always* work! Belief #1: "You are the problem" - You need to regulate so you can regulate your kids... which often also means, "if you're kids aren't regulated, it's your fault." Belief #2: "Do more" - you and your kids need better routines, diet changes, more movement, less screens, meditations etc... which means - you have to add *more* to your plate so that you can all be "regulated" Belief #3: "Self-regulation is the key" - you (and your kids) need to learn how to self-regulate. That's the end game. That's what's most important. That's what nervous system regulation is all about.... or is it? Tune in to hear why I don't think these common beliefs are helpful, and what might be true instead. Also - doors are open to Moms & Milk Village intil May 26th, 2026 at 11:59pm EDT. Multiple pricing options are available. If you would like to join - you can check it out here. Also, you can text me (1-289-272-5027), email me (jenna@ownyourparentingstory.com) or DM me (own.your.parenting.story) at any time. Grab your free guide to say "No" to the feed while still saying "yes" to the need at www.ownyourparentingstory.com/guide Love this episode?! Shoot me a DM over on Instagram @own.your.parenting.story and tell me all about it. <3
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S3 · E52
Jun 9, 2025 · 36 min
52: The powerful role the skill of greiving plays in boundaries & weaning
Hey friends, I'm back behind the mic and easing into a new season with a heartfelt episode on a topic that might seem a little odd - how grief is an important part of breastfeeding boundaries. In this episode, I open up about the emotional undercurrents we face in transitions—from weaning and toddler boundaries to unexpected life moments that stir up deep feelings. Grief shows up in subtle and surprising ways as our children grow, especially during limit-setting moments. I share personal stories, including the tender experience of my daughter's emotional resilience after the loss of a pet, and reflect on how guiding our children through their frustration, sadness, and eventual acceptance can become one of the most valuable life skills we nurture in them. If you've ever felt the tug of grief during a parenting milestone, this episode on gentle parenting, breastfeeding boundaries, and emotional development in toddlers is for you. Grab your free guide to say "No" to the feed while still saying "yes" to the need at www.ownyourparentingstory.com/guide Love this episode?! Shoot me a DM over on Instagram @own.your.parenting.story and tell me all about it. <3
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S2 · E51
Dec 9, 2024 · 27 min
51: Myth Busting Facts on Toddler Breastfeeding (empowerment for your next family holiday gathering)
Are you nervous about your next holiday get-together, worrying about unsolicited comments about your breastfeeding toddler? Myths and misconceptions abound when it comes to breastfeeding - and for some reason, there are people who feel they have a right to comment on your parenting. But have no fear! I've got you. In this episode, we’re busting common myths about breastfeeding beyond the first year, using research-backed information to help you feel confident and supported in your choices. We’ll cover: Why breastfeeding into toddlerhood is biologically normal and globally common. The nutritional powerhouse of breast milk after the first year. Tandem feeding and breastfeeding during pregnancy: myths vs. reality. The truth about breast milk, cavities, and oral health. Benefits for both you and your child—beyond the emotional connection. Grab your free Myth-Busting Toddler breastfeeding Fact Sheet at ownyourparentingstory.com/myths and have the facts at your fingertips for tough conversations with family, friends, or healthcare providers. Podcast episodes mentioned: Navigating Judgment Podcast Episode Tandem Feeding Podcast Series Toddler Teeth Podcast Episode Milk Supply Podcast Episode Picky Eating & Breastfeeding Podcast Episode Grab your free guide to say "No" to the feed while still saying "yes" to the need at www.ownyourparentingstory.com/guide Love this episode?! Shoot me a DM over on Instagram @own.your.parenting.story and tell me all about it. <3
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S2 · E50
Nov 12, 2024 · 53 min
50 - Natasha's Story - Boundaries and Tandem Feeding
Natasha was rocked when the breastfeeding relationship she loved so much became something she felt she had to white knuckle to endure. Using compassion, curiosity, and creativity Natasha transformed her breastfeeding relationship with her 3 year old son, night-weaned and created a rhythm that works for both of them (and her baby!). If you have been lonely in your breastfeeding challenges, curious about what tandem feeding could look like, or wanting inspiration for the changes you could make in your own breastfeeding story - do not miss this episode! Grab your free guide to say "No" to the feed while still saying "yes" to the need at www.ownyourparentingstory.com/guide Love this episode?! Shoot me a DM over on Instagram @own.your.parenting.story and tell me all about it. <3
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S2 · E49
Nov 4, 2024 · 29 min
49 - What is "Gentle" Weaning & Boundaries?
The word "Gentle" can be really divisive in the parenting world these days. I've used that word a LOT to describe the way that I approach and support breastfeeding families to set boundaries and even wean. But I don't mean it in the way you might think. In this podcast episode, I unpack what I mean by "gentle" and the 3 different areas in which gentle boundaries and weaning can a difference for you and your child: Mind, Body & Heart. Post-Weaning Depression Research: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/38300295/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/39427882/ https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s00737-018-0871-9 Grab your free guide to say "No" to the feed while still saying "yes" to the need at www.ownyourparentingstory.com/guide Love this episode?! Shoot me a DM over on Instagram @own.your.parenting.story and tell me all about it. <3
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S2 · E48
Oct 27, 2024 · 25 min
48 - An Action Plan for the Stressed Out Breastfeeding Mom
If you are feeling at the end of your rope with your breastfeeding toddler - this episode is for you. I break down 4 steps to creating your own action plan to find ease in your breastfeeding relationship that WILL help to: Stop the continual meltdowns Support your child to be able to tolerate the word "no" Get your butt unglued from your couch (where your toddler always demands you sit to feed). Help your child sleep for longer stretches Reduce food battles Grab a pen and paper while you listen so you can chart out your personalized plan. Or, keep an eye on your email this week for a free printable worksheet. (Not on my email list? Sign up here and get my free Making Changes guide & cheat sheet). Grab your free guide to say "No" to the feed while still saying "yes" to the need at www.ownyourparentingstory.com/guide Love this episode?! Shoot me a DM over on Instagram @own.your.parenting.story and tell me all about it. <3
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S2 · E47
Oct 21, 2024 · 42 min
47 - 5 Body Safety Rules for Toddlers with Sex Education Coach Alisha Lunsford of Sexpert Parenting
In this episode, Sex Educator, Alisha Lunsford, and I explore the crucial body safety rules every child should know by age five so that you can feel equipped with the tools needed to foster confidence and autonomy in your kids. We cover modeling consent, trusting intuition, managing tricky situations, and much more. You can grab the free PDF summary of the top 5 rules here. Remember: Start the conversation about body safety early and repeat it often. Use everyday moments to reinforce these safety principles. Model respectful, consent-based behavior in your own interactions with your children. More about Alisha Lunsford: "I’m Alisha. I’m a straight, cisgender female and sex educator. I understand that as parents, we often feel overwhelmed and under-prepared for many of the roles we take on. Ultimately, we’re expected to keep our little humans physically and mentally safe, happy and healthy – and whether we like it or not, sexuality impacts each of these needs. I provide straightforward sex education for parents of toddlers, teens and in-betweens. I focus on both mental and physical health while providing insight on a variety of content ranging from safety, sexual predators, puberty, LGBTQIA+, consent, porn exposure, birth control, and all the nooks and crannies throughout." Check out her website at: sexpertparenting.org Click here to follow her on Instagram. Grab your free guide to say "No" to the feed while still saying "yes" to the need at www.ownyourparentingstory.com/guide Love this episode?! Shoot me a DM over on Instagram @own.your.parenting.story and tell me all about it. <3
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S2 · E46
Oct 7, 2024 · 30 min
46: How "Felt Safety" makes a difference when breastfeeding (and generally adulting!)
I'm back! It's been a hot minute since I've posted a new episode, but I am here! I'm also working on new content and resources - let me know what you want to hear about here. As I have been navigating diagnosis, treatment, and recovery from a number of health issues while also serving breastfeeding toddler families, I have noticed a few parallels between my own path to health, and the path to breastfeeding & weaning ease. In this episode I share about my own my sense of "felt safety" around wasps - yellow jackets to be exact, and how the timeline of the ebb and flow of the intensity of my fear coincided with the timeline of the intensity of my stress/overwhelm. I use that parallel to describe how our stress as humans shows up in our breastfeeding & parenting. From there, I provide 2 different ways to support a felt sense of safety so that you can in turn cultivate ease in your breastfeeding (and most other areas of life!): #1 - Soaking in the positive moments (because our negativity bias feeds our fear/stress). #2 - Meeting our fears/stress with kindness and self-compassion (because ignoring, catastrophizing, and/or arguing with ourselves only serves to reinforce and grow our fears and stress.) Try these 2 things out this week and then use the "fan mail"/text me option to let me know how they have made a difference for you. Grab your free guide to say "No" to the feed while still saying "yes" to the need at www.ownyourparentingstory.com/guide Love this episode?! Shoot me a DM over on Instagram @own.your.parenting.story and tell me all about it. <3
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Apr 22, 2024 · 29 min
45: "Help! I'm going on a work trip" 3 ways to prep dad & breastfed toddler for their first night alone together
This week I'm answering a coaching call question from an extended breastfeeding mom: "My toddler often doesn't accept dad at night when she wakes up crying. I am and have always been the preferred parent. I have just found out about a work trip I need to take which will have me away from my 2-year-old overnight for the first time. Typically, I feed her to sleep and to resettle throughout the night. If I am out of the house for bedtime, she does goes to sleep for other people, but it often takes a lot longer than if I am doing bedtime. Wondering if you had any tips that might help them both prepare for my work trip over the next few weeks and allow dad to be involved in general?" While there are a lot of things can be done to indirectly support a family in this situation, in this podcast episode, I break down a simple 3 part strategy to support a non-breastfeeding parent & a breastfed toddler for their first night(s) alone together. Whether you decide to night wean ahead of time or not (and I do explore this a little more in the episode), bolstering and leveraging your child's connection with the person who will be caring for them is key to a relaxing time apart. Find more opportunities for playful interactions between dad & kiddo (without pulling back from your own playful interactions with your child.) Utilizing "bridging" tools to help your child feel connected with you even when you are apart and help that separation feel less scary and intense. Expand the non-breastfeeding caregiver's capacity to hold space for the feelings that may come up. Resources Mentioned: https://developingchild.harvard.edu/science/key-concepts/serve-and-return/ Grab your free guide to say "No" to the feed while still saying "yes" to the need at www.ownyourparentingstory.com/guide Love this episode?! Shoot me a DM over on Instagram @own.your.parenting.story and tell me all about it. <3
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Apr 15, 2024 · 20 min
44 - HELP! My toddler is struggling to listen first thing in the morning (and a quick personal update!)
**SUBMIT YOUR Q FOR ME TO ANSWER IN FUTURE EPISODES** In this week's episode of Start to Stop Toddler Breastfeeding, I'm answering a question I received from a student in Own Your Breastfeeding Story. "How can I encourage my 2 year old to settle down when he is on the bed with us? We cosleep and most of the time especially in the morning when he wakes up, after he nurses from me, he immediately goes to wake up our 4 month old, or will start making big movements that will wake her up. We try to explain to him that when the newborn is sleeping (or anyone) we whisper and we try not to disturb them. Is this an unrealistic expectation of a toddler? What else can we do? " This kind of situation comes up in lots of different contexts - and for tandem breastfeeding moms, it can feel particularly loaded. Breastfeeding is your number one tool, but maybe your toddler isn't interested, or maybe YOU aren't interested. Are you destined to have a horrible day that begins with a stressful morning? In the episode I share a few different things to consider, and give some practical support: 1 - Check in with YOUR expectations first. 2 - Set your little one up for success by talking about this issue outside of the moment. 3 - Support them to have something else to do. 4 - Playfully engage with them to put them into a receptive state and avoid having to tell them what to do/not to do altogether. Grab your free guide to say "No" to the feed while still saying "yes" to the need at www.ownyourparentingstory.com/guide Love this episode?! Shoot me a DM over on Instagram @own.your.parenting.story and tell me all about it. <3
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S2 · E3
Mar 12, 2024 · 40 min
43: *UPDATED* Tandem breastfeeding: Life with 2 booby-monsters (part 3 of the tandem feeding series)*
**AUDIO FIXED** Breastfeeding a toddler and a newborn... at the same time -> most people in the Western world think this is crazy. And yet, I breastfed 2 kids (of different ages) for 3.5 years, and I hear from listeners all the time who are either doing it or considering it. But, just like most things "extended breastfeeding" there aren't many places to find support when you start out on your tandem nursing journey. In this final part of the Tandem Feeding series I give you all the things I wish I would have known as a first time tandem feeding mom, I cover: The most commonly asked tandemfeeding questions Preparing to tandem feed Navigating the early days of tandem nursing (including positions & sleep) Common challenges Some benefits of tandem nursing. Resources & Links from the episode: Sleep: Tiffany's Safe Bedsharing Guide University of Notre Dame Mother Baby Sleep Labratory FAQ La Leche League International Safe 7 Sleeping Baby Wearing: Tula Toddler Carriers (not an affiliate - just an example of something available) Ring Sling with a newborn video Breastfeeding in a ringsling Woven wrap tandem carry with a woven wrap Back carry newborn (ONLY ATTEMPT IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCED) Studies referenced in the episode: Sinkiewicz-Darol E, Bernatowicz-Łojko U, Łubiech K, Adamczyk I, Twarużek M, Baranowska B, Skowron K, Spatz DL. Tandem Breastfeeding: A Descriptive Analysis of the Nutritional Value of Milk When Feeding a Younger and Older Child. Nutrients. 2021 Jan 19;13(1):277. doi: 10.3390/nu13010277. PMID: 33478010; PMCID: PMC7835967. Yate ZM. A Qualitative Study on Negative Emotions Triggered by Breastfeeding; Describing the Phenomenon of Breastfeeding/Nursing Aversion and Agitation in Breastfeeding Mothers. Iran J Nurs Midwifery Res. 2017 Nov-Dec;22(6):449-454. doi: 10.4103/ijnmr.IJNMR_235_16. PMID: 29184583; PMCID: PMC5684792. Supportive resources for navigating judgment while tandem feeding: Podcast episode on Navigating Judgment Adventures in Tandem Nursing by Hilary Flowers, PhD KellyMom.com Tandem feeding FAQ page Grab your free guide to say "No" to the feed while still saying "yes" to the need at www.ownyourparentingstory.com/guide Love this episode?! Shoot me a DM over on Instagram @own.your.parenting.story and tell me all about it. <3
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Feb 26, 2024 · 34 min
42 - Breastfeeding a toddler while pregnant (part 2 of the tandem feeding series)
Finding out you are pregnant is a complex at the best of times. Having concerns about safety for you and your growing baby, finding your life impacted in ways you never would have expected, and feeling emotions you didn't know were possible (thank you hormones!) are all normal things in pregnancy - but there is an added layer of concern and change when you conceive while you are currently breastfeeding. It's (unfortunately) common to immediately get advice from friends, family, and even doctors that you must wean for your well-being and the health of your fetus. It's understood that breastfeeding during pregnancy has far more risks and benefits and continuing on is just foolish... or is it? In this week's podcast episode I bring together some of the lastest research & science around breastfeeding during pregnancy, as well as my own personal experience as a tandem feeding mom, and my professional experience as a toddler breastfeeding coach to give you the best information on: The safety of breastfeeding during pregnancy Your milk supply while pregnan Pain & aversion during pregnancy while breastfeeding Weaning & making changes with your toddler Hit follow/subscribe to get notified when the 3rd and final part of this series drops! Much of the research I share in this podcast episode is from the 2nd edition of Dr. Hilary Flower's book: "Adventures in Tandem Nursing" Click to listen to the referenced episode on Milk Supply while breastfeeding a toddler. Stalimerou V, Dagla M, Vivilaki V, Orovou E, Antoniou E, Iliadou M. Breastfeeding During Pregnancy: A Systematic Review of the Literature. Maedica (Bucur). 2023 Sep;18(3):463-469. doi: 10.26574/maedica.2023.18.3.463. PMID: 38023747; PMCID: PMC10674114. Madarshahian F, Hassanabadi M. A comparative study of breastfeeding during pregnancy: impact on maternal and newborn outcomes. J Nurs Res. 2012 Mar;20(1):74-80. doi: 10.1097/JNR.0b013e31824777c1. PMID: 22333968. Grab your free guide to say "No" to the feed while still saying "yes" to the need at www.ownyourparentingstory.com/guide Love this episode?! Shoot me a DM over on Instagram @own.your.parenting.story and tell me all about it. <3
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S2 · E1
Feb 19, 2024 · 30 min
41: Getting pregnant (or not!) while breastfeeding a toddler (part 1 of the tandem feeding series)
Trying to understand your fertility while you are breastfeeding your toddler is an uphill battle. Sure - Google abounds with tips & information about conception and contraception, but less so about conception and contraception while you are breastfeeding... and finding support for making sense of those things while you are breastfeeding a TODDLER?! ...virtually impossible. But, have no fear - your toddler breastfeeding guru is here! [insert Wonder Woman gif] In this half hour episode I have packed in: Considerations for timing your next pregnancy (or not!) and how there might be factors you are unaware of that could be increasing your stress, and impacting your day-to-day breastfeeding with your toddler. Tips for supporting your sex-life while breastfeeding A simplified breakdown of the menstrual cycle, the hormones involved, AND how they are impacted by breastfeeding. What is normal (and what is not) for your period when breastfeeding What contraceptive methods are compatible with breastfeeding (and WHY) Support to talk about fertility drugs with your doctor (before you decide to wean) How to be empowered to understand YOUR body better ...and last but not least, how to support your body to move back into fertility while you are breastfeeding. Make sure to hit "follow" or "subscribe" so you don't miss next week's episode all about breastfeeding through pregnancy. Resources mentioned in the podcast: https://www.infantrisk.com/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK501922/ Resources I used in preparation for this episode: "The Second Baby Book" by Sarah Ockwell Smith "Taking Charge of Your Fertility" by Toni Weschler Heinig MJ, Nommsen-Rivers LA, Peerson JM, Dewey KG. Factors related to duration of postpartum amenorrhoea among USA women with prolonged lactation. J Biosoc Sci. 1994 Oct;26(4):517-27. doi: 10.1017/s0021932000021647. PMID: 7983102. Wilcox AJ, Weinberg CR, Baird DD. Timing of sexual intercourse in relation to ovulation. Effects on the probability of conception, survival of the pregnancy, and sex of the baby. N Engl J Med. 1995 Dec 7;333(23):1517-21. doi: 10.1056/NEJM199512073332301. PMID: 7477165. Grab your free guide to say "No" to the feed while still saying "yes" to the need at www.ownyourparentingstory.com/guide Love this episode?! Shoot me a DM over on Instagram @own.your.parenting.story and tell me all about it. <3
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S1 · E44
Jan 28, 2024 · 15 min
(Toddler) Breastfeeding Goals - Do they really matter? (BTS Bonus Episode 4)
Have you ever felt the pressure of setting specific breastfeeding goals? I know I have! In the beginning, I felt like I had to have these concrete goals because, let's face it, everyone asks! But guess what? Once you are actually "in it" - things shift and change day-to-day and all of that concrete thinking feels a whole lot more abstract. In this episode, I share my journey from setting specific goals to embracing a more values-based approach... and the shift I am seeing in those I support. Join me as I share my insights on the modern dilemma of breastfeeding goals and what it all might mean for you and your toddler. Grab your free guide to say "No" to the feed while still saying "yes" to the need at www.ownyourparentingstory.com/guide Love this episode?! Shoot me a DM over on Instagram @own.your.parenting.story and tell me all about it. <3
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S1 · E43
Jan 22, 2024 · 27 min
My Nursing Aversion & Mental Health Struggles (BTS Bonus Episode 3)
Welcome to episode three of this Behind the Scenes series! In this candid conversation, I'm opening up about my mental health journey, embracing the highs and lows of anxiety, and depression, and sharing how it all ties into my experience with nursing aversion. This episode isn't just about my journey; it's an invitation to explore the intersection of mental health, motherhood - and of course, breastfeeding. I also dip into the things that have supported me through the most intense periods of emotional and mental struggles in my life and are still supporting me now. My hope is that they offer you support as well. I do share a few details around the trauma I experienced with my daughter's birth. If you would like to skip that part - jump ahead to 9:56 when I give the warning (at around 7 minutes.) Grab your free guide to say "No" to the feed while still saying "yes" to the need at www.ownyourparentingstory.com/guide Love this episode?! Shoot me a DM over on Instagram @own.your.parenting.story and tell me all about it. <3
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S1 · E42
Jan 15, 2024 · 22 min
What it's like breastfeeding my 4 yo - a day in the life (BTS Bonus Episode 2)
Tune into this episode to hear about sleep, boundaries, and more in my home right now. Ever wonder what life might look like if you were breastfeeding a 4 year old? Apparently, a lot of you have! Hundreds of you were curious about my current breastfeeding experience. So, I decided to break down what it's like to breastfeed my 4-year-old. I know it sounds like the title of a click-bait article, but the truth is, the fact that I am *still* breastfeeding my 4 year old barely enters my mind. It's a normal (and mostly enjoyable) small part of our lives. Also - I am sharing the toddler planner I use in my home to support ease and calm around breastfeeding and beyond. (It's literally the exact same one I created for my family, based on tools I have used and optimized for years) You can grab your free printable toddler planner here. Grab your free guide to say "No" to the feed while still saying "yes" to the need at www.ownyourparentingstory.com/guide Love this episode?! Shoot me a DM over on Instagram @own.your.parenting.story and tell me all about it. <3
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S1 · E41
Jan 8, 2024 · 15 min
Survival Mode Motherhood (Ep. 1 of Behind the Scenes Series)
If you have longed for a "me too," or an "I get it" for the times when parenting feels like you are just doing what you can to survive the day - this is the episode for you. 2023 was a crazy ride for me. Launching this podcast was incredible, but a lot was going on behind the scenes - including health struggles for me, which led to a lot of "survival mode parenting". Over the next month, I'll be sharing shorter, laid-back episodes that explore some of the things that I have experienced personally over my last 6.5 years of breastfeeding - and the last year of utter chaos. In this first episode of the BTS seried, I share how my own exhaustion and limited capacity have had benefits in my parenting. (And make sure to subscribe/follow this podcast so you don't miss out on the rest of the episodes in this BTS series.) Grab your free guide to say "No" to the feed while still saying "yes" to the need at www.ownyourparentingstory.com/guide Love this episode?! Shoot me a DM over on Instagram @own.your.parenting.story and tell me all about it. <3
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S1 · E40
Dec 18, 2023 · 43 min
40: Breastfeeding Manners - what to do with demanding older babies, toddlers & preschoolers
The shirt-pulling, screaming, and demands to breastfeed have gotten to the point that you find yourself dreading them before your toddler has even thought about breastfeeding again. When they do, inevitably "ask" to breastfeed, the fear of reinforcing all of their bad behaviors reverberates through your body as you quickly try to decide if you will hold the boundary; or give in to their demands this time. ...and the guilt that comes from the fact that they "act" so poorly can be crushing. Did you cause this behavior with your bad parenting? Will they end up as disrespectful teenagers? Will the choices you make today define their character as adults? Man - the pressure that mounts in those moments is crushing! But what if there is another way? In this final podcast episode of season 1 of Start to Stop Toddler Breastfeeding I break down: What respectful behaviour is and isn't The truth about the magic words: "Please" & "Thank You" Rewards, punishments & reinforcing behaviours How to support your child in the moment How to raise an empathetic, respectful human who has integrity How to support YOURSELF in the moment Looking for the episodes I mentioned at the beginning to re-listen to during the holidays? Episode 25: 5 Ways to Navigate Judgment & Social Pressure While Extended Breastfeeding Episode 23: Cavities, Teething & Toddler Biting While Nursing Episode 20: Breastfeeding A Sick Toddler: (Why, How & What to do when they are well again) Episode 13: Milk Supply - maintaining, upping & drying up after the first year Picky Eating & Breastfeeding with Krystyn Parks References: Harvard Making Caring Common Project Grab your free guide to say "No" to the feed while still saying "yes" to the need at www.ownyourparentingstory.com/guide Love this episode?! Shoot me a DM over on Instagram @own.your.parenting.story and tell me all about it. <3
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S1 · E39
Nov 28, 2023 · 25 min
39: a massive cultural barrier to natural term breastfeeding & toddler weaning with confidence and calm
Breastfeeding & weaning your toddler with confidence and connection isn't impossible. But the reason it feels that way (at least some of the time) isn't your fault. In today's podcast episode I break down the first of 3 cultural traps that keep you stuck and frustrated on your natural term breastfeeding & toddler weaning journey. (The other 2 are available in my free instant-access workshop here!) The trap? The belief/instinct to start by changing your child's behavior first. What does it look like? ->Deciding it's time to wean ->Shorten feeds/dropping feeds/reading the weaning story books ->...and your child asks to breastfeed more, not less (and at an increasing volume.) Tune in to learn how to get un-stuck from this trap (and avoid it if you haven't fallen in yet!) Grab your free guide to say "No" to the feed while still saying "yes" to the need at www.ownyourparentingstory.com/guide Love this episode?! Shoot me a DM over on Instagram @own.your.parenting.story and tell me all about it. <3
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S1 · E38
Nov 13, 2023 · 26 min
38 - My toddler only wants me for my milk - confessions of a milk machine
"They swarm me whenever I sit down and will SCREAM until I breastfeed them - and then they are off to play. They never want snuggle without breastfeeding. I feel like all I am is a milk machine." <- Have you ever had these thoughts? I know I have! This week I challenge the cultural narrative that we are only milk machines, unpack the ways that this belief impacts our moment-by-moment breastfeeding, and leave you with some practical tips to connect with your child beyond the boob. Note - I'll take things a little slower until the New Year, so stay tuned for new episodes on a slightly less frequent schedule. Grab your free guide to say "No" to the feed while still saying "yes" to the need at www.ownyourparentingstory.com/guide Love this episode?! Shoot me a DM over on Instagram @own.your.parenting.story and tell me all about it. <3
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