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Sparking Everyday Discipleship

Terrie Hellard-Brown

A Podcast about Discipleship in the 21st Century providing tools for Everyday Discipleship Every Day

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  • S14 · E357
    Friday · 25 min

    When Your Child Comes Out: Grace, Conviction, and What to Say First | Rob Jackson

    What do you say in the first ten minutes after your child tells you they identify as LGBT? And what do you do when your first thought is "What will people at church think?" In this episode of Sparking Everyday Discipleship, Terrie talks with Rob Jackson, a licensed professional counselor with Focus on the Family and author of When Grace Meets Conviction: Loving God and Your LGBT Child. Rob draws on years of calls from Christian parents to show how to keep your convictions and your relationship with your child at the same time. He explains why accepting your child is not the same as affirming everything they believe, and why Christian parenting was never a formula. He also gives churches a challenge: if you haven't thought through how you'll minister in this area, you're already behind. In this episode: What to say, and what not to say, right after your child comes out Why your child's choices are not a verdict on your parenting Praying honestly within a new reality without endorsing it Keeping the relationship open when you won't agree on everything How churches can stay biblical and still be approachable Talking with young children about God's design without teaching them contempt Neurodivergence, belonging, and why asking questions beats making assumptions "If it's not a moral issue, let's not make it one" ⏱ CHAPTERS 00:00 Intro 01:12 Meet Rob Jackson and his 100-question book for parents 02:47 What to say in the first moments after your child comes out 05:40 Family reputation, parental shame, and the myth of a parenting formula 08:10 Renewing your mind and praying within a new reality 10:10 Keeping conversations open and preparing the church 14:23 Talking with younger children without modeling contempt 17:43 Neurodivergence, belonging, and asking instead of assuming 22:20 "If it's not a moral issue, let's not make it one" 23:28 How to contact Focus on the Family and find the book 📚 MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE When Grace Meets Conviction: Loving God and Your LGBT Child by Rob Jackson. Learn about the book, Rob's new parents group, and his work with churches at gracemeetsconviction.com. Focus on the Family counseling: Call 1-800-A-FAMILY (1-800-232-6459), Monday–Friday, or request help anytime at focusonthefamily.com/get-help. Scripture referenced: Genesis 1:27, Luke 15:11–32, John 14:15, Romans 12:2 Reflect: Do you treat your child more like a person to love or a project to manage? What would it look like this week to keep the door open? From Hypurpley Publishing, this podcast's sponsor: We offer traditional publishing and walk authors through independent publishing. Learn more at hypurpleypublishing.com. Questions or comments? Leave them below. We'd love to hear from you. Mixed Needs Mama and Sparking Everyday Discipleship are part of The Whole Family, encouragement for families raising kids with different needs. #sparkingeverydaydiscipleship #christianparenting

  • S14 · E356
    October 30 · 35 min

    Silly Books, Sweet Homes, and Discipline That Restores, with Macy Bassler

    Foster and homeschool mom Macy Bassler talks about discipling kids through silly stories, a warm family culture, and discipline that restores fellowship. Show notes Terrie talks with Macy Bassler, a pediatric physical therapist, homeschool mom, and the voice behind The Fruitful Family. Macy and her husband said yes to foster care and were matched with a six-year-old girl who needed a forever home. Within two years they had three children. Macy shares what God taught her through advocating for a daughter with special needs, walking through three miscarriages, and choosing to step away from her career to homeschool. Macy also introduces her first picture book, Ferdinand, the Fish Who Feared Bubbles. It began as a bedtime story for her very active four-year-old. She and Terrie discuss why a silly book can disciple a child just as well as a "living book." What children remember most is the time spent reading together. From there, the conversation turns to building a family culture your kids will look back on as sweet. They talk about why a parent's own walk with God matters most, and about putting down the phone and looking your child in the eye. They also cover why consistency matters when you can't see fruit yet, and Macy explains why kids are like potatoes. Finally, they talk about what biblical discipline is really for. Its goal isn't punishment. It's restoring a child to fellowship with the family. In this episode: Saying yes to God when the road is harder than you planned Why silly stories still have a place in discipleship Meeting each child where they are Creating a family culture of warmth and welcome Consistency and the long game of faith Discipline as restoration, not punishment Chapters: 00:00 Welcome, guest intro, and the Storybook Inkspiration Retreat 02:23 Macy's unexpected path into foster care and motherhood 05:28 Miscarriage, Scripture, and renewed closeness with God 07:04 Stepping away from work to homeschool 07:44 Saying yes to God when you can't see the road ahead 11:25 Ferdinand, the Fish Who Feared Bubbles 13:25 Why silly stories and reading together matter 16:37 Meeting children where they are as learners 19:03 Family culture starts with the parent's walk with God 21:48 Eye contact, defining moments, and a home that welcomes 24:35 Beyond Sunday school answers: consistency and the long game 28:54 Discipline as restoration, not punishment 32:55 Wrap-up and Macy's book release Resources mentioned: Macy Bassler / The Fruitful Family: https://thefruitfulfamily.org/ Ferdinand, the Fish Who Feared Bubbles (releases November 17): https://thefruitfulfamily.org/ferdinand Storybook Inkspiration Retreat, April 2027, Broken Bow, Oklahoma: https://www.hypurpleypublishing.com/storybook-inkspiration-retreat Leave your questions and comments on the blog post or on YouTube. We respond to every one.

  • S14 · E355
    October 23 · 15 min

    Parenting for God's Approval or Everyone Else's

    We hear sermons about money, careers, and even family becoming idols. But what about the quieter idols: perfectionism, control, and the approval of other people? In this episode of Sparking Everyday Discipleship, Terrie shares how God revealed idolatry in her own heart. It began with a season of fear early in her marriage and a counselor's question she never forgot: "Are you trying to be God?" Years later, a doctoral class took her deeper, and she saw that people-pleasing was at the root. She shows how this idol creeps into our parenting. We start focusing on how our kids' behavior makes us look instead of focusing on their hearts and their walk with Christ. In this episode: How perfectionism and control can be a form of idolatry Why people-pleasing shifts our parenting from heart change to behavior modification Colossians 3:5 and covetousness: coveting approval, reputation, or an easy life Living for an audience of one, who has already fully loved, accepted, and redeemed us What to do when the Holy Spirit shows you an idol: repent, not self-condemnation Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Discipleship and Heart Check 02:00 Personal Stories of Fear and Perfectionism 04:08 Understanding Idolatry in Parenting 06:03 Biblical Insights on Idolatry from Colossians 08:13 Living for an Audience of One: Christ 10:09 Practical Steps to Examine Your Heart 11:51 Encouragement for Parents in Discipleship Scripture: Colossians 3:5, Ephesians 2:10, and James 4:7. Reflect: Where are you seeking approval from people rather than resting in God's approval? How might that be shaping what you expect from your children? From Hypurpley Publishing, this podcast's sponsor: Writer coaching: Get your manuscript ready to pitch or publish, whether you're going traditional or indie. Called Writer's Cohort Homeschooler's Path to Publishing: A Zoom class for teens that takes them from book idea to published author. They learn the craft of writing plus editing, critique, and the publishing industry. Meets twice a month. Limited to 10 students per class. Find out more. Questions or comments? Leave them here. We'd love to hear from you.

  • S14 · E350
    October 18 · 2 min

    Fine and Gross Motor Skills: A Quick Correction

    In Episode 350 about using copywork and how to help our children write without fatigue I misspoke about fine and gross motor skills. I wanted to set the record straight. Here's the link to the episode: https://booksthatspark.libsyn.com/using-copy-work-for-language-arts-and-discipleship

  • S14 · E354
    October 16 · 42 min

    What to Do When Your Child Doubts God (and You Don't Know the Answer) with Elizabeth Urbanowicz

    Questions Aren't the Opposite of Faith: Preparing Kids for the Questions They'll Face Our kids are hearing hard questions about God, the Bible, and faith from friends, influencers, and the internet. Elizabeth Urbanowicz, founder of Foundation Worldview, returns to talk about how to make home the safest place to ask them. She and Terrie discuss what to do when your child doubts, when you don't know the answer, and when someone has twisted Scripture to hurt them. In this episode: Welcome questions: The opposite of faith is unbelief, not questions. Affirm the question before you answer it. When you don't know the answer: Faking an answer trains kids to trust blindly, and that trust eventually moves to a peer, an influencer, or a professor. Instead, research the answer together and teach your kids how to judge whether a source is reliable, including asking AI tools to cite their sources. When your child doubts God exists: Doubt can be an invitation to discover whether what they believe is true. Ask questions first to find the root of the doubt. An intellectual objection calls for evidence. A painful experience calls for comfort first. When a friend walks away from faith: Help your kids come up with good questions that uncover why the friend left. The listening ball activity: A simple game that teaches kids to ask questions and repeat back what they heard before they respond. When Scripture has been twisted: Teach kids the whole story of the Bible, how to read a passage in context, and the difference between descriptive and prescriptive passages. Remind them that God takes it seriously when shepherds harm His sheep. Literal or symbolic? Using John 6 as the example, Elizabeth explains how genre, context, and the resurrection help kids interpret hard passages. Moving past "the Jesus answer": When kids default to "Jesus," ask them to explain why. Timestamps 00:11 Welcome 01:54 New Foundation Worldview resources for kids 02:44 Preparing kids for the questions they'll face 03:19 Making your home a place that welcomes questions 06:12 What if I don't know the answer? 08:30 When your child starts doubting God 11:13 Finding the root cause of doubt 14:43 When a friend walks away from faith 18:06 The listening ball activity 20:57 When kids have been taught twisted Scripture 25:54 When church hurt affects your kids 29:55 John 6: Is it literal or symbolic? 33:42 Why Jesus used shocking language 36:00 How a doctoral assignment turned into a family Bible study 37:55 Moving kids past "the Jesus answer" 40:51 Closing Resources mentioned Foundation Worldview: apologetics and biblical worldview curriculum for kids, plus parent training. foundationworldview.com. Use code SPARK10 for 10% off. Coming soon from Foundation Worldview: Trusting the Bible (ages 8–12) and Bearing God's Image (ages 4–7, working title) GotQuestions.org: answers to Bible questions, footnoted with Scripture We'd love to hear from you. Leave a comment or question below. Sparking Everyday Discipleship is sponsored by Hypurpley Publishing, bridging the gap between Sunday school lessons and Monday morning life.

  • S14 · E353
    October 8 · 32 min

    When Should You Talk to Your Kids About Sex? (Earlier Than You Think) with John Fort

    Don't Stress Talking Sex: Starting Honest, Healthy Conversations with Your Kids Most of us dread "the talk." John Fort didn't want to have it either. But after his own childhood exposure to pornography, with parents who never addressed it, he knew his kids wouldn't stand a chance if he stayed silent. Decades of ministry later, Focus on the Family asked him to write the book. In this episode, John and Terrie talk about why these conversations are part of discipling our kids, how early to start, and what to do when your child has already been exposed. He also covers how your own messy past can become your most powerful teaching tool. In this episode: When to start: "Two years before you think you should." John walks through Scripture's example of reading the whole law, including its sexual content, to "all the little ones," and gives age guidelines. Body parts and respect come at ages 3–6, how sex works at 8–9, and the reproductive system at 10–11. Preparing kids for exposure: By age 8, kids need to know they will encounter sexual content, what to do when it happens, and that they won't be in trouble for telling you. Arousal, temptation, and sin: A simple framework that helped John's son understand that a bodily reaction isn't sin, and that this understanding makes walking away easier. Processing exposure without lecturing: What did you see? How did it happen? How did it make you feel? How can we prevent it? Then pray together. When your child has sought out pornography: Start with "I'm so glad you told me," and share your own story first. Parents with a past: The number one reason Christian parents avoid this conversation is fear their kids will learn about their past. John explains why your story is the bridge. Neurodivergent kids: Why online content can feel safer than real social interaction, and how to build positive social experiences. Kids with intellectual disabilities: Lower impulse control means greater protection is needed. Timestamps 00:12 Welcome 01:11 Meet John Fort and the backstory behind the book 04:53 When should you start talking about sex? 06:52 Respecting our bodies and moving beyond purity culture 10:36 Preparing kids for exposure 12:17 Arousal vs. temptation vs. sin 14:43 How to help kids process exposure 15:39 When your child has sought out pornography 20:03 What if you messed up when you were young? 22:32 Neurodivergent kids and online compulsions 27:18 Kids with intellectual disabilities 28:24 John's books 29:35 Closing thought: these conversations draw you closer 30:13 New homeschool teen writing class Resources mentioned Don't Stress Talking Sex by John W. Fort: [Amazon link] John's other books, including his identity book and the Elias Turner series: [Amazon author page] Homeschool teen writing and publishing class: three semesters on Zoom, from first idea to published book, limited to 10 students per class. [Link] We'd love to hear from you. Leave a comment or question below. Sparking Everyday Discipleship is sponsored by Hypurpley Publishing, bridging the gap between Sunday school lessons and Monday morning life.

  • S14 · E352
    October 2 · 21 min

    Is "It's Okay" Hurting Our Kids? Rethinking Forgiveness and Repentance

    What does the Bible really say about forgiveness and repentance, and how do we teach kids forgiveness that goes beyond "it's okay"? We teach children to say "it's okay" when someone hurts them, but that isn't what Scripture means by forgiveness. In this episode, Terrie uses Luke 17:3–4 and a scene from Izzy's Notebook to look at the difference between letting go of bitterness and true forgiveness. Real forgiveness isn't only for our own peace of mind. It seeks the other person's good, which sometimes means confronting an offense in love so reconciliation with us, and with God, can happen. In this episode: - Why "say it's okay" can teach children the wrong thing - Luke 17:3–4: rebuke, repentance, and forgiveness - Letting go of bitterness vs. true forgiveness - Forgiving someone who isn't safe: reconciliation without blind trust - Why we need to tell people when they've hurt us - How to start these conversations with your kids Chapters: 00:00 Welcome 0:34 Hypurpley Publishing 2:22 The One Another series and Izzy's Notebook 5:45 What is forgiveness? 8:25 Luke 17:3–4 and repentance 10:25 Letting go of bitterness vs. true forgiveness 11:17 When the person isn't safe 14:00 "You know what you did": when we don't know how we've hurt someone 17:05 Stop playing games with forgiveness 19:14 Closing Scripture referenced: Luke 17:3–4 | Hebrews 13:16 Resources mentioned: 📖 Izzy's Notebook: https://terriehellardbrown.com/shop 🃏 One Another Discipleship Deck: https://terriehellardbrown.com/shop 🎧 The podcast episode that shaped this discussion: https://youtu.be/KCdBZVVEU3I?si=MI6M1OGU2ePIPQJC Connect with Terrie: 🌐 Blog post and comments for this episode: https://terriehellardbrown.com/blog 📚 Hypurpley Publishing: https://hypurpleypublishing.com Have a book on your heart? Hypurpley Publishing has openings for new authors. Reach out through the website to talk about next steps. Sparking Everyday Discipleship discusses books and resources for discipling our children, encouraging and empowering parents to spark important conversations every day. #BiblicalForgiveness #ChristianParenting #EverydayDiscipleship

  • S14 · E351
    September 24 · 20 min

    Active Discipleship

    Summary In this episode, Terrie Hellard-Brown shares practical strategies for discipling active children, emphasizing the importance of meeting children where they are and using everyday moments for teaching. She discusses how to handle resistance, the value of teachable moments, and ways to incorporate faith into daily life. Key Topics Adjusting discipleship to children's activity levels Using mealtime and travel as teaching moments Seizing teachable and defining moments Encouraging independence and respect in teens Handling resistance and resistance in discipleship Incorporating fun activities into faith lessons The importance of gratitude and teachability in children Balancing discipline and joy in parenting Takeaways Meet children where they are, not where you want them to be. Use everyday activities like meals and travel for discipleship. Seize teachable moments to teach when children are receptive. Help children see their unique talents as gifts from God. Balance structured lessons with spontaneous fun. Encourage respect and independence in teens. Use family activities to teach biblical principles. Maintain joy and flexibility in discipleship. Sound Bites "Seize teachable moments when children are receptive." "Respect and boundaries are vital in teen discipleship." "Let go of your plans and embrace God's timing." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Discipling Active Children 02:14 Adjusting Discipleship to Child's Activity Level 03:33 Using Daily Life as Teaching Moments 04:50 Seizing Teachable and Defining Moments 06:13 Helping Children Recognize Their Gifts 07:56 Handling Resistance During Discipleship 08:45 Adapting Lessons to Hyper Children 10:32 Talking to Resistant Children About Discipleship 12:42 Maintaining Respect and Boundaries in Teen Years 14:22 Building Siblings' Relationships for the Future 15:12 Encouraging Gratitude and Teachable Attitudes 16:45 The Importance of Being Teachable 17:38 Letting Go of Rigid Plans and Embracing Flexibility 18:30 Resources for Family Discipleship and Parenting

  • S14 · E350
    September 17 · 18 min

    Using Copy Work for Language Arts and Discipleship

    Summary Terrie Hellard-Brown shares practical insights on teaching language arts and writing to children, emphasizing modeling, copy work, and motor skills development to enhance learning and Scripture memory. NOTE: I misspoke about fine and gross motor skills in this episode. I recorded a correction. You can listen to that here: https://booksthatspark.libsyn.com/fine-and-gross-motor-skills-a-quick-correction Key Topics The power of modeling in teaching language arts Using copy work to teach grammar and punctuation The TPCASTT method for analyzing poetry The importance of large motor skills in writing Strategies for teaching Bible verses and memorization Addressing fine motor challenges in children Using sidewalk chalk and large paper for handwriting The role of technology and traditional methods in learning Takeaways Copy work helps children learn punctuation and sentence structure naturally. Modeling behavior is more effective than direct instruction for children. Using Word's underlining feature can aid in grammar correction. Copying poetry and Bible verses enhances memorization and understanding. Large motor skills are crucial for developing fine motor control in writing. Starting handwriting practice with sidewalk chalk can reduce fatigue. Teaching children to write from the shoulder prevents wrist fatigue. Using a progression from large to small paper helps develop handwriting skills. Incorporating analysis like TPCASTT deepens literary understanding. Encouraging outdoor and creative writing activities makes learning engaging. Sound Bites "Modeling behavior is more effective than direct instruction." "Copy work helps children learn punctuation and sentence structure naturally." "Using large motor skills prevents wrist fatigue and improves memory." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Teaching Language Arts and Copy Work 02:04 The Power of Modeling in Teaching Children 04:12 Using Word to Help with Grammar and Punctuation 05:59 The TPCASTT Method for Analyzing Poems 07:48 Incorporating Bible Verses and Memorization Strategies 10:01 Using Large Motor Skills and Outdoor Activities for Handwriting 11:52 The Benefits of Traditional Writing and Dictionary Use 14:00 Addressing Motor Challenges with Practical Tips 15:46 Final Thoughts and Encouragement for Homeschoolers 17:09 Upcoming Interviews and Closing Remarks

  • S14 · E349
    September 11 · 24 min

    I Only Needed One Real Friend: A TCK on Belonging, Loneliness, and Discipleship

    Summary In this episode, we explore the vital role of community and friendship in children's development, especially for those growing up as third culture kids and in homeschooling environments. Annie shares her personal experiences of navigating friendships across cultures and the importance of lifelong connections. Key Topics The significance of community and friendship in child development Challenges faced by third culture kids in forming friendships The role of community in emotional and social growth Strategies for homeschooling families to build social networks Lifelong friendships and their impact on well-being The importance of community for neurodivergent children Parenting tips for fostering social skills and connections The impact of expat life on children's social experiences Takeaways Community is essential for emotional and social development. Lifelong friends often form through shared experiences and trust. Parents should actively create opportunities for children to build friendships. Homeschooling groups and activities can provide vital social interaction. Understanding and supporting neurodivergent children's social needs is crucial. Sound Bites "You are who you surround yourself with." "Traveling helps me stay connected worldwide." "Masks can come off when you're with your community." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the importance of community for children 00:14 Annalisa shares her view on friendship and community 00:39 The impact of community on emotional development 00:54 Challenges faced by expat and third culture kids 01:20 Building lifelong friendships across cultures 01:47 The role of community in homeschooling 02:05 Supporting neurodivergent children in social settings 02:29 The significance of masks and authentic community 02:37 Encouragement for parents to foster social connections 02:38 Conclusion and final thoughts on community and friendship

  • S14 · E348
    September 3 · 11 min

    Who's Your Favorite: Episode 348

    Summary In this episode, we explore the importance of prioritizing God in our lives and how it impacts our relationships with our children and spouses. We discuss practical ways to keep God at the center and the dangers of idolatry. Key Topics The importance of making God the first priority in life How to teach children about God's supremacy and love The role of marriage in spiritual growth Recognizing and avoiding idolatry in daily life Practical steps to spend quality time with God The significance of returning to one's first love in faith Balancing family, marriage, and personal faith The biblical basis for prioritizing God's kingdom Takeaways God must be the center of our lives to effectively disciple our children. Parents should model Christ's love and prioritize their relationship with Him. Avoiding idolatry requires regular self-examination and repentance. Spending time in prayer and Bible study strengthens our faith and family. A healthy marriage supports spiritual growth and family stability. Key Frameworks First Love Mentality Priorities in Faith and Family Sound Bites "Jesus has to be our favorite." "Idolatry is putting anything else in God's place." "Seek ye first the kingdom of God." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the importance of prioritizing God 01:55 A story about a father's love and God's supremacy 04:02 Understanding the sin of idolatry in family life 06:05 The significance of spending time with God daily 08:09 Balancing marriage and parenting with faith at the center 10:07 Seeking God's kingdom first and trusting His provision 10:55 Encouragement to return to our first love in Christ

  • S14 · E347
    August 27 · 14 min

    Teaching Redemption and Restoration with Drandar the Dragon: Season 14, Episode 347

    Summary In this episode, Terrie Hellard-Brown discusses her latest children's book, Drandar and the Quest for Redemption, exploring themes of forgiveness, trust, and God's grace through an adventurous story about a dragon and a knight. She shares insights on the importance of redemption in faith and life, and how her books and resources aim to inspire children and families. Key Topics Themes of redemption and forgiveness in children's literature The story behind Drandar and the Quest for Redemption The importance of teaching children about God's grace Using stories to illustrate spiritual lessons Resources for family discipleship and faith growth Takeaways Redemption is a powerful theme that teaches children about God's grace and forgiveness. Stories can be a meaningful way to introduce spiritual concepts to kids. The 'Drandar' series aims to show that even those who fail can find redemption. Resources like QR codes and music enhance engagement and learning. Parents and educators can use these stories to foster faith and values in children. Sound Bites "Redemption is reconciliation and showing our value." "God's grace is beyond anything we deserve." "This podcast has been a blessing to me from day one." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Book and Its Themes 01:16 The Story of Drandar and Seton 02:11 The Quest for Redemption Begins 04:09 God's Opportunity for Reconciliation 05:58 Using Music and QR Codes to Teach Faith 07:29 The Power of Redemption and Grace 09:31 Upcoming Books and Resources 11:21 Join Our Mailing List and Resources 13:29 Podcast Achievements and Future Goals 14:22 Closing Remarks and Blessings

  • S14 · E346
    August 19 · 32 min

    Real Faith in Real Life with Gayle Veitenheimer and Jen Weaver - Episode 346, Season 14

    Summary In this episode, authors Gail Veitenheimer and Jen Weaver discuss their middle grade mystery series that weaves faith and storytelling, emphasizing how to naturally incorporate spiritual lessons into engaging stories for children. They share insights on faith development, storytelling techniques, and practical tips for parents and educators. Key Topics How faith is woven naturally into children's stories The importance of short chapters and engaging storytelling techniques Encouraging children to recognize God's voice and practice prayer Addressing emotional themes like anxiety, insecurity, and reconciliation Practical tips for parents to foster faith and reading habits Sound Bites "God has wired us for story." "Prayer is our secret weapon." "Real faith in real life." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the series and guests 01:55 Overview of the book series and inspiration behind it 03:58 Character development: Luca's faith struggle and Ember's grounding 05:51 The importance of storytelling in faith formation 07:55 How faith is naturally integrated into the story 09:53 Partnership in writing and prayer in the creative process 12:02 Themes of teamwork, reconciliation, and trust in the series 13:47 Helping children recognize God's voice and practice prayer 16:01 Addressing emotional themes like anxiety and insecurity 17:59 Tips for encouraging reluctant readers and engaging children 19:48 The value of short chapters and multimedia resources 22:01 Supporting children with processing differences and diverse learning needs 23:56 The role of parents and caregivers in everyday discipleship 25:57 Upcoming books and series continuation 28:03 Sharing resources: podcasts and additional materials 30:00 Final thoughts and encouragement for parents and educators

  • S14 · E345
    August 13 · 23 min

    Discipleship and Discipline: Answering Parents' Questions - Sparking Everyday Discipleship Episode 345

    Summary In this episode, we explore how Christian parents can effectively disciple their children, emphasizing the importance of conversations, transparency, and trust in nurturing faith. The host shares practical tips and biblical principles to help parents guide their kids in following Christ. Key Topics The importance of ongoing conversations with children about faith Being transparent and authentic in parenting Sharing personal testimony to teach God's grace Teaching children to handle temptation and make faith-based decisions The role of trust and prayer in spiritual parenting Respect and communication as foundations for sibling relationships Balancing discipline with love and respect The significance of trusting God's plan for children's faith journey Takeaways Consistent, open conversations foster trust and spiritual growth. Parents should be transparent about their own struggles and God's grace. Praying on the spot helps in responding to difficult questions. Teaching children to handle temptation is crucial for their faith. Trust in God's sovereignty is vital, even if children stray. Respect and communication are key to sibling harmony. Parents cannot control their children's faith decisions, only guide and pray. Sharing personal stories of failure and redemption models God's grace. Sound Bites "Trust God, He loves your child more than you do." "Teach children how to handle temptation and make faith-based decisions." "Keep trusting, keep praying, God has a plan." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Discipleship and Parenting Challenges 01:50 The Core of Discipleship: Conversations and Purposeful Teaching 04:00 Trusting God and Praying for Your Children's Salvation 05:52 The Importance of Open, Honest Conversations with Children 08:05 Being Transparent and Sharing Personal Testimony 11:00 Teaching Children How to Handle Temptation and Make Faithful Choices 12:50 Trusting God's Plan and Praying Through Uncertainty 14:02 Addressing Sibling Rivalry with Respect and Communication 17:11 Building Respect and Healthy Relationships Among Siblings 20:10 The Role of Respect and Prayer in Parenting 22:04 Closing Remarks and Resources for Parents

  • S13 · E344
    July 24 · 14 min

    Episode 344: The Eternal Importance of Listening to Our Children's Questions

    Summary In this episode, Terrie Hellard-Brown shares her heartfelt journey of coming to faith as a child, the importance of understanding genuine salvation, and how to nurture children's spiritual growth. She emphasizes listening to children's questions and trusting God's work in their lives. Key Topics Child's journey to faith Importance of understanding salvation Answering children's spiritual questions Different ways children come to faith Trusting God's timing in salvation Takeaways Children's faith experiences vary; some have immediate, powerful conversions, others grow gradually. It's crucial to listen to children's questions and treat their curiosity with respect. Genuine faith often involves a real, palpable change, not just a prayer. Parents and leaders should clearly articulate the gospel in simple terms. God is drawing children to Himself, and our role is to nurture and answer their questions. Sound Bites "I knew I needed Jesus, I didn't understand it." "There was a change in my heart, like I came to life." "God is drawing children to Himself, and we must listen." Chapters 00:00 Introduction and overview of the episode 00:26 Terrie shares her personal story of coming to Christ at age seven 01:19 The significance of the Lord's Supper in her faith journey 02:42 Understanding children's questions about salvation 04:43 Recognizing genuine faith in children 06:34 The importance of listening to children's spiritual questions 08:24 Different ways children come to faith and grow in it 12:04 The need for clear gospel communication 13:01 The palpable change when truly coming to Christ 15:31 Trusting God's work in children's hearts 16:30 Encouragement for parents and leaders in discipleship

  • S13 · E343
    July 17 · 33 min

    Episode 343: Kathleen Bostrom and Celebrating Creation

    Summary In this episode, Kathleen Bostrom shares her journey of writing children's books about creation, the importance of faith-based stories, and the challenges and joys of publishing. We explore how these stories can inspire children and adults alike to appreciate God's creation and our role in caring for the earth. Key Topics Kathleen Bostrom's journey of writing children's books about creation The importance of faith and stewardship in children's stories The process of illustrating and publishing children's books The impact of stories on children's understanding of God's creation Challenges faced by authors in the children's publishing industry Takeaways Stories about creation can inspire children to appreciate God's world Faith-based children's books teach stewardship and responsibility Illustration and collaboration are key in children's book publishing Supporting local bookstores and libraries helps sustain children's literature Creating diverse and inclusive characters in children's books is important Sound Bites "The joy of God's creation just spilled out of my pen" "Creation stories remind us of God's fingerprints everywhere" "Stories about creation inspire children to appreciate God's world" Chapters 00:00 Introduction and guest introduction 00:12 Kathleen Long Bostrom's background and inspiration 00:58 The journey of writing 'Lift the Flaps' board book 01:25 The joy of God's creation and storytelling in rhyme 02:22 The collaboration with illustrator Janet Samuel 03:21 The significance of stewardship in children's stories 04:18 The timing of the book release and personal milestones 06:52 The illustrations and their impact 07:35 The importance of creation stories in faith and education 08:30 The biblical foundation of creation and God's fingerprints 09:15 Diversity and inclusion in children's books 09:55 The role of creation in understanding God's nature 11:27 The emotional and spiritual impact of stories 12:54 The importance of caring for God's earth 13:43 The value of picture books for all ages 15:48 Supporting children's literature and local bookstores 16:46 The significance of reading to children from birth 17:29 The power of stories in shaping faith and values 18:35 The role of books in end-of-life moments 19:17 The evolving landscape of children's publishing industry 20:44 Balancing writing, family, and life transitions 22:46 The challenges of publishing children's books today 24:32 The importance of supporting children's books financially 25:29 The lasting impact of childhood stories 27:35 The influence of books on personal growth and faith 29:41 The future of children's literature and publishing industry

  • S13 · E342
    July 9 · 20 min

    Episode 342: Sue Irwin and Teaching Gratitude and Praise Through Storytelling

    Summary In this episode, Sue Irwin discusses her upcoming children's book 'Hey There Bluebird, Why Do You Chirp?' and explores how it can be used to teach gratitude, praise, and spiritual lessons to children, including those with special needs. She shares insights on using books as educational and emotional tools for families and educators. Key Topics Using books to teach gratitude and praise Adapting children's literature for special needs The role of storytelling in emotional development Educational aspects of 'Hey There Bluebird' Strategies for family and classroom reading Sound Bites "Gratitude is a superpower for children." "Teaching gratitude helps children calm down and see the good." "Books can be enjoyed at any age, not just children." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to 'Hey There Bluebird' 01:49 The Power of Gratitude in Special Needs Education 06:03 Using Books for All Ages and Abilities 09:53 Educational Elements of 'Hey There Bluebird' 13:51 Looking Ahead: Future Projects and Collaborations Resources Hey There Bluebird Book Website - https://amzn.to/4bBvcAb Sue Irwin's Website - https://www.sueirwinwrites.com/books

  • S13 · E341
    July 2 · 18 min

    Episode 341: Lexa Hale and Embracing Your Unique Design at Any Age

    SummaryIn this episode, Lexa shares her inspiring journey of writing her first children's book, 'God Chose Me,' and discusses the importance of teaching children about their unique creation by God. We explore themes of self-acceptance, God's intentional design, and how to nurture a positive self-image in young kids. Key Topics The inspiration behind 'God Chose Me' Teaching children about God's intentional creation Balancing self-esteem with humility The role of rhyme and illustration in children's books Real-life stories of children embracing their uniqueness Takeaways Children need a strong foundation of understanding that they are uniquely created by God. It's important to celebrate differences without fostering pride or entitlement. Rhyme in children's books should be carefully crafted to enhance engagement and memorability. Illustrations can powerfully convey emotions and messages in children's literature. Personal stories from parents highlight the importance of acceptance and love. Sound Bites "Nothing about you is a mistake." "You are uniquely, intentionally created by God." "Kids can be whatever they want to be." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to 'God Chose Me' 02:35 The Inspiration Behind the Book 05:40 Balancing Self-Esteem and Faith 08:01 The Role of Illustrations in Children's Books 10:31 Embracing Individual Differences 14:05 Real-Life Stories and Their Impact 16:32 Resources and Conclusion Resources God Chose Me on Amazon Paraclete Press - Publisher

  • S13 · E340
    June 25 · 19 min

    Episode 340: Helping Our Children Embrace Forgiveness

    Summary In this episode, we explore the true meaning of forgiveness and reconciliation, especially for children. We discuss practical ways to teach kids about forgiveness through books, analogies, and activities, emphasizing its importance for healthy relationships and spiritual growth. This episode originally aired on Books that Spark on 9/28/2020. Key Topics The true meaning of forgiveness and reconciliation How forgiveness benefits emotional and spiritual health Effective books and analogies to teach children about forgiveness The importance of timing and heart readiness in reconciliation Practical activities and worksheets for teaching forgiveness The role of God's love in forgiving others The impact of unforgiveness on mental and physical health Strategies for helping children process anger and hurt The importance of modeling forgiveness as parents and teachers Biblical principles and verses about forgiveness Sound Bites "Unforgiveness is like having an elephant in your heart." "Forgiveness is a selfless act that benefits us." "True forgiveness is a sacrifice and a spiritual act." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Forgiveness and Reconciliation 01:13 Understanding Forgiveness: A Deeper Look 05:04 The Importance of Teaching Forgiveness to Children 10:04 Practical Tools for Teaching Forgiveness 12:44 Books That Spark Conversations on Forgiveness Resources Nicole Lataif - I Forgive You. Love We Can Hear - https://amzn.to/4xSBuFm Kevin Hinkies - Lily's Purple Plastic Purse - https://amzn.to/4uOSEkd Amy Dickman - Horrible Bear - https://amzn.to/4w3XZVW William Carlos Williams - "This Is Just To Say" (Poem) - https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/43171/this-is-just-to-say Gail Carson Levine - Forgive Me. I Meant To Do It - https://amzn.to/4anM4Km Terrie Hellard-Brown - Izzy's Notebook - https://terriehellardbrown.com/product/izzys-notebook/

  • S13 · E339
    June 17 · 17 min

    Episode 339: Lori Wildenberg on Grandparents as Spiritual Influencers

    Summary In this episode, Lori Wildenberg shares insights on grandparenting, passing faith, navigating family boundaries, and handling challenging relationships with adult children and in-laws. Discover practical advice rooted in scripture to strengthen family bonds and influence the next generation positively. Key Topics The importance of grandparents in passing faith and morals Scriptural commands for family teaching (Deuteronomy 4:9) Balancing fun and spiritual influence in grandparenting Handling challenging relationships with adult children and in-laws Respect and boundaries in family dynamics Practical advice for difficult family situations (e.g., estranged relationships, abuse) The power of prayer and wisdom in family conflicts Celebrating high points in grandparent-grandchild relationships The importance of respect over love in family interactions Navigating family traditions and holiday schedules Sound Bites "Grandparents are second only to parents in passing faith" "Scripture commands us to teach our children and grandchildren" "Respect is love in plain clothes" Chapters 00:00 The Importance of Grandparenting 02:55 Navigating Spiritual Influence 06:13 Building Relationships Amidst Challenges 09:10 Setting Boundaries and Recognizing Abuse 11:56 Hot Spots in Grandparent-Parent Relationships 22:22 Navigating Respect and Kindness in Family Dynamics 26:57 The Importance of Open Communication and Reconciliation 30:21 Encouragement and Support: The Grandparent's Role 32:14 Celebrating High Points in Grandparent-Parent Relationships 34:28 The Influence of Grandparents in a Changing Culture

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