Sounds Fake But Okay

A podcast where an aromantic asexual girl and a biromantic demisexual girl talk about all things to do with love, relationships, sexuality, and pretty much anything else that they just don't understand.

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July 5 · 56 min
Ep 393: The World Cup Sex Boom and Sex Bucket Lists
Hey what's up hello! This week, inspired by the Scottish having a very roudy visit in Boston for the World Cup, we talk about the phenomenon of sex bucket lists and only having sex with someone because of their nationality. There truly are so many reasons to have sex. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/the-world-cup-sex-boom-and-sex-bucket-lists Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book
June 28 · 1 hr 3 min
Ep 392: Reddit Rabbithole pt. 25
Hey what's up hello! You know we're back scrolling through the depths of Reddit. This week: idiot step-fathers, too many blow jobs, saving skulls, incompatible sex drives, and getting the ick bad. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/reddit-rabbithole-pt-25 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book
June 21 · 56 min
Ep 391: Why Do the Straights Hate Yearning?
Hey what's up hello! This week we’re back with a follow-up to something we touched on last week: ✨yearning✨. Why do queer folks do so much of it and the straights.... don't? Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/why-do-the-straights-hate-yearning Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book
June 14 · 1 hr 10 min
Ep 390: Listener Lore pt. 9
Hey what's up hello! This week we’re back with some listener lore, where we hit all the important topics: mustard gas, toilet feuds, should soup, and straight people’s apparent disinterest in yearning. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/listener-lore-pt-9 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book
June 7 · 1 hr 2 min
Ep 389: Body Trends
Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about body trends. What's up with everyone suddenly trying to go for the emaciated look? What does it mean? Do queer people also fall victim? Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/body-trends Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book
May 31 · 1 hr 1 min
Ep 388: The College for Tradwives and MRS Degrees
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about Hyles-Anderson College, an unaccredited college in Indiana that teaches young women how to be proper wives and mothers. They really went out and made an MRS degree real. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/the-college-for-tradwives-and-mrs-degrees Sources: https://www.vanityfair.com/news/story/the-college-for-trad-wives?srsltid=AfmBOoqXA7NBslDqe-U0sRwK2jEbppYA2qZnKm4EwIZ7HGtRrYkSRAkp Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book
May 24 · 51 min
Ep 387: Therapy and Asexuality feat. Ashley Koch
Hey what's up hello! This week, we're chatting with Ashley Koch, who recently got their Master's degree in Counseling! Ash shares their experience in their Master's program, asexuality in the DSM-5-TR, counselor competency as an asexual person, and the lack of LGBTQ+ education in counseling courses. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/therapy-and-asexuality-feat-ashley-koch Follow Ashley: @ash_artwork Listen to Ashley's podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/5ItTyifF7DAyNOMxxKFM9F?si=O31P9ICrQVC4Qs9Z1EmONQ Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book
May 17 · 58 min
Ep 386: Fuck, Marry, Kill (But Aspec) pt. 2
Hey what's up hello! This week we're reaching deep into the archives and pulling out a concept we haven't done since 2021. Should we have left it there? Who knows! We play our version of fuck, marry, kill - elevator, QPR, kill. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/fuck-marry-kill-but-aspec-pt-2 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book
May 10 · 56 min
Ep 385: Reddit Rabbithole (AITA) pt. 24
Hey what's up hello! You know it, you love it. Sarah is back from Ireland, and Reddit is back in town. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/reddit-rabbithole-aita-pt-24 Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book
May 3 · 6 min
Special Report: Live from the AroAce Capital of the World
Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/special-report-live-from-the-aroace-capital-of-the-world Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book
April 26 · 1 hr 20 min
Ep 384: The Overlap Between Trans and Aspec Identities
Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss the high percentage of aspecs that are under the trans umbrella. We try to figure out why so many aspecs are trans and discuss how the identities interact. Also, unrelated: Sarah's insurance beef. No episode next week while Sarah is abroad but we'll be back the week after! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/the-overlap-between-trans-and-aspec-identities Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book
April 19 · 59 min
Ep 383: Can I Still Be Asexual/Aromantic If...?
Hey what's up hello! Today we answer the question can I still be asexual or aromantic if I have sex? If I'm in a romantic relationship? If I have trauma? The answer is basically always yes but let's talk about it! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/can-i-still-be-asexual/aromantic-if Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book
April 12 · 1 hr 5 min
Ep 382: Listener Lore pt. 8
Hey what’s up hello! It’s time for another listener lore, where we answer pressing questions like what the hell is up with Nick? How did we end up on a sidebar about the BTS members’ alpha/omega fanfiction statistics? And… YOUR TONGUES TOUCH WHEN YOU KISS???? Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/listener-lore-pt-8 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book
April 5 · 1 hr
Ep 381: Sex Toys
Hey what's up hello! Today we're learning about sex toys. Specifically, the ones that are defined by google as "weird" but... good? Look, we don't know either. Just come on this journey with us. Or don't! (Sorry, this is what happens when Sarah writes the pod descriptions.) CW: Explicit discussion of sex toys and how they're used Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/sex-toys Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book
March 29 · 1 hr 2 min
Ep 380: Birth Order Determines Sexuality?
Hey what's up hello! Today we dive into research that shows strong links between someone's birth order and sibling composition and their sexuality. We are not scientists; we are just two girls trying to figure it out. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/birth-order-determines-sexuality Sources: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/39627649/ Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book
March 22 · 52 min
Ep 379: Reddit Rabbithole (AITA) pt. 23
Hey what's up hello! This week ask ourselves the age-old question: just what IS happening over on Reddit? Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/reddit-rabbithole-aita-pt-23 Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book
March 15 · 41 min
Ep 378: Heteropessimism
Hey what's up hello! This week we dive into Heteropessimism and make the case for MORE attention to be paid to heterosexuality? We know how it sounds, but hear us out. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/heteropessimism Sources: https://thenewinquiry.com/on-heteropessimism/ Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book
March 8 · 1 hr
Ep 377: Dating Tips for the "Libido Crisis"
Hey what's up hello! This week we learn that there's apparently a libido crisis going on. News to us. We read what Them has to say about the crisis and rate their 69 dating and sex tips that are supposed to "help us navigate love and sex during decidedly unsexy times." Much to unpack. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/dating-tips-for-the-libido-crisis Sources: https://www.them.us/story/libido-crisis-dating-sex-in-real-life https://www.them.us/story/69-hard-and-fast-rules-for-dating-in-real-life Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book
March 1 · 58 min
Ep 376: Winter Olympics Recap
Hey what's up hello! This week we're recapping the 2026 Winter Olympics and talking about everything from cheating scandals (the romantic and sports kinds) to queer icons to penis injections. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/winter-olympics-recap Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book
February 22 · 1 hr
Ep 375: Reddit Rabbithole (AITA) pt. 22
Hey what’s up hello! You know it. You love it. This week we’re back on Reddit and asking the important questions: can I sue my friend for no-showing to my wedding? Why the hell would you bring a sex worker as your plus one to a baby shower? Where did my brother’s loose prosthetic leg come from? Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/reddit-rabbithole-aita-pt-22 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book

Sounds Fake But Okay

Ep 393: The World Cup Sex Boom and Sex Bucket Lists

Ep 392: Reddit Rabbithole pt. 25

Ep 391: Why Do the Straights Hate Yearning?

Ep 390: Listener Lore pt. 9

Ep 389: Body Trends

Ep 388: The College for Tradwives and MRS Degrees

Ep 387: Therapy and Asexuality feat. Ashley Koch

Ep 386: Fuck, Marry, Kill (But Aspec) pt. 2

Ep 385: Reddit Rabbithole (AITA) pt. 24

Special Report: Live from the AroAce Capital of the World

Ep 384: The Overlap Between Trans and Aspec Identities

Ep 383: Can I Still Be Asexual/Aromantic If...?

Ep 382: Listener Lore pt. 8

Ep 381: Sex Toys

Ep 380: Birth Order Determines Sexuality?

Ep 379: Reddit Rabbithole (AITA) pt. 23

Ep 378: Heteropessimism

Ep 377: Dating Tips for the "Libido Crisis"

Ep 376: Winter Olympics Recap

Ep 375: Reddit Rabbithole (AITA) pt. 22